FabSwingers.com forum: Smart but hardest thing you have done?

By *iam756 OP Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin/Kildare laois

Let me say I have tried most things but getting a STI std test was the hardest thing I've ever done but when getting results even do always play safe it's an unbelievable happy feeling people do it even if you think everything is going ok

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By *addyseeds.ieMan
19 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

"Let me say I have tried most things but getting a STI std test was the hardest thing I've ever done but when getting results even do always play safe it's an unbelievable happy feeling people do it even if you think everything is going ok

I also always play safe and regularly test.

I don’t feel it’s the hardest thing to do, for sure it’s a responsible thing to do.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
19 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Getting divorced

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By *aseylee324Couple
19 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"Getting divorced "

Same for me

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By *electableicecreamMan
19 weeks ago

The West

Deciding to remain single

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By *ythenMan
19 weeks ago

North Co. Dublin

"Getting divorced

Same for me"

Divorce for me too

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By *oshSardineMan
19 weeks ago

Castleknock

"Getting divorced "

With you there.

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By *ustaniceguyMan
19 weeks ago

find out…

Booked a trip to climb Kilimanjaro next week ??

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By *chochamberWoman
19 weeks ago

Munster

Figured out some historical family trauma and the impact it had on later generations.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere

Hardest thing I've ever had to do is something I can't even talk about but it was worth it and I won

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Definitely getting divorced was the hardest decision I have ever made. Probably would have done it earlier but was worried how it might affect the kids. Thankfully we all came through it OK.

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By *amdonmaneMan
19 weeks ago

Cork

So far, choosing between being near my family or moving abroad to be with my "temporarily" long distanced partner when she decided she didn't want to come back home. It's caused a fair bit of pain and lonely moments, but I've already made more memories with my family, and I get to see my neice grow up in person.

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Dublin

For me it's a toss up between transitioning and getting sober

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By *4thfloorTV/TS
19 weeks ago

Dublin

Good man spreading the word. Regular testing is a must if you're using this site for its intended purpose! I test every 3 months, more if I'm particularly active, so wouldnt say its the hardest thing I've ever done lol. The free test kits from SH24.ie are a godsend!

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

"Getting divorced "

Agreed

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By *erryGoldMan
19 weeks ago

Redditch

Going to uk to pay for hotels and hospitals when my kid was young and receiving a call from home expecting the worse. Think something broke in me over those years.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
19 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

Divorce.. hard in terms of what it did to my kids, not to me. But staying 'for the sake of the children' would have been far harder and a shitload less smart.

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By *he Gentleman is backMan
19 weeks ago

Friday - Killarney

"Figured out some historical family trauma and the impact it had on later generations. "

No need to answer this in the forum or privately - Did you do a family constellation? Just wondering as thinking about it

Thanks

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By *enguin1Man
19 weeks ago

The sticks

Started a degree in my mid 40s.....final assignment submitted this week ??????

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By *ealitybitesMan
19 weeks ago

Belfast

Realising I was just as important as everyone else.

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By *icsJourneyWoman
19 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"Started a degree in my mid 40s.....final assignment submitted this week ??????"

I did that too. The relief of submitting that final dissertation! I did it 6 years part time but with that and running a small business the biggest challenge of my life. So well done!

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
19 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"Figured out some historical family trauma and the impact it had on later generations.

No need to answer this in the forum or privately - Did you do a family constellation? Just wondering as thinking about it

Thanks "

I'm thinking about one too, but just for me first. I know a few people who have dome them.

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By *chochamberWoman
19 weeks ago

Munster

"Figured out some historical family trauma and the impact it had on later generations.

No need to answer this in the forum or privately - Did you do a family constellation? Just wondering as thinking about it

Thanks

I'm thinking about one too, but just for me first. I know a few people who have dome them."

No, don't know what a family constellation is.

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By *og-ManMan
19 weeks ago

somewhere

Well done thise who went back to education later in life

Left school just weeks before my leaving cert and always wonder how I would have done

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By *aseylee324Couple
19 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"Started a degree in my mid 40s.....final assignment submitted this week ??????"

Well done!

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By *aid backMan
19 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

Never getting married

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By *otownkid1967Man
19 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"Getting divorced

Same for me"

Me too

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By *huCullainMan
19 weeks ago

Rathowen

Gave up smoking

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
19 weeks ago

borderarea

Lots along the same lines as everyone else here- divorce, recognising and walking away from things that were saccharine.

Recognising positive change in my mental health after making hard decisions - counselling.

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By *om TangoMan
19 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’ve yet to start the divorce. Unfortunately I don’t know anyone personally that has experience of this. I keep putting it off for lots of reasons. Mainly I can’t find somewhere affordable to move into yet. Think it would be best to be out of the main family home first before starting this. 2 years left on the mortgage also and I feel if it’s sorted things might be easier also.

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By *om TangoMan
19 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I’m like bog man above and what he says. . Can’t talk much about it and I also won. It took over 5 years to win. But I got to watch the old fucker matched away in handcuffs to start his jail sentence. Losted family members over it all even to this day i apparently shamed they family name.

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By *unflowerWoman
19 weeks ago

Dublin

We could set up a club Divorce survivors

But I definitely would consider giving a birth the most difficult thing I’ve ever done. Not sure about smart.

STI test is one of the easiest, but definitely smartest things to do

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By *iam756 OP Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin/Kildare laois

"We could set up a club Divorce survivors

But I definitely would consider giving a birth the most difficult thing I’ve ever done. Not sure about smart.

STI test is one of the easiest, but definitely smartest things to do

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