FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual Socials

By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

Has anyone in Dublin ever organised a Bisexual Only social? Seems a lot of posts here talk about the restrictions of finding truly bi men, women and couples, is it something that would work?

On the other hand, will it be taken negatively?

Just looking for opinions here to see if there is a scope for them.

Pride hangover is still on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
20 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Socials are usually inclusive events, but if you want to organise then give it a go!

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

"Socials are usually inclusive events, but if you want to organise then give it a go!"

100% agree

Just trying to see if meet only bi people in a social would make it any easier

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By *affa31Woman
20 weeks ago

Galway

For couples, would both need to be bi?

Could women who are straight but enjoy bi mmf attend?

It’s a good idea and worth exploring. Just make sure you have it fully thought out first

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

"For couples, would both need to be bi?

Could women who are straight but enjoy bi mmf attend?

It’s a good idea and worth exploring. Just make sure you have it fully thought out first

That is what I am trying to suss out.

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By *s LollyWoman
20 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im not Bi but definitely a an interest in Bi-Curious/Bisexual Men id be interested

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By *og-ManMan
20 weeks ago

somewhere

Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea "

That is something that can be looked at. Bi/Bi Admirers Social

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By *carlett!Woman
20 weeks ago

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea "

Great idea. Must look into that for my next party

4 different types maybe. Different colours for straight, bi, bi-curious & spaghetti

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
20 weeks ago

Craigavon

Bet you would get alot of spaghetti people it's a great idea though I'm surprised the dv8 crowd don't do one as they did a BBW /admirers nite and other themed nites

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
20 weeks ago

South Down

There was one a while back, Co. Monaghan I think? Probs a couple of years ago now

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By *reative ideasMan
20 weeks ago

Next door

I would be interested in helping put this together.

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By *s24fun...Couple
20 weeks ago

Trim

Hubby and I are both genuinely bi and would be very interested in this event

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

I think I might actually research some venues in town for this

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By *adylaceWoman
20 weeks ago

Waterford City

Could be very interesting.

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By *ivelifeMan
20 weeks ago

Dublin

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea "

No body needs labels. Anyone who will he at the social will there as the are either Bi or Bi curious.

No need for labels.

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By *iCuri0Man
20 weeks ago

Shannon

I'd be very interested in attending. Where in the country might it be taking place?

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
20 weeks ago

wexford

I'd be very interested

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By *reative ideasMan
20 weeks ago

Next door

"I think I might actually research some venues in town for this"

I might know of a location actually for this.

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

"I think I might actually research some venues in town for this

I might know of a location actually for this."

Let me know. Can’t dm ya

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By *isburn cncMan
20 weeks ago

Dunmurry

Lisburn fun needed couples and females

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By *umpsMan
20 weeks ago

city

I attended a social event a while back for a bi night.. just people exploring,. No one had to take part in anything uncomfortable.. or not at all .

Great watching too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
20 weeks ago

Central

"I attended a social event a while back for a bi night.. just people exploring,. No one had to take part in anything uncomfortable.. or not at all .

Great watching too "

Even if it's a sexually active event, nobody ever has to physically engage with anyone, ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Put me down as interested.

Have had the pleasure of a mmf free for all before and it was good filthy fun

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By *otownkid1967Man
20 weeks ago

Portlaoise

It would be great if you can get this going OP. Definitely interested

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By *og-ManMan
20 weeks ago

somewhere

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea

No body needs labels. Anyone who will he at the social will there as the are either Bi or Bi curious.

No need for labels. "

I dont mean a bi social

When you go to a normal social you wear a wristband and you could have 250 fabbers at the social

So an extra wristband to show that you're bi or bi curious with the right person or couple

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By *urby93Man
20 weeks ago

tipperary

Put me down as a definite for this anyway XD

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
20 weeks ago

Dublin

Planning something soon folks. Hopefully it flyys of the ground soon

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By *ast_jjMan
20 weeks ago

Dublin and London

Sounds like a great idea. Hopefully it works out.

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By *hemanforallseasonsMan
20 weeks ago

Dublin

This sounds great, please keep me considered for attendance

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By *ungry CatCouple
20 weeks ago

Belfast

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea

No body needs labels. Anyone who will he at the social will there as the are either Bi or Bi curious.

No need for labels.

I dont mean a bi social

When you go to a normal social you wear a wristband and you could have 250 fabbers at the social

So an extra wristband to show that you're bi or bi curious with the right person or couple "

Fantastic idea Bog!

We may try that at our next big social on 24th of August to see if that's something that would work.

I find it is kinda hard for bi men to spot each other at these things, so it should be a massive help

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By *otvanilla876Man
20 weeks ago

Inchicore

Definitely up for this! Can't wait to hear more

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I would love this not gonna lie

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin

Folks, just announced a social for the same. Details are in the forum or yous can dm me

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By *oxtrotTangoLoveMan
19 weeks ago

monkstown/kentstown

I would definitely be interested

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By *icsJourneyWoman
19 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

I have a Bisexual pride silicone bracelet I wear just out and about. Always interesting to see who spots it and also who understands.

