FabSwingers.com forum: Photos or not

By *oughal23 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Dungarvan

Hey, can I just ask do you think it's fair for people with no photos to demand a face pic in the first message. Before they decide if they will reply? I understand the physical attraction thing. But considering they don't want to show themselves. Is it right for them to demand face pics?

Just wondering what your thoughts are on it.

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By *elloMarylouWoman
14 weeks ago

mayo

Nope , but everyone us entitled to do what they want.

If you don't agree with it that's OK.

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By *og-ManMan
14 weeks ago

somewhere

If you don't want to share a face photo just don't

You're on an adult sex site so fair doesn't come into it

Do the site your way and let others do it their way

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By *oughal23 OP Man
14 weeks ago

Dungarvan

It's not that I have a problem with sharing my face pic with someone I am talking to, please don't get me wrong, but I rather see if we get on first. But for someone to have no photos at all and demand they get a photo of you in the very first message you send them. Feels like they are not so genuine. As I said I am just wondering what peoples thoughts are on it. No offence meant to anyone

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By *elloMarylouWoman
14 weeks ago

mayo

"It's not that I have a problem with sharing my face pic with someone I am talking to, please don't get me wrong, but I rather see if we get on first. But for someone to have no photos at all and demand they get a photo of you in the very first message you send them. Feels like they are not so genuine. As I said I am just wondering what peoples thoughts are on it. No offence meant to anyone "

What's genuine? Plenty verified and photos shown wouldn't consider them genuine.

My advice here is font give put your pics if it doesn't feel right.

Be careful what you share online whether it's here or any other form of social media

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By *ozzlesMan
14 weeks ago

galway

All's fair in love and war.

If you don't think what's being asked of you feels fair then you're probably right, move along to the next profile that catches your attention.

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By *razyNippleLoverMan
14 weeks ago

Naas

I'd always treat on a case by case basis, but as marylou hinted sometimes the one with the photos can be the least genuine.

Go with your gut, if don't feel right about a demand for a photo , that person's not for you , move on like the other contributers have said.

Maybe set your filters for photos only also if you want to avoid people not willing to share yet .

But definitely don't give your banking details either if demanded!!!!🤑🤐🤐

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
14 weeks ago

South Down

People can ask for whatever they want.

People can choose to not comply with every request, or any for that matter.

I'd say that's fair.

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
14 weeks ago

The West

"People can ask for whatever they want.

People can choose to not comply with every request, or any for that matter.

I'd say that's fair."

This

You're not obliged to do anything, and, as rule, we wouldn't even interact with a blanket profile, let alone send face pics.

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By *hinbutlong1Man
14 weeks ago

Trim

"People can ask for whatever they want.

People can choose to not comply with every request, or any for that matter.

I'd say that's fair.

This

You're not obliged to do anything, and, as rule, we wouldn't even interact with a blanket profile, let alone send face pics."

100% although I know what he's saying a few women on here demand face photos without even having a verified pic themselves..but that's on yourself to not send one if you don't like it 🤣

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By *chochamberWoman
14 weeks ago

Munster

Empty profile are like empty bin bags blowing in the wind, would you stop to talk to one of those?

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By *eijaWoman
14 weeks ago

City Centre

OP why even engage with empty profiles....in my opinion just shows lack of effort on their part.

Do Fab the way you want and dont give into demands.

B x

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By *he KakapoMan
14 weeks ago

A nice rock

It's fair in so much as they are not harming anyone by asking.

And there will always be plenty lads on here thirsty enough to jump through any hoop for the chance of some vagina.

It's a bit of a red flag for me tho and not a profile I'd ever engage with nevermind lead with a face pic

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By *aseylee324Couple
14 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

People can demand what they like, that behavior is simply another filter for us.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
14 weeks ago

Galway

"Hey, can I just ask do you think it's fair for people with no photos to demand a face pic in the first message. Before they decide if they will reply? I understand the physical attraction thing. But considering they don't want to show themselves. Is it right for them to demand face pics?

Just wondering what your thoughts are on it. "

Absolutely not from us anyway! Blank profiles get ignored here

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
14 weeks ago

Lucan

Just wondering what your thoughts are on it. "

They can ask for anything they like.

You can refuse to give them anything you don't want to give.

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By *lowloadandgocoupleCouple
14 weeks ago

ferrybank

Supply and demand so yes.

Especially when couples are looking for single men, worst case scenario they don't send one, no big deal...

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By *adyKarmennTVTV/TS
14 weeks ago

Dublin

Just wondering what your thoughts are on it. "

Nope amd if they ask me for a photo I reply … NO

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By *inksgirl PromotionsCouple
14 weeks ago

Dundalk

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By *eralt80Man
14 weeks ago

cork

I wouldn’t interact with any profile that didn’t have both an avatar photo or public photos on show. I assume they are either hiding something or are fake.

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