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"Share your favorite one Lolly "Never delete a friend request as they can't send another one.. Pic wise if it's to good to be true ill always reverse google image..  | |||
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"Share your favorite one Lolly
Never delete a friend request as they can't send another one..
Pic wise if it's to good to be true ill always reverse google image.. "If you've deleted the request it's because you don't want to be friends lol. | |||
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"Share your favorite one Lolly
Never delete a friend request as they can't send another one..
Pic wise if it's to good to be true ill always reverse google image..
If you've deleted the request it's because you don't want to be friends lol."It's the one's who send random friend requests | |||
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"There can be groups on fab, that think they are fab bog royalty. Spending their days lolling about on the bog, self appointed kings, queens, lords and ladies, princes and princesses of the bog. They sit on the bog delivering turds and turning sods to pass the time of day. They can get annoyed when other bog trotters walk across the bog, but no one owns the bog, everyone is a bog user. The bog is an equal opportunities area, open to all ramblers. "  | |||
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"Don't get offended if you get blocked by someone Not everyone will want to ride you Equally block whatever cunt annoys you "Absolutely this one it's best keep all the annoying cunts in one place | |||
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"There can be groups on fab, that think they are fab bog royalty. Spending their days lolling about on the bog, self appointed kings, queens, lords and ladies, princes and princesses of the bog. They sit on the bog delivering turds and turning sods to pass the time of day. They can get annoyed when other bog trotters walk across the bog, but no one owns the bog, everyone is a bog user. The bog is an equal opportunities area, open to all ramblers. "That's you told! | |||
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"Whack one off before you send a message. You'll be surprised how few messages you'll send. You will definitely consider your words note carefully. 99% of the photos have some kind of filter, and the person you meet will rarely look as good, sometimes it won't even look like the same person (you know who you are)" Interesting strategy | |||
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"The notes feature is an absolute godsend..." Whats the notes feature? | |||
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"The notes feature is an absolute godsend... Whats the notes feature? " You can keep a note of anything you feel relevant to a Fabber Top right of everyone's profile Menu ➡️ Your private notes | |||
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"The notes feature is an absolute godsend... Whats the notes feature? You can keep a note of anything you feel relevant to a Fabber Top right of everyone's profile Menu ➡️ Your private notes" Aw good man cheers👍 | |||
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"The notes feature is an absolute godsend... Whats the notes feature? You can keep a note of anything you feel relevant to a Fabber Top right of everyone's profile Menu ➡️ Your private notes" It doesn't need to be about the person, you could just write your shopping list in there too | |||
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"Whack one off before you send a message. You'll be surprised how few messages you'll send. You will definitely consider your words note carefully. 99% of the photos have some kind of filter, and the person you meet will rarely look as good, sometimes it won't even look like the same person (you know who you are)" Ah the post “nut clarity” a saving grace many a time 😂 | |||
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"Whack one off before you send a message. You'll be surprised how few messages you'll send. You will definitely consider your words note carefully. 99% of the photos have some kind of filter, and the person you meet will rarely look as good, sometimes it won't even look like the same person (you know who you are)" 😂😂😂 🤔🤔 | |||
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"Don't try to be someone else, that body is already taken 🤷♂️😘" This i like 👍 👌 | |||
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"Don't try to be someone else, that body is already taken 🤷♂️😘 This i like 👍 👌 " Me too 👌 I think it was Oscar Wilde | |||
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"Don't try to be someone else, that body is already taken 🤷♂️😘 This i like 👍 👌 Me too 👌 I think it was Oscar Wilde" Wise words 👏 | |||
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"There can be groups on fab, that think they are fab bog royalty. Spending their days lolling about on the bog, self appointed kings, queens, lords and ladies, princes and princesses of the bog. They sit on the bog delivering turds and turning sods to pass the time of day. They can get annoyed when other bog trotters walk across the bog, but no one owns the bog, everyone is a bog user. The bog is an equal opportunities area, open to all ramblers. " | |||
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"Filters are great Ninja mode rocks Private Notes are super handy Forum posts are a great way of uncovering the idiots Everyone has an agenda Not everyone has to get on or like you. You can all co -exist just like in the real world
