FabSwingers.com forum: Why do some single men have females in their personal pics

By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off.

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

Sometimes theres not even a man in the pictures

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By *lueLotusWoman
10 weeks ago

the wilderness

This puts me off too. It makes me feel they're having a brag on their profile and I always question if the women consented to having their pics put up there.

If I click on a man's pics it's to see pics of the man, not other people. I would have thought that's quite basic logic.

I wonder would it put men off if they were to click on a woman's profile pics and it was full of men with just bits of the woman in it?

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By *arquisDeSadeCouple
10 weeks ago

Huge turn off for me. Don’t get the logic behind it. Caz

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By *iablo soloWoman
10 weeks ago

southside

Yes. I hate this too...

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

Proves they've done the sex, innit?

You know what I love more though? When I get messages from men and they thoughtfully attach a photo/photos of themselves inside the orifices of a woman/multiple women. That really sets my fanny a-flutter

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

"This puts me off too. It makes me feel they're having a brag on their profile and I always question if the women consented to having their pics put up there.

If I click on a man's pics it's to see pics of the man, not other people. I would have thought that's quite basic logic.

I wonder would it put men off if they were to click on a woman's profile pics and it was full of men with just bits of the woman in it? "

I don’t think anything would put off some people on fab

However if I added loads of cock pics to mine I may see less messages

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

"Proves they've done the sex, innit?

Such a thoughtful gesture

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By *rRiosMan
10 weeks ago

dublin

"Proves they've done the sex, innit"

The sexy sex with the sexy sexers?

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

On a more serious note, every time I come across a photo on a profile which has a recognisable photo of someone other than the profile owner in it, where it looks like the photo has been taken covertly and without the consent of the other party/parties, or where the profile owner isn't in the photo at all, I report it.

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

"On a more serious note, every time I come across a photo on a profile which has a recognisable photo of someone other than the profile owner in it, where it looks like the photo has been taken covertly and without the consent of the other party/parties, or where the profile owner isn't in the photo at all, I report it. "

I've seen some where a woman has her back to the photographer with a towel on her head straight from the shower...there's no way she even knows that the picture has been taken

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

Good!! People get away with too much of that

I should also

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By *BantsMan
10 weeks ago

Mayo for now

"Ok so this bugs me. I don’t know why. I click on a single male profile and the photos are mostly of a females body part with part of him in it. Does this appeal to the average straight woman? I am bisexual so more into women. But when I want to look at a straight male profile and I see this I am instantly turned off.

Maybe they feel it validates them to other people. I do wonder if they get consent to post

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By *tsjustme_69Man
10 weeks ago

letterkenny

I have seen a few like this. Although I’m straight and I have also seen this on females profiles I understand where you are coming from. One or two profiles I knew the people and they are a couple but have separate profiles and not a couples profile which makes sense. But as for the ones that are not in couples I’m not sure 🤔

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
10 weeks ago

City Centre

I'm a visual and an imaginative person and I really enjoy good photos that can convey a man's mood, their personality or their fun side. Looking at single males with other women doesn't do anything sexually for me and I do wonder if men may feel the same about single female profiles. I just end up being nosey about who they are, rather than admiring the subject matter.

I am seeing a lot of single male profile pics that could easily pass as a single female or a couples profile, as it's predominantly a woman with maybe some random hand in a corner.

In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos, which goes some way to alleviate consent issues that we're all becoming more acutely aware of.

I'm a little concerned with unverified profiles with photos of other people.

Some love a good action shot and I do enjoy them too, I just love being in the action

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By *om TangoMan
10 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’ve a few pictures I’d like to create to post on my profile. Yes in these pictures it would include a female but not x-rated or body parts showing. More so pictures of me cuddling a lady and giving some aftercare. To me in my head it’s a way of showing others that time with me isn’t all about fucking and I’m capable of showing respect and care to the lady. I’ve a few sample pictures I’ve seen on Twitter. These are not my pictures so I’d never use them on my profile. As for men having pictures of them fucking or showing other lady’s body parts I think is wrong.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

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By *affa31Woman
10 weeks ago

Galway

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left"

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

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By *ednuts101Man
10 weeks ago

Here

It's to show how great they are and that they can get women so of course they must be a trustworthy sex god lol

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??"

