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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

have had a bi experience?

how was it?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'd say you could rephrase that as how many bi men used to be straight.

Right. I'll just sit back now and watch it all kick off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I 've had a few... All fantastic! Would never have considered myself bi, but met a couple a long time ago for a threesome and we got carried away in the heat of the moment. Full of regret afterwards, remember thinking "oh no, I'm gay now" But on reflection... I don't really fancy guys, though I can recognise good looking ones. Not really into kissing them either. But cocks, in the right setting, can be extremely sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the amount that email us most lol

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By *ilfandme206Couple
over a year ago

North Kerry

I have tried it recently and I enjoyed it, after along time thinking about it and talking with Angela about it, I finally went for it with a couple who are openly bi and that I trust, it was a little strange at first sucking another mans cock, more what will people think of me than the actual feeling of cock in my mouth then once I stopped thinking I enjoyed it for what it was giving sexual pleasure to some one else and after all is that what swinging is all about!! As for being sucked by another man to me there was no difference as they say a mouth is a mouth after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Hmm.. It's surprisingly calm around here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah well at least the popcorn will last longer when you don't have to share

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports"

When I first joined I had straight on my profile because I knew that an awful lot of girls won't meet bi guys, and girls are what I'm primarily into. And then I realised it was a swinging site and I wasn't really bothered. But in terms of how people behave, and how that contrasts with how they present themselves... I think a lot of it is bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmm.. It's surprisingly calm around here. "

And another thing... Warhol was shite at art! Bugger couldn't even draw a nice bowl of fruit, or a few horses in a field. Cans of soup and colourful Monroes? Bolloxology if you ask me. Which you did.

I heard you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree, its not because of their sexual orientation that they behave like this. And its not just gay bi or bi curious that behave badly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

When I first joined I had straight on my profile because I knew that an awful lot of girls won't meet bi guys, and girls are what I'm primarily into. And then I realised it was a swinging site and I wasn't really bothered. But in terms of how people behave, and how that contrasts with how they present themselves... I think a lot of it is bad manners."

Best response to the straight/bi debate that rages on here. I couldn't give a fiddlers what people call themselves but I have on my profile that I am straight because even though I have played with women and have been sexually attracted it doesn't apply to all women so it saves the hassle of couples getting in touch because they want a bi female. Mff doesn't interest me at the minute at all. just wondering though does this make me a liar, hmmmmm lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pants on fire Mrs Jinx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

When I first joined I had straight on my profile because I knew that an awful lot of girls won't meet bi guys, and girls are what I'm primarily into. And then I realised it was a swinging site and I wasn't really bothered. But in terms of how people behave, and how that contrasts with how they present themselves... I think a lot of it is bad manners."

Ah but if the woman was looking for a straight guy and not a bi guy i take it you were willing to lie to them and misplace their trust just to get a meet, hmmm interesting, maybe i should lie and say i don't smoke have a 12 inch penis (when flaccid), and that i can go for 6 hrs without taking a break. why tell all the lies in order to get a meet, what about accepting ppl and being accepted for who you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

When I first joined I had straight on my profile because I knew that an awful lot of girls won't meet bi guys, and girls are what I'm primarily into. And then I realised it was a swinging site and I wasn't really bothered. But in terms of how people behave, and how that contrasts with how they present themselves... I think a lot of it is bad manners.

Ah but if the woman was looking for a straight guy and not a bi guy i take it you were willing to lie to them and misplace their trust just to get a meet, hmmm interesting, maybe i should lie and say i don't smoke have a 12 inch penis (when flaccid), and that i can go for 6 hrs without taking a break. why tell all the lies in order to get a meet, what about accepting ppl and being accepted for who you are"

ah dear knew the peace wouldn't last long !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

but then again... there are plenty of women who like bi men.. which can be frustrating when majority of the men have straight on their profiles...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nothing to do with peace, i am just making the argument that if people have preferences why try fool them into thinking that you are someone that you are not, its just making a mockery of profiles, i read that some people have a problem with others not reading their profile properly before contacting, well if people are filling out profiles incorrectly to dupe others well then i don't see the point in profiles, we could all just throw our names in a hat and get an open draw to meet ppl. I am not trying to start am argument but it falsifies the whole thing about this site, and don't start about the whole label thing as its not about ppl being labeled but about other ppls preference and their right to choose without being lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then again... there are plenty of women who like bi men.. which can be frustrating when majority of the men have straight on their profiles... "

But that's perfect sexy, they get to choose a bi man by their truthful profile, that is the whole point of this site, you fill out the profile questionnaire truthfully and ppl get to choose by tiger own preferences. simple, but by not being truthful you put the whole site in jeopardy

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Hmm.. It's surprisingly calm around here.