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"Im here just over 9yrs and im still learning new hints and tips about fab, if anyone wants to share their own please do🤔" Tips and pointers always appreciated, can be a struggle at times , Thank you Mrs lolly 😘 | |||
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"Im finding it hard here. I have a verified meet....a good veri but people just ignore you." See the numerous hints and tips on this thread, especially the one about adjusting your expectations | |||
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"Remember also there can be generational differences in what people perceive to be hilarious fun or not socially acceptable. This changes over time. People evolve, group think evolves. If in doubt, consider a neutral, holding position, to tease it all out. There are 1000s and 1000s of users that don't bother with the Forums. The Forums are not the source of all information. There are chat groups of 100s of people, who you almost never see in the Forums. There is a reason for that. " So are you saying a lot of people use WhatsApp groups instead of forums to have private words about people? 😂 | |||
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"No, I m saying lots of people use other Apps for fun, chit chat groups, without the gangs and the unnecessary conflict and rudeness that can be found in the Forums. " Sign me up. lol. I’ve not seen too much conflict in the forums since I started posting. Or am I missing it | |||
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"No, I m saying lots of people use other Apps for fun, chit chat groups, without the gangs and the unnecessary conflict and rudeness that can be found in the Forums. " I wasn't going to comment because you've obviously got some sort of beef going on, but here I am. Oh well! Chat groups outwith the site display the same behaviours. Perhaps it's less overt and in your face, but they aren't some kind of Nirvana. | |||
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"No, I m saying lots of people use other Apps for fun, chit chat groups, without the gangs and the unnecessary conflict and rudeness that can be found in the Forums. Sign me up. lol. I’ve not seen too much conflict in the forums since I started posting. Or am I missing it " There hasn't been any in quite a while. It's been generally peaceful | |||
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"Remember also there can be generational differences in what people perceive to be hilarious fun or not socially acceptable. This changes over time. People evolve, group think evolves. If in doubt, consider a neutral, holding position, to tease it all out. There are 1000s and 1000s of users that don't bother with the Forums. The Forums are not the source of all information. There are chat groups of 100s of people, who you almost never see in the Forums. There is a reason for that. " Totally correct a very small percentage actually chat on Forums. Forums definitely have their use though
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"Dont take anything too seriously,dont cause uneeded drama ,Just enjoy the journey and if you aren't enjoying it ,take some time out,hide your profile and come back if it suits you to ." Noted.. and all the other great advice, in some ways it’s not a race and to pace yourself correctly that you don’t run out of steam! Which can happen very easily here! | |||
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"Don't try to be someone else, that body is already taken 🤷♂️😘 This i like 👍 👌 Me too 👌 I think it was Oscar Wilde" Be yourself, everyone else is already taken  | |||
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"What is this ninja mode you speak of. What magic is this???" Ninja 🥷 mode is a filter you use to hid yourself from been seen looking at profile's.... | |||
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"What is this ninja mode you speak of. What magic is this??? Ninja 🥷 mode is a filter you use to hid yourself from been seen looking at profile's...." Ssshhh 🤫 Ninja secret 🌚 | |||
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"This is a really great thread lolly. My advice here would be. Think about how you treat people. If you wouldn't like it to be done to you then don't do it to someone else Follow the verification trail. They can tell you a lot about the person you are chatting to. Also how someone speaks in the forums and how they interact with others can be completely different than how they are with you in pm. The green arrow is very useful too. The notes section has been a game changer too. Especially when a dickhead has changed their name that precious note about them will still remain. " Exactly 👌 Do onto others as you'd have done onto yourself 🤷♂️ | |||
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"Also if you're a blank profile don't be surprised if you don't get a reply. Also no need to abuse someone because they don't reply. I know you will read this as you have already quoted me in pm. "The audacity, honestly. | |||
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"Im here just over 9yrs and im still learning new hints and tips about fab, if anyone wants to share their own please do🤔" Long sessions are easy to make it work if guys or girls have stamina and ability to control their mind.😉. It's working for me | |||
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"Also if you're a blank profile don't be surprised if you don't get a reply. Also no need to abuse someone because they don't reply. I know you will read this as you have already quoted me in pm.
