FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons For Blocking

By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

Any thoughts on this , I've just been blocked for this

" U fucked the whole site and u didn't fuck me

Not cool

And now I don't want anymore

Thanks "

I did have to refuse a meeting once because I had a previous engagement....that's it.

Would this be considered legitimate reason for blocking?

Not that I'm concerned just find it hilarious!

And to be clear I have certainly not had the whole site lol

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
10 weeks ago

Athlone

Very interesting question!

For me it's simply the ultimate way to avoid any further timewasting for both parties.

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

I agree, clearly not a suitable fit....just the reason given had me perplexed as I thought that what the site was about lol

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By *adylaceWoman
10 weeks ago

Waterford City

I usually only block people that really piss me off but sometimes it's the only way to get people to stop messaging after I've repeatedly told the that we won't be meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Block is a good feature, its the end of contact and conversation. Dont be afraid to block and do not take it personally when blocked, it is just an easy way to stop contact.

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

"Block is a good feature, its the end of contact and conversation. Dont be afraid to block and do not take it personally when blocked, it is just an easy way to stop contact. "

Fully agree and would not take it personally as have blocked persistent messagers myself, just the reason I find funny

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Block is a good feature, its the end of contact and conversation. Dont be afraid to block and do not take it personally when blocked, it is just an easy way to stop contact.

Fully agree and would not take it personally as have blocked persistent messagers myself, just the reason I find funny "

Btw they are wrong, you never fucked me!

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By *2357Woman
10 weeks ago

clonmel tipp

Same with myself only block people who keep messaging to meet even after I have told them I am not interested in meeting

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

"Block is a good feature, its the end of contact and conversation. Dont be afraid to block and do not take it personally when blocked, it is just an easy way to stop contact.

Fully agree and would not take it personally as have blocked persistent messagers myself, just the reason I find funny

Btw they are wrong, you never fucked me!"

Damn how did I miss you hahaha

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By *chochamberWoman
10 weeks ago

Munster

The message is, "you rejected me, now I going to reject you".

Vindictiveness, let the trash dispose of itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

"Block is a good feature, its the end of contact and conversation. Dont be afraid to block and do not take it personally when blocked, it is just an easy way to stop contact.

Fully agree and would not take it personally as have blocked persistent messagers myself, just the reason I find funny

Btw they are wrong, you never fucked me!

Damn how did I miss you hahaha"

Not sure but take a shot

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By *ellothere123123Man
10 weeks ago

Visiting Cashel

When you put stuff up on your profile and get contacted by people who clearly didn’t bother to read it. An automatic block for me.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
10 weeks ago

The West

Mainlybjust for the following reasons:

Fake profiles -Blocked (although I do play along with some when bored).

Any fake photos on a profile- Blocked

Lads who message thinking they're some sort of Don Juan, dopes - Blocked.

Any insults, disrespect- Blocked

Constantly messaging without our response- Blocked

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

There is no such thing as a legitimate or illegitimate reason for blocking. Anyone can block for any reason or no reason.

There is no excuse for being rude and pointed when messaging someone though.

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By *ergalMan
10 weeks ago

East Cork

People block for what ever reason they want.

They might not like your marital status, comments/views on a thread, just not their type etc

Got blocked cause a couple thought I was talking about them on a thread last week, regarding "repeat/serial joiners" etc when i wasn't. The OP also clarified to them it wasn't their profile being talked about... #paranoia! Anyway Not bothered

If someone is constantly messaging or being abusive etc I'll block or if someone has me blocked i'll return the favour

saves us both time and seeing updates from them

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"People block for what ever reason they want.

They might not like your marital status, comments/views on a thread, just not their type etc

If someone is constantly messaging or being abusive etc I'll block or if someone has me blocked i'll return the favour

saves us both time and seeing updates from them "

The way I see it... Blocking someone youre sure you aren't gonna fuck is doing them a favour. They don't waste their time trying and get to concentrate on wooing someone else who might!

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By *ergalMan
10 weeks ago

East Cork

"People block for what ever reason they want.

They might not like your marital status, comments/views on a thread, just not their type etc

If someone is constantly messaging or being abusive etc I'll block or if someone has me blocked i'll return the favour

saves us both time and seeing updates from them

The way I see it... Blocking someone youre sure you aren't gonna fuck is doing them a favour. They don't waste their time trying and get to concentrate on wooing someone else who might!"

