FabSwingers.com forum: Trans.

By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

Would a bloke being with a trans in the past turn a girl off?

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

Depends on the girl you meet. Some don't care and others are very judgemental

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Unfortunately there are quite a few girls here who would judge that yes.

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By *lueLotusWoman
18 weeks ago

the wilderness

I can only speak for myself. It would make me MORE attracted to a guy if they've been with tv/cds, trans, lgbtq+ people, it's a green flag which would tell me the guy is open minded and emotionally intelligent.

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

I think it depends personally. There’s a huge difference between a fem tv/ts and a bloke in a wig and heels no?

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
18 weeks ago

South Down

I'm more likely to be put off someone for using the term "a trans"

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"I think it depends personally. There’s a huge difference between a fem tv/ts and a bloke in a wig and heels no?"

The grouping of trans people here with crossdressers isn't helpful... but some women would be transphobic enough that it would just be a straight no way.

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

Sorry. Didn’t mean to offend. Trans person?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Sorry. Didn’t mean to offend. Trans person?"

You didn't offend at all.

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

Would you two be into a trans person together? Just curious

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

What I mean is the site itself groups trans people together with crossdressers

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

I don't think about it, we're all here to get some

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
18 weeks ago

South Down

"Sorry. Didn’t mean to offend. Trans person?"

A person who is trans, a trans woman, a trans man... anything is better than "a trans"

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

"Sorry. Didn’t mean to offend. Trans person?

A person who is trans, a trans woman, a trans man... anything is better than "a trans""

I can’t keep up. Sorry

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Would you two be into a trans person together? Just curious "

Potentially. Herself have played with trans people before, but I haven't. It's not something we would rule out in the right circumstances.

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

"What I mean is the site itself groups trans people together with crossdressers "

Good point.

Have you two tried. Personally I’d prefer a 3 way with a female and a trans person. Don’t think that’s too bad honestly

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

You don't think that's too bad???

What do you mean by this

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

It's a sex site...not that much to think about

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
18 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me.

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By *ickey ThumbWoman
18 weeks ago

South Down

For me it would depend on the reason they've been with a trans person. Any whiff of fetishism of trans people would put me off. If they've been with someone who is trans because they found that person attractive (and the fact that person was trans was inconsequential) then I've no issue at all. But I'm self aware enough to know that's due to my own circumstances

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me."

No I meant I don’t think there’s anything wrong with wanting to be with a trans person. Most people think it’s bad but I think it’s grand. I was just wondering would it turn a woman away having a verification from a TS/TV. Think it does

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

"For me it would depend on the reason they've been with a trans person. Any whiff of fetishism of trans people would put me off. If they've been with someone who is trans because they found that person attractive (and the fact that person was trans was inconsequential) then I've no issue at all. But I'm self aware enough to know that's due to my own circumstances"

That’s exactly what I think. You’re just more articulate than me lol

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Dublin

As others have pointed out, the way this website groups trans people together with crossdressers is extremely unhelpful, mostly because it just wastes a lot of time!

OP, as others have pointed out "a trans" is not an accurate way to talk about us. Trans is a descriptive word. I am a trans woman. There are also trans men, not to mention people with other genders beyond that who may or may not identify as trans. You wouldn't call someone "a tall".

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me.

"Most people think it's bad"?

We obviously move in different circles.

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By *he KakapoMan
18 weeks ago

A nice rock

Ya the grouping in fab is ridiculous, but hey we have emojis now at least.

I would say alot of what I know about the trans community in the last 10 years was learned via discussions on this forum and chatting to fabbers so it's not all bad

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By *ichael Scarne OP Man
18 weeks ago

rathcoole

"As others have pointed out, the way this website groups trans people together with crossdressers is extremely unhelpful, mostly because it just wastes a lot of time!

Again. I’m sorry. I didn’t mean offence

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
18 weeks ago

Dublin

None taken. Making mistakes is how we learn.

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By *antra MassageMan
17 weeks ago

South Side.

"Sorry. Didn’t mean to offend. Trans person?"

Im not offended . A very interesting discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
17 weeks ago

Your a single guy so wouldn't matter what you did in the past it's a NO

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By *heelofTimeCouple
17 weeks ago

Two Rivers

OP just do whatever you want and meet whoever you want. Don’t be concerned that a little green tick from a TV/TS as this site defines them turns certain people off. You are never going to please everyone no matter what. There are so many judgmental people around, it’s best you do you and let them do them. Who cares what others are or aren’t doing. Meet a trans person if that’s what you want and don’t worry about the ones who will be put off by it. For everyone who is put off there are people who aren’t. You don’t need to join the sheep to fit in, find your own peoples xx

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By *mooth 55Man
17 weeks ago

seaside

There are some quite beautiful tv/ts people here so certainly go for them if attracted, wouldn't worry what others think..

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By *wayandbackCouple
17 weeks ago

omagh

"Depends on the girl you meet. Some don't care and others are very judgemental "

Judgemental is the wrong word. It's about preference. Just because they're not interested due to someone's past doesn't make them judgmental

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By *chochamberWoman
17 weeks ago

Munster

"Id definitely not be fucking someone who wasn't super enthusiastic about it. If someone thought sex with me would not be too bad, then that would be a fuck no from me.

No the fact of a veri alone wouldn't put me off. If the content of the veri was really gratuitously graphic, it might put me off a little, if I thought the description maybe devalued either person or objectified them.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
17 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Depends on the girl you meet. Some don't care and others are very judgemental

Judgemental is the wrong word. It's about preference. Just because they're not interested due to someone's past doesn't make them judgmental"

Id disagree. Not being interested in someone for something that's not related to who they are or how they present themselves to you, but rather because of someone they chose to be intimate with previously isn't (in my opinion) a preference.

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