FabSwingers.com forum: Forums, what would you like to see more or less of.

By *ady Chatterley OP Woman
7 weeks ago

Athlone

What would you like to see more or less of topics on the forums.

Discuss.

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By *kinnyDippersCouple
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Less cliques and keyboard warriors. Less opinionated people dominating the forums. Less look at me posts looking for attention. More couples posting. Less recyling of old topic that have been dicussed to death 3 months ago.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
7 weeks ago

Drogheda

Less 'Status Updates' with zero interaction and adding nothing to the Forum other than an attempt to tell everyone what they're looking for.

🙄🥱🤷‍♀️

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By *itonmyfacensquirtMan
7 weeks ago

Wexford

People reading before posting the same topic which was posted probably an hour previously.. RTFF

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By *eckme70Man
7 weeks ago

Strabane

People not taking it to serious and if correcting People then be nice about it and not so ignorant 🤗

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By *leasurer77Man
7 weeks ago

Athlone

Wouldn't change much. A few less lads complaining about how difficult it is here but even those topics can become interesting or funny.

A bit less pandering too.

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By *ealitybitesMan
7 weeks ago

Belfast

Less gullibility.

Less eyes wide shut and more eyes wide open.

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

More boobies!

Less immaturity...

👀😆

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By *ake2891Man
7 weeks ago

cork

More of being nice, and find out a bit more before you judge

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

Less telling people what they should or shouldn't post

The forums are for all. Don't like a topic? Don't open it. Not enough content to your liking? Start your own. Too insular? Try the other boards.

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By *ake2891Man
7 weeks ago

cork

"Less telling people what they should or shouldn't post

The forums are for all. Don't like a topic? Don't open it. Not enough content to your liking? Start your own. Too insular? Try the other boards."

100%

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By *he FirefliesCouple
7 weeks ago

Dunleer

Less of people being attacked for posting something.

Less of people having an opinion on absolutely everything.

Less of the lads racing in to agree with anything women say, its cringe.

Less of people looking for opinions on topics and lads replying with 'love the pics'.

Less of the cliques. It will make newbies nervous of interacting.

And for the love of God the birthday stuff and worshiping of people on Fab is ridiculous.

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

More puzzles and quizzes

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By *alvin.Man
7 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

"More puzzles and quizzes

Agree

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By *electableicecreamMan
7 weeks ago

The West

More open and interesting discussions about subjects directly related to different people's experience with the way they live the swinging and enm lifestyles.

More games and craic that facilitate intros and flirting.

Less of the use of the word less and more more.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

I think we need more irony; you can never have too much irony.

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By *alvin.Man
7 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

"Less of people being attacked for posting something.

Less of people having an opinion on absolutely everything.

Less of the lads racing in to agree with anything women say, its cringe.

Less of people looking for opinions on topics and lads replying with 'love the pics'.

Less of the cliques. It will make newbies nervous of interacting.

And for the love of God the birthday stuff and worshiping of people on Fab is ridiculous.

Agree. (although, not agreeing the way your third point makes out. Can't be arsed with that malarkey).

And your last point. Spot on.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

Less of the use of the word less and more more."

You've no idea how long it took my brain to make sense of this sentence. I definitely need more more. More sleep and in the absence of that, more caffeine

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By *agneyandhutchCouple
7 weeks ago

Lahinch

"Less of people being attacked for posting something.

Less of people having an opinion on absolutely everything.

Less of the lads racing in to agree with anything women say, its cringe.

Less of people looking for opinions on topics and lads replying with 'love the pics'.

Less of the cliques. It will make newbies nervous of interacting.

And for the love of God the birthday stuff and worshiping of people on Fab is ridiculous.

