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"I perv... hoping they message. Rarely l make the first move." Just remain silent and hopefully they say hello as am shy | |||
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention? What do you do? I've noticed a few different options that guys use 1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact 2 message, send a wink and a friend request 3 like all public pics What works for you? " Well there is only so much one can do to draw females attention! So try everything… Most men don’t get responses back, so yeah like a pic or just simple like page. Or ask directly in possible interest. 95% time probably not reply. Men will try everything before they give up. That answer your question | |||
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention? What do you do? I've noticed a few different options that guys use 1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact 2 message, send a wink and a friend request 3 like all public pics What works for you? " Nothing works😂. Previously I would message them and probably fab a few pics too. Now I have a wank and block🤣 | |||
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention? What do you do? I've noticed a few different options that guys use 1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact 2 message, send a wink and a friend request 3 like all public pics What works for you? " I recall on a forum thread ages ago a guy mentioning he used to leave verifications on profiles he wanted to meet, this almost always resulted in a reply asking why they left a verification to which he responded he could see the future etc. although I think it worked a couple of times for him I think he was banned eventually. | |||
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"If I find a profile I’m interested in I might fab a few photos if I like them and if I decide to send them a message I’ll open the message box and stare at it for a few minutes. Then back out of it when nothing comes to mind. I might then go back and type another message only to delete again because I think it’s garbage. I might repeat this another few times and in the end never actually message the person " Same here | |||
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman - Combination of all but usually a message works best. Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate ! Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so. A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers. I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention." I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile | |||
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman - Combination of all but usually a message works best. Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate ! Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so. A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers. I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention. I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile" Good to know. I rarely see that someone has viewed my profile after I have fabbed or viewed theirs. | |||
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"Still waiting for the day someone just places their order " Donuts and coffee please | |||
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"Speaking from the point of view of a man trying to contact a woman - Combination of all but usually a message works best. Wonder about the value of winks , it’s basically a hi which most ladies hate ! Do woman really check through all the profiles that have fabbed their pics or who has their viewed their profile , I don’t think so. A well worded message that shows you have read their profile and then cross your fingers. I use to like when you had to write a subject line, it was fun coming up with something you thought might grab the attention. I would always check who's fabbed my pics or viewed my profile Good to know. I rarely see that someone has viewed my profile after I have fabbed or viewed theirs." Ninja mode | |||
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"So you see a profile that catches your attention? What do you do? I've noticed a few different options that guys use 1 keep looking at profile few times a day but not interact 2 message, send a wink and a friend request 3 like all public pics What works for you? " 1st put in the hotlist 2nd make some follow up especially new profiles or profile with no pics and/or veris to avoid surprises. 3rd wink 4th text sometimes face pic attached 4a if the reply happens see if is positive or negative and move on or stop. 4b if not reply and keep in yellow sending more text till one is read. 4c if read and not replied send a second one, if that is not replied either stop texting and block to avoid texting again. 4d if read and deleted (block) the same as 4c. I never send random friend requests and only fab the pics that I like, I don’t fab pics as an attraction strategy. | |||
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