FabSwingers.com forum: Telling it like it is

By *asual777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

i travel all over

Anyone on fab who does your head in ? Leave a message here without naming them

Anyone you admire ? Leave a message here. You can name them if you wish

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By *asual777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

i travel all over

Ok I ll start

You’re not as radical as you think, and you’re fairly annoying !!

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

Great tits

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By *ingpot!Man
6 weeks ago

West Cork

That casual guy with all the sevens in his name...

I won't say whether he does my head in or I admire him 🙃

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By *iCuri0Man
6 weeks ago

Shannon

I aspire to be as popular as you on here but God knows I don't have don't have the social skills for it

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

I would love to be as popular as you think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Even half ha ha

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I would love to be as popular as you think you are

Oh you’ll always have your fans…….

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

"I would love to be as popular as you think you are

Oh you’ll always have your fans…….

As will you

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"I would love to be as popular as you think you are

Oh you’ll always have your fans…….

As will you

Swoon………..

I thought all my fans were electrical………

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By *BantsMan
6 weeks ago

Mayo for now

There is no excuses for being mean and rude

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By *indenMan
6 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Annoyed be people who derail threads………

Admire people who are not afraid to borrow things occasionally…….😙😬

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By *elloMarylouWoman
6 weeks ago

mayo

There's a few who could do with climbing down of their pedastal

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

Yez are all lovely

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By *ustBoWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I've nothing to say to anyone. Backs out of thread and apologies for commenting.

Ponders if for once I am the ray of sunshine in a thread 🌞😄

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

"Nope I've nothing to say to anyone. Backs out of thread and apologies for commenting.

Ponders if for once I am the ray of sunshine in a thread 🌞😄"

You must have had a good day

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By *ustBoWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Nope I've nothing to say to anyone. Backs out of thread and apologies for commenting.

Ponders if for once I am the ray of sunshine in a thread 🌞😄

You must have had a good day

Nope I actually had the opposite but still have nothing I want to say that's bad to anyone on here. Maybe cos I have a teeny tiny circle on here now that I interact with 🤷😀

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By *nA101Couple
6 weeks ago

limerick

Acts all sweet but there is more to it by their actions

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

The Captain Save The Days, create more problems than they solve.

Many people have beautiful, healthy bodies, inspirational in fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Like everything in life there's people that enhance your life & there's also that that are total head wreckers, in all walk of life , here & in the real world , so you gotta make up your mind which is which , embrace those that do enhance, avoid those that don't ...if you can.😁

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By *exyScientistsCouple
6 weeks ago

Castlebar

No one here does my head in. I wouldn't let it affect me that much tbh. There are plenty of annoying people in real life that I have to interact with. And that keeps me busy enough.

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway

Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
6 weeks ago

ireland

As someone above said ,I wouldnt let anyone here annoy me ,let them get on with it and mind my own .Lifes too short to be annoyed by people ive never met !

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

Give your own opinion and not the one you think will make them want to ride you!

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots. "

Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer??

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By *exesrangerMan
6 weeks ago

town

I have to agree with jaffa on this one. It kinda brings out the negative where we should all just try to be more positive. No disrespect to the Op now in any way or anyone else for that matter , but yeah just my thoughts

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway

"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.

Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer??"

Have you taken a bang to the head and forgotten how people behave on the internet?

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

Agree with Jaffa too.

"Telling it like it is".... But actually not telling it, alluding to annoyances in public, rather than sorting them out in private or letting them go.

Sh1tstirring.

(I regret contributing... I ll let it go).

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.

Or it could get people thinking they need to be nicer??

Have you taken a bang to the head and forgotten how people behave on the internet?

You mean like you behaved with that reply?

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By *asual777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

i travel all over

"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots. "

Over the years you have not needed a telling it like it is thread to tell it like it is . You have on several occasions , uninvited, giving me a piece of your mind, without retaliation.

Tbh whilst some of these posts have taken me aback , I have reflected on some of them, and maybe acted somewhat less entitled than previously I hope. This is the point of this thread, perhaps it will be used for reflection.

