FabSwingers.com forum: Username and profile photos .

By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Would someone's username or profile photo have any bearing as to whether you reply to their message or not. This may only apply to the ladies here, but I am also curious about the guys opinions too.

Inq x

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I'd be put off by usernames that mention dicks/girth/length etc, along with profile pictures with the same theme.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
6 weeks ago

ireland

Not normally but if it was something disrespectful or drug related ,we would probly give them a wide birth !

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
6 weeks ago

City Centre, Dublin

I think usernames give an insight into the psyche and personality of the person

Bigcock645378 or Heavycummer8884783 would raise a few red flags

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
6 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I think a very bad picture could put someone off... but average+ is fine.

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

I would say it’s a bit different for women than men as by the sounds of it women get 100’s of messages a day so I suppose you can pick and choose who to message back. Personally I don’t think it should as you have no way of knowing if you get a long with someone without speaking to them. I’d say don’t judge a book by its cover 🥳

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

"I'd be put off by usernames that mention dicks/girth/length etc, along with profile pictures with the same theme. "

I best change name from _orthern_donk to northern_neurosurgeon and see what happens 😂😂😂

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

"I'd be put off by usernames that mention dicks/girth/length etc, along with profile pictures with the same theme.

I best change name from _orthern_donk to northern_neurosurgeon and see what happens 😂😂😂"

Nooooo, it's me. I'm the surgeon!

Almost started reciting Taylor Swift there.

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

Women rarely have off-putting profile names.

I make snap judgements on profile pics all time. If its not grabbing my attention I'll likely not click through.

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By *obforfun2020Man
6 weeks ago

Dublin

I like a username that makes me smile … some great ones on here … my own is a bit boring but all I could come up with at the time

Bob

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
6 weeks ago

kinkytown

If it a stupid username like big dick whatever it would put us off. Same with pics. If there's a lack of imagination in them it's just yawn boring pass.

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By *hy NewbysCouple
6 weeks ago

Maynooth

Very inquisitive of you

yeah they both play a big factor if someone has like a throwaway username or a poor quality fuzzy profile picture we generally won’t reply, we like when things are well thought out and/or humorous

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
6 weeks ago

borderarea

Usernames definitely affect my choice to reply or not. Pictures that are basically cock/cum pics are extremely off putting and will always prevent me from replying.

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By *ucka39Man
6 weeks ago

Newcastle

Some raise eyebrows whereas others raise creative imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Great replies everyone. I'm glad it's just not me then.

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

"I'd be put off by usernames that mention dicks/girth/length etc, along with profile pictures with the same theme.

I best change name from _orthern_donk to northern_neurosurgeon and see what happens 😂😂😂

Nooooo, it's me. I'm the surgeon!

Almost started reciting Taylor Swift there. "

At tea time everybody agrees.

Now I’m scratching my head thinking how can I compete with a surgeon. I’m not sure I want to be your patient 😂😂😂

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

Pretentious names give me the Ick too

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

"Great replies everyone. I'm glad it's just not me then.

What’s your opinion?

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
6 weeks ago

Athlone

"Would someone's username or profile photo have any bearing as to whether you reply to their message or not. This may only apply to the ladies here, but I am also curious about the guys opinions too.

Inq x"

100%.

I've seen some very vulgar usernames here and even more vulgar images.

I'm a 'leave a bit to the imagination' kinda gal!

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Legs akimbo with nothing left to the imagination put me off ,any username with slut also

Of course any messages from these type of profiles will not be ignored,I can't afford to pick and choose

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Great replies everyone. I'm glad it's just not me then.

What’s your opinion?"

Yes a profile photo and usernames do make a difference to me

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

"Great replies everyone. I'm glad it's just not me then.

What’s your opinion?

Yes a profile photo and usernames do make a difference to me

I private messaged you a quick question. If that’s ok.

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
6 weeks ago

Dublin

Definitely makes a difference with profile pics! Usernames to an extent but if a profile pic hasn't some creativity in it or looks like it was taken by a Nokia 3310 chances are we won't be interested.. 😅

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By *s LollyWoman
6 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

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By *s LollyWoman
6 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I generally don't open messages from rude usernames or from profile's with graphic profile pictures.....

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

"Definitely makes a difference with profile pics! Usernames to an extent but if a profile pic hasn't some creativity in it or looks like it was taken by a Nokia 3310 chances are we won't be interested.. 😅 "

Your profile picture is top tier. 🔥🔥

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
6 weeks ago

Dublin

Your profile picture is top tier. 🔥🔥"

And you're on our hotlist 😜🔥

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

Your profile picture is top tier. 🔥🔥"

Agreed. Yours is off the scale too M 😜😜😜😈

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

Yep both definitely give me pause.

