FabSwingers.com forum: Turning into a couples profile

By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

I'm at a place now in my fab career that I would like to create a couples profile. I'm single and haven't got a partner. By choice!

Are there single women on here that are thinking down the same lines?

We could get together for regular fwb and set up a couples profile to take fab to the next level?

Open to pms and will follow this thread.

Warm regards

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By * tale of 2 citiesCouple
19 weeks ago

Belfast

Have you asked any of the women you've had veris from.

Might make it easier for you.

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By *s LollyWoman
19 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Id say it's what a good few people would idealy like to progress to on there fab journey, be great to share it with someone likeminded 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Id say it's what a good few people would idealy like to progress to on there fab journey, be great to share it with someone likeminded 😁"

Yup , like-minded is the thing .

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By *iresmillyWoman
19 weeks ago

Stillorgan Dublin

It’s actually really difficult!! How does anyone find a real FWB/BF/GF who enjoys this swinging life / BDSM and also believes in love. I’m starting to lose faith. Can’t we have it all?

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By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

It's good to see that women are thinking down the same lines

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship.

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By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship. "

You seem to have misread the post. It clearly asks are women thinking down the same line? Then, it goes on to to talk about hearing from them.

It didn't say male negative feedback about why It won't work. It clearly ask about females who want to make it work.

Thanks

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship.

You seem to have misread the post. It clearly asks are women thinking down the same line? Then, it goes on to to talk about hearing from them.

It didn't say male negative feedback about why It won't work. It clearly ask about females who want to make it work.

Thanks "

The very first line of your post says that you are at a point where you would like to create a couples profile.

My comment was that sounds like putting the cart before the horse.

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By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

Once again we are looking for solution focused answers. From women. Thank you.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

There and Here

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship. "

I agree with RB. A partner, FWB, FB - whatever you want to call it - that meets as a couple is something that happens organically and develops over time. It would never be my starting point.

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By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship.

I agree with RB. A partner, FWB, FB - whatever you want to call it - that meets as a couple is something that happens organically and develops over time. It would never be my starting point.

It's why I said we meet and create a fwb that develops into meeting as couples.

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By *ustBoWoman
19 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nah I wouldn't want to meet someone who would want to create a fab couple profile with me just to take fab to another level for them.

A fwb is a friend first and foremost to me. And a couples profile with a fwb is not just a way to open doors for someone on here.

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By *lutterFlyWoman
19 weeks ago

Not Belfast but NI

I would want to get used to and enjoy each other first. To build the friendship and trust and discuss what both want and when or if to open a couples profile.

I know from experience, that things can change in the fwb relationship and both can end up wanting to walk different paths than the original nsa fwb senario.

Saying that, maybe for the younger, unattached fabbers, it can be more along the lines of meeting, having great sex, both want to explore more, maybe clubs or parties, and just go for it while it lasts.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
19 weeks ago

There and Here

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship.

I agree with RB. A partner, FWB, FB - whatever you want to call it - that meets as a couple is something that happens organically and develops over time. It would never be my starting point.

It's why I said we meet and create a fwb that develops into meeting as couples. "

For me, a fwb can't be "created". It's something that happens over time and which may or may not evolve into meeting as a couple.

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By *radfab2024 OP Man
19 weeks ago

North Dublin

Sounds like most agree that fwb needs to be happen organically through getting to know and become familiar with one another. Anyone o the thread want to meet up.

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By *tingray271Man
19 weeks ago

Sligo Donegal

I'm.my opinion you would have to get to know a new partner very well and developed a good trust in one another to set up a joint profile on here.

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By *rRiosMan
19 weeks ago

dublin

Advertising for a fwb on the forum?

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By *electableicecreamMan
19 weeks ago

The West

Dude you want someone in your life to experience the swinging lifestyle with. It's a worthy goal.

My best friend is someone who I originally met for sex. We only slept together once but we're both on here.

My ex who I spent 17 years with is on here. We block each other to respect our boundaries.

My fwb of two years isn't on here. We were friends for 10 years before anything happened.

It is possible to make friends on fab. You might find a pen pal or meet someone at a social event. Either way the bond's of friendship are different from the bonds of lust and love.

