FabSwingers.com forum: LONGEST DISTANCE TO MEET

By *easingTim OP Man
11 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

I have a friend

who once told me that if she had to travel a little further to meet a guy she'd simply ask herself...

"Is he worth paying the toll for?"

So this gave me an idea here. What's the furthest you ever traveled for a coffee meet or playdate and was it worth it??!

Or what's the furthest anyone's ever traveled to meet you and how did that go?

You don't need to say counties here btw if you don't want to

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By *unflowerWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Not more than 1 hour. And it should be a really good play session for at least 2-3 hours.

It also depends how often. I wouldn’t be driving every day for 50km, but once a week or two is doable

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
11 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Athlone

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

The furthest was Buncrana 4hr 30min for a weekend, heading to France for a weekend in two weeks with a fab friend so does that count 🤔

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

Belfast....a lot

Mind you its only up the road compared to driving to socials in the West of the country

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By *aseylee324Couple
11 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

I had someone fly from the UK to meet me once, tbf he was working for British Airways

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By *adraigmcMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

Depends on the connection i suppose,get a holiday or a long weekend out off it just depends really😂

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By *affa31Woman
11 weeks ago

Galway

Furthest was Bantry. About 4 hours drive on crappy roads. Tbf I stayed 2 nights so was grand.

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

If I don't know someone and it's a first meeting, max 20-30 minutes by car

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By *eralt80Man
11 weeks ago

cork

Banna in Kerry to Cobh and back again.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
11 weeks ago

borderarea

I have driven to Cork which is 3.5 hours away from me but I wouldn't do it just for a meet- it would be tied into something else and a meet organised because I happen to be in that area - i have travelled that far purely to meet up with a group of friends though for an organised social which is different.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

Dublin, used public transport though

Westmeath

The odd meet I have had coincidened with a night away

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By *exesrangerMan
11 weeks ago

North Cork

I think I drove an hour and a half once. Was it worth it ? Hella yeah. Baby got boom boom....

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By *ing_woody2Man
11 weeks ago

Ballyshannon

I had a girl drive from Cork up to me in South Donegal once.

We had been texting for a few weeks, and it had been building....

When she arrived, I brought her straight upstairs.

Within 5 minutes she came while sitting on my face during 69.

Post-nut clarity hit her instantly, and she decided she couldn't stay.

Straight back to Cork she went....and then I had to finish myself off for my troubles.

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By *reative ideasMan
11 weeks ago

Next door

Las Vegas

And I'd do it again!

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"Las Vegas

And I'd do it again!"

Be handy from October when Aer Lingus fly direct

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By *ealitybitesMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

Distance brings expectation and not just in the way most mention it where someone drives a long distance and then expects something for their effort.

On the flip side there are people who believe that if you were prepared to travel 3 or 4 hours across the country once there is nothing stopping you from doing it again..... and again.

As a result I have a one hour travel limit unless I'm actually going to be in the area.

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen

Roughly 2 hours is normal for me

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

I don't like someone to tavel just for potentially a coffee and chat and nothing else. So I would meet people further afield if we happen to be nearby for some reason. I have traveled 90mins for a coffee and I would do that for someone I felt there was a connection with.

Mrs

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen

"I don't like someone to tavel just for potentially a coffee and chat and nothing else. So I would meet people further afield if we happen to be nearby for some reason. I have traveled 90mins for a coffee and I would do that for someone I felt there was a connection with.

Mrs "

I would definitely do that aswell because if you have a connection through conversation you want to try and see when you meet for a coffee or drink it's still there because if you don't you're left wondering what if.

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By *easingTim OP Man
11 weeks ago

Loughlinstown

Have travelled all the way to Mullingar twice (

and

on another occasion) and very special meets both times

Had a lady fly in from Leeds

and a lovely Glaswegian

fly over (not on the same night, mind you

) so long distance swinging works

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By *adhatter and coCouple
11 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

No more than a 30 minute drive for us for a social

We Have had guys offering to travel 2/3 hours for a coffee , certainly not interested in socials like that ,I feel that they would be putting the pressure on for more than just a coffee

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By *huCullainMan
11 weeks ago

Rathowen

"Athlone "

I'm not much further....just saying

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By *asual777Man
11 weeks ago

i travel all over

Drove 720 km in total to a 3sum then to drive the lady to work then get home

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By *r.AnonymousMan
11 weeks ago

Limerick

Tipp to Sligo

Tipp to Donegal

Limerick to Belfast

😅😅😅

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
11 weeks ago

Portstewart

For us probably a max of 2 hours travel

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By *asuallyChilledMan
11 weeks ago

Drogheda

Two and a half hours to Kilkenny. Nothing happened other than the one date but totally worth it. Straight into the top three women I've ever immediately admired completely. She was just amazing.

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By *erry_007Man
11 weeks ago

Lexilip

I once travelled to Budapest Hungary and is absolutely worth it....

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

"No more than a 30 minute drive for us for a social

We Have had guys offering to travel 2/3 hours for a coffee , certainly not interested in socials like that ,I feel that they would be putting the pressure on for more than just a coffee "

I've bad coffees offer to drive for just a coffee social but I fo feel they would expect something. So if there's a bit of distance and we getting om well I'd meet halfway or try and arrange something if in that area in the future

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By *eadMeisterMan
11 weeks ago

Blanchardstown

52miles...and totally worth it. Might do it again soon.

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By *rishhotwifeyCouple
11 weeks ago

dublin

Had a guy drive from Clare to dublin every week for 2 months straight I had to stop seeing him as I felt so bad! He would do it mid week too! Leave at 6pm arrive by 9pm fuck for a few hours nap and then drive back 5am to clare to be in work by 8am.

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By *yhonWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin Wicklow

London to Wicklow, for a night...

& he was greeted very warmly!

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By *huntMan
11 weeks ago

North clare

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By *leasurer77Man
11 weeks ago

Athlone

Went to Glasgow a few years back. Well worth it too.

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By *WEETESTSTRAWBERRYFOR1Woman
11 weeks ago

Clare

Clare To Mayo And Worth Every Minute 1hr 50

Taken In Turns Each Week So Works

And Couples Profile CREATED

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By *miles4milesMan
11 weeks ago

South Dublin

5 hours for me. It was exceptional circumstances though!

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By *mallAcornsMan
11 weeks ago

Derry & Donegal

Travelling back from wedding in Cork to Donegal, had a very welcome stopover in Carrick on Shannon, was a detour to an already long trip but it was worth it. Amazing mature lady, welcomed me into her apartment for a relaxed and fun afternoon. Better than stopping for a coffee, drive safe

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Drove from Meath to Bantry. Was absolutely worth it.

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