FabSwingers.com forum: Second chance ?

By *eeisback OP Man
8 weeks ago

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Should people on ere be given a second chance if they fuck up the once?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
8 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

That depends on what the did

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By *elloMarylouWoman
8 weeks ago

mayo

Depends what they did.

If I get stood up with no contact no second chance

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
8 weeks ago

South Down

It very much depends on the who, how and why

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By *ealitybitesMan
8 weeks ago

Belfast

Some people I would give a third chance, others wouldn't even get a first.

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By *weethomeWoman
8 weeks ago

Cork

Depends why it ended and how long has passed since you last seen them. Personally I wouldn't.

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By *onewolf84Man
8 weeks ago

North cork

It all depends on the situation your in and how sincere you are about apologise for it.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
8 weeks ago

Portstewart

Depends on the individual and the reason for said fuck up. If it was something out of there control then certainly we would try and arrange something else but if it was a bad reason they did then no no second chance

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By *s LollyWoman
8 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Exactly what was said above depends on the situation ye can't just say yes or no without knowing more......

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
8 weeks ago

Portstewart

"Exactly what was said above depends on the situation ye can't just say yes or no without knowing more......"

Great minds think alike miss lolly

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
8 weeks ago

kinkytown

We use to but too many fucked it up again so we do zero tolerance

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By *asuallyChilledMan
8 weeks ago

Drogheda

I posted a location on a thread. No idea it was a no no. Total fuck up.

Pretty sure I was forgiven 😄

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By *ublinguy83Man
8 weeks ago

south dublin

"We use to but too many fucked it up again so we do zero tolerance "

Well said.

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By *aid backMan
8 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

I tend not to do 2nd chances sure when I was hosting events some people didn't even get 1st chances because of something I saw on the forums 🤣.

In my real life away from fab I also have a zero tolerance, I've cut life long friends out of my life and never spoke to them again that was 20 odd years ago

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By *exyScientistsCouple
8 weeks ago

Castlebar

I do give second chances if I get a message to cancel and I believe them. Real life should take priority so depends on the circumstances.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
8 weeks ago

mayo

As I've got older I've less tolerance for bullshit, two faced people, drama.

I'm at a stage lifes too short, I let too many people in to my life who only used me for what they needed.

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
8 weeks ago

Athlone

No.

We teach people how to treat us.

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By *ozzlesMan
8 weeks ago

galway

I'm not the type to cut my nose off to spite my face. No issue with giving people a fair crack of the whip ( no pun intended) second time around if the circumstances suggest it's in my interest.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
8 weeks ago

City Centre

"Should people on ere be given a second chance if they fuck up the once? "

Fuck up as in let someone down in meeting them?

Depends if there was notice. Was the person left high and dry waiting for them alone? Was the other person left out of pocket in any way? Did they ghost the person? If it's a yes to any of those, I wouldn't give them a second chance, never mind the time of day.

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By *eitherMan
8 weeks ago

Musselburgh

I hurt someone I really care about just by saying the wrong thing at a time when I knew they were going through a rough period.

I wish I could take it back and I hope she gives me a second chance.

It's not always about missing meetings

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By *nA101Couple
8 weeks ago

limerick

I have given second chances for them to do the same thing 2 weeks later...after that I'm done, whether it's plans cancelled, nasty msgs out of jealousy or seemed to do something to purposely hurt me...your second chance is your last...you won't exist to me after that.

Mrs

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
8 weeks ago

Home

Newbies on here should be given a second chance if they feck up on the forums or in a message.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
8 weeks ago

ferrybank

There's not a person in the world that hasn't seriously fucked up at several times in their lives including me (MR)

So yes give the benefit of the the doubt at times.

If you make a habit of it with the same person then no.

So yes a second chance is merited.

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By *he KakapoMan
8 weeks ago

A nice rock

I have a zero tolerance for posts that give such a vague outline of a scenario or situation

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By *astelloWoman
8 weeks ago

Far far away

Depending upon scenario.

I tend to forgive though. Maybe l try not to carry resentment around with me. I'm sure I've pissed people off too. Maybe I'm hoping that charity will be reciprocal.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
8 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Come on FFS tell us what you did

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By *ofusplusCouple
8 weeks ago

Limerick

"There's not a person in the world that hasn't seriously fucked up at several times in their lives including me (MR)

So yes give the benefit of the the doubt at times.

If you make a habit of it with the same person then no.

So yes a second chance is merited.

Not too sure about that

Sometimes mistakes can never be forgiven. Reminds me of the woman who married the rapist. She said he'd made a 'mistake'.

There are 'mistakes' and then there are MISTAKES

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By *chochamberWoman
8 weeks ago

Munster

It depends on what their actions reveal about them, and if they take ownership or try to avoid accountability.

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By (user no longer on site)
8 weeks ago

Would it not be effected by how attracted to the person you are, the higher the attraction the greater the scope for forgiveness only caveat is the normal exclusions of crimes against the person

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