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

Yeah saves a lot of time wasting, but seems impolite....but I think I'll give it a go anyway lol

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By *nightrider777Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

Not answering quick enough 😂😂😂 I took a call while writing my response 😂😂 I dodged a bullet there though thankfully

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By *adger BrocMan
10 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Reasons to Be Cheerful Pt 3.

Blockheads rule.

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By *osepearlWoman
10 weeks ago

bray

I block if:

I said I am not interested but still keeps sending me messages ( after 5th I block)

If you are rude and aggressive

If you are the person who I know in my real life

I don’t have other reasons for blocking any one

As it’s saying on my profile “ be nice, be naughty”

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By *uper duperMan
10 weeks ago

around

I block people that I don't want to chat with any more.

Or the guys who ask rude questions about someone I've met or just message me looking to suck my....

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

Id block myself if I could

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

Usually for crude & multiple messages. And aggressive ones too.

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

I block people so they don't appear in updates.

I block for inane statuses.

I block for being misogynists or misandrists either in the forums or on their profiles.

I block anyone who has shared my personal details or anyone who contacts others and asks for my name and other information.(Some popular forumites like borrowing other people's details among other things)

I block anyone who refuses to accept the word no or asks do I not know who they are.

I also block some who demand my validation because everyone else is up their arse having a party and then decide to shit stir when they discover I'm not everyone else.

Apart from that I never use the block button.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
10 weeks ago

Cork

I got blocked last night because I didn't want to re-download an app to verify myself. Honestly I think it was good of them because it didn't waste anymore of either of our time.

I don't think I've blocked anyone but I'm not inundated with messages or langers (often at least).

I think sometimes it can get on your mind but honestly I'd forget about it after a few days myself.

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By *otownkid1967Man
10 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I block people for many reasons

1.. if I'm told they aren't interested, then block them so as not to annoy the.

2.. fellas looking to meet me.

3.. people who are constantly looking at my profile.

4 Forumites who I feel are too pretentious or look down on others.

5..the ladies who I have sent 220 Dick pics to, who hasn't replied yet. I mean what is her problem.

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By *hellybellsWoman
10 weeks ago

tullamore

I've no one blocked, the messers go away or I ignore

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By *s LollyWoman
10 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Anyone who comes across or is a cunt simples really 😁

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By *asuallyChilledMan
10 weeks ago

Drogheda

Any hint of sexism, ageism, racism, misogyny, or any exclusive or derogatory talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

So far I've only blocked dudes that message me to suck my dick, and won't take no for an answer (ladies, I feel your pain).

Other than that, haven't felt the need

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By *adger BrocMan
10 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Níl aon rud chomh sásúil le bloc maith.

Iykyk....má tá a fhios agat tá a fhios agat.

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By *ealcoupleCouple
10 weeks ago

"Mainlybjust for the following reasons:

Fake profiles -Blocked (although I do play along with some when bored).

Any fake photos on a profile- Blocked

Lads who message thinking they're some sort of Don Juan, dopes - Blocked.

Any insults, disrespect- Blocked

Constantly messaging without our response- Blocked"

Same for us. I especially love playing along to fake profiles when I'm bored haha

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By *ethmeonfireMan
10 weeks ago

Dublin

I have been blocked for being Bisexul and Brown. 🤣

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

"Anyone who comes across or is a cunt simples really 😁"

Pretty much this plus those I just can't be arsed with

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By *ealitybitesMan
10 weeks ago

Belfast

"Anyone who comes across or is a cunt simples really 😁"

One of the joys of fab is that one person's cunt is so genuine and lovely where others are concerned and you become the cunt for not agreeing. 😁

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By *eordie.Woman
10 weeks ago

The Sticks

"I have been blocked for being Bisexul and Brown. 🤣"

I'd say I've been blocked by some for the fact I'm still above ground

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By *ethmeonfireMan
10 weeks ago

Dublin

"I have been blocked for being Bisexul and Brown. 🤣

I'd say I've been blocked by some for the fact I'm still above ground

Why does it rhyme so well?🤣

Maybe send the lyrics to the 2 johnnies and they make a song out of it

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By *asuallyChilledMan
10 weeks ago

Drogheda

"So far I've only blocked dudes that message me to suck my dick, and won't take no for an answer (ladies, I feel your pain).

Other than that, haven't felt the need "

21 messages with no response doesn't mean I wasn't taking no for an answer!!!

😂 😂 😂

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By *ig_specsWoman
10 weeks ago

Kilbarrack

My block list is bigger than my friends list.

