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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" Miopia . . . | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" I think it's even sadder that this "technique" must work on some women or surely the dic pic brigade wouldn't keep doing it?? | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks" True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore" But this is a very bad way, a real man is persistent 😂😉😁 | |||
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"In my opinion...Men have a bad idea of what interests women, it really doesn't work as an incentive. Rather the opposite. Most men think that women are sexually aroused by this. Of course, in the case of most women this is not true. And the second thing, men are excibionists, it turns them on." every thing that you said is so true and plus that porn it had create a bad image in mans brain!!!! | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore But this is a very bad way, a real man is persistent 😂😉😁" Really in this day and age with what men are being told you think they should still be persistent? | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore" Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore But this is a very bad way, a real man is persistent 😂😉😁 Really in this day and age with what men are being told you think they should still be persistent?" Always.... And patient I must add 🤣🤣🤣 | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x" In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore But this is a very bad way, a real man is persistent 😂😉😁 Really in this day and age with what men are being told you think they should still be persistent? Always.... And patient I must add 🤣🤣🤣" Yea to be friendzoned to hell hahaha | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it" Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return" You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site | |||
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Women get a million messages and do not have the time to answer everyone.
No answer IS an answer no matter how harsh that is. C'est la vie!
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site" So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks?" 'some men' | |||
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"Persistence does not pay off..if I havent answered your 10th message to me do you not get the hint I am not interested..
Women get a million messages and do not have the time to answer everyone.
No answer IS an answer no matter how harsh that is. C'est la vie!
B x"I agree with you on that, it’s the frustrating situation of a lot of guys not understanding or accepting that | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site" Nail on the head there...effort!! There are so many amazing single guys on here that make the effort and do extremely well for themselves! B x | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks?" Of Course they do but they will at first try to go for the women they fancy and over time as they give up will just message everyone | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men'" Thank you for your honest answer, I appreciate it | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men'" Nicely put | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site Nail on the head there...effort!! There are so many amazing single guys on here that make the effort and do extremely well for themselves! B x" I agree, I’m only back in myself and was part of a couple for year but before that I was here as a single man and I put the effort in and never had any issues here, made loads of wonderful and sexy friends | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put" So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind" Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding" I am actually trying to understand... | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand..." Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand | |||
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"I’ve been here a while now and yes the site frustrates me from time to time, I don’t get replies to most of the messages I send and I can honestly say the thought of sending a dick pic has never crossed my mind. Even on the forum threads where we’re asked to share them I wouldn’t. " Good man yourself but no harm in shareing it if you are asked, that’s my rule, never send a dick pic unless it is specifically asked for and yes it is frustrating at time hahah | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand " I'm afraid that no one will let me do that. | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand I'm afraid that no one will let me do that." Are you afraid to ask in case they say no because I’m pretty sure most guys like that would let you do it down to the simple fact your talking to them haha | |||
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"I’ve been here a while now and yes the site frustrates me from time to time, I don’t get replies to most of the messages I send and I can honestly say the thought of sending a dick pic has never crossed my mind. Even on the forum threads where we’re asked to share them I wouldn’t. " Yes it is frustrating, I can imagine! But considering the amount of men compaired to women on this site understandable... Saying that look at your profile.. a great example of a profile which has made a huge effort...great pics and bio and you can see your personality from it. New single guys ask me all the time...what am I doing wrong, how can I improve my profile and I point them in the direction of the profiles that in my opinion stand out and as a result do well... That and advise them to get to a social 