I think if you figure out what it is your really looking for and are clear about that in yourself it will help you a lot.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
19 weeks ago

Portstewart

Be aware that some couples that are here ask directly about a couples relationship and if they say that it's fwb or the like and not a proper couple as such you may still get turned down

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By *ntrigue2110Woman
18 weeks ago

Cork

"You're coming at this from the wrong angle.

I have a couples profile with my fwb but we only created that once we had known each other for about 3 years and knew we were fully compatible.

It's highly unlikely anyone is going to be interested if creating a profile is your starting point.

Many people on fab are looking for a fwb but that doesn't guarantee any of them have anything in common beyond that.

Some people are only interested in having a couples profile because they think it will open doors for them to parties and events that they would never get invited to as a single male.

I would focus more on finding a fwb first and then only consider a couples profile once you are both comfortable with your relationship.

You seem to have misread the post. It clearly asks are women thinking down the same line? Then, it goes on to to talk about hearing from them.

It didn't say male negative feedback about why It won't work. It clearly ask about females who want to make it work.

Thanks

The very first line of your post says that you are at a point where you would like to create a couples profile.

My comment was that sounds like putting the cart before the horse."

I would agree with this… to me OP reads any woman will do, couples profile wouldn’t be the aim for me, if it happens organically great, but can’t imagine a profile created this way being particularly inspiring

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By *ofusplusCouple
18 weeks ago

Limerick

"I'm at a place now in my fab career that I would like to create a couples profile. I'm single and haven't got a partner. By choice!

Are there single women on here that are thinking down the same lines?

We could get together for regular fwb and set up a couples profile to take fab to the next level?

Open to pms and will follow this thread.

Warm regards

B "

Looks more like a FB situation than a FWB setup you want. This would not be attractive to most women, they need the friendship part as well, understandably.

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By *obroyman17Man
18 weeks ago

"It’s actually really difficult!! How does anyone find a real FWB/BF/GF who enjoys this swinging life / BDSM and also believes in love. I’m starting to lose faith. Can’t we have it all? "

You’ll have more experience than me on the search but I’d imagine socialising in the scene is the best bet? But I guess its a limited number of people which makes it challenging

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By *ack1971Man
18 weeks ago

Cork

It may be difficult but I believe people look for and put out there in the wrong areas, websites, etc.

I certainly believe we can have it all but I think you only find like minded people online based on shared interests or exploration. Very rarely it goes deeper I think, but it has been known.

I found none of my partners online that I had deep feelings for, and I have met people online since the Internet hit Ireland.

All my previous partners I found in the most unexpected places and times in everyday life and that was where the most meaningful relationships were and fun to be had.

Just my experience.

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By *ndie and CindyCouple
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"It’s actually really difficult!! How does anyone find a real FWB/BF/GF who enjoys this swinging life / BDSM and also believes in love. I’m starting to lose faith. Can’t we have it all? "

There are so many couples on here, who meet here and have that

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

"It’s actually really difficult!! How does anyone find a real FWB/BF/GF who enjoys this swinging life / BDSM and also believes in love. I’m starting to lose faith. Can’t we have it all? "
im full sure hallmark is working on that card

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By *ot really famousMan
18 weeks ago

monaghan

"I'm at a place now in my fab career that I would like to create a couples profile. I'm single and haven't got a partner. By choice!

Are there single women on here that are thinking down the same lines?

We could get together for regular fwb and set up a couples profile to take fab to the next level?

Open to pms and will follow this thread.

Warm regards

B "
...my last two fab partners were women I dated...the first one introduced me to fabswingers...she was an experienced fabber, the last one u introduced to fab...so mabye try that approach OP

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By *ot really famousMan
18 weeks ago

monaghan

#...I

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
18 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"Be aware that some couples that are here ask directly about a couples relationship and if they say that it's fwb or the like and not a proper couple as such you may still get turned down "

This. Must update our profile to refect it. We did have a possible meet with a couple who I suspected to be FWB. There was just something really off. Tothis day I suspect married to other people and I'd guess the other people didn't know.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Met a lady here a few years ago ( yup am very yo yo ), she wanted me to be exclusive to her " won't share you with anyone " her words not mine , but she wanted to screw others " anyone she felt sexually attracted to " .. again her words not mine ...

Alas & needless to say there was a parting of the ways but she did also say " from her previous experience guys want to make a couples profile on fab " so obviously guys that she was previously with suggested that to her

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