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"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. " You'll be just plenty for the right person | |||
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"Im a little fatty " Me too | |||
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"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror " You are most definitely fabulous in every way especially as a friend xx | |||
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"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror You are most definitely fabulous in every way especially as a friend xx" Thank you m'dear means a lot | |||
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"Im a little fatty " Looks good | |||
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"I am more than my womb. Getting it removed will not make me less of a woman. I will be better after the surgery and hopefully pain free for the first time in over 20 years. " Good for you, hope it all goes well for you | |||
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"Being nice isn't a weakness Stubborn as a bull..hello Taurus My boob's are attached to me, but l ain't attached to them. Not everyone likes hugs..but goddammit l like giving them. " I like them . . . | |||
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"That it’s ok that I have a very high sex drive. For a long time I viewed it as a problem to be solved. Now I accept that it’s an undeniable part of who I am as a person." Three cheers to that | |||
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"My small boobs " You mean bad eyesight! Not a thing wrong with your boobs hun! Not a damn thing. Xoxox | |||
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"I'm different than most people.i think very differently about plenty of stuff. I need alone time and that sometimes comes across as being unavailable. And my good nature has been taken advantage of. But I'd never change that " It's good to acknowledge that you need alone time - I do as well, most of us do but many don't admit it and partly for the reason you gave above. | |||
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"My small boobs You mean bad eyesight! Not a thing wrong with your boobs hun! Not a damn thing. Xoxox " Thank you | |||
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"That I have allowed energy vampires to suck too much of my energy leaving no energy for the important things in life That I mask way too much I question my reactions to people's behaviour, blaming myself for my reaction rather than if my reaction was warrantied Mr S" I've only realised recently how much I mask, and have done for most of my adult life. I think my life would be quite different had I not been doing it. But hey.. old dog, new tricks.. | |||
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"My small boobs " I love small boobs. you're gorgeous regardless. I particularly love the photo of your red panties down at your knees. | |||
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"I accept everything about myself.no one is perfect and if you don't accept what the man above has given you as a person well you will never be happy.we all have our weaknesses or fears or good points bad points but no matter where you go in the world there will always be someone better looking,worse looking smarter not as smart quieter louder braver richer poorer happier sadder healthier or sicker the list goes on.at the end of the day.we are all so different but so similar but acceptance of your own life and fortune's is what we should all be doing not just picking one bad or good trait we have." Well said!! | |||
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"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror " You're beautiful inside and out. Xxx | |||
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"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder. Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey. 30 years of social anxiety explained. I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok. " How did you discover this? | |||
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"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder. Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey. 30 years of social anxiety explained. I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok. How did you discover this? " That's a story best told over gin. The short version is therapy. | |||
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"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder. Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey. 30 years of social anxiety explained. I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok. " • | |||
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"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. You'll be just plenty for the right person " | |||
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"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. " That's me also once something nice come it's like I go self destruction and destroy everything especially relationships. | |||
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"I'll never get verified " Come to the gym with me ! | |||
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"That I'm not everyone's cup of tea!" But someone's glass of champagne | |||
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"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... " Snap I also can't settle on a favourite gender even | |||
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"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... Snap I also can't settle on a favourite gender even " Men for the sexy time Women for the boobies and kisses | |||
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"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... " Not wanting a relationship can feel like your out of step with the whole world sometimes. | |||
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"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... Snap I also can't settle on a favourite gender even Men for the sexy time Women for the boobies and kisses " Cumere you | |||
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"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... Not wanting a relationship can feel like your out of step with the whole world sometimes. " Being in a relationship and being non monogamous can also feel this way...I forget that not everyone lives like this | |||
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"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. " You can't know that as you don't have crystal balls. For me it's that while my plus size body isn't everyone's taste, for those few who I choose to share my body with can't get enough and so I accept that I'm not conventionally sexy I still am. | |||
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"That I'm not everyone's cup of tea! But someone's glass of champagne " Well now, I love that! | |||
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"Speak before I think " Plenty of times I put my foot in it | |||
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"My small boobs I love small boobs. you're gorgeous regardless. I particularly love the photo of your red panties down at your knees." Thank you | |||
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"I've accepted the phrase "it is what it is."" But what exactly is “it”? | |||
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"Being nice isn't a weakness Stubborn as a bull..hello Taurus My boob's are attached to me, but l ain't attached to them. Not everyone likes hugs..but goddammit l like giving them. " Love this | |||
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"I've accepted the phrase "it is what it is." But what exactly is “it”? " What ever it is | |||
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"My inability to control my mind when I am tired and overanalysing every little thing. " that's me | |||
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"That I'm amazing! " love this... Well said | |||
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"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab " Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!! | |||
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"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!! " Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent | |||
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"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!! Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent " Good, don't give up before you've started!! | |||
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"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!! Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent Good, don't give up before you've started!! " You should be a motivation coach Love the rose btw | |||
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"That I'm a forum post ender!" You have a challenger for that! | |||
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"That I'm a forum post ender! You have a challenger for that!" Damn you! I had got 9 minutes an was thinking this is looking good | |||
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"That I'm a forum post ender! You have a challenger for that! Damn you! I had got 9 minutes an was thinking this is looking good" I gave you extra time this time....and yes I am damed | |||
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"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!! I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!" Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good | |||
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"I'm not a relationship kind of person. I'm terribly sarcastic. I'm too old to be doing the job I'm in. Probably loads more that I just can't think of right now." Feeling those things too | |||
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"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x" That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to. | |||
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"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!! I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!! Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good " Glad it's not just me that feels this!! | |||
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"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to. " That's the hardest part and I agree, we need to learn to love ourselves and accept what is to be and enjoy life to the best of our ability!! | |||
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"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!! I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!" I find this equally sad and lovely at the same time. | |||
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"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!! I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!! Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good Glad it's not just me that feels this!! " I'm sure there's a fair few that feel that way. We should start a club | |||
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"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to. That's the hardest part and I agree, we need to learn to love ourselves and accept what is to be and enjoy life to the best of our ability!! " There's plenty of fun to be had & I've no doubt about our abilities to enjoy it | |||
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"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!! I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!! Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good Glad it's not just me that feels this!! I'm sure there's a fair few that feel that way. We should start a club " Definitely, we need a support group!!! | |||
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"That sounds about right. I am scared that when it comes around I won’t recognise it and set to in my ways to change " But you won't need to change because you'll be who and where and what you're meant to be! Trust yourself x | |||
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"Skinny/scrawny look... Ate to bulk up countless times, barely go up or down a kilo ever Goddamn genetics " I started with Starting Strength in my late teens and exploded thereafter. If you are not lactose intolerant, milk is your best friend along with heavy* lifting. I don't follow this anymore but a great way to get started. *this varies depending on the individual and lifting experience | |||
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