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand I'm afraid that no one will let me do that. Are you afraid to ask in case they say no because I’m pretty sure most guys like that would let you do it down to the simple fact your talking to them haha" You're right... I'll ask... So you agree? Will you share your profile with me for a week? | |||
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"In my opinion...Men have a bad idea of what interests women, it really doesn't work as an incentive. Rather the opposite. Most men think that women are sexually aroused by this. Of course, in the case of most women this is not true. And the second thing, men are excibionists, it turns them on." What shocks me is seeing men in their 40s here that seemed to not have learnt how to treat a woman. I cut some slack on the ones on their 20s. But seeing you old guys with no sense of ridicule makes me sad. | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand I'm afraid that no one will let me do that. Are you afraid to ask in case they say no because I’m pretty sure most guys like that would let you do it down to the simple fact your talking to them haha You're right... I'll ask... So you agree? Will you share your profile with me for a week?" I’m not one of thos guys but my account is new so faceing all the same problems but sure shoot me a message and I’ll share it with you and give you glimp at the other side haha | |||
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"In my opinion...Men have a bad idea of what interests women, it really doesn't work as an incentive. Rather the opposite. Most men think that women are sexually aroused by this. Of course, in the case of most women this is not true. And the second thing, men are excibionists, it turns them on. What shocks me is seeing men in their 40s here that seemed to not have learnt how to treat a woman. I cut some slack on the ones on their 20s. But seeing you old guys with no sense of ridicule makes me sad." Look at it form another side, they have spent years in a relationship and most don’t know how to talk to women online, not all, some are just dick hah | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand I'm afraid that no one will let me do that. Are you afraid to ask in case they say no because I’m pretty sure most guys like that would let you do it down to the simple fact your talking to them haha You're right... I'll ask... So you agree? Will you share your profile with me for a week? I’m not one of thos guys but my account is new so faceing all the same problems but sure shoot me a message and I’ll share it with you and give you glimp at the other side haha" Thank you ...😉😘 | |||
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"Men want women to admire their cocks True to a degree but I would put it more down to not really caring anymore Not caring anymore certainly won't get you anywhere either so why even bother... B x In most cases they simply just enjoy looking at women’s body’s on the site and throw the message out in the 1/10000 shot they come across a woman that likes it Yes, hoping that they will get some photo in return You have it spot on there, most do look for that or anything to give them a bit of hope back. Don’t get me wrong, this is 100% on the men for not making the effort to get the most form this site So this confirms that a man doesn't care who they fucks? 'some men' Nicely put So those guys who send penis pictures are among them... I will always keep that in mind Those guys are just frustrated with the site and the lack of any reply’s they get and don’t know what else to do, don’t ready any more into it with most of them that pure frustration and lack of understanding I am actually trying to understand... Been on here as a man and a woman are So different it would be hard to wrap your mind around out experience, the two women who messages here bot have good pictures and good figures from what I can see so to wrap your head around it I suggest you ask one of the dick pic guys to let you have access to his profile for a week, go on there and see how it is from that side, it’s about the only way you would properly understand I'm afraid that no one will let me do that. Are you afraid to ask in case they say no because I’m pretty sure most guys like that would let you do it down to the simple fact your talking to them haha You're right... I'll ask... So you agree? Will you share your profile with me for a week? I’m not one of thos guys but my account is new so faceing all the same problems but sure shoot me a message and I’ll share it with you and give you glimp at the other side haha Thank you ...😉😘" Your very welxome | |||
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"I think it's guys sitting here jerking off and thinking with their dick brain. Sending the pic is just a part of their porn experience. I don't think they are actually expecting to meet so there are no real world consequences. Guys getting off on exposing themselves. " Yes there is guys like that but from talking to people here that’s just a small number of them | |||
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"I think it's guys sitting here jerking off and thinking with their dick brain. Sending the pic is just a part of their porn experience. I don't think they are actually expecting to meet so there are no real world consequences. Guys getting off on exposing themselves. Yes there is guys like that but from talking to people here that’s just a small number of them" To me it just indicates a lack of self worth | |||
