FabSwingers.com forum: As beening Straight couples

By *rxmrs OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Dublin westmeath galway

Asking the above question as being a straight couple seems to come against us meeting couples on here. Yes, before it is pointed out, we have had successful meets with another couple's, but when we have been approached by some on here, the fact neither of us is bi or bi curious seems to be a deal breaker

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
6 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
6 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I don't know why couples are approaching you if they are looking for bi play and you both have straight on your profile. They need to read properly. People give out when men don't read profiles but the same rule applies to couples

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By *eekyNerdMan
6 weeks ago

Portarlington

I looked at your profile.

At no point do you say you are looking for bi couples and You both have straight for your details....

So either people aren't reading the profile or they are assuming that all couples on the site are bi.

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By *aughty MilfCouple
6 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

Sometimes people will say when chatting there bi not all have on there profile unfortunately. Not been a bi female isn't a deal breaker. Jane

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By *ot really famousMan
6 weeks ago

monaghan

"Asking the above question as being a straight couple seems to come against us meeting couples on here. Yes, before it is pointed out, we have had successful meets with another couple's, but when we have been approached by some on here, the fact neither of us is bi or bi curious seems to be a deal breaker "
...mabye the thought you were fab straight...?

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By *ACOLCouple
6 weeks ago

limerick

I wouldn't be approaching you guys at all, just knowing that you guys are straight shows me that I have NO consent to approach on a sexual manner.

Those couples trying to chance it, are those not understanding consent, there are not buts or nothing.

Having said this, if I see you all I would come and say HI for a friendly chat, but I know it will be a friendly chat, nothing else...

Hood luck OP ❤️

Lina.

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By *rxmrs OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Dublin westmeath galway

"I wouldn't be approaching you guys at all, just knowing that you guys are straight shows me that I have NO consent to approach on a sexual manner.

Those couples trying to chance it, are those not understanding consent, there are not buts or nothing.

Having said this, if I see you all I would come and say HI for a friendly chat, but I know it will be a friendly chat, nothing else...

Hood luck OP ❤️

Lina. "

So the female not being bi is deal breaker

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By *ORBCouple
6 weeks ago

Dundalk

We've had this issue in the past with other couples claiming to both be straight just like us but putting pressure on Bo to play bi just for a bit of fun.

They even said I know you're straight but.....

Anyone who doesn't read and respect our profile are just wasting their own time.

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By *rxmrs OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Dublin westmeath galway

We have no problem meeting a couple where the female is bi it not a deal breaker for us to have fun once no Boundaries are crossed

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"We have no problem meeting a couple where the female is bi it not a deal breaker for us to have fun once no Boundaries are crossed "

Wouldn’t the same logic apply if the male half was bi?

Not having a go, genuinely just asking.

Having said that, I 100% respect everyone’s right to their own preferences, we’re all here to have fun and no one should be in a situation they’re not comfortable with, that’s not fun.

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By *rxmrs OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Dublin westmeath galway

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By *rxmrs OP Couple
6 weeks ago

Dublin westmeath galway

"We have no problem meeting a couple where the female is bi it not a deal breaker for us to have fun once no Boundaries are crossed

Wouldn’t the same logic apply if the male half was bi?

Not having a go, genuinely just asking.

Having said that, I 100% respect everyone’s right to their own preferences, we’re all here to have fun and no one should be in a situation they’re not comfortable with, that’s not fun."
to be honest it doesn't bother me if the male was bi or if both of them were bi once no Boundaries where crossed

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"We have no problem meeting a couple where the female is bi it not a deal breaker for us to have fun once no Boundaries are crossed

Wouldn’t the same logic apply if the male half was bi?

Not having a go, genuinely just asking.

Having said that, I 100% respect everyone’s right to their own preferences, we’re all here to have fun and no one should be in a situation they’re not comfortable with, that’s not fun. to be honest it doesn't bother me if the male was bi or if both of them were bi once no Boundaries where crossed "

Couldn’t ask for a better answer than that.

To answer your original question, some people will assume that others don’t want everyone to know everything about them just from their profile, so they’ll chance their arm in case you are one of those people.

And sure why wouldn’t they……

If it’s a deal breaker for the other couple then that’s obviously what they were looking for.

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By *ACOLCouple
6 weeks ago

limerick

"We have no problem meeting a couple where the female is bi it not a deal breaker for us to have fun once no Boundaries are crossed "

For me personally it is, I enjoy group fun, knowing that the girl is straight means I have to respect your boundaries and not approach.

It isn't fair to you as a straight because I wouldmt want to make you uncomfortable by touching in a manner that might seem sexual, because you knowing that i am bi will always make you think tgat i have altered motives.

And it isnt fair to me as I enjoy the women as much as the men so no point to even approach.

Disclaimer- we do enjoy chatting to straight couples. But when socialising with said couples I am always in my head, I don't want to seem like I am crossing her boundaries and so on.

Lina

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By *ornywife20Couple
6 weeks ago

North Cork

Mrs is bicarious . Having said that most of our couples plays are straight.

We have played with couples with bisexual males but we say from the start I am straight and there is never an issue.

There is someone for everyone on fab .

People need to respect each others sexual orientation and peoples like and dislikes. Read peoples profiles fully and if they dont tick your boxes move on dont try and change people or put pressure on people to change.

Think it's down to people seeing that gorgeous sexy lady and hoping that she might be a little curious.

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By *ugs BunnyCouple
6 weeks ago

south Dublin

Im very bi and even tho i love bi play i have no problem playing straight. I certainly hope ive never made any straight women feel uncomfortable about it. So definitely not a deal breaker for us at all

Mrs Bugs

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
6 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

F here. There is a weird thing even with my vanilla friends, when I told a long term female friend I'm Bi last year she immediately showed a little wariness of me. Biophobia is a thing. I told another woman I know (an acquaintance not a close friend) and the same thing happened. Like because I am Bi now all women are at risk of being flirted with.

I don't feel attracted to many people so the chances of me flirting are not that great.

And yet when a woman flirts with me, I miss it! I missed out completely on a fun encounter at a club because I didn't pick up her even though she kept pinning me against a wall (maybe three separate times) in a narrow stairwell and brushing up against me and telling me how fabulous my boobs were AND running her hand over my upper chest. It was like two months later and I'm like remember that girl I'd love to play with her if she was maybe interested in me too. My partner is like how slow are you lol.

In play I would completely respect anyone sexuality. I can play it straight. I'm likely to hash all of this out in advance of any encounter.

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By *ouple4fun35Couple
6 weeks ago

Dungiven

We have found this same challenge, and have found a lot of couples almost expect that the F would do Bi play, despite being straight. (One even said they could ‘make’ me (F) bi)

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
6 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"We have found this same challenge, and have found a lot of couples almost expect that the F would do Bi play, despite being straight. (One even said they could ‘make’ me (F) bi)"

That's not on.

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