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

Your profile picture is top tier. 🔥🔥

And you're on our hotlist 😜🔥"

And you're both on mine 😉

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By *in44Man
6 weeks ago

Cavan

No definitely not, if she made the effort to text and say hi and I was anyway interested photo, name or message wouldn’t put me of from replying. Or even if I wasn’t interested id alway text and say sorry not interested for whatever reason.

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By *oosmoothballsMan
6 weeks ago

Dublin

"Would someone's username or profile photo have any bearing as to whether you reply to their message or not. This may only apply to the ladies here, but I am also curious about the guys opinions too.

Inq x"

I think a lot of usernames are created without a lot of thought being given to it. Suppose it depends how creative the individual is. That said crude usernames are off putting and can make a person undesirable from the get go.

The profile picture is similar but i think everyone is more interested once chatting in exchanging photos more so than focusing on the profile pics. Some are dreadful.

Its no surprise that women are inundated with messages and the guys don't have the same issue regardless of names or pictures.

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By *eekyNerdMan
6 weeks ago

Portarlington

I went with an username that reflected my personality and was unique on the site. When you have to add numbers to your username, that's a little off puting as well as really vulgar ones. But it's mostly males who do that, ladies and couples seem to put thought into theirs.

Some males do too, but there's really only so many hugedick4u profiles before they blend into one.

As for my profile pictures, I only have 2 public for now. I don't like photos of myself in general and can't take a decent selfie to save my life! So I say I do suffer a bit on that front.

I like to see profile photos with a bit of personality in it (hence my 2 unsexy photos). A bit of cheek and a bit to the imagination too. Tensing if you may.

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By *ionycusMan
6 weeks ago

Babylon

I like to laugh at funny ones , or should I say, laugh with funny ones. I'll check out a profile if it's a funny name, man, woman or in-between.

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By *ustBoWoman
6 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Yes they can put me off replying for numerous reasons.

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

Some are more appealing than others.

For me : the best pics are the ones that accurately display the posters body, so you can see if they might turn you on.

I don't like extremely graphic or gratuitously vulgar pics or anything where there are serious marks on a person's body.

I like the playful and arty pics. Same goes for usernames.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
6 weeks ago

mayo

Usernames can be off putting but I'll still look at profile, as I think usernames are picked quickly and not thought about.

Pictures however are one of my biggest peeves, between 900 pics of a dick at different angles, different women in ' action " poses on a single guys profile, dirty background, toilet pics etc

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By *radfab2024Man
6 weeks ago

North Dublin

"I'd be put off by usernames that mention dicks/girth/length etc, along with profile pictures with the same theme.

I best change name from _orthern_donk to northern_neurosurgeon and see what happens 😂😂😂"

Brilliant comment 🤣🤣

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
6 weeks ago

Portstewart

We're put off by any username that has anything dom or the likes. We try and do some light bdsm stuff only for us currently and we don't like andly username that makes it seem like the person would try and take advantage of a situation where beard wasn't in the room

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By *ubguy777Man
6 weeks ago

Crude photo, name and blunt description, would put me off to be honest.

Classy photo, name and a friendly description, etc,.. would pique my interest.

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By *leasurevilleMan
6 weeks ago

kilkenny

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By *leasurevilleMan
6 weeks ago

kilkenny

"Would someone's username or profile photo have any bearing as to whether you reply to their message or not. This may only apply to the ladies here, but I am also curious about the guys opinions too.

Inq x"

Women don't actually message first on here though inq surely? lol 😆

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By *eanbelfastMan
6 weeks ago

Belfast

For me their profile picture and name says something about them and is probably the first thing you have to go by so some can be off putting though luckily as men on here we aren't inundated with loads of messages so I always take the time to reply, even if its a polite no but the first message or first couple of messages usually tells you all you need to know.

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By *arquisDeSadeCouple
6 weeks ago

South County Dublin.

Honestly username or profile pic doesn’t put me off.

What puts me off is when someone sends a friends request. It’s clearly stated on first line of our profile not to send one. Caz

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By *orthern_donkMan
6 weeks ago

Carrick On Shannon

"Honestly username or profile pic doesn’t put me off.

What puts me off is when someone sends a friends request. It’s clearly stated on first line of our profile not to send one. Caz"

Watch you’ll end up with loads of friend requests now 😂😂😂

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
6 weeks ago

Cork

Usernames and profile pics don't put us off as much as a the text in a profile can if its not to our liking, we don't pay much heed to public pics although if a profile is on here long time with no pics it raises a bit of a red flag for us. I don't think newbies realise how important their profile can be.