And another thing... Warhol was shite at art! Bugger couldn't even draw a nice bowl of fruit, or a few horses in a field. Cans of soup and colourful Monroes? Bolloxology if you ask me. Which you did.

I heard you."

Ah here. Leave it out!

That reminds me of the famous Dougal Maguire line from Father Ted... "do you remember the man Ted, who was so good at fashion that they had to shoot him?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine."

Oh bit don't you know, on here you have to be 100% sure of your sexuality at all times, and also list every single sexual encounter you ever had so that a judgement can be made on your sexuality. Let's see I never told some of my liaisons in the past that I have had sex with women should I be hung drawn and quartered also???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That reminds me of the famous Dougal Maguire line from Father Ted... "do you remember the man Ted, who was so good at fashion that they had to shoot him?"

"

One of the best Ted lines. Maybe I should rethink my anti-pop art stance.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine."

I had two friends called Willie, and we used to play pool together. Sometimes when I played with the Willies, I even touched their balls. Am I gay?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then again... there are plenty of women who like bi men.. which can be frustrating when majority of the men have straight on their profiles...

But that's perfect sexy, they get to choose a bi man by their truthful profile, that is the whole point of this site, you fill out the profile questionnaire truthfully and ppl get to choose by tiger own preferences. simple, but by not being truthful you put the whole site in jeopardy"

ah yes... but i remember not so long ago i put up looking for a meet with a bi guy... all the mail i got were from "straight" guys saying they were bi... i mean come on.. not all women or men are against bi guys.. its a swingers site... be honest about your sexuality... we're not on fb.. so family/friends/ work coligues not gonna find out.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine.

I had two friends called Willie, and we used to play pool together. Sometimes when I played with the Willies, I even touched their balls. Am I gay? "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine.

Oh bit don't you know, on here you have to be 100% sure of your sexuality at all times, and also list every single sexual encounter you ever had so that a judgement can be made on your sexuality. Let's see I never told some of my liaisons in the past that I have had sex with women should I be hung drawn and quartered also???"

I'm learning that alright Mrs Jinx... Must say, I've been surprised at how narrowminded some fabbers are! (that's not a go at you Mossy, I understand your point and appreciate it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then again... there are plenty of women who like bi men.. which can be frustrating when majority of the men have straight on their profiles...

But that's perfect sexy, they get to choose a bi man by their truthful profile, that is the whole point of this site, you fill out the profile questionnaire truthfully and ppl get to choose by tiger own preferences. simple, but by not being truthful you put the whole site in jeopardy

ah yes... but i remember not so long ago i put up looking for a meet with a bi guy... all the mail i got were from "straight" guys saying they were bi... i mean come on.. not all women or men are against bi guys.. its a swingers site... be honest about your sexuality... we're not on fb.. so family/friends/ work coligues not gonna find out....."

Now we are on the same hymn sheet sexy, that is my point exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi guys are hot ! just thought I would add that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but then again... there are plenty of women who like bi men.. which can be frustrating when majority of the men have straight on their profiles...

But that's perfect sexy, they get to choose a bi man by their truthful profile, that is the whole point of this site, you fill out the profile questionnaire truthfully and ppl get to choose by tiger own preferences. simple, but by not being truthful you put the whole site in jeopardy

ah yes... but i remember not so long ago i put up looking for a meet with a bi guy... all the mail i got were from "straight" guys saying they were bi... i mean come on.. not all women or men are against bi guys.. its a swingers site... be honest about your sexuality... we're not on fb.. so family/friends/ work coligues not gonna find out.....

Now we are on the same hymn sheet sexy, that is my point exactly."

that's why the bi-curious option is there.. if your not 100% sure of your sexuality use it.. that way it will depend on the peep you meet if ye go with flow there's no pressure on either side to do anything... just my opinion... i never ever push peoples boundaries or expect them to do something they don't want to... i wouldn't like to be pressured into anything....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bi guys are hot ! just thought I would add that."

i totally agree..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine.