I block anyone that I don't find attractive to me and had sent me a message, rude approaches and insisting messages that clearly didn't read my profile. And the sex/cock was too disappointing as well.

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By *ozzlesMan
10 weeks ago

galway

I don't have anyone blocked. I am blocked by one account that I know of, don't know why and I don't need to it's their perogetive. No issues.

I think it's a good feature, saves people time and energy.

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By *ustBoWoman
10 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I rarely block anyone but when I do it simply because I've no interest in interacting with them because of whatever reasons it may be.

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By *yhonWoman
10 weeks ago

Dublin Wicklow

It varies for me. I generally block messages that are just rude and state things like 'wanna fuck' or even worse!

Pestering, insisting messages & those that clearly didn't read my profile!! I mean, I've kept it short and sweet on purpose!!

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
10 weeks ago

South Dublin

I wudnt worry about it , decent folk don’t block for no reason so if they do you’re better off without them !

"Any thoughts on this , I've just been blocked for this

" U fucked the whole site and u didn't fuck me

Not cool

And now I don't want anymore

Thanks "

I did have to refuse a meeting once because I had a previous engagement....that's it.

Would this be considered legitimate reason for blocking?

Not that I'm concerned just find it hilarious!

And to be clear I have certainly not had the whole site lol"

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

"I wudnt worry about it , decent folk don’t block for no reason so if they do you’re better off without them !

Any thoughts on this , I've just been blocked for this

" U fucked the whole site and u didn't fuck me

Not cool

And now I don't want anymore

Thanks "

I did have to refuse a meeting once because I had a previous engagement....that's it.

Would this be considered legitimate reason for blocking?

Not that I'm concerned just find it hilarious!

And to be clear I have certainly not had the whole site lol"

Oh I definitely think you're right...visions of a boiling rabbit 😅

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
10 weeks ago

South Down

"I wudnt worry about it , decent folk don’t block for no reason so if they do you’re better off without them !

There's always a reason. It might not be a reason you would have for doing so, you might not agree with it, or know what that reason is but there IS always a reason.

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
10 weeks ago

South Dublin

I don’t are enough to agree or disagree with their childish reasons lol

"I wudnt worry about it , decent folk don’t block for no reason so if they do you’re better off without them !

There's always a reason. It might not be a reason you would have for doing so, you might not agree with it, or know what that reason is but there IS always a reason."

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
10 weeks ago

Home

I've been blocked by people I've never even contacted

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By *omast OP Man
10 weeks ago

Dublin

"I've been blocked by people I've never even contacted "

🤣🤣

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By *astelloWoman
10 weeks ago

Far far away

Irritating people

Repeat offenders

Married

No profile pics or just lazy bios

Always try to be nice but sometimes..grrr

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By *scoobyMan
10 weeks ago

limerick city/clare/Tipperary

When you read a profile and the user interests you and you tick all the box’s in their bio and put together a very well thought out message and a while later you realise your blocked. No response nothing just instant block, sometimes I swear people are here for just reading messages because they’re bored and it’s usually the ones with only 1 verification on their profile which is hidden. Can’t be just me

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By *scoobyMan
10 weeks ago

limerick city/clare/Tipperary

Same it’s very common 😂😂

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
10 weeks ago

kinda dublin

When I click a random profile and find they already have us blocked, I block them back out of spite.

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By *hane and sineadCouple
10 weeks ago

wexford

She never said she fucked you

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By *ionycusMan
10 weeks ago

Babylon

You got some engagement. The other person can block you for whatever reason. It could be as fickle as you posted a picture or status they didn't like. You said they stated you "fucked the whole site, Barr them", if it was two of their acquaintances, that constitutes, the whole site. Jog on , take some advice, and remember, the next time you fuck them, it's you choosing that crazy shit in your life.

XxxxX

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By *acob12369Man
10 weeks ago

URPANTS

"When I click a random profile and find they already have us blocked, I block them back out of spite. "

I'm the same. Feck them if they can unblock and nose about.

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By (user no longer on site)
10 weeks ago

People can block you & you will never know why , it's just the way in this jungle, it could be just something you said on the forums , it could be that they have no interest, it can be for any reason but the main , most important thing here is please do NOT let being blocked worry you or play on your mind one little bit , your mental health is wayyyyy more important than wondering why you got blocked, always remember that .

