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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am amazed at the amount of people who turn nasty after a polite 'no thank you not interested'

Really makes me wonder what you would be letting yourself in for if you actually ended up playing? if you can't handle a no you shouldn't be on here...not everyone is going to be everyone's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just can't help it, so when we meeting , don't say no

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The pain of rejection probably adds to the pleasure of any subsequent acceptance. Is life, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being turned down is a part of this choice in lifestyle. It happens to us all.

So if an individual can't take rejection of any form then it definitely isn't a lifestyle for them.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I am amazed at the amount of people who turn nasty after a polite 'no thank you not interested'

Really makes me wonder what you would be letting yourself in for if you actually ended up playing? if you can't handle a no you shouldn't be on here...not everyone is going to be everyone's cup of tea"

If anybody needs some advice on being a reject fell free to message me,,,i can help you,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I've only had one guy on here turning nasty after I've said no to him. Most guys thank me for being honest and for bothering to answer and that's it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this place is notorious for lonatics and gobshites!men hate rejection as there egos get crushed!i say im horny not desperate and rather fuck a toy than some of the nutters here!!

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"this place is notorious for lonatics and gobshites!men hate rejection as there egos get crushed!i say im horny not desperate and rather fuck a toy than some of the nutters here!!"

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I am amazed at the amount of people who turn nasty after a polite 'no thank you not interested'

Really makes me wonder what you would be letting yourself in for if you actually ended up playing? if you can't handle a no you shouldn't be on here...not everyone is going to be everyone's cup of tea"

Have to add I have my share of rejection as in I am not in to U were i have replied ok thanks hope we can still chat which has led to some great friendships and fun msgs itsa life style don't need to fuck everyone here can enjoy their banter and witt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We turnd a down guy once an omg like the abuse an name calling was outrages an we said was sorry but its a no but happy swinging to ya but hay thats how some people are gone these days yeno its everywhere now on the street in pubs shops clubs etc there are so so many rude people out there but I just block em any rudeness goodbye lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

guess it is hard to turn someone down with out them feeling a little resentful, but it's what they do with it, we had only a few took to being nasty! but they were ohhhh sooo cross, for a while we didnt reply because the abuse we got from 2 of them was unreal, they took it as if we had messaged them and then turned them down, oh and we are not real swingers and time wasters because every one on the site should meet as it is a sex site now that was a good one

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

This is all double Dutch to me since I've never ever ever been rejected!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fourteen thousand people on here if men or women get rejected surely they should adapt the plenty more fish in the sea tactic and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guess it is hard to turn someone down with out them feeling a little resentful, but it's what they do with it, we had only a few took to being nasty! but they were ohhhh sooo cross, for a while we didnt reply because the abuse we got from 2 of them was unreal, they took it as if we had messaged them and then turned them down, oh and we are not real swingers and time wasters because every one on the site should meet as it is a sex site now that was a good one "

Some ppl need to get a grip lol

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"guess it is hard to turn someone down with out them feeling a little resentful, but it's what they do with it, we had only a few took to being nasty! but they were ohhhh sooo cross, for a while we didnt reply because the abuse we got from 2 of them was unreal, they took it as if we had messaged them and then turned them down, oh and we are not real swingers and time wasters because every one on the site should meet as it is a sex site now that was a good one

Some ppl need to get a grip lol"
some! maybe a lot need to,

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"This is all double Dutch to me since I've never ever ever been rejected!"

one of the lucky ones then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am amazed at the amount of people who turn nasty after a polite 'no thank you not interested'

Really makes me wonder what you would be letting yourself in for if you actually ended up playing? if you can't handle a no you shouldn't be on here...not everyone is going to be everyone's cup of tea"

Yup this happens way too much. . Poor boys don't like getting their egos getting bruised lol.. I used to think it was nice to be nice .. I'm afraid the block button is the method of choice now .. No thanks didn't seem to work so good

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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Yup this happens way too much. . Poor boys don't like getting their egos getting bruised lol.. I used to think it was nice to be nice .. I'm afraid the block button is the method of choice now .. No thanks didn't seem to work so good "

Yeah but, you reject us just because we won't wear blue and yellow y fronts. That's not fair

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any


"I am amazed at the amount of people who turn nasty after a polite 'no thank you not interested'

Really makes me wonder what you would be letting yourself in for if you actually ended up playing? if you can't handle a no you shouldn't be on here...not everyone is going to be everyone's cup of tea"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wonder have any women been rejected by any men on here?its seems to be always the men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i wonder have any women been rejected by any men on here?its seems to be always the men"

I suspect a fair few girls have, though I also suspect that the rejection is in the form of the idiot not turning up to a meet which is rather a lot worse than getting a no thank you email (or no response at all which is the more normal thing to do).

It cant be all that different to real life. I have seen women on here (and as its only women I am interested in I am limiting my comments to them) who frankly if they approached you in a bar you would drink up and leave. And yet here they are ooohed and aaahed and told they are the most gorgeous thing on earth. What worries me is that some people believe it.

So when it comes to egos been massaged or hurt, believe me its the same for both sexes. Us men don't have a monopoly on inflated egos!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"i wonder have any women been rejected by any men on here?its seems to be always the men

I suspect a fair few girls have, though I also suspect that the rejection is in the form of the idiot not turning up to a meet which is rather a lot worse than getting a no thank you email (or no response at all which is the more normal thing to do).

It cant be all that different to real life. I have seen women on here (and as its only women I am interested in I am limiting my comments to them) who frankly if they approached you in a bar you would drink up and leave. And yet here they are ooohed and aaahed and told they are the most gorgeous thing on earth. What worries me is that some people believe it.