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"Totally agree with you but probably a larger societal issue with manners seemingly not deemed essential anymore. Sickens my stomach. " Yea the whole behind the screen issue where people don’t have to feel they have to be decent, wish more people took the view that if you would not say it in person then don’t say it online | |||
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"I disagree with that sentiment if real effort has gone into sending a decent message to a lady. Common courtesy with dictate that a reply should be given. Even if it is just to say not interested. " As a single female who gets a million messages (as every single female does) it is impossible to answer every message. It would be a full time job! IF (in my experience) you do answer and say you are not interested some men persist and persist. It is SO annoying...like what part of no do you not understand? I think the stance no answer is an answer will always be the best way. I always answer the messages that interest me. That's why meeting people in a less pressured environment is much easier i.e. a social. You definitely get a better feel of a person in person ;-) B x | |||
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"I disagree with that sentiment if real effort has gone into sending a decent message to a lady. Common courtesy with dictate that a reply should be given. Even if it is just to say not interested. As a single female who gets a million messages (as every single female does) it is impossible to answer every message. It would be a full time job! IF (in my experience) you do answer and say you are not interested some men persist and persist. It is SO annoying...like what part of no do you not understand? I think the stance no answer is an answer will always be the best way. I always answer the messages that interest me. That's why meeting people in a less pressured environment is much easier i.e. a social. You definitely get a better feel of a person in person ;-) B x" I agree with you but again it goes back to the frustration, as I said eairler to the other women that most women don’t know or understand what it’s really like for single guys, same goes the other way, most guys don’t know what it’s like for single women on here, the amount of meassages they get, for example I have been back about a week being active and I think I have 4 messages in my inbox and one of them is me and my ex taking the piss out of each other for being back here | |||
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"Its not that hard. All men are horn dogs. Lol At anytime click MEN ONLINE and it will be 300+ At that same time click WOMEN ONLINE and if you are lucky it might be 70 and half of those might be on the forums. It simple maths. Men bombard women with mails here. On average they will have between 4 to 6 hundred emails unread. I have zero. Lol. " If its down to simple maths ...what still goes through a guys head that a dick pic will show their personality and stand out from all the hundreds of other dick pics that women receive?? Again back to lack of effort.... B x | |||
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"Don't get me wrong, I do realise but will never understand how much mail that you ladies receive. I also respect and accept the stance of "no response is a response". For me though as a person not looking to plough their way through the whole site, it is just frustrating when you view a profile, read the bio and I feel that there is some common ground, I find it frustrating sometimes to not even get a " No thanks" having constructed a nice mail. I even spell correctly and use proper grammar. 😂 I have learned from you ladies here today though, that I should attend socials and I will attend some now. Thank you. " See - these forum posts whilst being said in tongue and cheek can be quite useful
Plenty of amazing socials on every week and absolutely worth a shot! Best of luck with that 
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"Don't get me wrong, I do realise but will never understand how much mail that you ladies receive. I also respect and accept the stance of "no response is a response". For me though as a person not looking to plough their way through the whole site, it is just frustrating when you view a profile, read the bio and I feel that there is some common ground, I find it frustrating sometimes to not even get a " No thanks" having constructed a nice mail. I even spell correctly and use proper grammar. 😂 I have learned from you ladies here today though, that I should attend socials and I will attend some now. Thank you. " Good man yourself, the socials will give you a much better experience in this site than just messaging here | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" I don't believe I have used this tactic yet, 1. Does it work ? 2. Like what is the success rate with this tactic. | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" Never ever opened with a dick pic but does the story on how amazing it is at least have a lil entertainment value 😂😂 | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x Never ever opened with a dick pic but does the story on how amazing it is at least have a lil entertainment value 😂😂" It does make me laugh how much men ADORE their penises 🤣🤣😁 But as explained above women just do not think like that... B x | |||
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 ) none of the men I have had any connection with on here have ever sent me a dick pic..
I am not totally against dick pics (one of two tastely shot ones on your profile is fine) but sending them in an opening message no thanks!
