FabSwingers.com forum: Wink / Fab / Message

By *ewbie006 OP Man
11 weeks ago

Kilkenny

Here is a question to all out here. What would you prefer.

1. Someone fabbing your pics / videos thereby indicating their interest in you.

2. Winking your profile indicating interest to chat further and maybe meet up.

Or 3. Messaging you directly with details about themselves and what they are looking for.

I see that winks and fabs are never answered. With me, I personally respond to all the winks and fabs of the interest is mutual.

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By *onewolf84Man
11 weeks ago

North cork

I would be pretty much to same as you. If someone like my picture. I would thank them. A little confident boost for myself. Hopefully it might be a conversation starter. If someone wink me I would wink them back.

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
11 weeks ago

outside Strabane

I like a wee wink... Gives you a chance to check out their profile then and follow it up with a message if you like what you see.

Saves on that awkward first message too

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By *miles4milesMan
11 weeks ago

South Dublin

Depends really. If it's clear that it could be a good match, a message is probably best. Fab pictures are a nice confidence boost as are winks.

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Definitely a message is best for us. We do look at winks on occasion so if a profile we like has winked us we will wink back or send a message

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
11 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Personally Fabs don't necessarily indicate interest though. They're more for appreciation of a good photo.

If I'm really interested I'll message. Prefer that both ways.

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By *ewinggongoozleMan
11 weeks ago

Blanchardstown

Winks and Messages mostly

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
11 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

We dont check fabs or winks so not much point sending them. Messages are checked occasionally, but replied to nearly never

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By *ealitybitesMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I fab pic's cause i like them dosent mean im interested or looking to meet or chat with them...

Never send winks cause i think there pointless and never check my own...

If im interested ill message simples really 😁

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By *otownkid1967Man
11 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Winks are a waste of time as most people ignore them anyway.

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By *otownkid1967Man
11 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"I fab pic's cause i like them dosent mean im interested or looking to meet or chat with them...

Never send winks cause i think there pointless and never check my own...

If im interested ill message simples really 😁"

WAITING

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related."

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄

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By *ewinggongoozleMan
11 weeks ago

Blanchardstown

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄"

Just tell him where the nearest garage is🤣🤣🤣

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By *uper duperMan
11 weeks ago

around

What's a wink??

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By *ealitybitesMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄"

You need to attach nude pics😎

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄

You need to attach nude pics😎"

Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈

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By *ealitybitesMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄

You need to attach nude pics😎

Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈"

That's what happens when you stick them all over my windscreen🤪

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By *oung GunnerMan
11 weeks ago

Cleckheaton

Anything would be appreciated , I dont get a thing , I send really polite messages , only to be deleted , I couldn’t send anyone horrible messages because that would lower my own standards , plus been horrible to others wouldn’t get you any where . I would rather treat others how I expect to be treated and thats with respect .

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
11 weeks ago

dublin

I rarely look at winks tbh. But…usually Nuts sends a bog standard message in response or wink back if I didn’t send the 1st one. Then when the messages are back and forth they’ll become more personalised etc

We do appreciate fabs and I’ll often return them. And one of us usually replies to messages we get

We usually use winks as a polite way to see if the other profiles initially interested so we do interact with them

- Mrs

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

How the hell does anyone get the ride on here at all

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By *razy-CplCouple
11 weeks ago

and surrounding areas

I like to wink , its way to say hi , without the message ,and if they wink back , we would send a message, like if ur out and some one takes ur fancy , ud look at them and if they keep looking at you too ,ud go over and make contact / chat , a messege might be too much as u dont know if they like you or not . Winks are great but we know lots dont use them

Mrs crazy

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By *tingray271Man
11 weeks ago

Sligo Donegal

I don't look at winks to much

I prefer people to be up front and just message me. And tell me what they looking for. I will reply

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
11 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"How the hell does anyone get the ride on here at all

Dick pics.. loads of them.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
11 weeks ago

kinkytown

Personally prefer a mail but if a wink from a profile gets our a attention we will wink back (that's very rare though)

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By *arquisDeSadeCouple
11 weeks ago

South County Dublin.

