FabSwingers.com forum: What’s something you accept about yourself

By *om Tango OP Man
13 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me.

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Im a little fatty

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By *ozzlesMan
13 weeks ago

galway

"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. "

You'll be just plenty for the right person

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By *ozzlesMan
13 weeks ago

galway

"Im a little fatty

Me too

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By *adger BrocMan
13 weeks ago

Co. Cork

My age

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By *og-ManMan
13 weeks ago

somewhere

I'm bald

I'm fat

I'm stunning

I'm me

I love boobs

I cant whistle ( and I always wanted to learn )

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar

My inability to control my mind when I am tired and overanalysing every little thing.

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By *om Tango OP Man
13 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

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By *om Tango OP Man
13 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

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By *elloMarylouWoman
13 weeks ago

mayo

That I'm a good person who let's people walk all over me

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By *ot so needyMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

Sometimes I rub people up the wrong way.and say things without thinking about it first

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By *aseylee324Couple
13 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

That I have to match my activity on a given day to my energy levels

That not everyone gets my sense of humour

That I'm an introvert and get burnt out if I don't spend time alone

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By *isterWhistleMan
13 weeks ago

Limerick

I’m getting old and there’s nothing I can do to stop that.

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By *he KakapoMan
13 weeks ago

A nice rock

That I'm a judgemental little fucker.

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By *outheastbyeMan
13 weeks ago

Waterford

I see the good in everyone and have got burned so many times over it

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By *heekygent50Man
13 weeks ago

Meath

Saying something before thinking about it always gets me in trouble

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By *iablo soloWoman
13 weeks ago

southside

That I'm not everyone's cup of tea!

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By *s SingletWoman
13 weeks ago

Kilkenny

I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror

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By *astelloWoman
13 weeks ago

Far far away

Being nice isn't a weakness

Stubborn as a bull..hello Taurus

My boob's are attached to me, but l ain't attached to them.

Not everyone likes hugs..but goddammit l like giving them.

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By *WEETESTSTRAWBERRYFOR1Woman
13 weeks ago

Clare

"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror

You are most definitely fabulous in every way especially as a friend xx

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By *xplorer2023Man
13 weeks ago

Dublin

that I'm much more emotional than rational

that I'm judgemental and a bit of a control freak

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By *s SingletWoman
13 weeks ago

Kilkenny

"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror

You are most definitely fabulous in every way especially as a friend xx"

Thank you m'dear means a lot

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By *ezoMan
13 weeks ago

The Kingdom

That my sense of humor is not for everyone.

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By *oco_Social_ClubWoman
13 weeks ago

North

Speak before I think

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By *eeisbackMan
13 weeks ago

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Hmmmm good question, It has takin some learning but I’ve learned to accept myself for who I am and not try be someone else just to please people. I may not have the ``Good looks ‘’ or the best body or personality on this site that everyone on here is looking for and having got pissed off by the amount of people that said this to me or was like no we can’t invite you to this or that cause you’re not what everyone wants.

I’ve learned to accept that I am who I am and people either like or don’t like I can’t change the way I look thats my identity and unique to me. As is every else in their natural beauty.

So Op and everyone don’t take anything that anyone says to you on here to heart cause it’s not worth it.

There is a lot of superficial people on here and you gota remember that there not living in the real world ……..

Take care and be kind

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By *eeisbackMan
13 weeks ago

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At least you give your honesty though than trying to cover it up

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
13 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

That I'm not really normal. By any definition of the word.

