FabSwingers.com forum: regular lover

By *razymind OP Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

Well so far been mainly chatting to many people..but would love to have a regular ,hopefully in Dublin..

I believe sex then is much better..you can relax more and more.

How many people here actually have only one regular?

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By *hilaboutMan
11 weeks ago

kilkenny

Yes have a regular for the past 2yrs try meet weekly and all good

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By *razymind OP Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

Wow thats lovely

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
11 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Yes, there are quite a few couples here who have regular sex

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Now the question arises what is regular for a given person? Because for one it may be once a month for another once a week.

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By *razymind OP Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"Now the question arises what is regular for a given person? Because for one it may be once a month for another once a week."
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Good question..i d say few times a month

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Jeeze that would be a fab goal for me to have that on here 😁

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

Getting a regular on this as an unverified account is like winning the lotto without even buying a ticket. But sure you better believe I’m still trying

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By *un_Lover123Man
11 weeks ago

Lonely

Gosh! Iam trying to get someone for regular meetups for more than a year now.

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By *uper duperMan
11 weeks ago

around

Worst thing you could ever have is a regular lover unless both of ye can keep feelings out of it!!!

Be careful for what you wish for, you just might find it!!!

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

I wish you perseverance... I've been looking for almost two years haha

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By *bcplCouple
11 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Regulars are like unicorns up in the NE Scotland!!

The idea is what we’re after, maybe 2 or 3 to play with all together (mmmmf), me with wife and regular (mmf) or the wife to have solos.

We’re greedy and fussy

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
11 weeks ago

belfast

A regular would be good. You’d think it would be possible on a site like this. How many have actually been successful at achieving this?

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"I wish you perseverance... I've been looking for almost two years haha"

Same here maybe longer 🙈 nearly impossible lately lol

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

Been on lookout for a while too

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"Been on lookout for a while too"

Yeah starting to get boring lol

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By *IG BENNY37Man
11 weeks ago

north mayo

Have a regular fuck buddy meet every 2 to 3 weeks there hard found guess I just got lucky

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By *lutterFlyWoman
11 weeks ago

Near Belfast

"Worst thing you could ever have is a regular lover unless both of ye can keep feelings out of it!!!

Be careful for what you wish for, you just might find it!!!

I believe it would be difficult for both parties to keep feelings out of it especially if you meet regularly and over a long period of time.

But if it works, it is the perfect senario

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By *otorman20021Man
11 weeks ago

East Cork

Trying to find someone who you get along with, have fun with regularly and it not being “cold” fun is extremely hard. I had a great thing going for a year or so and unfortunately the feelings came into the situation and the water got muddy!

We went from talking every few days to radio silence and not even acknowledging me now if we happen to be in the same places. 😔

It’s an extremely hard balance to find and if you do I think it should come with “rules” that have been discussed here before!

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By *obshortMan
11 weeks ago

Cork

I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different.

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different. "

Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster

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By *otorman20021Man
11 weeks ago

East Cork

It seems I may be just too immature for it to work out with me so 😏

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
11 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"Been on lookout for a while too

Yeah starting to get boring lol"

Yeah we all there lol

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

"Been on lookout for a while too

Yeah starting to get boring lol

Yeah we all there lol"

Unfortunately that's true lol

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
11 weeks ago

Athlone

"It seems I may be just too immature for it to work out with me so 😏 "

Too handsome I say! 😂😜

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By *om TangoMan
11 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I hit lucky. Now seeing a wonderful lady from on here, so far we’ve attended 2 socials together, we get on so well and plan on setting up a couples profile soon.

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By *osepearlWoman
11 weeks ago

bray

Had bad experience with so called regular partner, he got way too attached to me , I liked the sex it was great and very hot sex every single time. I afraid to answer guys who looking for regular meets

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By *otorman20021Man
11 weeks ago

East Cork

"Had bad experience with so called regular partner, he got way too attached to me , I liked the sex it was great and very hot sex every single time. I afraid to answer guys who looking for regular meets"

Ah you should never be afraid, you would never know what’s around the next corner 😅

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By *otorman20021Man
11 weeks ago

East Cork

"It seems I may be just too immature for it to work out with me so 😏

Too handsome I say! 😂😜"

😂 I ain’t an oil painting by any means but I have to play with the cards I have been dealt 😉

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By *ot so needyMan
11 weeks ago

Galway

Yeah I really believe it's possible to have a regular on here.