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen.

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By *rRiosMan
10 weeks ago

dublin

"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos…"

It would certainly help with your nosiness

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

It wouldnt take much coding to allow for singles profiles with a duo or more pics to show confirmed consent from the other persons profile in the picture and still remain annoymous if prefered. Could be confirmed to tge site with a coloured tick/ thumbs up etc. That way admins can bulk delete all non consented pics.

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By *affa31Woman
10 weeks ago

Galway

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen."

It happens too often for it to be just human error. I’ve been a pic mod on another site and honestly, I really don’t think the pics here get checked, or at least it’s only a spot check. If a profile is male and the pic is a female body part, that’s a quick rejection

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By *omanic400Man
10 weeks ago

West Cork

It happens on both male and female accounts to be fair….

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By *rnicaMan
10 weeks ago

The Great Outdoors

That bugs me too OP. In fact, I feel graphic public profile photos in general are a bit crass and unnecessary.

I think a public profile is a bit like a menu outside a restaurant. It should encourage curiosity rather than repulsion. Photos (and bio!) should suggest and entice.

Sure, the real xxx-rated stuff can be hot as hell, but save it for friends only content and only by consent (preferably photo tagged as well). Simply serving it up publicly for all to see is off-putting be it a male or female profile.

The only exception I find is a couples profile where it's quite obvious from the photos that they both enjoy sharing well-posed gorgeous images.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
10 weeks ago

City Centre

"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos…

It would certainly help with your nosiness

Exactly! I don't have time for guess who 😂

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
10 weeks ago

City Centre

"That bugs me too OP. In fact, I feel graphic public profile photos in general are a bit crass and unnecessary.

I think a public profile is a bit like a menu outside a restaurant. It should encourage curiosity rather than repulsion. Photos (and bio!) should suggest and entice.

The only exception I find is a couples profile where it's quite obvious from the photos that they both enjoy sharing well-posed gorgeous images."

I think fab would be boring if that were to happen. Everything has it's place.

And I like a bit of filth ☺️

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen.

I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen.

I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved "

I tried also but again was told I have to use a laptop instead of a phone or tablet

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By *affa31Woman
10 weeks ago

Galway

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen.

I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved "

I volunteered from a phone, told it had to be a laptop, volunteered from a laptop and told I had been too bold on the forum to be considered (paraphrasing)

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

"Hate this. I always report.

I usually assume it was a couples profile once upon a time and admin downgraded it to a single male profile when the female left

This is very rarely the case.

The bigger question for me is why do the pic mods approve them in the first place? The focus of the pic should match the type of account so if the pic is 95% a woman, why is it approved??

I usually put that down to human error - with the volume of photos uploaded mistakes will happen.

I have thought about volunteering to be a photo mod here but you can't do it if only using a phone. I'd like to see what's involved

I volunteered from a phone, told it had to be a laptop, volunteered from a laptop and told I had been too bold on the forum to be considered (paraphrasing)

Probably would have ruled me out if I got that far

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

They didn't want me either. Don't blame em honestly

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

I think it might have been my April's fools day joke that backfired on me

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By *affa31Woman
10 weeks ago

Galway

Tbf the rejects group is shaping up nicely

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

(Photo) Avengers Assemble

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By *iscuits8Man
10 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"Tbf the rejects group is shaping up nicely

Sure if they're taking forum bans into consideration I'm probably as well off applying to be a brain surgeon than a Fab photo mod

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By *chochamberWoman
10 weeks ago

Munster

"Down with that sort of thing"

"careful now"

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By *tovenWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere

Exactly what I've been wondering all along! It especially turns me off when I can see more of her than him! Women's bodies are perfectly beautiful, but I'm straight and want to look at male bodies

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By *eroLondonMan
10 weeks ago

Covent Garden

"...I wonder would it put men off if they were to click on a woman's profile pics and it was full of men with just bits of the woman in it? "

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Yes, it would absolutely put me off, and in fact it does when I often come across and peruse a woman's profile.

