FabSwingers.com forum: First message...

By *eeking_sensuality77 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Athlone

...which is your preference?

Direct approach as in 'hiya, would like to meet you sometime for fun' or 'hey, just checked your profile and thought I'd sat hi' kinda thing?

Just curious so said I'd ask!

By *iscuits8Man
13 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

HELLO YOU ARE VERY SEXY HERE ARE SEVERAL PHOTOS OF MY PENIS!

Someday I'll get a reply and it'll wipe the smirks off a lot of people's faces, I'm telling you 😋

By *eeking_sensuality77 OP Woman
13 weeks ago

Athlone

"HELLO YOU ARE VERY SEXY HERE ARE SEVERAL PHOTOS OF MY PENIS!

Someday I'll get a reply and it'll wipe the smirks off a lot of people's faces, I'm telling you 😋"

Someday, not soon! 😂

By *iscuits8Man
13 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

"HELLO YOU ARE VERY SEXY HERE ARE SEVERAL PHOTOS OF MY PENIS!

Someday I'll get a reply and it'll wipe the smirks off a lot of people's faces, I'm telling you 😋

Someday, not soon! 😂"

50 quid!

But really, never anything about meeting. Just general chit-chat/introduction, usually drop in something of note on their profile/bio/photos etc as that's usually the reason behind wanting to send a message in the first place. I don't often send new messages these days in all honesty.

By *electableicecreamMan
13 weeks ago

The West

If I don't feel a reason beyond just saying hello I'm unlikely to write a message.

Something will have caught my eye be it a photo, a bio or a forum post or a status update.