The audacity, honestly. "M I know x | |||
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"What is this ninja mode you speak of. What magic is this??? Ninja 🥷 mode is a filter you use to hid yourself from been seen looking at profile's...." Oh. Thank you for that information. Must try it out! | |||
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"Im here just over 9yrs and im still learning new hints and tips about fab, if anyone wants to share their own please do🤔Long sessions are easy to make it work if guys or girls have stamina and ability to control their mind.😉. It's working for me " Stealth boast 👌👌, I bet the condoms are too small for you too. Let me know if u ever pass through Limerick 😍😅 | |||
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Don't feed them after midnight
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"Whatever you do don't feed the women any cake They're like Gremlins Don't get them wet
Don't feed them after midnight
Apart from that you'll be grand "What happens if they eat donuts? Asking for a friend | |||
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"Whatever you do don't feed the women any cake They're like Gremlins Don't get them wet
Don't feed them after midnight
Apart from that you'll be grand
What happens if they eat donuts? Asking for a friend "Friends for life | |||
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"Recognize the red flags. If a woman messages you and she has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's a man. If a man messages you and he has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's also a man. Reverse image search is very useful if in doubt. Effort is sexy. Have a good profile, if you can't take good photos then write a good bio. If you can't write a good bio then write great messages. If you can't do any of those things then go to social events. Go to social events anyway. Over half the men that sign up for events don't go. If your a guy, think about that... Can't do any of the above? Fab isn't for you. Don't moan. " Bugger, fab isn’t for me. I better get packing | |||
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"Recognize the red flags. If a woman messages you and she has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's a man. If a man messages you and he has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's also a man. Reverse image search is very useful if in doubt. Effort is sexy. Have a good profile, if you can't take good photos then write a good bio. If you can't write a good bio then write great messages. If you can't do any of those things then go to social events. Go to social events anyway. Over half the men that sign up for events don't go. If your a guy, think about that... Can't do any of the above? Fab isn't for you. Don't moan. Bugger, fab isn’t for me. I better get packing " Great pics - check Great bio - check Goes to social events - check Great craic in the forum - check I'd do you myself Ger 😁 | |||
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"Im here just over 9yrs and im still learning new hints and tips about fab, if anyone wants to share their own please do🤔Long sessions are easy to make it work if guys or girls have stamina and ability to control their mind.😉. It's working for me Yeah 🤣 🤣 Stealth boast 👌👌, I bet the condoms are too small for you too. Let me know if u ever pass through Limerick 😍😅" | |||
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"Recognize the red flags. If a woman messages you and she has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's a man. If a man messages you and he has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's also a man. Reverse image search is very useful if in doubt. Effort is sexy. Have a good profile, if you can't take good photos then write a good bio. If you can't write a good bio then write great messages. If you can't do any of those things then go to social events. Go to social events anyway. Over half the men that sign up for events don't go. If your a guy, think about that... Can't do any of the above? Fab isn't for you. Don't moan. Bugger, fab isn’t for me. I better get packing " I should have wrote 'if you can't be arsed making the effort' | |||
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"Always meet for a social first in a public space and see how you get on. Don't put yourself in a situation where if someone doesn't turn up, you'll be upset. Don't travel 100s of miles and book into hotels in the expectation of meeting someone for sex, unless of course you've met them before and know them. A fool and their money are soon parted. If it looks too good to be true, it usually is. Your safety should be paramount regardless of your gender. Look after yourself and don't put yourself in risky situations. Be aware of your alcohol consumption. Trust your intuition. Always." | |||
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"1. Start a couple’s profile if your fwb agrees to it. " I agree with all points to except the above, it generally doesn't serve guys well. What if they fall out of fwb'ship? The profile is then gone, along with all the great veris they built up during their fun on the scene. My advice would be to use your singles profile to collect veris while out partying with your fwb | |||
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"1. Start a couple’s profile if your fwb agrees to it. I agree with all points to except the above, it generally doesn't serve guys well. What if they fall out of fwb'ship? The profile is then gone, along with all the great veris they built up during their fun on the scene. My advice would be to use your singles profile to collect veris while out partying with your fwb "I asked people we met to verify the single and couple profile alternately The latter was like being handed the keys to the kingdom | |||