Absolutely agree, especially to the last point, puts us off and makes this feel like Facebook. (Maybe we should just 'like' that comment and congratulate the poster on their insight)

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By *bbylad1Man
7 weeks ago

Galway

Less drama and more fun

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By *s LollyWoman
7 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Lot's more drama sure it's great aul craic🤡, can never have enough white Knighs galloping in 🐴 but most of all more lick arseing 👅🍑🤘

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By *eckme70Man
7 weeks ago

Strabane

"Lot's more drama sure it's great aul craic🤡, can never have enough white Knighs galloping in 🐴 but most of all more lick arseing 👅🍑🤘"

Plenty of other things to be licking Lolly 😉👅

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

"More puzzles and quizzes

Used to love your morning puzzles 😊

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By *he FirefliesCouple
7 weeks ago

Dunleer

"Lot's more drama sure it's great aul craic🤡, can never have enough white Knighs galloping in 🐴 but most of all more lick arseing 👅🍑🤘"

God yes the arse licking is mortifying. Maybe we just need more honest people here. Let's be honest the crap people spew in here is ludicrous. If people were more honest and could take a joke this place might be more fun. But right now it's like a mix of Facebook with a teenage disco.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
7 weeks ago

The West

"I think we need more irony; you can never have too much irony."

Surely there is enough in these posts to satisfy your needs!!

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

"I think we need more irony; you can never have too much irony.

Surely there is enough in these posts to satisfy your needs!!

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By *nA101Couple
7 weeks ago

limerick

"Wouldn't change much. A few less lads complaining about how difficult it is here but even those topics can become interesting or funny.

A bit less pandering too."

Fully agree! More games would be good 😇

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By *ethmeonfireMan
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Less fights

More bites 😎

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By *s LollyWoman
7 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Less fights

More bites 😎"

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By *ethmeonfireMan
7 weeks ago

Dublin

"Less fights

More bites 😎

Not as sharp though 🤣

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By *ealitybitesMan
7 weeks ago

Belfast

"Less fights

More bites 😎"

I'm doing my best

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin

Less sheep but more sheep please

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin

"Less fights

More bites 😎

I'm doing my best"

He’s not talking imaginary bites either!

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By *ueen_MeadhbhWoman
7 weeks ago

sligo

Cake?

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By *BantsMan
7 weeks ago

Mayo for now

Less judgement

More friendliness

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By *eanbegMan
7 weeks ago

Tuam

"Less judgement

More friendliness "

We all wish!

Never gonna happen

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By *lmost_ThereMan
7 weeks ago

Dublin

"Less cliques and keyboard warriors. Less opinionated people dominating the forums. Less look at me posts looking for attention. More couples posting. Less recyling of old topic that have been dicussed to death 3 months ago. "

That's a lot of good points.

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By *asuallyChilledMan
7 weeks ago

Drogheda

"Less telling people what they should or shouldn't post

The forums are for all. Don't like a topic? Don't open it. Not enough content to your liking? Start your own. Too insular? Try the other boards."

🥳🥳🥳

Yes!

♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈

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By *s LollyWoman
7 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Cake? "

For you🍰😉

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By *exyScientistsCouple
7 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Less telling people what they should or shouldn't post

The forums are for all. Don't like a topic? Don't open it. Not enough content to your liking? Start your own. Too insular? Try the other boards."

Definately this ❤

And more fun games, flirting and banter.

More chat about Fab/swinging relationships and advice from people with good experiences on here.

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

"Less sheep but more sheep please "

Best game ever.....are ya listening Mrs

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By *s LollyWoman
7 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Less sheep but more sheep please

Best game ever.....are ya listening Mrs "

As a former champion id agree 🏆🐑

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

[Removed by poster at 10/10/24 19:20:21]

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
7 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Less sheep but more sheep please "

Sheep?? Who's talking about my Sheep?? 🐑

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere

For those wondering what sheep is

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1565826

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Covent Garden

I would like to see more benevolence and less malevolence, less drama but more theatrics. 🎭

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By *asuallyChilledMan
7 weeks ago

Drogheda

"I would like to see more benevolence and less malevolence, less drama but more theatrics. 🎭"

🥰

♀️♂️⚧️🦄🐉🌈

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

"Less sheep but more sheep please "

Omg I miss Sheep!

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By *adger BrocMan
7 weeks ago

Co. Cork

More emojis....

🍆🙏👍👀☕🐎🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️🚶‍♂️🚶‍♀️🤞💋👙🥾🦄

🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡🦡

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By *outheastbyeMan
7 weeks ago

Waterford

Less smart answers from people when someone tries a genuine connection

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"Less smart answers from people when someone tries a genuine connection "

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What is a "genuine connection", dear chap?

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By *alvin.Man
7 weeks ago

Cork/Dublin

"Less sheep but more sheep please

Best game ever.....are ya listening Mrs

As a former champion id agree 🏆🐑"

Sheep was fun. But do you remember wolves!!! omg

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By *izzKathrynWoman
7 weeks ago

Drogheda

Sex, hugs & sausage rolls...

