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"This puts me off too. It makes me feel they're having a brag on their profile and I always question if the women consented to having their pics put up there. If I click on a man's pics it's to see pics of the man, not other people. I would have thought that's quite basic logic. I wonder would it put men off if they were to click on a woman's profile pics and it was full of men with just bits of the woman in it? " I don’t think anything would put off some people on fab 
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"Proves they've done the sex, innit? You know what I love more though? When I get messages from men and they thoughtfully attach a photo/photos of themselves inside the orifices of a woman/multiple women. That really sets my fanny a-flutter" Such a thoughtful gesture  | |||
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"Proves they've done the sex, innit" The sexy sex with the sexy sexers? | |||
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"On a more serious note, every time I come across a photo on a profile which has a recognisable photo of someone other than the profile owner in it, where it looks like the photo has been taken covertly and without the consent of the other party/parties, or where the profile owner isn't in the photo at all, I report it. " I've seen some where a woman has her back to the photographer with a towel on her head straight from the shower...there's no way she even knows that the picture has been taken | |||
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"On a more serious note, every time I come across a photo on a profile which has a recognisable photo of someone other than the profile owner in it, where it looks like the photo has been taken covertly and without the consent of the other party/parties, or where the profile owner isn't in the photo at all, I report it. " Good!! People get away with too much of that I should also | |||
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"Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off. "Maybe they feel it validates them to other people. I do wonder if they get consent to post | |||
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I am seeing a lot of single male profile pics that could easily pass as a single female or a couples profile, as it's predominantly a woman with maybe some random hand in a corner.
In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos, which goes some way to alleviate consent issues that we're all becoming more acutely aware of.
I'm a little concerned with unverified profiles with photos of other people.
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left" This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??" I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen. | |||
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"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos…" It would certainly help with your nosiness | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen." It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection | |||
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"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos… It would certainly help with your nosiness "Exactly! I don't have time for guess who 😂 | |||
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"That bugs me too OP. In fact, I feel graphic public profile photos in general are a bit crass and unnecessary. I think a public profile is a bit like a menu outside a restaurant. It should encourage curiosity rather than repulsion. Photos (and bio!) should suggest and entice. Sure, the real xxx-rated stuff can be hot as hell, but save it for friends only content and only by consent (preferably photo tagged as well). Simply serving it up publicly for all to see is off-putting be it a male or female profile. The only exception I find is a couples profile where it's quite obvious from the photos that they both enjoy sharing well-posed gorgeous images." I think fab would be boring if that were to happen. Everything has it's place. And I like a bit of filth ☺️ | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen. It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection" I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen. It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved " I tried also but again was told I have to use a laptop instead of a phone or tablet | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen. It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved " I volunteered from a phone, told it had to be a laptop, volunteered from a laptop and told I had been too bold on the forum to be considered (paraphrasing) | |||
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"Hate this. I always report. I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left This is very rarely the case. The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved?? I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen. It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved I volunteered from a phone, told it had to be a laptop, volunteered from a laptop and told I had been too bold on the forum to be considered (paraphrasing) "Probably would have ruled me out if I got that far | |||
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"Tbf the rejects group is shaping up nicely "Sure if they're taking forum bans into consideration I'm probably as well off applying to be a brain surgeon than a Fab photo mod | |||
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"Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off. "Exactly what I've been wondering all along! It especially turns me off when I can see more of her than him! Women's bodies are perfectly beautiful, but I'm straight and want to look at male bodies | |||
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"...I wonder would it put men off if they were to click on a woman's profile pics and it was full of men with just bits of the woman in it? " • Yes, it would absolutely put me off, and in fact it does when I often come across and peruse a woman's profile. I know she's a woman and I'm well aware that she's going to meet people, but I don't need to see ingloriously crass images of her engaged in sex. I want the allure, the mystique and her playful coyness to come across on her profile and NOT the bodily fluids of her partner. | |||
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"Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off. "I dislike it so I agree fully here. Complete turn off | |||
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"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos… It would certainly help with your nosiness
Exactly! I don't have time for guess who 😂"Well, if you want to see who’s in my photos hmu | |||
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"A simple way around this is for the woman to be tagged in the photo. This way it can (hopefully) show they are fab members and show consent for them to appear in a man's profile. Personally I don't think fab admin show allow a single unverified man to show photos of another woman on his profile. I am 100% sure that there is many a woman unaware that she is being flaunted in this way online." Yep. It's a pretty simple fix. Only accounts that are photo and meet verified should be able to post photos that include others who are also photo and meet verified and they must use a tag. We might see some changes like that coming with the new laws in the uk. | |||
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"Sometimes theres not even a man in the pictures " Was about to say this. We just block said profiles Misses | |||
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"I was thinking it’s my old age now, or perimenopause and I’ll be complaining about any little thing that rubs me the wrong way…" We will have to find someone that runs you the right way then | |||
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"I'm wondering if the "single" women will also tag the guys fucking them in their videos or cum dripping pussy pics? Just to add some balance here "It's already been mentioned several times | |||
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"I'm wondering if the "single" women will also tag the guys fucking them in their videos or cum dripping pussy pics? Just to add some balance here
It's already been mentioned several times "Sorry, didn't read whole thread. | |||
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"Huge turn off for me. Don’t get the logic behind it. Caz" Well you have pic with you sucking huge cock! What’s the difference? And on top of it your front page you are in sandwich with men! So what’s the huge turn off? | |||
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"I was thinking it’s my old age now, or perimenopause and I’ll be complaining about any little thing that rubs me the wrong way…" Same I'm a moany old bitch. Sometimes you have to let it all out 🤣 | |||
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"It’s to prove that they’re not a virgin or have at least been in the vicinity of a naked person, or have been touched by one, nothing more. Maybe ladies don’t look at other ladies profiles as much as men’s ,but there is absolutely no shortage of men appearing in single ladies profiles. Although I appreciate, most men appearing in single ladies profiles couldn’t possibly be unaware of a camera being present, but that’s not to say they are aware they were going to be posted. Having said that, I think ladies are much more likely to also include names of participants on posted pictures. Sure the wimen are always askin for a picture with me shlong, plagued with it I am….🙄 Personally I doesn’t bother me as long as all parties involved are aware, if I feel this isn’t the case I’m unlikely to be interacting with them. Should only pictures of people on fab be allowed, and everyone involved must give approval?" It's mens profiles basically more of womans parts showing than the actual man himself who owns the profile | |||
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"Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off. "Just look at my profile then if you’re looking for a male… not a female to be seen 🤷♂️🤦♂️😂 | |||
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"I find it a real turn off to see this on singles profiles and I normally don't even proceed any further at that point. Its stated in our profile as a dislike, that's how much I hate it. There's no way of checking did the woman consent to having the pic uploaded either. " You hate it more than me
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