I have been seeing someone and I know it will be a very regular thing. Communication is the key. And being able to have a laugh together definitely helps

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By (user no longer on site)
11 weeks ago

When that ol' devil called feelings come into things , it doesn't matter from which side, it's very difficult to stop that from happening but l will say timing is everything. When you meet someone that you thought at the start both were just gonna enjoy each other but then feelings creep into things...F**k..what do you do then ? If it's not the right time, you walk away , very very difficult to leave someone here if everything is bliss as sometimes the other person wants to take things further,as in a full time relationship & it's just not the brilliant sex , you know it goes way deeper than that but as l said the timing is everything...great if it's right...not so great if it's wrong & there could be other factors which contribute to the timing being wrong & then when you know it's right , it could be too late , she's gone .

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By *attooYouMan
11 weeks ago

just about northside

" & then when you know it's right , it could be too late , she's gone ."

There’s melancholy in that……..for me if I meet someone and there is more than sex developing then that’s when you decide whether you’ve staying in it. Personally if there is more to it than sex it could be a great thing……

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

It can be difficult to be open to new possibilities but you have to go with your gut. Finding someone that you have a special connection with is always a minefield whatever the circumstances. Especially on here where the truth isn't always what it seems. But you only live once so seize the day.

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By *ig_specsWoman
11 weeks ago

Kilbarrack

Everyone seems to want a regular but very few are ready to make an effort, I see for my inbox... At the least the half of the messages I get are from people that clearly didn't read my profile.

I also seek a regular but Jaysus how difficult it is for men to keep a conversation without sending a bloody dick pic without being asked.

I am not a prosti.tute, treat people with some respect.

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By *ot so needyMan
11 weeks ago

Galway

"Everyone seems to want a regular but very few are ready to make an effort, I see for my inbox... At the least the half of the messages I get are from people that clearly didn't read my profile.

I also seek a regular but Jaysus how difficult it is for men to keep a conversation without sending a bloody dick pic without being asked.

I am not a prosti.tute, treat people with some respect.

Yes I think it would be a hard thing to find. Especially if that is what it is classed as from the first meet. If you meet with no pressure from the start it can build up to that when you get to know each other better. But labeling it too early can be a bad thing too.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

Ok let's use this thread,

I'm looking for a regular fwb, lots of fun between the sheets, attend a social or two together, a cheeky weekend away.

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By *lutterFlyWoman
11 weeks ago

Near Belfast

"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different.

Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster "

How do you find such a person?

One who knows the emotional boundaries, that you have great chemistry with and fantastic sex as well as being a friend?

I think that is the big question for most on here.

In my case, can I find one again.

lol

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By *razymind OP Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin mainly

"I have had a few over the years. As long as you both talk openly and know the limits. It can be fantastic. It can last as long as both,want it too. Every situation is different.

Exactly this ....not everything has to end in a disaster

How do you find such a person?

One who knows the emotional boundaries, that you have great chemistry with and fantastic sex as well as being a friend?

I think that is the big question for most on here.

In my case, can I find one again.

lol

And then even when you find all that..he is not living near you...clasdic

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By *obshortMan
11 weeks ago

Cork

Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way.

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By *rown PrismWoman
11 weeks ago

Dublin

"Its not like picking apples n such. And yes its hard work to find the right. But thats half the fun. Stop looking for people to tick your boxes. It can very often be that person, who at first glance. You thought no way. "

True 👍🏻

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open minds and endless possibilities

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By *reyingbeardMan
11 weeks ago

city

Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open legs and endless possibilities "

Fixed that for ya 🤪

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By *rMotivator2.0Man
11 weeks ago

Donegal

Phil collins ?

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

Exactly this. Nothing good ever came easy. Open legs and endless possibilities

Fixed that for ya 🤪"

So right 😍😉

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By *otownkid1967Man
11 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Old adage...What's meant for you, won't pass you !!

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By *alroc80Man
11 weeks ago

between Galway, Dublin and Mayo

From my experience, iv messaged a load on here and they have read and ignored message or not bothered to read atall. I might send a second message a few months later, but most will just judge the person on the little they see and won't give any taught to meet for a social and chat. I 100% agree, you can't judge someone without getting to know them and it's very possible someone you would never have considered might be someone you would really get on with and a great friendship with or the potential of a great sexual chemistry. Personally, I'll meet anyone for a social meet. If nothing comes of it, we'll was no harm in meeting for a coffee. I think the one thing I have learned on here is don't expect much and be greatful for any contact you have with others. They have taken the time to reply.

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By *uper duperMan
11 weeks ago

around

"Worst thing you could ever have is a regular lover unless both of ye can keep feelings out of it!!!

Be careful for what you wish for, you just might find it!!!

Hope everyone guessed I was joking??

If you find it, hold on to it as long as you can!!!

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