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"How much, if at all, do you do things with your ex partner? For example, do you buy the Christmas presents together or separate? Would you both bring your kid to their first day of school, or if one could not attend, would you send pics/expect pics? Parent teacher meetings? " I'm remarried rather than single, but we have run things the same way from day 1 since separation. We don't do many things together, but we do work together in co-parenting. At Christmas one of us has the kids for Christmas eve until lunchtime Christmas day, and the other has them for Christmas dinner and that evening. We alternate years so we both get to do both parts. We do first days at school, birthdays, plays and other major events together as far as possible. I would take pics for her if asked. The kids live with me nearly half the time and with her the rest of the time. You will find a system that works for you as everyone is different. | |||
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"Thank you for the answers thus far. For context, I do not have children. I know a split couple with two. He thinks he is being cut out and excluded. She thinks he is irresponsible and unreliable so it easier to do it herself. I think they both have valid points but communication has broken down and it’s just getting more toxic. Sadly, it’ll be the kids who suffer. I was just wondering what the dynamics are in “normal” mature adult relationships. " Mediation can really help where people aren't able to communicate properly. A schedule can be worked out and documented which will give him a chance to prove he can keep to it. | |||
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"Thank you for the answers thus far. For context, I do not have children. I know a split couple with two. He thinks he is being cut out and excluded. She thinks he is irresponsible and unreliable so it easier to do it herself. I think they both have valid points but communication has broken down and it’s just getting more toxic. Sadly, it’ll be the kids who suffer. I was just wondering what the dynamics are in “normal” mature adult relationships. Mediation can really help where people aren't able to communicate properly. A schedule can be worked out and documented which will give him a chance to prove he can keep to it." This has been suggested, if only they were mature and adult thanks for the advice though | |||
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