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"Meeting a woman is a lot like peeling an orange… " Wearing boxing gloves while the orange is in your pocket | |||
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"Meeting a woman is a lot like peeling an orange… Wearing boxing gloves while the orange is in your pocket " And your pocket is in another county….. | |||
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"Op if messaging is not working for you then stop sending messages would be my advice.... Either go to a social if you can Or just use the forums but not for complaining..just for having a bit of craic so women can see your personality and see if that works " This is good advice! Joking aside, it can be down to sheer numbers (ratio of men vs women) and timing. Best of luck  | |||
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"Meeting a woman is a lot like peeling an orange… Wearing boxing gloves while the orange is in your pocket And your pocket is in another county….." Where's that tiny violin emoji 
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"Meeting a woman is a lot like peeling an orange… Wearing boxing gloves while the orange is in your pocket And your pocket is in another county….. Where's that tiny violin emoji
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"Meeting a woman is a lot like peeling an orange… Wearing boxing gloves while the orange is in your pocket And your pocket is in another county….. Where's that tiny violin emoji
Stuck under all those things in the pocket
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"We don't normally post on these kind of threads but why mention his age preferences? If it was a female with same would it be such an issue? Seen plenty of couples and females looking for younger only since we've been on here " I ld say the same (and have done) to middle aged/older couples/women looking for 18 year olds. It's the unbalanced power dynamic that creates an opportunity for risk. An 18 year old's brain is still forming, while mature enough to consent, there is a vast difference in life experience. A 40 year age gap is huge, particularly at the younger end of the scale. A 28 year old would have had the opportunity to travel, work, gain life experience, the brain has matured etc, an 18 year old, is barely considered an adult. So a 40 year gap between a 28 year old and 68 year old, I think is less predatory than a significantly older person up for sex with a teenager. | |||
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Finally if you think a swinger's site is an easy way to get the ride you're in for bad time. It's twice if not more as hard to get the ride here than going out to a pub and pulling..
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"Most men treat this site as a hookup site, but many women and couples aren't interested in that, they need the connection and friendship. I'm generalising of course but I think that's why most men have no luck here. Mrs "Exactly this. Knowing and making friends on the scene opens up more opportunities than anything else. | |||
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"OP can I get some hints. The women are non stop looking for my dick. It's really annoying." Have you tried blocking them that's what I did  | |||
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"OP can I get some hints. The women are non stop looking for my dick. It's really annoying. Have you tried blocking them that's what I did "But then I can't look at their titties.... | |||
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"If there's one bit of advice I can give to all the single lads out there is DON'T do the scatter gun approach of sending 100s of mails (most likely copy and paste) to every woman and couple within 100 miles it's done by so many lads. If you want to improve you're engagement on here get involved in some of the fun threads on here it can be a great way to stand out from the random faceless profiles. I've had many a coffee over the years from people I got talking to on the forums and chat rooms. I've even got into relationships from match making games on the forums
Finally if you think a swinger's site is an easy way to get the ride you're in for bad time. It's twice if not more as hard to get the ride here than going out to a pub and pulling..
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"Hold on... you can actually meet the women from here? whoa..."Noooo, they're only teasing you. | |||
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"Hold on... you can actually meet the women from here? whoa...
Noooo, they're only teasing you. "Ahhh, bloody well thought so! Back to gawking and pics of their diddies for my kicks so  | |||
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"I would have put much thought into the age preference thing, it’s just the default setting, I’m not even sure what mine is set to, probably the default too, maybe I should change it….." All those 98 year olds throwing messages at young fellas like sex crazed loonies. Guys should really check there age ranges | |||
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"If there's one bit of advice I can give to all the single lads out there is DON'T do the scatter gun approach of sending 100s of mails (most likely copy and paste) to every woman and couple within 100 miles it's done by so many lads. If you want to improve you're engagement on here get involved in some of the fun threads on here it can be a great way to stand out from the random faceless profiles. I've had many a coffee over the years from people I got talking to on the forums and chat rooms. I've even got into relationships from match making games on the forums
Finally if you think a swinger's site is an easy way to get the ride you're in for bad time. It's twice if not more as hard to get the ride here than going out to a pub and pulling..
That's my 2 cents
We must drink in different pubs "Probably but the point still stands that if you can't pull on a night out you're not really going to pull here | |||
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" Probably but the point still stands that if you can't pull on a night out you're not really going to pull here" Your mileage may vary. I'm absolutely shite at meeting people in the pub. | |||
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"If there's one bit of advice I can give to all the single lads out there is DON'T do the scatter gun approach of sending 100s of mails (most likely copy and paste) to every woman and couple within 100 miles it's done by so many lads. If you want to improve you're engagement on here get involved in some of the fun threads on here it can be a great way to stand out from the random faceless profiles. I've had many a coffee over the years from people I got talking to on the forums and chat rooms. I've even got into relationships from match making games on the forums
Finally if you think a swinger's site is an easy way to get the ride you're in for bad time. It's twice if not more as hard to get the ride here than going out to a pub and pulling..