I know she's a woman and I'm well aware that she's going to meet people, but I don't need to see ingloriously crass images of her engaged in sex. I want the allure, the mystique and her playful coyness to come across on her profile and NOT the bodily fluids of her partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

I dislike it so I agree fully here. Complete turn off

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By *rRiosMan
10 weeks ago

dublin

"In my view, positive etiquette for any type of profile, would be to tag the other person in any photos…

It would certainly help with your nosiness

Exactly! I don't have time for guess who 😂"

Well, if you want to see who’s in my photos hmu

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
10 weeks ago

borderarea

I really dislike it - however because I dislike it if I have given permission I always ask that my name is added to the photo so people know I have given permission and OK with it.

No problem with sensual shots but sexual ones are a complete no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

A simple way around this is for the woman to be tagged in the photo. This way it can (hopefully) show they are fab members and show consent for them to appear in a man's profile. Personally I don't think fab admin show allow a single unverified man to show photos of another woman on his profile. I am 100% sure that there is many a woman unaware that she is being flaunted in this way online.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Also a woman in a single man's profile does not impress me one bit. It's more of a turn off to be honest.

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By *electableicecreamMan
10 weeks ago

The West

"A simple way around this is for the woman to be tagged in the photo. This way it can (hopefully) show they are fab members and show consent for them to appear in a man's profile. Personally I don't think fab admin show allow a single unverified man to show photos of another woman on his profile. I am 100% sure that there is many a woman unaware that she is being flaunted in this way online."

Yep. It's a pretty simple fix. Only accounts that are photo and meet verified should be able to post photos that include others who are also photo and meet verified and they must use a tag.

We might see some changes like that coming with the new laws in the uk.

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By *aughty MilfCouple
10 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

There are Men profiles to claiming there couples and yet only males pics

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
10 weeks ago

City Centre

"Sometimes theres not even a man in the pictures "

Was about to say this. We just block said profiles

Misses

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By *eekyNerdMan
10 weeks ago

Portarlington

I find it weird too, and I'm a guy.

Couples profiles, all good, you would expect it.

I think it's a weird peacock thing, HEYLOOKATME shit or maybe it a secret kink? Who knows?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

It really puts me off if there are just a few cock pics and then lots showing how he is able to stick it into someone. Sometimes there are more of the women than the man.

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

Well I’m glad to hear I’m not the only lady that is bothered by this.. I saw my first message..clicked on the profile pic just now and Ta Da!! A ladies ass and 1/8th of a cock

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By *aughty MilfCouple
10 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

Do profiles like that think they will get much interest - seriously like

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

I was thinking it’s my old age now, or perimenopause and I’ll be complaining about any little thing that rubs me the wrong way…

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By *BantsMan
10 weeks ago

Mayo for now

"I was thinking it’s my old age now, or perimenopause and I’ll be complaining about any little thing that rubs me the wrong way…"

We will have to find someone that runs you the right way then

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
10 weeks ago

La La Land

Oh I can find that myself don’t need any help there - also not looking

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By *dfabMan
10 weeks ago

Dunboyne

I'm wondering if the "single" women will also tag the guys fucking them in their videos or cum dripping pussy pics?

Just to add some balance here

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

"I'm wondering if the "single" women will also tag the guys fucking them in their videos or cum dripping pussy pics?

Just to add some balance here

It's already been mentioned several times

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By *dfabMan
10 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"I'm wondering if the "single" women will also tag the guys fucking them in their videos or cum dripping pussy pics?