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By *oc09Man
6 weeks ago

near u

It's all bout the connection with me but if I seen something disrespectful in the profile I won't text

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

I think a lot of people would change their username if they could, me included!

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

"I think a lot of people would change their username if they could, me included!"

I think it's possible if you are a paid member.

I think there is excessive enmeshment of some fabber gossips and groups, assigning daft interpretations onto everything and anything. Just looking for hooks to hang outdated judgments from.

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By *leasurevilleMan
6 weeks ago

kilkenny

I think you can change your username once if you are a paid member. nothing wrong with _chochamber btw. it's quite catchy

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By *chochamberWoman
6 weeks ago

Munster

"I think you can change your username once if you are a paid member. nothing wrong with _chochamber btw. it's quite catchy"

I like it, (I know some of the b1tchy gang don't, they felt the need to inform me already!). The only reason I'd consider changing was because I m recognisable and have been outed.

Unless I went v low key, I ld be outed again, there is no point in changing. It's best to keep the profile and veri s clean.

It's daft to be over thinking made up user names.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

"I think a lot of people would change their username if they could, me included!"

You can. There's no limit on the number of times you can change it

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By *s LollyWoman
6 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I think a lot of people would change their username if they could, me included!

You can. There's no limit on the number of times you can change it"

There is a limit, ye can only change it 4 times in a year plus ye have to wait i think 7 day's to change it back or change it again....

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
6 weeks ago

South Down

"I think a lot of people would change their username if they could, me included!

You can. There's no limit on the number of times you can change it

There is a limit, ye can only change it 4 times in a year plus ye have to wait i think 7 day's to change it back or change it again...."

Oh yeah that's right 🤦

What Lolly said then 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
6 weeks ago

Personally, I check their pics for BB pics and if that exists and they are single? It’s an immediate turnoff. Same goes for pics just showing their downstairs or other places.. It isn’t tasteful, same goes for guys just having a cock as a gallery and don’t get me started on an unimaginative names like heavycummer69 or squirter86 eta.. I know the pool of women v men are vastly different but I still have standards..

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By *xpandmyhorizonsMan
6 weeks ago

Co. Antrim

Overly graphic pictures really put me off to be honest. I'd much rather see some suggestive pictures

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"I think you can change your username once if you are a paid member. nothing wrong with _chochamber btw. it's quite catchy

I like it, (I know some of the b1tchy gang don't, they felt the need to inform me already!). The only reason I'd consider changing was because I m recognisable and have been outed.

Unless I went v low key, I ld be outed again, there is no point in changing. It's best to keep the profile and veri s clean.

It's daft to be over thinking made up user names. "

What is there to be bitchy about your name ? Also some change their name because they have something to hide and by that I mean predatory men. So notes are a good idea incase someone of that kind of character tries to hide behind a new name.

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By *eus17Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

Im not great at selfies so most my pix are terrible lol,i get alot of replys saying,sorry not my type lol,il have another go some other time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
6 weeks ago

"Im not great at selfies so most my pix are terrible lol,i get alot of replys saying,sorry not my type lol,il have another go some other time."

If you feel you're unable to take good pics maybe have a look at some of the guys pics you admire here and see if you can do what they do.

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By *eus17Man
6 weeks ago

belfast

Yes i think il try taking some better pics and see how things go,its hard to get pix that show the body but not give away who i am with lots of tattoo's 🤣 i end up totally blurred out but il make it work somehow.

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By *s LollyWoman
6 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Yes i think il try taking some better pics and see how things go,its hard to get pix that show the body but not give away who i am with lots of tattoo's 🤣 i end up totally blurred out but il make it work somehow."

Use the selfi timer on your phone it gives you plenty of time to get it right plus there's a few pics apps that are free to download that can jazz up or down your pictures 😁

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere

If you have a Samsung phone the photo editor will remove your tattoo and leave perfect skin behind ...no blurs

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By *uittopMan
6 weeks ago

South County Dublin

I always meet in public for coffee and a chat first before deciding on anything.

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By *leasurer77Man
6 weeks ago

Athlone

"I think you can change your username once if you are a paid member. nothing wrong with _chochamber btw. it's quite catchy

I like it, (I know some of the b1tchy gang don't, they felt the need to inform me already!). The only reason I'd consider changing was because I m recognisable and have been outed.

Unless I went v low key, I ld be outed again, there is no point in changing. It's best to keep the profile and veri s clean.

It's daft to be over thinking made up user names.

Decision made then. Keep Username as I've absolutely nothing to hide!

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
6 weeks ago

Cork Ireland

Apparently our username is offensive to people

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