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By *amsevenMan
10 weeks ago

cork

At 2 euro a block, why wouldn't you

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By *1CorkCouple
10 weeks ago

Cork

People we are confident we’ll never meet and or those that impinge our enjoyment of the site, mainly for three reasons:

People (mainly men) who send multiple messages without us replying to any, or just abusive messages on first message.

Couples who are extremely prolific with photos that are ‘anti-arousal’ (nicest way I could term it) in our local updates feed.

People who express racist or classist views on the forum, or make general comments on forum that we find insulting or irreconcilable with our views.

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By *og-ManMan
10 weeks ago

somewhere

Couples who are extremely prolific with photos that are ‘anti-arousal’ (nicest way I could term it) in our local updates feed.

Isn't anti- arousal such a nice way of saying it

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By *1CorkCouple
10 weeks ago

Cork

Gawk inducing next on scale of nicest terms.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
10 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Couples who are extremely prolific with photos that are ‘anti-arousal’ (nicest way I could term it) in our local updates feed.

Isn't anti- arousal such a nice way of saying it

Lol anti-arousal?

Next time send em this link...

www.catholicforum.com

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
9 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

"Very interesting question!

For me it's simply the ultimate way to avoid any further timewasting for both parties."

AMEN

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By *s LollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

People block me all the time dosent bother me in the slightest id one even mention they were blocking me the other night away ye go cause it's zero fucks given

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By *eestar10Man
9 weeks ago

cavan

People block here cause they don’t want hassle of idiots I suppose

So many random messages

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By *lack FridayMan
9 weeks ago

Galway

I just block automatically if either a lady or couple I have written to read my message and then delete it straight away.

It just leaves things better organised in my message box.

Obviously I also block any offensive jealous people - had a few of those when on here a few years ago.

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By *chochamberWoman
9 weeks ago

Munster

I block dick heads and cunts.

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By *oshSardineMan
9 weeks ago

Castleknock

I block profiles for different reasons. Could be that they are looking to source ‘white’, ‘Charlie’ and the other late weekend status updates when they want to party on. Not my thing but each to their own. Could be that they are passive aggressive in their response on the forums and living just inside that boundary of the rules. I’ve blocked for passing my details about. I’m blocked too by people and that’s just fine. It would be a boring old world if we were all the same.

I’ve blocked profiles where they are here 24 hours and looking to be verified and suddenly they are, I’ll block them and the people who verified them and I’ll look at their verifications and see who’s actually given them one too. Saves a lot of trouble. It’s a certain type of lady I’m seeking out and research helps me.

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

Mainly single males asking for a friends invite without chat it's in our profile if they had bothered to read it 😅

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By *hiteKniteMan
9 weeks ago

Nearby

I usually block if there’s no interest in ever meeting and use it just as a way of having no further interaction in my news feed etc..

Some people also post a lot of comments, statuses, pics etc and I block if I’ve no interest in seeing them. Just declutters the timeline.

No offence ever intended

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By *adger BrocMan
9 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Can't comment or people will start to think I have a hang up about the "B" button.

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By *electableicecreamMan
9 weeks ago

The West

I just block assholes

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By *weethomeWoman
9 weeks ago

Cork

Exs lol

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By *s LollyWoman
9 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

It's great to have all the cunts and fuck heads in the one place best fab filter every 😁👍

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By *weethomeWoman
9 weeks ago

Cork

"It's great to have all the cunts and fuck heads in the one place best fab filter every 😁👍"

😘

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

People block for their reasons , they don't have to explain why ,tbh it's a brilliant feature as it stops a lot of crap, if people have you blocked it doesn't matter why , ye are never gonna get it on , same way if you've blocked someone,they ain't gonna be on your Christmas card list 🤣, blocking is just a part of this joint, don't get worked up over it .👍

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By *eijaWoman
9 weeks ago

City Centre

Many reasons:

People who piss me off

People who want to involve me in their dramas

People who are abusive

Rude people

People who repeatedly send messages even though you have told them you are not interested

Peoole who continue to send multiple cut and paste messages

People suggesting money for meets

People who misbehave at events

My block list has doubled this year...in all my years I have never had to block so many people!

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
9 weeks ago

"Many reasons:

People who piss me off

People who want to involve me in their dramas

People who are abusive

Rude people

People who repeatedly send messages even though you have told them you are not interested

Peoole who continue to send multiple cut and paste messages

People suggesting money for meets

People who misbehave at events

My block list has doubled this year...in all my years I have never had to block so many people!

B x

That's a lot of reasons ok , ladies do have to put up with some amount of messages here , l wouldn't think guys have to deal with the same .

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