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By *axDub4 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Curious to know, what is something that was previously an insecurity of yourself but you grew to love or just realized that it’s was actually really sexy..

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By *aseylee324Couple
11 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Being introverted

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
11 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Being geeky / nerdy

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By *exyScientistsCouple
11 weeks ago

Castlebar

None of mine are sexy

Just infuriating and annoying 🙄

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
11 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Being plus size.

Sometimes I rock it. But only sometimes.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
11 weeks ago

dublin

Hair colour….same boys who slagged me as a kid probably have differing opinions about it now hehe

Obviously it’s not everyone’s cup of tea as everyone has their own tastes. But most importantly I have grown to like it and accept that not everyone does which is ok.

I definitely appreciate that I don’t have to go dying my hair every few weeks as I’m too impatient and low maintenance for that - Mrs

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
11 weeks ago

Northern Ireland


"Hair colour….same boys who slagged me as a kid probably have differing opinions about it now hehe

Obviously it’s not everyone’s cup of tea as everyone has their own tastes. But most importantly I have grown to like it and accept that not everyone does which is ok.

I definitely appreciate that I don’t have to go dying my hair every few weeks as I’m too impatient and low maintenance for that - Mrs "

My partner stops breathing every time he sees a redhead (M or F). My exes often fall in to that category too. It's very sexy

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
11 weeks ago

dublin


"Hair colour….same boys who slagged me as a kid probably have differing opinions about it now hehe

Obviously it’s not everyone’s cup of tea as everyone has their own tastes. But most importantly I have grown to like it and accept that not everyone does which is ok.

I definitely appreciate that I don’t have to go dying my hair every few weeks as I’m too impatient and low maintenance for that - Mrs

My partner stops breathing every time he sees a redhead (M or F). My exes often fall in to that category too. It's very sexy"

I grew up around everyone having that reaction to a blonde so find it odd now. Personally I don’t get the hair preference but then my “breath stopping” is usually for personality traits and how they present and hold themselves…Nuts had me at the word hi

Think a hair colour preference be much easier lol - Mrs

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
11 weeks ago

borderarea

Squirting!!! Yes - I know now it's a turn on for lots of people but I was in a marriage where it was seen as dirty and disgusting. It took getting out of that to realise squirting is perfectly normal!

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen


"Squirting!!! Yes - I know now it's a turn on for lots of people but I was in a marriage where it was seen as dirty and disgusting. It took getting out of that to realise squirting is perfectly normal! "

Absolutely and I hope you start embracing it as a positive big hugs about what negativity you had to deal with in the past.

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By *earuisceMan
11 weeks ago

south sligo

It’s amazing when a woman squirts during orgasm . I had my first ( I know at my age lol) experience of it with a fab lady last year. It was an awesome experience!

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By *miles4milesMan
11 weeks ago

South Dublin

I've always been fairly skinny. Used to hate it and went to the gym for years. Then I found other sports that would keep me active but didn't grow much muscle but felt much better about my body then.

I'm not as skinny as I used to be. But still happy with the body despite having noodle arms!

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
11 weeks ago

borderarea


"Squirting!!! Yes - I know now it's a turn on for lots of people but I was in a marriage where it was seen as dirty and disgusting. It took getting out of that to realise squirting is perfectly normal!

Absolutely and I hope you start embracing it as a positive big hugs about what negativity you had to deal with in the past."

I'm here almost 3 years so yes well embraced at this stage ha ha

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen


"Squirting!!! Yes - I know now it's a turn on for lots of people but I was in a marriage where it was seen as dirty and disgusting. It took getting out of that to realise squirting is perfectly normal!

Absolutely and I hope you start embracing it as a positive big hugs about what negativity you had to deal with in the past.

I'm here almost 3 years so yes well embraced at this stage ha ha "

So happy to hear that ❤️

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By *s LollyWoman
11 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Big boobs......was so insecure when i was younger especially with tight tops ect now there my biggest asset 😁

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere

When I joined here didn't think I'd have much to offer compared to what you see in top photo's so very insecure about the whole thing

Then realised I could find my own space and don't have to compete with all those young guys at all so happy out

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By *otownkid1967Man
11 weeks ago

Portlaoise

For me shyness was a killer.

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By *hivers2020Woman
11 weeks ago

lolli land

Glasses. Growing up with two brothers and being called specky four eyes my entire life, but love them now that I’m older

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen


"Glasses. Growing up with two brothers and being called specky four eyes my entire life, but love them now that I’m older "

Just went on your profile to see how sexy you looked amazing body but know beautiful sexy specs pics xxxx

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By *axDub4 OP   Man
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Very funny how times changes opinions. I do remember people slagging others about their ginger hair but now majority of guys I know, including myself, absolutely love it and redhead women are at the top of the list lol.