Oh bit don't you know, on here you have to be 100% sure of your sexuality at all times, and also list every single sexual encounter you ever had so that a judgement can be made on your sexuality. Let's see I never told some of my liaisons in the past that I have had sex with women should I be hung drawn and quartered also???

I'm learning that alright Mrs Jinx... Must say, I've been surprised at how narrowminded some fabbers are! (that's not a go at you Mossy, I understand your point and appreciate it)"

i understand where you are coming from as well and i wasn't having a go at you personally, this whole thing would be resolved quiet quickly if society as a whole accepted ppl for who they are, i am not having a go at anyone over their sexuality. i can accept anyone's preferences and sexuality but what i don't get is ppl not accepting their own and feeling the need to hide it, its not a go at a person on this thread, they in fact should be applauded and feel no shame in being truthful to themselves and others. I know its not always black and white but we don't always need others acceptance to be true to ourselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You've got me Mossy. I'm in a mirrored hall of lies and I can't find my way out.

I was willing to lie to get the ride, though I didn't give it this much conscious tought. I suppose my thought process went: I'm what society would perceive to be straight acting and it's (to me) a fairly arbitrary criterion. I had no problem not sharing with the wider fab community that I enjoyed playing with willies in the past and might again at some stage in the future. But then I thought I might at some stage enjoy playing with willies again, so I changed it. I'm selfish like that. No women were tricked and no trusts were abused.

Feels good out here in the sunshine.

Oh bit don't you know, on here you have to be 100% sure of your sexuality at all times, and also list every single sexual encounter you ever had so that a judgement can be made on your sexuality. Let's see I never told some of my liaisons in the past that I have had sex with women should I be hung drawn and quartered also???

I'm learning that alright Mrs Jinx... Must say, I've been surprised at how narrowminded some fabbers are! (that's not a go at you Mossy, I understand your point and appreciate it)

i understand where you are coming from as well and i wasn't having a go at you personally, this whole thing would be resolved quiet quickly if society as a whole accepted ppl for who they are, i am not having a go at anyone over their sexuality. i can accept anyone's preferences and sexuality but what i don't get is ppl not accepting their own and feeling the need to hide it, its not a go at a person on this thread, they in fact should be applauded and feel no shame in being truthful to themselves and others. I know its not always black and white but we don't always need others acceptance to be true to ourselves"

I think this the first time I've agreed with you mossy Woohoo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair play Mossy, I'm with you completely on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well said mossy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe i was wording it wrong all the time but this is what i have always being saying on the subject. there is a taboo out there about it but the sooner it is out in the open the sooner society as a whole accepts it, keeping it under wraps only prolongs the taboo and leaves room for scrutinizing by narrow minded ppl. i would call myself open minded but i prefer to be honest, ok i don't play with gay bi or bi curious men but that's my preference, however i do go to the pub wit them play hurling with them, now does that make me homophobic

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


" however i do.... play hurling with them, now does that make me homophobic"

I suppose it depends on how you define the tackle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all Mossy. If you're genuinly interested in the subject, do a google for hetronormative society and heterosexual privilege. There's an awful lot of self indulgent crap written on the subjects but some of it is really eye opening.

And remember, it's only gay if you make eye contact.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

And remember, it's only gay if you make eye contact."

One eye or two? ??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And remember, it's only gay if you make eye contact.

One eye or two? ??"

;)

I've also been told it's only gay if you back onto it, so now I back onto it AND make contact - they cancel each other out.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"

And remember, it's only gay if you make eye contact.

One eye or two? ??

;)

I've also been told it's only gay if you back onto it, so now I back onto it AND make contact - they cancel each other out."

You're obviously quite flexible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not at all Mossy. If you're genuinly interested in the subject, do a google for hetronormative society and heterosexual privilege. There's an awful lot of self indulgent crap written on the subjects but some of it is really eye opening.

And remember, it's only gay if you make eye contact."

that i will do, i am interested on things that affect our society and lets be honest this is one issue that always crops up, i really need a new job

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

wow !!! glad to see this subject generating lots of conversation !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports"

i think tht a lot of bi sexual men say they are straight on their profile cos its puts sum women off,sum women wont meet bi guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose."

Quiet the opposite actually, i am not asking ppl to give reasons why they lie in their profile, i am asking ppl to stop lying in their profile

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)

ahhh wheres my up tight buddy when ya need his self appointed views

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)


"do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose.

Quiet the opposite actually, i am not asking ppl to give reasons why they lie in their profile, i am asking ppl to stop lying in their profile"

Jesus i got shot down by a guy saying that last week,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose.

