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By *TinyDelight- OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

City Centre

So, he's made a statement saying he's had a baby girl outside of his marriage and is working on regaining his wife and family's trust and earning their forgiveness.

I'm all for forgiveness but would this be something you couldn't forgive?

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By *eter987200Man
8 weeks ago

Tallaght

I don't think it is something that would ever be forgiven. I think the best he could hope for with this situation is that it is accepted and that they are willing to move forward.

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By *avid for comfortMan
8 weeks ago

belfast

Yes we can all make mistakes regarding our family's . It will be hard but I think they will work through it. He has made it public will the acceptance of his family.

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By *chochamberWoman
8 weeks ago

Munster

I ld say it's pretty likely the wife knew he played around.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
8 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

I feel trust can be regained after disloyalty. It takes work though

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By *eroLondonMan
8 weeks ago

Mayfair


"I ld say it's pretty likely the wife knew he played around. "

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I would agree.

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By *apmCouple
8 weeks ago

navan

It’s nobody’s business but theirs. I’d be more concerned about his AIDS denialism.

“ This heroic refusal to look back would seem to include not looking back upon his band’s very public support for Alive and Well AIDS Alternatives, an AIDS denial group that argued HIV did not cause AIDS — and that HIV was, in fact, harmless and non-contagious. Alive and Well argued that AIDS was likely caused by recreational drug use and/or the very antiretroviral drugs used to treat HIV patients, and as such it discouraged people from taking HIV tests, practicing safe sex, or, for those living with HIV, accepting medication.”

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By *essTTWoman
8 weeks ago

Birmingham


"So, he's made a statement saying he's had a baby girl outside of his marriage and is working on regaining his wife and family's trust and earning their forgiveness.

I'm all for forgiveness but would this be something you couldn't forgive?"

Absolutely not

Not only did he cheat, he did so unprotected, put his wife's health at risk.

I feel for his whole family tbh what a horrible situation to be in

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By *panishRebelMan
8 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"It’s nobody’s business but theirs. I’d be more concerned about his AIDS denialism.

“ This heroic refusal to look back would seem to include not looking back upon his band’s very public support for Alive and Well AIDS Alternatives, an AIDS denial group that argued HIV did not cause AIDS — and that HIV was, in fact, harmless and non-contagious. Alive and Well argued that AIDS was likely caused by recreational drug use and/or the very antiretroviral drugs used to treat HIV patients, and as such it discouraged people from taking HIV tests, practicing safe sex, or, for those living with HIV, accepting medication.”"

The mind boggles....I hope you are misinformed...but I suspect not. I never cease to be amazed at the efforts that go into denials.

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By *apmCouple
8 weeks ago

navan

Unfortunately not - there’s an article on medium_dot_com about it

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By *rialbyfire1235Man
8 weeks ago

South KK

When you’ve had enough children, get the snip. This is gonna be an expensive lesson, even for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago


"So, he's made a statement saying he's had a baby girl outside of his marriage and is working on regaining his wife and family's trust and earning their forgiveness.

I'm all for forgiveness but would this be something you couldn't forgive?"

Nope ,no forgiveness from me in this , cheating is a decision, he knew exactly what he was doing when he was doing it , what if the girl he fucked never got pregnant, would he come out & say he fucked another girl ?...of course not , he'd pretend nothing ever happened & go on playing happy families, cheating is a decision, am totally non judgemental, l'm only answering the OP's question.

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By *rutus83Man
8 weeks ago

naas


"So, he's made a statement saying he's had a baby girl outside of his marriage and is working on regaining his wife and family's trust and earning their forgiveness.

I'm all for forgiveness but would this be something you couldn't forgive?"

If your wife got pregnant by another man would you be able to forgive her. I know I wouldn't forgive any cheating what so ever and put a pregnancy in the mix. It would be a fuck no. So if I was him I wouldn't expect her to forgive me after having a baby with someone else.

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By *TinyDelight- OP   Woman
8 weeks ago

City Centre


"When you’ve had enough children, get the snip. This is gonna be an expensive lesson, even for him."

I did wonder why he hadn't had a vasectomy, regardless if their marriage was open or not. I guess he wasn't done spreading his seed.

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By *amsevenMan
8 weeks ago

cork

I would never forgive anyone for cheating, unless they were in nirvana 😁

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By *og-ManMan
8 weeks ago

somewhere

Just on a personal level it must have caused so much hurt and pain for everyone involved

I remember looking at him one night on Graham Norton talking about his daughter getting piano lessons off Paul McCartney and I was thinking it must be a great family the way he spoke about them

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By *chochamberWoman
8 weeks ago

Munster

I ld say she doesn't give a crap, there is plenty of money to cater for all of them. If she divorced him, she ld be a very wealthy woman. Surely he ll get the snip now, money and power corrupt.

Better to have one more than one less.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

South Down


"When you’ve had enough children, get the snip. This is gonna be an expensive lesson, even for him.

I did wonder why he hadn't had a vasectomy, regardless if their marriage was open or not. I guess he wasn't done spreading his seed. "

Countless men choose to not have a vasectomy. I'm sure there are many reasons for that decision beyond not being done spreading their seed.

As for the original question, I wouldn't know if I could forgive that or not unless I was in that position.

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By *panishRebelMan
8 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

That's a cynical view.....and you might be at least half right

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By *BantsMan
8 weeks ago

Mayo for now


"So, he's made a statement saying he's had a baby girl outside of his marriage and is working on regaining his wife and family's trust and earning their forgiveness.

I'm all for forgiveness but would this be something you couldn't forgive?"

Everyone makes a mistake, but a child is a constant reminder. Compared to many at least he going to try to be there for the child

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