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

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By *r.AnonymousMan
13 weeks ago

town

That I have online chatting skills of a potato and can talk to people better face to face.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar

That I have allowed energy vampires to suck too much of my energy leaving no energy for the important things in life

That I mask way too much

I question my reactions to people's behaviour, blaming myself for my reaction rather than if my reaction was warrantied

Mr S

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I'm different than most people.i think very differently about plenty of stuff. I need alone time and that sometimes comes across as being unavailable. And my good nature has been taken advantage of. But I'd never change that

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By *outheastbyeMan
13 weeks ago

Waterford

This is one of the best threads. It's great how people are opening up, especially the men. It's important to talk. This is a good community and things like this show it. Am free to chat with anyone who wants to vent. Have a great day all ye amazing people

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By *voidingboredomMan
13 weeks ago

around

I accept about myself that my traumas and sadnesses have led to me being convinced that I will never find a partner who loves me and whom I also love and will therefore die alone sooner rather than later.

I accept that there is no evidence for this, and that this is just the trauma response

I accept that I distance myself from people in order to further this fantasy

I accept that I seek ways to leave some little legacy behind, while disliking that I do because of my belief that I don't really matter

Etc etc etc

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By *chochamberWoman
13 weeks ago

Limerick

How damn sexy I am.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
13 weeks ago

Portstewart

Probably body shape for us both

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By *ella.Woman
13 weeks ago

Longford

I have no filter

If I think it, I say it

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
13 weeks ago

South Down

I'm conflict avoidant and can't navigate the middle ground between saying nothing and pressing the nuclear destruct button

I'll never be able to play guitar.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
13 weeks ago

Hereabouts

What a thought provoking question OP.

It made me think I'm wired for change rather than acceptance, and that is making my life unnecessarily challenging

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By *hivers2020Woman
13 weeks ago

lolli land

I am more than my womb. Getting it removed will not make me less of a woman. I will be better after the surgery and hopefully pain free for the first time in over 20 years.

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By *enitMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

"Im a little fatty

Looks good

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By *enitMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

"I am more than my womb. Getting it removed will not make me less of a woman. I will be better after the surgery and hopefully pain free for the first time in over 20 years. "

Good for you, hope it all goes well for you

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By *enitMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

"Being nice isn't a weakness

Stubborn as a bull..hello Taurus

My boob's are attached to me, but l ain't attached to them.

Not everyone likes hugs..but goddammit l like giving them.

I like them . . .

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By *enitMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

I am very conscious of not being well hung.

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By *affa31Woman
13 weeks ago

Galway

That I don’t need to fit into peoples notions of normal and that I am happy being me and living life the way I do.

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By *urker6969Man
13 weeks ago

Dublin

That it’s ok that I have a very high sex drive. For a long time I viewed it as a problem to be solved. Now I accept that it’s an undeniable part of who I am as a person.

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By *carlettlady69Woman
13 weeks ago

city

My small boobs

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By *earuisceMan
13 weeks ago

south sligo

Unfortunately my age which hasn’t sunk into my brain yet

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By *panishRebelMan
13 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"That it’s ok that I have a very high sex drive. For a long time I viewed it as a problem to be solved. Now I accept that it’s an undeniable part of who I am as a person."

Three cheers to that

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"My small boobs "

You mean bad eyesight! Not a thing wrong with your boobs hun! Not a damn thing. Xoxox

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"I'm different than most people.i think very differently about plenty of stuff. I need alone time and that sometimes comes across as being unavailable. And my good nature has been taken advantage of. But I'd never change that

It's good to acknowledge that you need alone time - I do as well, most of us do but many don't admit it and partly for the reason you gave above.

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By *carlettlady69Woman
13 weeks ago

city

"My small boobs

You mean bad eyesight! Not a thing wrong with your boobs hun! Not a damn thing. Xoxox "

Thank you

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

"That I have allowed energy vampires to suck too much of my energy leaving no energy for the important things in life

That I mask way too much

I question my reactions to people's behaviour, blaming myself for my reaction rather than if my reaction was warrantied

Mr S"

I've only realised recently how much I mask, and have done for most of my adult life. I think my life would be quite different had I not been doing it. But hey.. old dog, new tricks..