Just to add some balance here

It's already been mentioned several times "

Sorry, didn't read whole thread.

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By *indenMan
10 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

It’s to prove that they’re not a virgin or have at least been in the vicinity of a naked person, or have been touched by one, nothing more.

Maybe ladies don’t look at other ladies profiles as much as men’s ,but there is absolutely no shortage of men appearing in single ladies profiles.

Although I appreciate, most men appearing in single ladies profiles couldn’t possibly be unaware of a camera being present, but that’s not to say they are aware they were going to be posted.

Having said that, I think ladies are much more likely to also include names of participants on posted pictures.

Sure the wimen are always askin for a picture with me shlong, plagued with it I am….🙄

Personally I doesn’t bother me as long as all parties involved are aware, if I feel this isn’t the case I’m unlikely to be interacting with them.

Should only pictures of people on fab be allowed, and everyone involved must give approval?

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By *ellinixxMan
10 weeks ago

Kildare

"Huge turn off for me. Don’t get the logic behind it. Caz"

Well you have pic with you sucking huge cock! What’s the difference? And on top of it your front page you are in sandwich with men!

So what’s the huge turn off?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
10 weeks ago

Castlebar

"I was thinking it’s my old age now, or perimenopause and I’ll be complaining about any little thing that rubs me the wrong way…"

Same

I'm a moany old bitch. Sometimes you have to let it all out 🤣

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By *eus17Man
10 weeks ago

belfast

I had a single profile here few years back with few pics of me with my at the time fwb girl who is very attractive,she was happy to be here and my profile got alot of attention,lots of msgs,meets,offers and lots single women. This time around as a totally single man profile with no shared female pix is a diff story lol,i have no success at all so if i find a girl who will join me here then im defo putting up shared pics 😁

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By *aughty MilfCouple
10 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

"It’s to prove that they’re not a virgin or have at least been in the vicinity of a naked person, or have been touched by one, nothing more.

Maybe ladies don’t look at other ladies profiles as much as men’s ,but there is absolutely no shortage of men appearing in single ladies profiles.

Although I appreciate, most men appearing in single ladies profiles couldn’t possibly be unaware of a camera being present, but that’s not to say they are aware they were going to be posted.

Having said that, I think ladies are much more likely to also include names of participants on posted pictures.

Sure the wimen are always askin for a picture with me shlong, plagued with it I am….🙄

Personally I doesn’t bother me as long as all parties involved are aware, if I feel this isn’t the case I’m unlikely to be interacting with them.

Should only pictures of people on fab be allowed, and everyone involved must give approval?"
It's mens profiles basically more of womans parts showing than the actual man himself who owns the profile

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By *rad25irlMan
10 weeks ago

Carrigaline

Just look at my profile then if you’re looking for a male… not a female to be seen 🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️😂

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
10 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

I find it a real turn off to see this on singles profiles and I normally don't even proceed any further at that point.

Its stated in our profile as a dislike, that's how much I hate it.

There's no way of checking did the woman consent to having the pic uploaded either.

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By *owwow909 OP Woman
9 weeks ago

La La Land

"I find it a real turn off to see this on singles profiles and I normally don't even proceed any further at that point.

Its stated in our profile as a dislike, that's how much I hate it.

There's no way of checking did the woman consent to having the pic uploaded either. "

You hate it more than me

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By *lmost_ThereMan
9 weeks ago

Dublin

Hmm I see in the first...half well say at least one poster saying they hate it, while also having videos of them being DP'd ah fab and the double standards.

I always wondered about this did women like seeing men with other women on their profiles. Lots of women and couples have it. I'm on the fence I do and don't like it, but seen as there is a infinite tide of men here woman and couples can put literally anything up and always have 100 people looking to meet up.

At least from here it seems better not to have lady's on a single male profile as I thought. But the demographic here might not be representative. 🤷

Also as one user said leave a tag function for consent. But then I guess only members, and active ones can be verified.

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