FabSwingers.com forum: Hypothetically

By *andalfs rod OP Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

Hypothetical question for you. If someone from fab tried to mess and wreck with your life outside of fab and you have the possibility and ability to do the same to them, do you do it or do you be the bigger person and let it go?

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By *eekyNerdMan
6 weeks ago

Portarlington

If try and be the bigger person...at the start.

Take note of the stuff they do, it could be illegal and then you can screw them over properly.

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By *ocal studMan
6 weeks ago

A town near you

Sounds like black mail which is illegal so I'm sure you could have a legal case and maybe let them know of the consequences of their actions and maybe potentially wrecking their own life as well as yours and others

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By *he KakapoMan
6 weeks ago

A nice rock

Hypothetically I need more context cause at the moment it just sounds like your looking for people to condone fucking with someone's life for revenge

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By *andalfs rod OP Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

Sorry I should have been clearer. Nothing illegal has happened. Someone fucked around with my private life and made things very difficult for a while. They did this and walked away, so they thought, without any repercussions until now. That’s why I’m asking would you get “revenge” for want of a better word or would you be the bigger person

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
6 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

No. You're an adult. Be better than them

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By *ealitybitesMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

There was a thread here a few years ago from someone claiming another forum user had been trying to do something like this.

It was only one side of the story though.

Both of them were in a chat group I was running at the time and were as bad as each other in spreading stories and digging up personal info so I had zero sympathy for the thread.

They both wanted me and others in the group to take their side and help them pin something on the other.

Nobody did and that's how it should be.

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By *eckme70Man
6 weeks ago

Strabane

Happened to me a few years ago,asked for a face pic so when I sent it she said she wanted money r tell my wife,well needless to say I'm now divorced and daughters don't speak to me and I don't see my grandkids, so yeah there definitely is repercussions and b4 anyone says anything I know it was my fault 🤷‍♂️ but unless you know the situation!! I never found out who she was.

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

You do you.

All the advice and opinions in the world mean nothing.

You know what to do.

If you want to tell the whole story to everyone, tell the whole story.

This place is a minefield and for every sane person there are two insane ones . Careful, here be Tigers!!!!!

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By *andalfs rod OP Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

I would not post anything about what happened on here nor would I use here for telling tales or washing dirty laundry that’s not what here is for and If I was to do it, it would be very much in person as I’ve nothing to hide. To be honest it’s been niggling at me about a month or so as to what to do. The sensible me wants to let it be however the angry me thinks why should they get away with it

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

You know the story about the two wolves ?

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

Which ever one you feed the most will win

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
6 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

No. I'm not an eye for an eye type person.

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By *ergalMan
6 weeks ago

East Cork

Do they know you know, what they did ?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

Take the higher ground, and seethe quietly. And enjoy the fact that you know the true nature of the person.

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By *udding RoseWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"Hypothetical question for you. If someone from fab tried to mess and wreck with your life outside of fab and you have the possibility and ability to do the same to them, do you do it or do you be the bigger person and let it go? "

I'd be the bigger person and let it go otherwise I'd be just as bad as them....

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By *andalfs rod OP Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

"Do they know you know, what they did ?

Oh yes they very much do

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

"Do they know you know, what they did ?

Joey

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By *otorman20021Man
6 weeks ago

East Cork

Nah I would just be the bigger person and take satisfaction from knowing that your are that person. The wolf does not concern himself with opinions of sheep, just rise above it all.

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By *adger BrocMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Those that have tried it on with me on this site soon learn that badgers are a tough old breed and won't be messed with.

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
6 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

Back 2020 me and ex fiance was on here, had a couples account plus meets well our pics especially of her and one of me was download by a user that happened to be on my finance FB friend list think? Anyway got my details and through FB and tried to Black mail for a meet and wanted to be in a video or would send pic's to family and friends on her friends list on FB as mine kept private, but didn't go his way

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

There's no moral support to be found for an act of violence.

Reap the whirlwind

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

I'd let it go, especially if retaliation might possibly impact the life of more than the person it's aimed at.

That's as much as I can give an opinion on with the information available

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
6 weeks ago

The West

If there is nothing illegal, bearing in mind there are many laws around your privacy. Then I would let it go.

"I never stole a horse from someone I didn't like, if I don't like 'em, then I just don't bother with 'em"

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By *lutterFlyWoman
6 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

"Sorry I should have been clearer. Nothing illegal has happened. Someone fucked around with my private life and made things very difficult for a while. They did this and walked away, so they thought, without any repercussions until now. That’s why I’m asking would you get “revenge” for want of a better word or would you be the bigger person "

In my mind, I would like to make them aware of what you could do to them and because of what they did, you were briefly tempted to treat them as they treated you BUT you would never sink to their level and so you are walking away.

But in reality, I would probably ignore it and do nothing. Be the bigger person.

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By *eckme70Man
6 weeks ago

Strabane

But in reality, I would probably ignore it and do nothing. Be the bigger person."

100% couldn't agree more! Let sleeping dog's lay.

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