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By *ysticalWoman
13 weeks ago

wexford

I trust someone to much for me to end up getting hurt

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By *ocal studMan
13 weeks ago

A town near you

I accept everything about myself.no one is perfect and if you don't accept what the man above has given you as a person well you will never be happy.we all have our weaknesses or fears or good points bad points but no matter where you go in the world there will always be someone better looking,worse looking smarter not as smart quieter louder braver richer poorer happier sadder healthier or sicker the list goes on.at the end of the day.we are all so different but so similar but acceptance of your own life and fortune's is what we should all be doing not just picking one bad or good trait we have.

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By *enitMan
13 weeks ago

Galway

"My small boobs "

I love small boobs. you're gorgeous regardless. I particularly love the photo of your red panties down at your knees.

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"I accept everything about myself.no one is perfect and if you don't accept what the man above has given you as a person well you will never be happy.we all have our weaknesses or fears or good points bad points but no matter where you go in the world there will always be someone better looking,worse looking smarter not as smart quieter louder braver richer poorer happier sadder healthier or sicker the list goes on.at the end of the day.we are all so different but so similar but acceptance of your own life and fortune's is what we should all be doing not just picking one bad or good trait we have."

Well said!!

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By *ymbuddy48Man
13 weeks ago

newbridge

I'll never get verified

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"I'm fabulous but unfortunately it's sometimes only in my own mirror

You're beautiful inside and out. Xxx

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By *electableicecreamMan
13 weeks ago

The West

I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder.

Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey.

30 years of social anxiety explained.

I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok.

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By *chochamberWoman
13 weeks ago

Limerick

"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder.

Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey.

30 years of social anxiety explained.

I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok.

How did you discover this?

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By *electableicecreamMan
13 weeks ago

The West

"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder.

Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey.

30 years of social anxiety explained.

I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok.

How did you discover this? "

That's a story best told over gin. The short version is therapy.

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By *eroLondonMan
13 weeks ago

Mayfair

"I discovered in the last couple of years that I have a sensory processing disorder.

Accepting it and learning to live with it has been a journey.

30 years of social anxiety explained.

I accept now that if I meet people in a busy bar that I'm not going to be myself due to sensory overload and I might just leave early and that's ok. "

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By *ozzlesMan
13 weeks ago

galway

I'm outwardly friendly and gregarious but really fairly shy especially in social situations.

I like myself ( A view not always shared by others

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

That I'm a loner and that there's nothing wrong with that!! I'm not lonely in case anybody thought that's what being a loner means!

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By *herishWoman
13 weeks ago

cork

I have no filter…into my head out my mouth….

I’m stubborn as hell also and firey !

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By *eaAndBenCouple
13 weeks ago

Dublin

Love this

"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me.

You'll be just plenty for the right person "

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By *eaAndBenCouple
13 weeks ago

Dublin

I struggle to park irritations and move on. I don’t necessarily think I accept this about myself. More I recognise it and am trying to do better!

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By *milyRose321TV/TS
13 weeks ago

Derry, Ireland

"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. "

That's me also once something nice come it's like I go self destruction and destroy everything especially relationships.

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By *herishWoman
13 weeks ago

cork

"I'll never get verified

Come to the gym with me !

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By *uddlyBear1972Man
13 weeks ago

Just inside the Pale

Where to start?

I am ok with not being well hung.

I am non-confrontational and diplomatic but to some people that looks like being spineless.

Some people don't get my sense of humour. But some people do so I am ok with that.

I might obsess about something but I try to turn that to my advantage.

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By *adger BrocMan
13 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I am never going to be everyone's best friend........ so I really appreciate those who accept me as theirs.

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By *igtasty121Man
13 weeks ago

Nowhere

My skin isn’t thick enough

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By *wagman32Man
13 weeks ago

Wicklow, Dublin

I'll never be perfect...

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By *ealitybitesMan
13 weeks ago

Belfast

I genuinely used to think I was invisible, especially to women, and they only saw me when they needed something done.

