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"Fab usage isn't wide enough for the person who is flirting with you to likely be on here. If they are flirting with you already then some subtle confirmation you are interested and the passing of a business card might be the easiest way. A way of keeping is professional enough to be ok for a business context, but a way for her to contact you out of business hours if she is really interested. A knowing lingering look can go a long way, and nobody else would need know something was there." | |||
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"This post reminded me of countless times when someone I used to work with found me on fab and decided to make a statement like "I wish I knew you were on fab when we worked together, we would have had so much fun". Just an instant ick and swift remove from Facebook friends. There's something genuinely creepy about a person assuming that just because I'm on fab, it means that I would have been attracted to them enough to have "fun" with them. Don't know your situation OP, but if you fancy someone IRL and the feeling is mutual, better keeping it there, anyone being on fab doesn't guarantee that they will automatically want to accept your advances. Missus " 1000% this. Just because you are in the area, or meet preferences, or have a free house, or chatted before, or recognise someone from real life, DOES NOT MEAN they have interest in meeting. Showing interest in meeting is the only real indication that they are interested in meeting. | |||
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"This post reminded me of countless times when someone I used to work with found me on fab and decided to make a statement like "I wish I knew you were on fab when we worked together, we would have had so much fun". Just an instant ick and swift remove from Facebook friends. There's something genuinely creepy about a person assuming that just because I'm on fab, it means that I would have been attracted to them enough to have "fun" with them. Don't know your situation OP, but if you fancy someone IRL and the feeling is mutual, better keeping it there, anyone being on fab doesn't guarantee that they will automatically want to accept your advances. Missus " This was exactly my point. If you can't approach someone irl, being on Fab doesn't change anything. And if you feel it's unprofessional to approach a work colleague in person, is it not still unprofessional to approach them on Fab? | |||
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"hahaha... you read it wrong as it was the other person making the innuendos and the looks, I was solely stating wouldn't it be good to know if they were on here. Sorry but don't tar everyone with the same brush as some you have had the misfortune to meet or deal with. For me its about an attraction physically and mentally and if that combo is not there at a must have social meet first then its not happening, even if they were interested. I will obviously be polite but will see from veris if that spark is not there it goes no further." Why would it matter? If they want to do the sexy sex with sexy sexers with you it shouldn’t matter if they on fab or not. | |||
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"Hi!, this place is addictive, hence been on n off here over 10years and know addicted again when have interaction with someone in the real world and start wondering if a fellow fabber, but would never ask. A man can dream sure lol!, and am sure many in same boat, reassurance I'm not alone in this please ha!" Be careful what you wish, I and ex did trust me it's she gets fun not you | |||
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"We get lots of creepy guys messaging with “I think I know who you are”, “Do you live on xxxx road”, “were you in Supervalue earlier buying fruit”, etc. It’s an instant block. Be careful how you manage your curiosity is our advice OP. For us, we’d find it far more acceptable if we established a vanilla life connection in the course of meeting someone through fab, rather than someone from our vanilla life confronting us on our fab presence. We use fab (or going to clubs) to regulate our swinging interactions and would find it extremely uncomfortable if that filter was taken from us by an unsolicited approach about our fab profile in a non swinging environment. That said, we are of course curious as to the interest levels in swinging from attractive couples we interact with in our vanilla life, particularly those who flirt or veer to the bold topics in casual banter. The fab stats (our own calculation) would suggest that revealing ourselves in such a situation would be foolhardy and curiosity must remain just that." A1 a A star as thankyou!, someone who understood my post and didn't quickly jump to branding me as the instigator in the scenario posted about, and as some creep or weirdo. And people complain about us blokes in here!! uhh... Maybe not as articulated as yourselves in how worded all perhaps the issue, as would never and have never tried to make a connection as you describe, as just wrong on so many levels. Discretion in here for people is key and my profile and veris over many many years clearly states am not some creep.Yet like what many profiles complain to blokes about, not reading a profile!, its clear to see people jump to conclusions, make their negative points to make them feel good or above others without reading info first. TBH its not changed in 10+years but has got worse and normally stay away from forums as throughout been a certain click in these but thought enter the arena again to see, now reconfirmed! Your reply was exactly how I think, and was hoping more than expecting for as a response, but the initial few were quick to jump in! Have known many women, by meets or friendship now gone from here due to people like mention in start of your reply, as there is the obvious dark element to this free site as it gives everyone anonymity for good and bad reasons. The last paragraph is exactly how I feel and probably put in words much more effectively than my post as almost opened a can of worms at start lol! So thank you for confirming others do think and act the same as me, and loved your reply hence a decent one back in return for the effort you put in. | |||
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"hahaha... you read it wrong as it was the other person making the innuendos and the looks, I was solely stating wouldn't it be good to know if they were on here. Sorry but don't tar everyone with the same brush as some you have had the misfortune to meet or deal with. For me its about an attraction physically and mentally and if that combo is not there at a must have social meet first then its not happening, even if they were interested. I will obviously be polite but will see from veris if that spark is not there it goes no further." Talk about jumping to bizarre conclusions! Where exactly did I tar anyone with any brush? I feel I should quote again my statement again as you seem to have missed it completely "Don't know your situation OP, but if you fancy someone IRL and the feeling is mutual, better keeping it there, anyone being on fab doesn't guarantee that they will automatically want to accept your advances." What part of that was mean or in any way having a go at you? Missus | |||
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Just because someone has photos in underpants up, doesn't mean that meeting is on the cards and sparks will fly with trousers down.
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"Hi!, this place is addictive, hence been on n off here over 10years and know addicted again when have interaction with someone in the real world and start wondering if a fellow fabber, but would never ask. A man can dream sure lol!, and am sure many in same boat, reassurance I'm not alone in this please ha!" There’s a Spanish supermarket craze going on at the moment for trying to find someone single or just a hook up for the night. Maybe try the fruit and veg section in Lidl with an upside down pineapple and see if you find any fabbers. | |||
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