That's my 2 cents
We must drink in different pubs
Probably but the point still stands that if you can't pull on a night out you're not really going to pull here"What if you're more of a pusher than a puller as such?...  | |||
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"OP can I get some hints. The women are non stop looking for my dick. It's really annoying." I have the same problem except it's blokes looking at my willy Any port in a storm...... | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts!" Noted | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts! Noted" The Buy and Sell is where it's at! | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts! Noted The Buy and Sell is where it's at!" That is indeed where meets used to be arranged pre interwebs For those of us old enough to know | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts! Noted The Buy and Sell is where it's at! That is indeed where meets used to be arranged pre interwebs For those of us old enough to know "Hot Press or The farmers journal or Irelands own depending on who you're looking for | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts! Noted The Buy and Sell is where it's at!" Genuinely curious, how did these ads look? | |||
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"Hold on... you can actually meet the women from here? whoa...
Noooo, they're only teasing you.
Ahhh, bloody well thought so!
Back to gawking and pics of their diddies for my kicks so "Come on, tell the truth, you're only here for Linden anyway. | |||
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"Improve your pics, 3 similar dick pics (loads of women dislike them), essentially you have only 2 pictures. Your bio and pics are terse. There is no fun, just a hint of entitlement. You are 57 and you ll meet an 18 year old. You ll meet someone 39 years younger, and up to 13 years older. What does that say about you? Male entitlement? You could be an 18 year old's grandad, do you not think a just legal adult is too young for you? That alone would put me off. How about no dick pics but normal pic and ass pic ?? " | |||
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"Hold on... you can actually meet the women from here? whoa...
Noooo, they're only teasing you.
Ahhh, bloody well thought so!
Back to gawking and pics of their diddies for my kicks so
Come on, tell the truth, you're only here for Linden anyway. "Ya couldn’t blame the lad, sure he’s only human…… 
I’ll send you the link to our couples profile…… | |||
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"Where did you place the ad, in Done Deal? Adverts is way better, full of sluts! Noted The Buy and Sell is where it's at! That is indeed where meets used to be arranged pre interwebs For those of us old enough to know "Or so you’ve been told…… | |||
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"Hiya I aways reply to everyone even if I'm not interested I'll aways be respectful and say not for me but happy fabbing. " I must be way down on your message list so .. or this could be a reminder lol | |||
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I found that if you try tailoring your message to the individual, maybe commenting on a picture or on something they've mentioned in their profile it shows them that you've at least spent a minute reading their profiles. That has a much better chance of getting the ball rolling.
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"Becouse most of women on here are guys pretending " *shudder* | |||
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"Becouse most of women on here are guys pretending " Dammit I thought my disguise worked... | |||
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"Becouse most of women on here are guys pretending " Yes 75% are fake and about the same for couples! I find them every single day! I just ignore all messages unless I met the person/s in real life at a social now. Only solution. | |||
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"Becouse most of women on here are guys pretending Dammit I thought my disguise worked... " I thought my disguise worked too | |||
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"Becouse most of women on here are guys pretending Dammit I thought my disguise worked... I thought my disguise worked too "So your a woman disguised as a guy! That's a totally new approach. | |||
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"Hi all, I am messaging from cork, why is it so hard for any woman to reply to man's ad looking for a female, often after a couple of messages, contact stops completely, for every fifty messages replied to ,only one or two replies, any advice ,thanks in advance, " Others have told you suggestions for meeting women. I would say holding a decent conversation online usually is the best way to get meets. Us as a couple won’t meet anyone who can not talk properly on here. I mess with some to’ing and fro’ing but am crystal clear we will never meet as it’s clear they just want to get a leg over whereas we want friendship and connection with our meets. It can be tough break into this lifestyle if your not shy try a bigger social meet (I’m an extremely shy woman so I know how bigger socials don’t suit everyone as they are daunting for me) - small intimate meets with proper connections I prefer but can take a while to find. Look into the “help a fabber” forum thread and ask will someone down your side meet you for a coffee. Fab is not easy for any of us to regardless of gender, couple, sexual orientation. We all have different ways of doing things give it time you will find your groove….. But do start with coffees and chats or a drink or two and a giggle. Xxx | |||
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" I prefer to meet quickly and see if there is a connection in person so I don't really go in for lots of messaging. " Took me a few "goes" to spot the difference | |||
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