Then about 10 years ago i discovered I wasn't at all and in the years since I have come to accept that at times I still like to be invisible on my own terms but I control how visible I am.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
13 weeks ago

Fermanagh

That I'm to dam good-looking

hi its not easy being me

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By *oo32Man
13 weeks ago

tipperary

I've no idea what I want to do when I grow up....

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By *VaderMan
13 weeks ago

City

That I've a terrible taste in music

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

Thank I’m going grey, as good as grey and that’s that.

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
13 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

That I have too many flaws for anyone to want to stay with me. Like, forever.

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By *unflowerWoman
13 weeks ago

Dublin

•I hate changing plans. If you cancel on me, you’re blocked and deleted and I don’t care if your hamster has died from cancer.

•Sarcasm is my native language.

•I love food more than I love sex.

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By *huCullainMan
13 weeks ago

Rathowen

"That I'm not everyone's cup of tea!"

But someone's glass of champagne

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By *huCullainMan
13 weeks ago

Rathowen

I'm not a relationship kind of person.

I'm terribly sarcastic.

I'm too old to be doing the job I'm in.

Probably loads more that I just can't think of right now.

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person....

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By *eordie.Woman
13 weeks ago

The Sticks

"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... "

Snap

I also can't settle on a favourite gender even

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
13 weeks ago

Home

Shy and a bit too much on the cuddly side

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By *s LollyWoman
13 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person....

Snap

I also can't settle on a favourite gender even

Men for the sexy time

Women for the boobies and kisses

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By *ozzlesMan
13 weeks ago

galway

"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person.... "

Not wanting a relationship can feel like your out of step with the whole world sometimes.

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By *eordie.Woman
13 weeks ago

The Sticks

"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person....

Snap

I also can't settle on a favourite gender even

Men for the sexy time

Women for the boobies and kisses

Cumere you

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By *exyScientistsCouple
13 weeks ago

Castlebar

"Dating or relationships are definitely not for me because i can't be faithful to just one person....

Not wanting a relationship can feel like your out of step with the whole world sometimes. "

Being in a relationship and being non monogamous can also feel this way...I forget that not everyone lives like this

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By *otownkid1967Man
13 weeks ago

Portlaoise

I'm overweight.

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By *orkguy086Man
13 weeks ago

Happy to travel or get Hotel

That I made the biggest mistake of my life and because of it, I lost the woman I should have married and the family I always want..

But on the other hand, I think she's happier now and it's all I want for her and her children.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x

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By *adhatter and coCouple
13 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

That I’m absolutely shit at interviews ,After making a huge cock up for an internal promotion today .

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By *I TwoCouple
13 weeks ago

currently travelling down W France

I can't deal with idiots (Mr)

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By *inky Bear and VicsCouple
13 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"For me it’s that I’ll never be enough and I’ll always be a fuck up, that I’m afraid to love again. And I’m scared shitless of someone telling me they love me. "

You can't know that as you don't have crystal balls.

For me it's that while my plus size body isn't everyone's taste, for those few who I choose to share my body with can't get enough and so I accept that I'm not conventionally sexy I still am.

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By *ature voyeur 1Man
13 weeks ago

Southside

That I'm easily used, and people just seem to get in touch when they need something.

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By *eeisbackMan
13 weeks ago

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What a super topic and so many positive replies, the amount of people who in this world and alot on here who live in a false world of pretending to not have any issues and not identifying any flaws and who constantly change and adapt to the other people to just fit in or to please the crowd or even try change there appearance to just fit it.

This thread shows that beyond the imagine we all see visually of a person, their uniqueness is true to themselves, each and everyone of us living trough life’s battles but more importantly being able to cross the many humps and bumps in the path of life.

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By *ocksuckingslutMan
13 weeks ago

Rathcoole

Sometimes I feel like I’m surplus to requirement in this world & at times I’m just not good enough….

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By *ACOLCouple
13 weeks ago

limerick

That is okay not to be everyone's cup of tea.

Lina.

