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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am amazed by the amount of men that have contacted me recently lookin to meet, now i am confused as to how they come to this thought as i have straight as my sexual orientation on my profile actually after a bit of investigating so do a lot of these men. I can understand that this is an overused thread but is straight the new gay or new bi, and why do men mail others when its clear its not what they stated they are lookin for. As we speak i have 6 friend requests and winks from men today alone.. Fuck it i love a bit of attention but now i am gettin worried i have been chasing the wrong sex for the last 35 yrs

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster

some might say dont knock it til uve tried it lol but the majority of the "so called straight men" on here arent lol and have straight on their profile cos not many are willing to meet bi lads

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some might say dont knock it til uve tried it lol but the majority of the "so called straight men" on here arent lol and have straight on their profile cos not many are willing to meet bi lads "

I appreciate the post but if they are not willing to meet bi men they must be willing to meet gay men because as far as i am aware straight men only meet women, correct me if i am wrong, oh oh oh lightbulb flashing here, maybe they are lying on their profile and putting down straight when they are not, and then thinking that everyone lies on that profile bit and they can disrespect other members preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had to use the filters to stop receiving mail from them!

Now I live in peace and harmony!!........

Omm...... omm....... omm.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed by the amount of men that have contacted me recently lookin to meet, now i am confused as to how they come to this thought as i have straight as my sexual orientation on my profile actually after a bit of investigating so do a lot of these men. I can understand that this is an overused thread but is straight the new gay or new bi, and why do men mail others when its clear its not what they stated they are lookin for. As we speak i have 6 friend requests and winks from men today alone.. Fuck it i love a bit of attention but now i am gettin worried i have been chasing the wrong sex for the last 35 yrs"
. Just a thought but maybe if the women are not respnding to these to these guys advances then desperation is kicking in so any port in a storm kinda thing lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It may not make sense to some of us, but for some people ticking a box with gay, bi or bi-curious is just one step too far or too soon. Even though they can hide their profiles they're not ready to admit it to the public or to themselves.

Maybe the fact that you haven't blocked men from contacting you has a whole other meaning? Is there something you'd like to share with us??

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It may not make sense to some of us, but for some people ticking a box with gay, bi or bi-curious is just one step too far or too soon. Even though they can hide their profiles they're not ready to admit it to the public or to themselves.

Maybe the fact that you haven't blocked men from contacting you has a whole other meaning? Is there something you'd like to share with us?? "

There's jumping to conclusions, and there's jumping to conclusions, but that is an astronomically gigantic buckleap altogether. Holy God almighty!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's early. It's raining. I'm hungry. I'm now figuring there was humour in that. Apologies for missing it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

It's early. It's raining. I'm hungry. I'm now figuring there was humour in that. Apologies for missing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It may not make sense to some of us, but for some people ticking a box with gay, bi or bi-curious is just one step too far or too soon. Even though they can hide their profiles they're not ready to admit it to the public or to themselves.

Maybe the fact that you haven't blocked men from contacting you has a whole other meaning? Is there something you'd like to share with us?? "

Shit men can use the block button too, Gee you learn something new everyday, so this is an equal opportunist site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's early. It's raining. I'm hungry. I'm now figuring there was humour in that. Apologies for missing it "

Sure it only took you 2 minutes to cop on

I was serious about the first part though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had to use the filters to stop receiving mail from them!

Now I live in peace and harmony!!........

Omm...... omm....... omm.......

"

was just gonna say the same , use the filters to stop any unwanted messages , saves a lot of nonsense at the end of the day,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed by the amount of men that have contacted me recently lookin to meet, now i am confused as to how they come to this thought as i have straight as my sexual orientation on my profile actually after a bit of investigating so do a lot of these men. I can understand that this is an overused thread but is straight the new gay or new bi, and why do men mail others when its clear its not what they stated they are lookin for. As we speak i have 6 friend requests and winks from men today alone.. Fuck it i love a bit of attention but now i am gettin worried i have been chasing the wrong sex for the last 35 yrs. Just a thought but maybe if the women are not respnding to these to these guys advances then desperation is kicking in so any port in a storm kinda thing lmao "

lol

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By *acykateWoman
over a year ago

limerick

Maybe the non verified hope that being on a verified persons friends list will open some doors for them... or shud that be legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just a thought but maybe if the women are not respnding to these to these guys advances then desperation is kicking in so any port in a storm kinda thing lmao "

what..like what happens in prison? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Just a thought but maybe if the women are not respnding to these to these guys advances then desperation is kicking in so any port in a storm kinda thing lmao

what..like what happens in prison? lol"

. Pmsl Roller I've never been to prison so I dnt know but frustration can lead to manys a thing lol but each to there own best way is to block and move on sure us women ignore the headers on fab anyway so just do the same and move on tp ppl ya want to make friends with

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