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"My understanding is that if they have a big cock they think they can get into anyones pants with it. Rather sending a dick pic is more of an insecurity as they know that is probably the only bet to get laid as personality wise, they won’t even get a Hi from a person" Dick pics contain dicks of a variety of sizes. But it's still a dick pic | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x Never ever opened with a dick pic but does the story on how amazing it is at least have a lil entertainment value 😂😂" No. | |||
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"My understanding is that if they have a big cock they think they can get into anyones pants with it. Rather sending a dick pic is more of an insecurity as they know that is probably the only bet to get laid as personality wise, they won’t even get a Hi from a person Dick pics contain dicks of a variety of sizes. But it's still a dick pic "Agree. I do feel the insecurity part plays a huge role. I would never send a dick pic and I know mine is not big. But personality wise, I think I am way up in the league. | |||
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"Men... Your penis is just like your kids (stay with me here 😂), nobody else is even nearly as into them as you are yourself." Hahaha brillent, going to steal this one hahaha | |||
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"The poor auld phallus foto is taking quite a beating this morning. A few of the things I take from this thread are; *Unsolicited dic pics do not make you or your member stand out from the crowd. *Success on here is more down to the number of female versus male members than the size of your male member. *Forum threads are often meant to be tongue in cheek...fab should be fun but it can be frustrating. *No reply means no interest, but at least your message may have been read so take that as a positive. *Some ladies may meed to make more judicious use of the filter settings available on the site which might see them having to scroll through less messages allowing more time to reply to those that do get through. 🦡 " ***need.... | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" Do you not open those messages licking your lips and thinking....wowwwww.... All the time thinking of a suitable reply | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" some women love it. | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B xsome women love it. " But if its in a profile to say not too... I'd be looking for the ones that don't mention it. Send them then | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B xsome women love it. " Some women love an opening message full of dick pics
Yes, some women love a good dick pic but after a good conversation maybe....I am not saying no dick pics ever...
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B xsome women love it. Some women love an opening message full of dick pics
Yes, some women love a good dick pic but after a good conversation maybe....I am not saying no dick pics ever...
B x"Some women do like getting dick pics there was a very popular woman who used to post on the formums who was quite open about the fact she liked them,and there have been a few others who have said the same I've seen over the years. So while yes the majority don't I don't think a blanket statement covers everyone. And it's easy enough to just delete the message and block or make a note if you get one and don't want it. That's what I do anyhow
Some men seem to think it will turn women on but it usually doesn't happen and to be fair those that do send them in first messages shows their lack of understanding of the majority women in my eyes,so I see it as a good way to sort out those that I want to interact with on here. | |||
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".. Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 " My penis is magical I'm not sure what there is to explain 🤷♂️ | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x"
As a lad even I don't get the obsession with some lads sending dick pics left right and centre.
I don't know how single women put up with the amount of nonsense they get, it has to be so frustrating.
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"What if our penis is better than our personality? 🤔" Then you're going to be in trouble 
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"What if our penis is better than our personality? 🤔 Then you're going to be in trouble
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".. Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 My penis is magical I'm not sure what there is to explain 🤷♂️" Magical how? Like can you pull a string of knotted hankies out the end of it? Or can you pull it out of a hat? Or what | |||
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"Surely people/ladies in particular ask if they want one. I don't think anyone should feel that they have to send a pic of anything in a first message to a stranger. Some guys do send face pics and that's a risk in case you know the person. I don't even look at the dick pics and I've never asked for one, on Fab "As an aside... I'm on Libertic, the French libertine site, where everybody has a public face pic. Different culture. | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" Personally, socials work much better! I don’t send my dick pics as part of message, on the profile if she wants to see it’s there to see. Other hand I will send face pic so see if there is interest. | |||
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"Mine plays Teenage kicks on the Piano in several styles including Jazz and blues as well as the orgional as its party piece. With a lad like that sure how else would I introduce him to lady folk unless I send out Kodak gold
I used to introduce him as Brian! Funnily enough that didn't attract much attention 🙄"
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"What if our penis is better than our personality? 🤔" Jesus that's a HUGE statement to make can you back it up?
