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"What woman? You need to be more specific because what attracts one woman could also offend another. There's no one size fits all when it comes to pics." That's true to a degree but I think a rough guide can help everyone. Effort and variety go a long way. | |||
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 but a photo of that on a lads profile wouldn't do it for me.
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""Some guys have really funny photos. One dude has a bird on his head and is killing it." My thoughts here... The fun photos are great, especially when showcasing a tasty torso, killing birds is not great, are we sure he is killing it? birds sitting on faces is fun but a photo of that on a lads profile wouldn't do it for me.
"There's a lot to unpack there. Perhaps I should let said gentleman speak from himself. He does seem to be doing rather well and I thought the bird photoshopped on his face to be quite funny. No bird's were harmed! One would hope. | |||
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"Delectable and kakapo have eye catching pics, shows some personality and also something primal too. Action pics are attractive, something outdoorsy. Naked beach pics shows a sense of adventure. Anything other than sitting around in tracksuit pants with one hand holding your dick and the other the remote control. I m partial to a gym pic, no harm in looking after your body. Anything playful helps too. If you wear a suit well, I ld stop by for a look. " Looks like I’m going to have to hit the beach to up my picture game 😅 | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome." Less is more in my opinion. | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. " As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures? | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures?" Less skin...more photos! A nice suit does it for me or even a crisp white shirt!  | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures? Less skin...more photos! A nice suit does it for me or even a crisp white shirt! "Is the tie a bonus as well? 😁 | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures? Less skin...more photos! A nice suit does it for me or even a crisp white shirt! "Ok, I'm aggreeing with the less skin part, only so many pics of a hairy chest I can take. But at the same time I've seen profiles with 20, 30, 40 public pics or more, which just seems like over kill. | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures? Less skin...more photos! A nice suit does it for me or even a crisp white shirt!
Ok, I'm aggreeing with the less skin part, only so many pics of a hairy chest I can take.
But at the same time I've seen profiles with 20, 30, 40 public pics or more, which just seems like over kill.
"I really only ever look at the first page of someone's pictures | |||
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""Some guys have really funny photos. One dude has a bird on his head and is killing it." My thoughts here... The fun photos are great, especially when showcasing a tasty torso, killing birds is not great, are we sure he is killing it? birds sitting on faces is fun but a photo of that on a lads profile wouldn't do it for me.
There's a lot to unpack there. Perhaps I should let said gentleman speak from himself.
He does seem to be doing rather well and I thought the bird photoshopped on his face to be quite funny.
No bird's were harmed! One would hope."I can confirm the bird was unharmed. A little traumatised but physically unharmed | |||
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"This has probably been asked a thousand times before, but what type of pictures on a mans profile catch the attention of women. I feel like having a load of dick pics up isn't the way to go. Any advice would be welcome. Less is more in my opinion. As in less skin being shown, or fewer pictures? Less skin...more photos! A nice suit does it for me or even a crisp white shirt!
Ok, I'm aggreeing with the less skin part, only so many pics of a hairy chest I can take.
But at the same time I've seen profiles with 20, 30, 40 public pics or more, which just seems like over kill.
I really only ever look at the first page of someone's pictures"Thats understandable. The profile will catch your eye, either from the pictures or the bio straight away. Which is my original question. What is eye catching, in your opinion. Not everyone will have the same tastes or interests, but in general what should a profile have to give you as much information to make that decision | |||
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"1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive." Easier for some than others | |||
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"1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive. Easier for some than others" Try to enjoy yourself while making photos. You’ve already got the tips, now try to have fun in the process. | |||
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""Some guys have really funny photos. One dude has a bird on his head and is killing it." My thoughts here... The fun photos are great, especially when showcasing a tasty torso, killing birds is not great, are we sure he is killing it? birds sitting on faces is fun but a photo of that on a lads profile wouldn't do it for me.
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"1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive. Easier for some than others Try to enjoy yourself while making photos. You’ve already got the tips, now try to have fun in the process. " Thanks | |||
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"Two general rules when taking photos that should be used whenever someone is taking a photo. Doesn't matter if its for fab or insta or family etc. 1. Focus - its essential to have photos that are properly in focus . Blurry photos should never be used unless it's a very specific artistic style that someone is purposely aiming for. 2. Framing - know exactly what you want to draw the viewers attention to and ensure that you do that successfully. 3. Background - very similar to the above, know exactly what's in the background of your photos and have a good reason for it to be there. Otherwise, it shouldn't be there. Specifically looking at your photos, I'd have the following comments to make which I do hope you will find beneficial. 4 August - I think the framing of this photo doesn't help you. It's very difficult for the viewer not to be drawn to the cabinet on the right and the toiletries on the left. The toilet in the background doesn't help either. 11 July - this is your best photo. Its framed well, people will naturally be drawn to your face and there's nothing in the background that's distracting the viewer. The one advice I'd suggest is to smile, I know how uncomfortable and awkward that can be as I absolutely hate all my photos where I am smiling. But it really does creative a much more positive impression. 9 July - again framing is the problem. You've made the main focus of this picture the camera phone in front of your face and your torso is the background/after thought. You want your torso to be the centre of attention. Place the camera at nipple level to achieve this. 9 July (suit) - the image is too small and makes the image look as if it's out of focus. I'd suggest deleting and trying again. The most important tool for a good selfie is the timer device on your camera. I never recommend to use a photo where you are holding the phone if at all possible. Use the timer device, it really is a game changer for excellent quality photos. The ideas behind your photos are good and they are the sort of photos that will do well, the execution just needs a bit of work but that's a very easy fix to make with a small bit of practice. " Thanks for the advice there. The pictures weren't taken for the purpose of fab, just what was most recent on my camera roll. But I think you're right, a bit of time spent and done purposefully would be better | |||
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"Two general rules when taking photos that should be used whenever someone is taking a photo. Doesn't matter if its for fab or insta or family etc. 1. Focus - its essential to have photos that are properly in focus . Blurry photos should never be used unless it's a very specific artistic style that someone is purposely aiming for. 2. Framing - know exactly what you want to draw the viewers attention to and ensure that you do that successfully. 3. Background - very similar to the above, know exactly what's in the background of your photos and have a good reason for it to be there. Otherwise, it shouldn't be there. Specifically looking at your photos, I'd have the following comments to make which I do hope you will find beneficial. 4 August - I think the framing of this photo doesn't help you. It's very difficult for the viewer not to be drawn to the cabinet on the right and the toiletries on the left. The toilet in the background doesn't help either. 11 July - this is your best photo. Its framed well, people will naturally be drawn to your face and there's nothing in the background that's distracting the viewer. The one advice I'd suggest is to smile, I know how uncomfortable and awkward that can be as I absolutely hate all my photos where I am smiling. But it really does creative a much more positive impression. 9 July - again framing is the problem. You've made the main focus of this picture the camera phone in front of your face and your torso is the background/after thought. You want your torso to be the centre of attention. Place the camera at nipple level to achieve this. 9 July (suit) - the image is too small and makes the image look as if it's out of focus. I'd suggest deleting and trying again. The most important tool for a good selfie is the timer device on your camera. I never recommend to use a photo where you are holding the phone if at all possible. Use the timer device, it really is a game changer for excellent quality photos. The ideas behind your photos are good and they are the sort of photos that will do well, the execution just needs a bit of work but that's a very easy fix to make with a small bit of practice. " WOW! Great photo tips  | |||
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