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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away

How can you tell if someone likes you?

Of course, online, apps, bars etc.

But in general terms. Like you fancy the local postman.... how do you tell them.. unless you mention express delivery or something...

Ps l don't fancy my local postman, milkman or DHL man...

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
6 weeks ago

Portstewart

Flirt with them and see how they react. We would probably say that there's no point in beating around the bush and just tell them as sometimes people can be oblivious to what is in front of them

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By *dfabMan
6 weeks ago

Dunboyne

With women it's flicking the hair and head slightly down but looking up at you and touching/moistening lips and gentle tugging of ear lobes are a dead giveaway.

For guys it's the obvious opening of legs, scratching crotch, chest posturing

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"Flirt with them and see how they react. We would probably say that there's no point in beating around the bush and just tell them as sometimes people can be oblivious to what is in front of them "

Yes, but if it doesn't go my way..it's highly embarrassing as it's a place that l go regularly...

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"With women it's flicking the hair and head slightly down but looking up at you and touching/moistening lips and gentle tugging of ear lobes are a dead giveaway.

For guys it's the obvious opening of legs, scratching crotch, chest posturing "

I must do more crotch gazing

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast

I could be all chat on here/groups but in reality I'm extremely awkward and never really know if someone is into me or not.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
6 weeks ago

Portstewart


"Flirt with them and see how they react. We would probably say that there's no point in beating around the bush and just tell them as sometimes people can be oblivious to what is in front of them

Yes, but if it doesn't go my way..it's highly embarrassing as it's a place that l go regularly... "

Seriously who would even want to reject a chance at a date with you _astello. Your amazing never let yourself forget that and be confident and it will succeed

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By *og-ManMan
6 weeks ago

somewhere


"With women it's flicking the hair and head slightly down but looking up at you and touching/moistening lips and gentle tugging of ear lobes are a dead giveaway.

For guys it's the obvious opening of legs, scratching crotch, chest posturing

I must do more crotch gazing "

You got mail

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By *dfabMan
6 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"I could be all chat on here/groups but in reality I'm extremely awkward and never really know if someone is into me or not. "

Don't forget to put the word Fabulous into conversation to see if they pick up on it.

I'd say if you were upfront with anyone, after 20-30mins chatting to decide if there was chemistry, very few would turn you down

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West

I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

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By *dfabMan
6 weeks ago

Dunboyne


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding."

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍 "

I think a good example would be that if I noticed a woman was tugging on her earlobes while looking up at me I'd lean in quite close and quietly and politely ask 'do you like anal?'

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍

I think a good example would be that if I noticed a woman was tugging on her earlobes while looking up at me I'd lean in quite close and quietly and politely ask 'do you like anal?'"

One tug for yes 🥳

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By *rystalsswingCouple
6 weeks ago

Galway


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍

I think a good example would be that if I noticed a woman was tugging on her earlobes while looking up at me I'd lean in quite close and quietly and politely ask 'do you like anal?'

One tug for yes 🥳"

🤣 it's always the quiet shy ones 😜

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By *electableicecreamMan
6 weeks ago

The West


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍

I think a good example would be that if I noticed a woman was tugging on her earlobes while looking up at me I'd lean in quite close and quietly and politely ask 'do you like anal?'

One tug for yes 🥳"

Grab your coat

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast


"

🤣 it's always the quiet shy ones 😜"

Hey! That's not what I meant...

Wait. 🤪🤣

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By *HLxWoman
6 weeks ago

Belfast


"Grab your coat "

Will do.

😏😏😏

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By *rRiosMan
6 weeks ago

dublin

The “vibes” is cringe

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"The “vibes” is cringe"

Must be my 1970s upbringing....

Perhaps you can add to my lexicon of language...

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"Flirt with them and see how they react. We would probably say that there's no point in beating around the bush and just tell them as sometimes people can be oblivious to what is in front of them

Yes, but if it doesn't go my way..it's highly embarrassing as it's a place that l go regularly...

Seriously who would even want to reject a chance at a date with you _astello. Your amazing never let yourself forget that and be confident and it will succeed "

🥰 Yes, I'll try but hey...the embarressment of "no thanks" would be soooooooooo bad. Is it better to admire from afar..than face that.

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"I can be too oblivious to notice and too nervous to make a move so I've had to teach myself to just to ask simple questions that aren't to direct so as to be awkward.

It's been very rewarding.

Interesting.

A few examples would be great 👍

I think a good example would be that if I noticed a woman was tugging on her earlobes while looking up at me I'd lean in quite close and quietly and politely ask 'do you like anal?'"

Butt clenches

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By *ingo_121Man
6 weeks ago

Tipperary cork

It’s better to be awkward and push the boat out and see if there’s something there than be awkward with small talk and say nothing sometimes

Sometimes you wish you didn’t push the boat out to start with though

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By *om TangoMan
6 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

Something I do. If I think someone might be into me and I’m chatting to them often I would say “I’ll have to get a coffee with you sometime for the craic “. If they seem interested and ask when or I’d like that then great. If the say yeah maybe sometime that suits then I just take it their not into me. Now in saying that I’ve had a lady agreed straight away to a coffee and within a few minutes of the coffee date she was chatting about where herself and boyfriend were going on holidays so that was that coffee date fucked

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By *astello OP   Woman
6 weeks ago

Far far away


"Something I do. If I think someone might be into me and I’m chatting to them often I would say “I’ll have to get a coffee with you sometime for the craic “. If they seem interested and ask when or I’d like that then great. If the say yeah maybe sometime that suits then I just take it their not into me. Now in saying that I’ve had a lady agreed straight away to a coffee and within a few minutes of the coffee date she was chatting about where herself and boyfriend were going on holidays so that was that coffee date fucked"

Yes, admiring from afar is great but it's the :btw I'm attached "is the cringe factor.. my Google sleuth skills on this one are failing...

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