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"Recognize the red flags. If a woman messages you and she has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's a man. If a man messages you and he has no veris and wants to meet you as soon as possible and asks for photos/videos, that's also a man. Reverse image search is very useful if in doubt. Effort is sexy. Have a good profile, if you can't take good photos then write a good bio. If you can't write a good bio then write great messages. If you can't do any of those things then go to social events. Go to social events anyway. Over half the men that sign up for events don't go. If your a guy, think about that... Can't do any of the above? Fab isn't for you. Don't moan. Bugger, fab isn’t for me. I better get packing Great pics - check Great bio - check Goes to social events - check Great craic in the forum - check I'd do you myself Ger 😁" Hopefully you’ll buy me dinner first  | |||
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"1. Start a couple’s profile if your fwb agrees to it. I agree with all points to except the above, it generally doesn't serve guys well. What if they fall out of fwb'ship? The profile is then gone, along with all the great veris they built up during their fun on the scene. My advice would be to use your singles profile to collect veris while out partying with your fwb
I asked people we met to verify the single and couple profile alternately
The latter was like being handed the keys to the kingdom "I wouldn't recommend this to women. FWB who want fake couples profiles, are using the female half for access to a wider audience and are not prioritising the wishes of the female half. Women don't need couples profiles for increased visibility/traffic, men do. Frankly men who are part of a couple, who then want to set up an online couples profile with a FWB are just using the woman. There is nothing in it for woman, better to paddle your own canoe. | |||
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"There can be groups on fab, that think they are fab bog royalty. Spending their days lolling about on the bog, self appointed kings, queens, lords and ladies, princes and princesses of the bog. They sit on the bog delivering turds and turning sods to pass the time of day. They can get annoyed when other bog trotters walk across the bog, but no one owns the bog, everyone is a bog user. The bog is an equal opportunities area, open to all ramblers. "Don't worry bog king, bog queen is here beside ya.. 😂😂😂 | |||
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"Is there room for a bog princess ,we would make a great team lol" U know Ur my princess..😘 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏" Do we enter through the front or back? 🤭 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 Do we enter through the front or back? 🤭" Well the back is full of bogholes but if ya think ya can get in and not sink in it go for it.. | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 Do we enter through the front or back? 🤭 Well the back is full of bogholes but if ya think ya can get in and not sink in it go for it.. " Sounds like right in the front is my best option 🤔 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏" 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣 | |||
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"Im here just over 9yrs and im still learning new hints and tips about fab, if anyone wants to share their own please do🤔" Send a face pic if you’re asking for a face pic, but don’t assume you’re entitled to one in return | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣" Oh u get the royal treatment.. | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣 Oh u get the royal treatment.. "💋 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏" Just don't eat her chocolates or you'll never hear the end of it 😅🤭 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣 Oh u get the royal treatment.. "Just don't enter her shed... she will lock you in!!! | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣 Oh u get the royal treatment..
Just don't enter her shed... she will lock you in!!!"I did not lock u in I just forgot u were in there.. 🙈🙈😂😂😂 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 Just don't eat her chocolates or you'll never hear the end of it 😅🤭" U still owe me some.. 😂😂😂 | |||
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"Do fab your own way. So many people think their way is the only way fab can be enjoyed or people can get meets.But that isn't true. Yes change things if it's not working for you but there is no secret success that is guaranteed. The only piece of advice that I think is worthwhile is don't believe everything that is said on here about others make up your own mind and if people are gossiping to you about others and sharing info be sure they are doing they same about you to others. " 👏👏👏 | |||
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"Hear ye hear ye I declare that my boglands is now open to the public enter them at Ur own risk.. 😏😏😏 👀👀👀 We're coming in... 🤣 Oh u get the royal treatment..
Just don't enter her shed... she will lock you in!!!
I did not lock u in I just forgot u were in there.. 🙈🙈😂😂😂"What about chocolates in the shed 😈 | |||
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