FabSwingers.com forum: Boob watching

By *astello OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Far far away

Rant time. It's Summer, l want to wear light bright clothes. But men gawp and women frown. I literally cannot change my boobs.. they're attached to me. Any other booblicious women feel the same. I'm not sexualising myself..just by wearing form fitting light clothes... grrrr...

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By *ozzlesMan
20 weeks ago

galway

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By *ozzlesMan
20 weeks ago

galway

"Rant time. It's Summer, l want to wear light bright clothes. But men gawp and women frown. I literally cannot change my boobs.. they're attached to me. Any other booblicious women feel the same. I'm not sexualising myself..just by wearing form fitting light clothes... grrrr... "

Wear what you want and own it, if others behaviour isn't what it should be, that reflects on them.

I must admit I don't personally experience this issue despite my man boobs

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By *s LollyWoman
20 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I just wear and dress how i please people pay alot for what ive got

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By *electableicecreamMan
20 weeks ago

The West

Women frown at your boobs? I never would have considered that.

You're gloriously buxom Cas.

I just hope you use your powers for good because with great boobs comes great...

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Just look at it as a compliment

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By *he KakapoMan
20 weeks ago

A nice rock

Or people could change their behaviours.

Casual objectification of men and women isn't something that should be continued to be brushed off as just a compliment

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By *eMacMan
20 weeks ago

kildare

Men have looked at women’s boobs from the beginning of time and will till the end!! Surprised to read about the women frowning….wear what ya want, how ya want. Enjoy the weekend

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By *affa31Woman
20 weeks ago

Galway

Personally I couldn’t give a shite if people look at my boobs or cleavage. They’re just another body part, lumps of flesh and I’m not going to hide them just because some people sexualise them and others are horrified by them.

As per usual, fuck the patriarchy

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By *eaAndBenCouple
20 weeks ago

Dublin

Wear what you want. Simples and don’t mind anyone else. We can’t control how others behave but we can control how we react. Enjoy the sunshine and the cool feel of light summery clothes… for the 2 or 3 days you can before it freezes the nips off us all x

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By *oodOmensfor2Couple
20 weeks ago

Ennis

Tell me about it! Problem is that so many fashion designs are in such a way that they look perfectly casual and suitable for the middle of the day if you have smaller boobs.

Or other stuff is cut in such a way they show most of your bra. Had to return a lovely airy wrap dress the other day because all my bras showed

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By *uietcpl2Couple
20 weeks ago

Dublin City

I don’t wear revealing tops or dresses in Dublin any more due to the same issue but I do love wearing the same sexy attire when abroad in the sun and have no issue who looks at me there

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By *exyScientistsCouple
20 weeks ago

Castlebar

I tend to avoid tight and low cut tops in day to day situations and wear loose and baggy tops. But that's just because I feel uncomfortable and self conscious. I would look at women who have the confidence to show off their assets wishing I could do that. I hope it doesn't come across as disapproving. I'm just jealous!

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By *outheastbyeMan
20 weeks ago

Waterford

"I tend to avoid tight and low cut tops in day to day situations and wear loose and baggy tops. But that's just because I feel uncomfortable and self conscious. I would look at women who have the confidence to show off their assets wishing I could do that. I hope it doesn't come across as disapproving. I'm just jealous! "

Good lord you have nothing to ne self conscious about.

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By *lueLotusWoman
20 weeks ago

the wilderness

I'd love machine gun boobs so I could blast the fuckers

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By *auls21Man
20 weeks ago

Derry

"I'd love machine gun boobs so I could blast the fuckers"

I’d love to see the trail of destruction as you walk down the street.. be more killed than in any battle of war

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By *adger BrocMan
20 weeks ago

Co. Cork

Good to see the OP showing equality in her "boob gawping" rant and not making a tit of herself by just pointing her finger, or indeed a nipple, at men only.

Patriarchs get enough bad press as it is.

I am sure most people's gaze would be drawn to the OP's gorgeous eyes and not necessarily to her bosom.

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

If you wear a pair of big false buck teeth ..they will get distracted and Swiftly walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

I have a Tshirt that says

"Please Tell Your Tits To Stop Looking At My Eyes"

Probably get attacked if I wore it these days

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By *panishRebelMan
20 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

You can't legislate against asholes of any gender.... as a man it's impossible not to notice assets.....but some of us can show restraint and understanding, not walking around with our tongues hanging out like dogs.

Here in Spain on the beach after a while you just get used to everyone's tits being out. Yea you notice but it doesn't make your tongue drop to the ground.

If everyone that can just started wearing what they are comfortable in, maybe there'd be less dogs in the street.

The mad ones we could let loose on a secluded spot all in one place.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
20 weeks ago

ireland

I can totally relate to this ,im not one for letting it all hang out but when it's warm out and I want to wear something slightly more suitable to keep cool ,I feel like everyone's thinking," put those away "

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By *ongueandgroove555Couple
20 weeks ago

Waterford

I'm a bit torn on this one. I try my best not to stare or look at boobs for too long however it is a natural instinct ingrained by thousands of yrs of evolution that men find boobs attractive. Even ms loves looking at nice boobs. However society tells us we are wrong.

So while everyone deserves the right to be comfortable no matter what they wear I don't think it's possible for men or women not to look .

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

Free the nips for Christ sakes. Mine are FFs and free themselves year round lol! Milly x

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By *leasurevilleMan
20 weeks ago

kilkenny

"Free the nips for Christ sakes. Mine are FFs and free themselves year round lol! Milly x"

this

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By *astello OP Woman
20 weeks ago

Far far away

Thanks everyone for the comments. Great to see such diversity of opinions. Having dealt with unwanted attention since teenage years, to looking for a reduction, to big boob brainless stereotyping, I have a love hate relationship with them.

Judgement is everywhere, even in my own head.

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By *ffairofthemindMan
20 weeks ago

Wear whatever you want, to hell with everyone else

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