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I’ve accepted that I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that I must learn to deal with my anxiety issues

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By *panishRebelMan
13 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

I've accepted that the synchronization between mind and body has separated a little. The body is aging faster than the mind! Things that I could do without a second thought in sport etc now take more effort. Sport has become like magnifying glass on the sepperation. My mind says do this and expects the body to follow instantly. However the body is not such a well oiled machine anymore and grinds to a halt quicker.

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By *arry011Man
13 weeks ago

dublin

I've accepted that I don't have the patience to be dealing with half the people on this site and their need for attention

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By *iablo soloWoman
13 weeks ago

southside

"That I'm not everyone's cup of tea!

But someone's glass of champagne

Well now, I love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

I’m more picky than horny 99.9 % of the time

…. Not fun…but I accept it…

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By *ind PaddyMan
13 weeks ago

South County Dublin

I am just me. Down to earth, chatty and take each day one at a time me.

I'm glad I'm me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
13 weeks ago

Lucan

I'm just perfect. I always thought I had tiny flaws but I realise now u that it's other people who are flawed.

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By *ind PaddyMan
13 weeks ago

South County Dublin

"Speak before I think

Plenty of times I put my foot in it

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By *he KakapoMan
13 weeks ago

A nice rock

My biggest weakness..... I care too much and work too hard

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By *carlettlady69Woman
13 weeks ago

city

"My small boobs

I love small boobs. you're gorgeous regardless. I particularly love the photo of your red panties down at your knees."

Thank you

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By *rank7737Man
13 weeks ago

Overthinking little things. x

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By *DSGCouple
13 weeks ago

That place in

Sh*t happens, learn to (try)to get over it/move on

It (can) will get better

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By *oireloveCouple
13 weeks ago

Galway

Just looking at a chip will make me gain 5 pounds. It is what it is.

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By *elle111Woman
13 weeks ago

That despite me being ballsy, very independent and self sufficient (just) I think I’m ready to be looked after a little. Don’t fooking tell anyone.

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
13 weeks ago

Cork

Hmmm I've learned I chat alot but at the end of the day I love silence as much. I like the company of others but I like to be alone as much, maybe Im just crazy.

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By *ogladyWoman
13 weeks ago

The bog

I've accepted the phrase "it is what it is."

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By *rRiosMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

"I've accepted the phrase "it is what it is.""

But what exactly is “it”?

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By *arquisDeSadeCouple
13 weeks ago

Dublin

"Being nice isn't a weakness

Stubborn as a bull..hello Taurus

My boob's are attached to me, but l ain't attached to them.

Not everyone likes hugs..but goddammit l like giving them.

Love this

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By *ogladyWoman
13 weeks ago

The bog

"I've accepted the phrase "it is what it is."

But what exactly is “it”? "

What ever it is

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By *entlemuleMan
13 weeks ago

all over Tipperary and the Midlands

I've accepted that

I'm dyslexic.

That I talk ro much when I m nervous.

That I'm getting old.

That I'm expanding.

That I can't pleases everyone.

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By *a1970Man
13 weeks ago

East cork

"My inability to control my mind when I am tired and overanalysing every little thing.

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that's me

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By *ilderMan
13 weeks ago

dublin

That I'm amazing!

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By *a1970Man
13 weeks ago

East cork

"That I'm amazing!

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love this... Well said

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By *r RodexMan
13 weeks ago

That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab

Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!!

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By *r RodexMan
13 weeks ago

"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab

Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!! "

Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab

Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!!

Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent

Good, don't give up before you've started!!

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13 weeks ago

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By *r RodexMan
13 weeks ago

"That maybe I’ll never suceed at fab

Give it a chance, you're only on fab 3 weeks!! Check out the help a fabber thread on the Irish forums!!

Thank you. I must have a squint at that before I get too despondent

Good, don't give up before you've started!!

You should be a motivation coach

Love the rose btw

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
13 weeks ago

ireland

That gravity is dragging me down !!

