FabSwingers.com forum: Long term Swingers: do you find 1:1 sex boring?

By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?

Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
31 weeks ago

Sorry for the typos, need my coffee, brewing it now.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
31 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

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By *eordie.Woman
31 weeks ago

The Sticks

I've actually reverted back to it after years of partying and am appreciating the change...for a while anyway

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
31 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?

Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on? "

Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive.

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By *outheastbyeMan
31 weeks ago

Waterford

"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?

Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on?

Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive. "

Agreed 100%

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By *heelofTimeCouple
31 weeks ago

Two Rivers

No, we very much still enjoy 1:1 together. That said I don’t enjoy 1:1 with other men anymore. I still enjoy 1:1 with women.

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By *ORBCouple
31 weeks ago

Dundalk

I don't need sex generally so combinations wouldn't make much of a difference.

I've never experienced anything other than 1 on 1 and I don't class myself as a swinger but I've always imagined that for most people it's more about the relationship you have with those you are having sex with and how stimulating each encounter is rather than how many are involved.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
31 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

God no. Sex with a partner who knows your body and exactly what you like best will always be better.

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By *hilaboutMan
31 weeks ago

kilkenny

Oh I think 1:1 is amazing with the right partner dont think it could ever be boring or referred to as routine

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By *izmoandbooCouple
31 weeks ago

Dublin

Absolutely not. 1:1 vs "playtime" sex is about satisfying different sets of desires and interests for us. Both pursuits enhance the other in our experience.

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By *ublinstud_MisstattooCouple
31 weeks ago

City Centre

"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?

Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on? "

Definitely not. We rarely meet others for fun. Mainly do socials at the moment. Maybe because we done a lot and met here before we became a real life couple. But guess it also depends on the individual as well

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By *hivers2020Woman
31 weeks ago

lolli land

Definitely not, I’ve also (as Geordie said) reverted back to just one on one, over the years I’ve figured out that it’s the connection and passion with one other person and getting lost in that, that’s the biggest turn on for me

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
31 weeks ago

City Centre

Good sex is good sex whatever the variables. If it was ever boring then I'd have to question what I'm doing and the choices I'm making.

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
31 weeks ago

Lisburn

"Just wondering g if the seasoned Swingers find the more traditional 1:1 sex boring?

Do you find you need and more and more stimulation to turn you on, keep you turned on?

Sex is bored if becomes a routine, so, yes, stimulation, novelty, adventure, mystery, risk, experiment, fantasies… keep the excitement alive. "

My partner and I do so many varied kink practices that I know it will never get boring. Plus he knows my body so well and so much better than a new person would. He has made me orgasm by command, can edge me for hours and we play dynamically so it's shockingly amazing every time. Yesterday it was so overwhelming I sobbed my eyes out after just as an emotional release. Just so intense.

So my main thing is formulaic relationship sex is something I actively don't want. And luckily my partner is as kinky as I am.

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