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By *indenMan
7 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"Lot's more drama sure it's great aul craic🤡, can never have enough white Knighs galloping in 🐴 but most of all more lick arseing 👅🍑🤘"

You ok hun?…………

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By *iktikiCouple
7 weeks ago

cork

Humour 👀

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By *heCatWhoGotTheCream2024Man
7 weeks ago

Funville

"Sex, hugs & sausage rolls..."

Thats a centra I'd like to visit 😁

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By *sualSuspect222Man
7 weeks ago

dublin

More inclusion and less massaging of egos of the same select few people.

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By *ndie and CindyCouple
7 weeks ago

Dublin

"People reading before posting the same topic which was posted probably an hour previously.. RTFF "

This!! Cause who doesn’t love every other thread being an ask for dogging locations

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By *ndie and CindyCouple
7 weeks ago

Dublin

"Sex, hugs & sausage rolls..."

Now that’s a party

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By *he KakapoMan
7 weeks ago

A nice rock

I like the thread where people send me boobs

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By *chochamberWoman
7 weeks ago

Munster

Less

I m the only gay/straight/bi police person in the fab village.

Less FAB committee politics.

More games, competitions. More live and let live.

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By *adger BrocMan
7 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Fab bingo game.....

👀⬇️

🦵🦵 .... 11

🦆🦆 .... 22

Cliquity Clique ... 66

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
6 weeks ago

Cork

"Less of people being attacked for posting something.

Less of people having an opinion on absolutely everything.

Less of the lads racing in to agree with anything women say, its cringe.

Less of people looking for opinions on topics and lads replying with 'love the pics'.

Less of the cliques. It will make newbies nervous of interacting.

And for the love of God the birthday stuff and worshiping of people on Fab is ridiculous.

As meatloaf sang you took the words right out my mouth, 1000% agree with all your points.

I would add less of the bias towards different sex's, I find it baffling how different men and women are treated here especially the married ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"What would you like to see more or less of topics on the forums.

Discuss."

More kindness

More empathy

More realism

Less cliques

Less drama

Less hate

And who knows, maybe more people being sincere.. seen a post about someone needing hugs. It was rather beautiful.. another about a man’s shed. Again beautiful. Be nice to see more of these and less of the stuff that gets posted almost all the time..

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By *ack1971Man
6 weeks ago

Cork

I'd like to see more community chat rooted in what people are actally interested in.

I read somewhere about Men's Shed and bikers groups etc. Those topics do serve people well.

More posts about holidays, places to visit, things to do, what's on. They are there, but not enough of.

I believe a forum topic should be relevant, well thought out, or funny, and not a place where the most ridiculous of thoughts get spun out.

I see a lot of politics (across all forums, not just Ireland) being discussed and I think it should be left out. Employ the "Bar Rules" of no religion, politics, of family, to be discussed, after all it is a swingers place.

Forum responses showing a lot more kindness to each other, and not just to those we know on here, but to those we don't know. I've seen comments left that could easily have been not said, but some people think they have the right to engage like that. If you have to put someone down to make you feel good, what does that say about you as a person?

Less passive aggressive racism. Yes, it's there through all forums . Because it doesn't technically break the rules and can be meant and taken both ways, doesn't make it right. But the jabbing goes on.

People complain about ghosting in messages, but yet many profiles actively engage in blanking people in forums. Double standards.

I got a lot of help before in forums about my plumbing, van repairs, etc. I don't see much of that around, things that actually help and make a community.

Judgement everywhere, but yet it's supposed to be open minded? This plays out on posts constantly. It people can choose to ignore the post, and don't.

They are things I think should be more or less of.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
6 weeks ago

Maynooth

"What would you like to see more or less of topics on the forums.

Discuss."

Less people taking the piss out of those who share their feelings on here (loneliness, low self confidence, life issues). If you can't say something supportive, at least don't make fun of them.

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By *astelloWoman
6 weeks ago

Far far away

I try my best with forum topics. Generally inspired by something l saw or read. Maybe boring af to others. But sure l love to hear others thoughts. Always great to get a wide variety of posts. Consensus on everything would be boring.

Less of "why can't I" get a xxxx etc etc

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