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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

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By *eckme70Man
7 weeks ago

Strabane


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

🤣🤣🤣 I know what you mean Love 🙈😘

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By *ella.Woman
7 weeks ago

Longford


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

Absolutely hate it!

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

🤣🤣🤣 I know what you mean Love 🙈😘"

You know I love you now 😘😘😘

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

Absolutely hate it!"

Thank you... I'm not alone 🤗

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By *tovenWoman
7 weeks ago

Somewhere


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

No. It's overly familiar. At least allow me to accept the advances before using a term of endearment

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
7 weeks ago

Athlone

I don't even open the message.

#Delete

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Ugh. I'd feel like an utter creep if I called anyone here any of those and meant it with any seriousness.

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By *om TangoMan
7 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe.

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
7 weeks ago

Limerick


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

Yes it really pisses me off too, had this one this am

" Any fun lately hun" 🤬🤬🤬

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By *eckme70Man
7 weeks ago

Strabane


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

🤣🤣🤣 I know what you mean Love 🙈😘

You know I love you now 😘😘😘"

Awwww that's so sweet of you 🤗😘😘😘

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
7 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe. "

Even if it will likely give her the ick?

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin


"If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe. "

This is something else 😁☺️ I meant the first message 😤😡😠

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By *HLxWoman
7 weeks ago

Belfast

Im not a fan 🤢.

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

Yes it really pisses me off too, had this one this am

" Any fun lately hun" 🤬🤬🤬"

It's ok, petal xox

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
7 weeks ago

Limerick


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off.

Yes it really pisses me off too, had this one this am

" Any fun lately hun" 🤬🤬🤬

It's ok, petal xox"

Thanks babes 😘

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
7 weeks ago

Limerick

Doesn't really bother me what people call me in a messages from here besides it's probably just easier to use terms as babe, hunny ect... In a first message.

Amy

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down

Hard pass from me

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down


"If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe. "

What about what she wants?

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By *eckme70Man
7 weeks ago

Strabane


"Hard pass from me"

What's hard to pass? 🙈🤣

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By *ozzlesMan
7 weeks ago

galway

Not a fan of any of them ever really. Probably why I'm single.

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Hard pass from me"

pm me hun xo

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By *om TangoMan
7 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe.

Even if it will likely give her the ick?"

If she expressed it give her the ick I wouldn’t say it to her

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By *om TangoMan
7 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area


"If I’ve met you and fancy you I’m calling you babe.

This is something else 😁☺️ I meant the first message 😤😡😠"

Oh I wouldn’t be doing it in a message if I’ve never met the person. No way. That’s creepy.

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By *eroLondonMan
7 weeks ago

Mayfair

If I'm already acquainted with them then I'll use "darling" sparingly, otherwise I tend to address them as "Lådyship", or "Marchioness" if I feel they are worthy of an elevated rank of peerage.

"Babes", "Sweetie", ... are not my cup of tea. 🫖

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
7 weeks ago

borderarea


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

I don't even like it when people i know use these terms- vomit inducing. But because I try to remember not everyone is a narcissist I swallow the vomit down. It will absolutely stop me from pursuing a sexual relationship with them though.

Hun is the worst of all 🤢🤢🤢🤢

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Maybe this can be considered as one of many answers to the question why women don't reply

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By *lutterFlyWoman
7 weeks ago

Near Belfast

I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave!

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave! "

Hi Eileen, love the profile & pic 🙌 x

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By *carlettlady69Woman
7 weeks ago

city

Have to say I love it ....

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Oh I think I understand now... this is a greeting from a message that is sent collectively to many women at once.... Copy paste

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
7 weeks ago

South Down


"Hard pass from me

pm me hun xo"

Already did babes xox

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
7 weeks ago

borderarea


"Maybe this can be considered as one of many answers to the question why women don't reply"

Yes 100%

I even had it in my profile for awhile not to use it and people still did. To me it's a boundary - if I have asked you not to call me by a pet nake and you go ahead and do so anyway it's a consent red flag. Very much time that people start realising that boundaries are boundaries.

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By *enitMan
7 weeks ago

Galway

Don't use them in any messages, never mind the first one!

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By *lutterFlyWoman
7 weeks ago

Near Belfast


"I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave!

Hi Eileen, love the profile & pic 🙌 x"

Thanks Peter

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By *iscuits8Man
7 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave!

Hi Eileen, love the profile & pic 🙌 x

Thanks Peter "

You're good

😭

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By *ombikerMan
7 weeks ago

the right side of the river

I used to work in the north of England and was often addressed as love or duck or something similar, for example if I was paying for something in a shop the woman at the till would say thank you luuuuuve or a similar phrase. I though nothing of it, their way of being friendly and mannerly

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
7 weeks ago

ireland


"Question for women, do you like it when strangers call you... honey, sweetie, darling, babe, sweetheart, sexy, etc. in their first messages? Maybe I'm not normal, but this really pisses me off."

Nooo ,I wouldnt say it pisses me off but its def a mood killer !

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By *ex coupleCouple
7 weeks ago

wexford

Pet hate

And hun (fucking hate it )

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By *iresmillyWoman
7 weeks ago

Dublin

Hhhhaaaaattttteeeee it

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By *lutterFlyWoman
7 weeks ago

Near Belfast


"I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave!

Hi Eileen, love the profile & pic 🙌 x

Thanks Peter

You're good

😭"

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By *eavenscentitCouple
7 weeks ago

barnstaple

NO

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By *og-ManMan
7 weeks ago

somewhere


"I just see it as laziness.

My name is on my profile and to use it shows a guy has read my profile to begin with.

A bit like a guys profile name being Joe and I send him a message saying Hi Dave!

Hi Eileen, love the profile & pic 🙌 x"

Youre thinking of the song with Eileen in the title aren't you

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
7 weeks ago

in the waves

Agree with the rest, hate it.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
7 weeks ago

Fermanagh

Hi babe honey sweetcheeks

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By *rRiosMan
7 weeks ago

dublin


"I used to work in the north of England and was often addressed as love or duck or something similar, for example if I was paying for something in a shop the woman at the till would say thank you luuuuuve or a similar phrase. I though nothing of it, their way of being friendly and mannerly "

You’re a bloke, you’re opinion doesn’t matter here *runs*

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By *rown Prism OP   Woman
7 weeks ago

Dublin


"I used to work in the north of England and was often addressed as love or duck or something similar, for example if I was paying for something in a shop the woman at the till would say thank you luuuuuve or a similar phrase. I though nothing of it, their way of being friendly and mannerly

You’re a bloke, you’re opinion doesn’t matter here *runs* "

Thank you 🤣🤣🤣

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