Without being told it like it is, posters posting in a toxic way will carry on unchecked. The responses have not been horrible. None are identifiable. Some intended recipients have no idea. Some posters might have felt a degree of catharsis. I did!!

Also, the thread invites people to identify ones they admire. And this has taken place. It's all good really

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

No it's really not all good. It's sh1tstirring, if it was healthy, there wouldn't be a divide between naming those you admire and critiquing others.

The critics will have their own agendas (as always).

Fab is full to the brim of cliquey pests. There is no need for it.

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By *affa31Woman
6 weeks ago

Galway

"Tbh I find it mad that a thread like this has been started given all the negativity and drama on the forum this week and last.

It may seem like a bit of craic for some but there will be plenty who will use it to take passive aggressive pot shots.

Over the years you have not needed a telling it like it is thread to tell it like it is . You have on several occasions , uninvited, giving me a piece of your mind, without retaliation.

Also, the thread invites people to identify ones they admire. And this has taken place. It's all good really"

I’ll be the first to admit that I have clashed many a time on here with people. The difference is that if I have an opinion to give or a problem with something that’s been said, I say it directly without hiding behind anonymous posts.

How does an anonymous post change anything with regards to toxic posters? They’re not going to think it’s about them and will carry on regardless.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
6 weeks ago

Lucan

Ah sure look..

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By *oseredWoman
6 weeks ago

Dublin

You could've asked for things that annoy you from fab rather than people. Inviting people to vent on about others is only ever going to be negative. The option to say who you admire or what you admire about someone seemed a little of a cover for promoting negativity. And anonymous persons that are mean don't reflect. Let's try bring the fun back in fab and share the love.

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By *oseredWoman
6 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *ornywife20Couple
6 weeks ago

North Cork

The people who don't get the message after trying to politely say no. So I just told them stay away from us when we all finished up at a play party. Think it worked no annoying messages since

Sometimes you must be blunt.

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

It's easy to tear down

In minutes bring to ground

A life time of craft

Fucked by a shaft

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By *he KakapoMan
6 weeks ago

A nice rock

As my mother always said...

"If you've got nothing nice to say...post it anonymously online"

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By *_05Man
6 weeks ago

dublin 7

"As my mother always said...

"If you've got nothing nice to say...post it anonymously online"

... and don't forget make sure it's on a public forum! that'll show them!!

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By *asual777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

i travel all over

"As my mother always said...

"If you've got nothing nice to say...post it anonymously online"

I do like the sound of your mum I must say

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By *asual777 OP Man
6 weeks ago

i travel all over

"Ah sure look.. "

Welcome back . Breaks are overrated

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
6 weeks ago

Lucan

"Ah sure look..

Welcome back . Breaks are overrated "

My dyslexic grandad used to say that, until he drove over a cliff when they wouldn't work.

Thanks.

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By *ogladyWoman
6 weeks ago

The bog

I also don't let people annoy me if them making digs at me makes them happy then I'm glad I've bought a bit of joy to there life.. 😘😘

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By *panishRebelMan
6 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

8 always find that the final measure of a person is not how they fall out l, get offended, fuck up or even get the wrong end of the stick etc

The final measure is how they make things up and repair any damage!

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

A platypus can make it's own custard.

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By *ofusplusCouple
6 weeks ago

Limerick

"8 always find that the final measure of a person is not how they fall out l, get offended, fuck up or even get the wrong end of the stick etc

The final measure is how they make things up and repair any damage!"

I genuinely have no clue what's been going on and I don't want to, but I agree with your last line. In my many years on this Earth I have noticed that very, very few are willing to apologise for their shitty behaviour towards others, nevermind do anything to make amends. They just carry on and pretend that nothing happened! I think they erase these things from their memory to avoid suffering any guilt.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

Annoyed - just show us the boobies and stop the teasing!

Admire - The consummate teasing.

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By *rutus83Man
6 weeks ago

naas

Annoyed- how closed minded you are while being on a very open minded site

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