So when it comes to egos been massaged or hurt, believe me its the same for both sexes. Us men don't have a monopoly on inflated egos!"

must say very valid and true so have to agree x we have been stood up before and it isnt nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Yup this happens way too much. . Poor boys don't like getting their egos getting bruised lol.. I used to think it was nice to be nice .. I'm afraid the block button is the method of choice now .. No thanks didn't seem to work so good

Yeah but, you reject us just because we won't wear blue and yellow y fronts. That's not fair "

Nah rejected the yellow and white Y fronts ... Quiet liked the tight fitting blue and yellow boxers lol up the Rossies

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


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Nah rejected the yellow and white Y fronts ... Quiet liked the tight fitting blue and yellow boxers lol up the Rossies"

"The sheep stealers" as they used to be known!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i wonder have any women been rejected by any men on here?its seems to be always the men"

of course they have which is why I said people not women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had some guy message me telling me to sort my pics out as they aren't clear enough then told me to 'go on a diet fatso' when I told him maybe he needed new specs instead. The charm offensive continues lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs jinx, he sounds really pleasant. You'd wonder what make these people tick.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Mrs jinx, he sounds really pleasant. You'd wonder what make these people tick. "

Maybe they're just born tick? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs jinx, he sounds really pleasant. You'd wonder what make these people tick. "

I know, I mean I forgot I was here to provide hi-res shots of myself so that he could really insult me then! hahaha. I've made all my photos for friends only now anyway so solves that little problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your just right, I think we've only two open to public viewing and don't intend making anymore public.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I particularly liked the guy who when I rejected him, came back at me accusing me of being a fake and that EVERYONE on here knew I was really a man and a time waster then blocked me before I could reply lol

And he's posted to this thread denouncing those who abuse

Go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol im just tryin to guess who it is now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies and cpls my advice is simple.... If a guy mails you and you dint want to meet him.. "say no thank you best of luck"... I truly believe there should be a polite automated response button. Having swung in England with a friend of mine I know the level of mail cpls get. So it's simple block block block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I particularly liked the guy who when I rejected him, came back at me accusing me of being a fake and that EVERYONE on here knew I was really a man and a time waster then blocked me before I could reply lol

And he's posted to this thread denouncing those who abuse

Go figure "

Lol I got the same .. I was told I was a time waster and dick tease and no super model...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I particularly liked the guy who when I rejected him, came back at me accusing me of being a fake and that EVERYONE on here knew I was really a man and a time waster then blocked me before I could reply lol

And he's posted to this thread denouncing those who abuse

Go figure

Lol I got the same .. I was told I was a time waster and dick tease and no super model... "

Ha it astounds me how thick some people are, they message you so they must be interested, then when you say no they insult you and say they wouldn't touch you with a barge pole etc. It is mind boggling how dumb that is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I particularly liked the guy who when I rejected him, came back at me accusing me of being a fake and that EVERYONE on here knew I was really a man and a time waster then blocked me before I could reply lol

And he's posted to this thread denouncing those who abuse

Go figure

Lol I got the same .. I was told I was a time waster and dick tease and no super model...

Ha it astounds me how thick some people are, they message you so they must be interested, then when you say no they insult you and say they wouldn't touch you with a barge pole etc. It is mind boggling how dumb that is! "

The real dumb ones post their outrage that someone would do such a thing on a forum when they are as guilty as hell of the same crime

Lolololololololol

Think I was so right in not wanting to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

ah another beauty is the response the my latest pic of 'c your no oil painting'

sex with an oil painting would be messy I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i rather wen people say no thanks , rather then just ignoring your message or deleting it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always do and then grt this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I particularly liked the guy who when I rejected him, came back at me accusing me of being a fake and that EVERYONE on here knew I was really a man and a time waster then blocked me before I could reply lol

And he's posted to this thread denouncing those who abuse

Go figure

Lol I got the same .. I was told I was a time waster and dick tease and no super model...

Ha it astounds me how thick some people are, they message you so they must be interested, then when you say no they insult you and say they wouldn't touch you with a barge pole etc. It is mind boggling how dumb that is!

The real dumb ones post their outrage that someone would do such a thing on a forum when they are as guilty as hell of the same crime

Lolololololololol

Think I was so right in not wanting to meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah another beauty is the response the my latest pic of 'c your no oil painting'

sex with an oil painting would be messy I imagine "

You're kidding!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"ah another beauty is the response the my latest pic of 'c your no oil painting'

sex with an oil painting would be messy I imagine

You're kidding!! "

sour grapes are terrible lol

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

I'm only new here and it's nice to get a polite no thanks. It's a lot better than a deleted mail and no response at least you know where you stand

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By *hite NoiseMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm only new here and it's nice to get a polite no thanks. It's a lot better than a deleted mail and no response at least you know where you stand "
no offence mate...but i think your mailing being deleted should let ye know where you stand. it happens to most blokes at some stage

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By *lutaxiMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

True I'm sure it has but I have to learn some how what's accepted here so all help accepted

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By *hite NoiseMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"True I'm sure it has but I have to learn some how what's accepted here so all help accepted "
well if anyone tells you the secret to success here send me a mail cos im fooked if i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have to say I've only had one guy on here turning nasty after I've said no to him. Most guys thank me for being honest and for bothering to answer and that's it. "

same here

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

Does make you wonder what they're like at bars/clubs if they get shot down... Would they dare to hurl abuse there or could they potentially be the kind of person who follows their unsuspecting crush home and attacks them in a dark alleyway?

It's more than not that brilliant ego that comes from being anonymous behind a keyboard. People come on here expecting that everyone is waiting to shag everyone and nobody has a choice.

I don't mind the abuse to be honest. It shows their true colours and makes me realise I've had a lucky escape.

- Amy. x

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