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"I only ever have 2 reactions to an unsolicited dick pic attached to an opening message: Meh 🫤 And Ewwww 😵💫 I do not understand why guys think they’re a USP. To be fair though, I also don’t understand why guys send a face pic in their first message (unless it’s asked for in the profile of the person they’re messaging, although I still don’t understand why they take that risk). " Jaffa I can kinda understand sending a face pic in first message to gauge interest but yes totally agree it's a risk! Saying that I'd prefer a face pic any day! B x | |||
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"I only ever have 2 reactions to an unsolicited dick pic attached to an opening message: Meh 🫤 And Ewwww 😵💫 I do not understand why guys think they’re a USP. To be fair though, I also don’t understand why guys send a face pic in their first message (unless it’s asked for in the profile of the person they’re messaging, although I still don’t understand why they take that risk). Jaffa I can kinda understand sending a face pic in first message to gauge interest but yes totally agree it's a risk! Saying that I'd prefer a face pic any day! B x" Face pic as an opening is way too risky! Mentioned this in a previous thread about people asking for a face pic up front or to be on your profile when they don't have one on there. | |||
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".. Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 My penis is magical I'm not sure what there is to explain 🤷♂️" If it grants wishes then feel free to send it. | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" I think a tread asking was there ever a penis so magical and aluring that women were powerless not to respond to it.? Therefore creating the idea that any penis might have this magical power over ladies.... | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x I think a tread asking was there ever a penis so magical and aluring that women were powerless not to respond to it.? Therefore creating the idea that any penis might have this magical power over ladies.... " That thread would become the shortest here | |||
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"What if our penis is better than our personality? 🤔 Jesus that's a HUGE statement to make can you back it up?
B x"Oh absolutely.  just let me know when suits for a drink and I'll gladly demonstrate how poor my personality is. | |||
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Oh absolutely. just let me know when suits for a drink and I'll gladly demonstrate how poor my personality is. "Nice try 😋😋 B x | |||
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"Nnooo.no...mine is the most magical cock on Fab. However, I rarely have put up a cock pic( even though he's magnificent), and have never sent one. I listened to a podcast this morning, and the woman admitted that what aroused her the most, was to listen to a man reading poetry to her. I might try this. Is there any woman here who feels the same?" .......... I think someone beat you to the poetic post. | |||
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Oh absolutely. just let me know when suits for a drink and I'll gladly demonstrate how poor my personality is.
Nice try 😋😋
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x" "Honestly, I’ve been wondering the same thing! 😂 Some guys must think their 'introductions' speak for themselves, but I think there’s much more to impressing someone than a photo. I'd rather get to know someone who knows how to hold a good conversation and make me laugh. 😋 What about you, B? What really catches your attention? 😉 | |||
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"The poor auld phallus foto is taking quite a beating this morning. A few of the things I take from this thread are; *Unsolicited dic pics do not make you or your member stand out from the crowd. *Success on here is more down to the number of female versus male members than the size of your male member. *Forum threads are often meant to be tongue in cheek...fab should be fun but it can be frustrating. *No reply means no interest, but at least your message may have been read so take that as a positive. *Some ladies may meed to make more judicious use of the filter settings available on the site which might see them having to scroll through less messages allowing more time to reply to those that do get through. 🦡 " I hope the pun was intended 😂 as the auld morning wood would take a beating from time to time | |||
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"Mine plays Teenage kicks on the Piano in several styles including Jazz and blues as well as the orgional as its party piece. With a lad like that sure how else would I introduce him to lady folk unless I send out Kodak gold
I used to introduce him as Brian! Funnily enough that didn't attract much attention 🙄
Such talent!!
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"I’m not one to hate a dick pic on a profile once it’s not the only one there but in an intro message….no thanks. I know they have it hard on here. And not all men. Yada, yada. But *most* don’t do themselves any favours either. Messages we got on here from single guys turned me off having an MFM as I have no degrading kink in me. Filters went on per my request! Pity - Mrs" As usual a few shits fuck things up for everyone else. | |||
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"I do wonder (after opening yet another message with a dick pic) how some guys (not all guys 😋) think that by sending a pic of their dick with a full explanation of how amazing it is entices a woman... Lads please explain!!?? 🤔😅😁 B x "Honestly, I’ve been wondering the same thing! 😂 Some guys must think their 'introductions' speak for themselves, but I think there’s much more to impressing someone than a photo. I'd rather get to know someone who knows how to hold a good conversation and make me laugh. 😋 What about you, B? What really catches your attention? 😉" Good conversation and a good laugh...someone who doesn't take themselves too seriously
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