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By *arsbar500Man
11 weeks ago

Newtownards

Yes, redheads are absolutely awesome 👍

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By *elloMarylouWoman
11 weeks ago

mayo

Don't have a fav one unfortunately wish I could get over them

The one I now don't stress aviut it is people not liking me, too many years spent been nice, been everyone friend to realise the favour was very rarely returned.

Now I just if you don't like me off fecking with ya

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By *imerick 25Man
11 weeks ago

Limerick city

Being a redhead as a guy

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By *egs11openedWoman
11 weeks ago

north dub

Height

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By *ofusplusCouple
11 weeks ago

Limerick

I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

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By *indenMan
11 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs."

Join the club…..🤤😘😬

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By *eralt80Man
11 weeks ago

cork


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

Join the club…..🤤😘😬"

Get a room

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By *eckme70Man
11 weeks ago

Strabane

I'd say mine would have to be thinking too much about others which is very rarely returned 🤷‍♂️ but I guess I'll never change that now 🥰

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By *indenMan
11 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

Join the club…..🤤😘😬

Get a room "

I have a room, my insecurity is not being able to get anyone into it…..🥺🥺🥺

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By *ewcouple200Couple
11 weeks ago

dublin

I used to be so self conscious about my bum...

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By *P-1989Man
11 weeks ago

Rathfarnham

Being skinny now I'm not too bad with it

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By *osepearlWoman
11 weeks ago

bray

My biggest insecurity is when I am in orgasm and what to squirt but trying to not destroy clothes of the man or whatever around, it’s absolutely hard to do, so always trying to be more comfortable to squirt. Ones hubby stopes me squirting after I soaked two bath towels he got afraid of me collapsing.

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By *og-ManMan
11 weeks ago

somewhere


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

Join the club…..🤤😘😬

Get a room

I have a room, my insecurity is not being able to get anyone into it…..🥺🥺🥺"

Others is not being able to get out

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By *ea ShellsWoman
11 weeks ago

Sligo

Large breasts - yes but as another comment said now I’m embracing them on this site as they seem to please others!

Glasses yes me too. But had clear implant or cataract replacement lens so see perfectly now without the need for glasses

Feel I’ve come of age as it were with the help of some lovely contacts on fab.

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By *ifferent Strokes 101Couple
11 weeks ago

Wexford/Dublin

Shyness and size.

Always was shy when younger and still can be in certain situations.

Thought I was overweight when younger,it held me back from doing many things (I wasn't).

I am now and I have come to mostly accept it.

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
11 weeks ago

kinda dublin

I once sent a girl a selfie and she told me I looked like I was gonna seriously fuck up some carrots 🤓

Probably my favourite burn ever and have grown to love my goofy buck teeth 😂😂😂

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
11 weeks ago

Home

My weight

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By *eijaWoman
11 weeks ago

City Centre

My height...hated towering over everyone like a giraffe and always wished I was smaller and dinky

Totally learnt to embrace it now

B x

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
11 weeks ago

dublin


"My height...hated towering over everyone like a giraffe and always wished I was smaller and dinky

Totally learnt to embrace it now

B x"

Yes!!! Only 5”7 and still felt self conscious about my height. Sometimes I still do when I wear heals

Love that you embrace your height - Mrs

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By *ofusplusCouple
11 weeks ago

Limerick


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

Join the club…..🤤😘😬"

Have you got little boobies too?

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By *edro50Man
11 weeks ago

enniskillen


"My biggest insecurity is when I am in orgasm and what to squirt but trying to not destroy clothes of the man or whatever around, it’s absolutely hard to do, so always trying to be more comfortable to squirt. Ones hubby stopes me squirting after I soaked two bath towels he got afraid of me collapsing. "

🌹❤️

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By *ogladyWoman
11 weeks ago

The bog

My biggest was my eyes.. U was bullied a lot when I was younger about then.. It's only in the last few years that I've accepted that they are not as bad as I thought they were and it seems that a lot of people seem to think there my best feature which was hard for me to accept at first..

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By *indenMan
11 weeks ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I used to hate my little boobies but I really love them now

Mrs.

Join the club…..🤤😘😬

Have you got little boobies too? "

Small and humble so you don’t confuse them with the mountains…..

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By *limfitladMan
11 weeks ago

Dublin

Being a pleaser

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By *eremy44Man
11 weeks ago

Wicklow


"Squirting!!! Yes - I know now it's a turn on for lots of people but I was in a marriage where it was seen as dirty and disgusting. It took getting out of that to realise squirting is perfectly normal! "

Dirty and disgusting…?

Wooow!

It’s amazing sexy hot !!!

I love it ❤️

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