Never respond to winks (says it on our profile).

We only respond to messages.

Friends requests and absolute no, no unless we’ve played together.

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"None of the a above. I don't respond to winks or fabs and I've no interest in anyone telling me what they are looking for.

One of the main reasons women don't fab pics is that some take it as an invitation to get in touch rather than just an appreciation of a pic.

Winks are lazy.

If you want to get my attention make the effort and write a message but don't tell me what you want or have to offer.

Just start a general conversation that isn't sex related.

Sooooooo sending a message saying im in your area and looking for the ride won't work ffs🙄

You need to attach nude pics😎

Christ ye do that once and it follows ye for year's after ffs 🙄 🙈

That's what happens when you stick them all over my windscreen🤪"

Id say ye had some craic trying to swish them off driving outa Sprucefield

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

I’ll take anything at this rate

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By *un_Lover123Man
11 weeks ago

Lonely

A detailed message is probably the best thing.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

I fab pics all the time , I like the pic , doesn't mean I'm interested.

So prefer a message

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
11 weeks ago

Home

Anything would be nice now and again

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
11 weeks ago

Cork

We mainly respond to winks or messages, occasionally fabs if we like what we see on the other side. We don't respond to friend requests unless we have spoken to them a few times feel a level of trust.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
11 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis

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By *ofusplusCouple
11 weeks ago

Limerick

"Anything would be nice now and again "

Do you appreciate a verification?

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By *oxic1998Woman
11 weeks ago

Belfast

"How the hell does anyone get the ride on here at all

By starting quiz threads

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By *onderingpurposeMan
11 weeks ago

Belfast

I love an unexpected wink or message

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"How the hell does anyone get the ride on here at all

By starting quiz threads

True story

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"How the hell does anyone get the ride on here at all

Dick pics.. loads of them.

🤣🤣🤣👌

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis"

But do you answer the message 🤷‍♂️😉

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
11 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis

But do you answer the message 🤷‍♂️😉"
only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for

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By *ollypop9Woman
11 weeks ago

wouldn't you like to know

I prefer messages. I never really think of checking the rest.

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By *om TangoMan
11 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I don’t get fans, winks or messages so can’t say which I enjoy the most

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By *ocbrownMan
11 weeks ago

Kilkenny/Waterford

Message is preferred

I get winks, I Message them back and 90% don't reply

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis

But do you answer the message 🤷‍♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for"

You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷‍♂️

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis

But do you answer the message 🤷‍♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for

You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷‍♂️"

How do you know they haven't checked your profile , there's stealth mode

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"I much prefer a message rather than winking tennis

But do you answer the message 🤷‍♂️😉 only if it's interesting and the profile has something intriguing about it that may suit what I'm looking for

You're 100% I totally understand but most that I message don't even check my profile so I don't understand how they'd know anything 🤷‍♂️

How do you know they haven't checked your profile , there's stealth mode "

Ohhh I never knew that lol how's that done? Have you stealth moded me? Lmao

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By *ust M.A.IMan
11 weeks ago

Mullingar

If I see someone fabbed my pic, I don't take it as they are interested in me, I take it as they like the picture, so I go on their profile and if I see pictures that I think are hot I return the favour.

I think winks are to get someone's attention, but personally I prefer if the person messages me instead of winking

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Only text messages that don't contain dick pics, I never check who fab my pics, nor who to wink at me. I also don't accept requests to my friends list if I've never talked to someone

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
11 weeks ago

Portstewart

A fab or wink shows someone might have interest but getting a message is the best way to show interest

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
11 weeks ago

Athlone

Can't beat a message. Never ever look at the fabs. Look at the winks alright but never respond to them.

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By *mazingTimesMan
11 weeks ago

Dublin

A message…..followed by a wink and a fab!!

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