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By (user no longer on site) OP   
14 weeks ago

I recently discovered a profile on here which turned out to be that of my wife. The profile had lots of very explicit photos of her and other men in sexual acts. She had 17 verifications by meeting in person. When confronted, she became very angry and then hid her profile. She later deleted the profile but won't really talk about this. She is still active on KIK and Telegram and I can only think it is to keep in touch with these men. She has cheated on me previously but this is very recent and I can't seem to get over it. I am not sure what I should do?

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By *og-ManMan
14 weeks ago

somewhere

Did you tell her that you were also on here looking for sex with someone

If you're going to try to save the marriage then she should know

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By *he KakapoMan
14 weeks ago

A nice rock

You should make a profile on a swingers site too... that'll teach her

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By *he KakapoMan
14 weeks ago

A nice rock

Or what bog said but it's Monday and I'm snarky

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By *cotsguyyMan
14 weeks ago

Belfast

I'm sure I've read this before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
14 weeks ago

I know how it looks but to be very honest I created this profile to catch her out! I can’t seem to get past this and I keep looking to see if I can find photos of her with other people! I don’t know why but it is eating me up!

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By *chochamberWoman
14 weeks ago

Limerick

Set up a couples profile....??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
14 weeks ago

She knows I am in here and she knows why but she twists it all to justify her actions! I am not trying to save the marriage- it’s done!

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By *he KakapoMan
14 weeks ago

A nice rock


"I know how it looks but to be very honest I created this profile to catch her out! I can’t seem to get past this and I keep looking to see if I can find photos of her with other people! I don’t know why but it is eating me up!"

Having a raging horn profile pic seems very dedicated to the cause OP. I admire your commitment

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By *he KakapoMan
14 weeks ago

A nice rock

As entertaining as this is.

You'd have to be somewhat worried when this is how some actual adults behave

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
14 weeks ago

Stupid I know but I thought she might see it and then I would find her new profile ! Pathetic really but I am struggling!

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By *chochamberWoman
14 weeks ago

Limerick

I m calling BS, your 1 pic is very revealing, I think an undercover snoop, wouldn't bother with the revealing pic.

Are you looking for reactions so you can call out double standards for cheating men and women?

Response to this hypothetical Q:ditch the wife, if she won't communicate honestly with you, and won't invite you into her playful, secret life.

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By *itlbeeCouple
14 weeks ago

Ireland

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By *itlbeeCouple
14 weeks ago

Ireland

That's a shitty situation to be in. Sorry mate.

If you're done with her, you need to stop looking for the photos and evidence. It's essentially self harm at that point.

You know what she did. You're done with her. You're anger and hurt is justified. Don't make yourself suffer by pouring over the details. You'll be tormented by the memories of everything you see.

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By *og-ManMan
14 weeks ago

somewhere

Op

I'm going to assume its a real situation

How can you tell shes still using the other messaging Apps without having access to her phone is the first thing

Why does she think you're on here ....for what reason

What hurts you more

The fact she's met others for sex ( veris don't mean sex so number is not important)

Or the fact you didn't know

Would you have been happy if you knew in advance and ye were both on here

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
14 weeks ago

My town

Ohhh right so he's gone.

So his wife knew he had a profile before. I guess it don't matter now he's gone

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By *og-ManMan
14 weeks ago

somewhere

And close thread

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By *adger BrocMan
14 weeks ago

Co. Cork

My only question was did she have permission from the guys in her pics to post them.

But I guess I will never know.

I feel a little bit cheated.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
14 weeks ago

Cork

So this was a bs situation so ? Why do lads continue set up posts on the forum like this is it on the hope of driving traffic on their profile or what?

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By *otownkid1967Man
14 weeks ago

Portlaoise


"I m calling BS, your 1 pic is very revealing, I think an undercover snoop, wouldn't bother with the revealing pic.

Are you looking for reactions so you can call out double standards for cheating men and women?

Response to this hypothetical Q:ditch the wife, if she won't communicate honestly with you, and won't invite you into her playful, secret life. "

Have to agree with you on this.

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By *uphoria21.Couple
14 weeks ago

cork city

This is somone clearly making this as a kink thing not real

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By *s SingletWoman
14 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I much preferred the vampire village post

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By *adger BrocMan
14 weeks ago

Co. Cork


"I much preferred the vampire village post "

Ahh, the vampire village.

Now that was fun.

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By *illow and FionnCouple
14 weeks ago

Cork

Our kink is my wife cheating on me

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By *ackson088Man
14 weeks ago

cork

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By *nardriMan
14 weeks ago

near town


"Our kink is my wife cheating on me "

I like that kink haha

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By *huCullainMan
14 weeks ago

Rathowen


"I much preferred the vampire village post "

Wait....what???

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By *icsJourneyWoman
14 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

Someone please ressurect the vampire village post so us newbies can see xx

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By *om TangoMan
14 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

If you don’t nail the garden shed roof down well don’t be surprised if it blows into the neighbours garden. Only thing I can think of she had a reason to look for sex somewhere else because she wasn’t getting it at home.

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