Quiet the opposite actually, i am not asking ppl to give reasons why they lie in their profile, i am asking ppl to stop lying in their profile"

why does their decision to not disclose preoccupy you?

don't get how that would impact on your experience here beyond just being noisy or wanting to capitalize on bi prejudice to monopolize available sex partners who would pass them over otherwise.

not bi or interested in bi men but Ireland is a backward hell hole.. it's not surprising so many lie.

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)


"do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose.

Quiet the opposite actually, i am not asking ppl to give reasons why they lie in their profile, i am asking ppl to stop lying in their profile

why does their decision to not disclose preoccupy you?

don't get how that would impact on your experience here beyond just being noisy or wanting to capitalize on bi prejudice to monopolize available sex partners who would pass them over otherwise.

not bi or interested in bi men but Ireland is a backward hell hole.. it's not surprising so many lie.

"

Who gave you the rite to call Ireland a backward hell hole??

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over a year ago


"do personally believe in full disclosure - this thread does seem a bit futile though. you're asking members who conceal there preference to out themselves and provide a list of reason why they fib.

Perhaps a more interesting question would be - "ladies - why wouldn't you meet a biman"

getting an insight into the preconceptions/prejudice will probably go a longer way to explain the reluctance of those concerned to disclose.

Quiet the opposite actually, i am not asking ppl to give reasons why they lie in their profile, i am asking ppl to stop lying in their profile

why does their decision to not disclose preoccupy you?

don't get how that would impact on your experience here beyond just being noisy or wanting to capitalize on bi prejudice to monopolize available sex partners who would pass them over otherwise.

not bi or interested in bi men but Ireland is a backward hell hole.. it's not surprising so many lie.

"

well if you actually read the whole thread you will notice that its not about one sexuality its about lying on profiles as a whole, but i will say one thing, would you like some salt and vinegar for that chip on your shoulder

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over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports"

as for having a "chip" on my shoulder. responding to this thread in an honest, dignified way.. certainly not instigating innocuously worded witch hunts against anyone?.. hmmm.

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over a year ago

Read the thread, there is no witch hunt against any one, who is the witch hunt against??

You seem to be reading into something that is not there. I ask you once more to read the whole thread and come back and say there is a witch hunt against some ppl

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By *ardon 69Man
over a year ago

in Laois :-)


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

as for having a "chip" on my shoulder. responding to this thread in an honest, dignified way.. certainly not instigating innocuously worded witch hunts against anyone?.. hmmm. "

Ohhh good jesus Novice, did we not talk about this last week

Read the feckin thing, again, then again and you will see its not a witch hunt!

You do like using that word though

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over a year ago


"Ah here in lies my question, but before i ask it i would like to reiterate that i have no problem with anyone being gay bi or even bicurious, i have many gay friends and respect their sexual orientations, my question is how many bi men class themselves as straight and why do so, also if a person on this site puts down their sexual orientation as straight why do so many bi and straight men contact them for a meet, now i know this is going to cause some controversy but if i am willing to accept and repeat others sexual orientation would i not be entitled that others respect mine. I know we are going to in back to the whole label thing but we are all labelled and on this site we have am extra one, bi curious so it just seems strange that guys would contact a straight guy for a meet, would it not be the same as me contacting a female asking can i give her a golden shower when she states on her profile that she is not into watersports

as for having a "chip" on my shoulder. responding to this thread in an honest, dignified way.. certainly not instigating innocuously worded witch hunts against anyone?.. hmmm.

Ohhh good jesus Novice, did we not talk about this last week

Read the feckin thing, again, then again and you will see its not a witch hunt!

You do like using that word though "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Every time I see the name of this thread, I click on it half expecting to see "... does it take to change a lightbulb"

I think I'm even disappointed when I realise that's not it.

Anyway, my question is, do I need to talk to Joe Duffy about this?

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over a year ago


"Every time I see the name of this thread, I click on it half expecting to see "... does it take to change a lightbulb"

I think I'm even disappointed when I realise that's not it.

Anyway, my question is, do I need to talk to Joe Duffy about this? "

Sure sure sure, i think that would be am ecumenical matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every time I see the name of this thread, I click on it half expecting to see "... does it take to change a lightbulb"

I think I'm even disappointed when I realise that's not it.

Anyway, my question is, do I need to talk to Joe Duffy about this? "

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