So wearing it to a social is something I'd do as a matter of course. Lots of retailers have them at this time of year for pride. Mine was from Shein. I got a couple and stack them.

I prefer the lesbian colours so wish I was a lesbian lol.

Unfortunately the Demi flag (I'm Demi) is close to the Asexual Flag colours so it gives the wring impression as I'm yhe opposite of Asexual.

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By *scouple07Couple
19 weeks ago

louth, Ireland

Haven't read back sorry but does both halves of a couple have to be bisexual or can it just be the 1 side

Mrs Gs

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
19 weeks ago

Dublin

"Haven't read back sorry but does both halves of a couple have to be bisexual or can it just be the 1 side

Mrs Gs"

Either half is fine being bi

It’s all about building the community

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By *faliMan
19 weeks ago

Grand Canal Dock

It is a great idea. Put me in a list please

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By *aoulduke9909Man
19 weeks ago

Clonee

Definitely in

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By *tingray271Man
19 weeks ago

Sligo Donegal

Well im bi. It could work yes

Personally I would feel more comfortable knowing everyone was the same and there would be no awareness.

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By (user no longer on site)
18 weeks ago

When is due to happen would definitely be interested

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By *reamersCouple
18 weeks ago

Yes we'd love to attend as I'm bi and male is straight great idea keep us posted

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By *edbull88Man
18 weeks ago

sligo

Im up for this

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"Don't think it would be viable

I seem to remember when a club had a bi night that was cancelled due to lack of ticket sales

Maybe a social that as well as the normal wristband then people that are bi could wear an extra coloured wristband for identification to show other bi people

Thats if people are not afraid / ashamed of their sexuality

Just an idea

Great idea. Must look into that for my next party

4 different types maybe. Different colours for straight, bi, bi-curious & spaghetti "

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
18 weeks ago

Dublin

Wouldn't it be better to just know every guy or girl in the room is bisexual?

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By *exy Saucy SocialsCouple
18 weeks ago

Dublin

"Wouldn't it be better to just know every guy or girl in the room is bisexual?"

No confusion with labels or wristbands

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

"Wouldn't it be better to just know every guy or girl in the room is bisexual?

No confusion with labels or wristbands "

Yes great idea and very popular as can been seen by the fully booked social

My idea was more just for socials where you could have a lot of people at it

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By *icsJourneyWoman
18 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"Wouldn't it be better to just know every guy or girl in the room is bisexual?

No confusion with labels or wristbands

Yes great idea and very popular as can been seen by the fully booked social

My idea was more just for socials where you could have a lot of people at it "

I think because couples are included where one half is bi and the other not.

But it would be good to only have bi people.

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By *edbull88Man
18 weeks ago

sligo

It would be better if everyone was bisexual

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By *itlbeeCouple
18 weeks ago

It starts a while conversation about how we define bi.

For example, a lot of guys aren't up for anal - giving or recieving, which is fair, but that makes them worry they aren't going to be seen as "truly bi".

But for women, kissing, touching and oral is all there is to it.

Still, it's more common for LGBTQ people to have these conversations about what your sexual partners are open to,

With straight people it's always kind of assumed.

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

For example, a lot of guys aren't up for anal - giving or recieving, which is fair, but that makes them worry they aren't going to be seen as "truly bi".

Had that exact conversation with a couple once and afterwards thats exactly what I felt like

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By *ethmeonfire OP Man
18 weeks ago

Dublin

So just to give you guys a context

Every single male for my booked social is Bi or Curious

Every single female is Bi or Curious

Only 3 couples have the male as straight.

This was purely a trial and it is successful at the moment. Next one will surely be a bi only social.

However, no one is invited or coming to the social who says No Bi Men on their profiles.

Just to keep the conversations started and ease the tension in the room, I am trailing the wristbands.

Hate me if you want, but atleast I am trying to do something different in this space.

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By *og-ManMan
18 weeks ago

somewhere

Dont think there's any hate for this Seth

Anyone trying to run a social should be appreciated...its hard work

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By *adylaceWoman
18 weeks ago

Waterford City

I think the wristband idea is a great way to go and could possibly be a good idea for all events. It can be very difficult to figure out who's straight, bi, single, couple...but I know from experience that socials can be difficult to organise and you will never please everyone.

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By *udding RoseWoman
18 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"I think the wristband idea is a great way to go and could possibly be a good idea for all events. It can be very difficult to figure out who's straight, bi, single, couple...but I know from experience that socials can be difficult to organise and you will never please everyone. "

I agree with this completely!! Wishing you the best of luck with your first social and hopefully there'll be more to come!!

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By *xBelMorriganMan
18 weeks ago

Dublin

When I'm in PDI I regularly attend the Eden_GC Bi nights which have exactly that - a wristband you wear which indicates you are Bi and open to playing with all genders (as in Man and Woman are not the only genders) and the wristband always works well

I would definitely be open for a future event xx

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