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By *iablo soloWoman
13 weeks ago

southside

That I'm a forum post ender!

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By *panishRebelMan
13 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"That I'm a forum post ender!"

You have a challenger for that!

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By *iablo soloWoman
13 weeks ago

southside

"That I'm a forum post ender!

You have a challenger for that!"

Damn you! I had got 9 minutes an was thinking this is looking good

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By *panishRebelMan
13 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"That I'm a forum post ender!

You have a challenger for that!

Damn you! I had got 9 minutes an was thinking this is looking good"

I gave you extra time this time....and yes I am damed

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By (user no longer on site)
13 weeks ago

"Im a little fatty

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me too

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!"

Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

"I'm not a relationship kind of person.

I'm terribly sarcastic.

I'm too old to be doing the job I'm in.

Probably loads more that I just can't think of right now."

Feeling those things too

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x"

That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to.

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

Really great forum topic & discussion. So good to talk openly about things. My inbox is always open for anyone wanting to chat anytime

I've accepted that I'm flawed, have insecurities (some rational, some irrational). That I am my own worst critic & that I irritate some people (prob more than a few ha) But that that's just me. I work on what I can & accept the things I can't change. I interact with those who see the good aspects of me & wish those that don't, all the best & move on. I accept that I'm a continuous work in progress, evolving all the time, but that I can still enjoy the moments along the way

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!

Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good

Glad it's not just me that feels this!!

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x

That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to. "

That's the hardest part and I agree, we need to learn to love ourselves and accept what is to be and enjoy life to the best of our ability!!

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By *panishRebelMan
13 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!"

I find this equally sad and lovely at the same time.

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By *laudshaenCouple
13 weeks ago

between sligo and leitrim

Me, all.of.me, as I.am, work in progress, far from perfect, still learning, forgiving, which has made being OK with myself all the easier, if I forgive others, why not myself first

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!

Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good

Glad it's not just me that feels this!!

I'm sure there's a fair few that feel that way. We should start a club

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By *azzo2024Man
13 weeks ago

Carlow

I am what i am. Comfortable in my own skin and don't pretend to be something i'm not.

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By *carlett!Woman
13 weeks ago

"That I fell madly in love with someone who can’t give me what I need back. Milly x

That's a hard one for sure. Been there. Sometimes we need to decide to love ourselves more & walk away despite not wanting to.

That's the hardest part and I agree, we need to learn to love ourselves and accept what is to be and enjoy life to the best of our ability!!

There's plenty of fun to be had & I've no doubt about our abilities to enjoy it

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By *udding RoseWoman
13 weeks ago

Somewhere out there

"That I'm just good enough to fuck but not good enough for a relationship!!

I'm just me and I like myself, I like what I've become!!

Resonated with this one. Self love is the best foundation to anything further though so we're good

Glad it's not just me that feels this!!

I'm sure there's a fair few that feel that way. We should start a club

Definitely, we need a support group!!!

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
13 weeks ago

Athlone

I accept, that although I'm not where I thought I would be at this stage in my life, I am in fact where I'm meant to be. Took a while but I'm there!

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By *utchlady67Woman
13 weeks ago

Kinnitty in county Offaly

That sounds about right. I am scared that when it comes around I won’t recognise it and set to in my ways to change

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By *eeking_sensuality77Woman
13 weeks ago

Athlone

"That sounds about right. I am scared that when it comes around I won’t recognise it and set to in my ways to change "

But you won't need to change because you'll be who and where and what you're meant to be! Trust yourself x

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By *tudentForFunMan
12 weeks ago

Craigavon

Not good looking

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By *apri 555Man
12 weeks ago

wexford or Dublin

That I'm not everyone's cup of tea

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By *atisfactorMan
12 weeks ago

Letterkenny

My race..being brown ( indian ) results in 99.999% rejection here in fab, despite being respectful, discreet and ok om looking..

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By (user no longer on site)
12 weeks ago

Skinny/scrawny look...

Ate to bulk up countless times, barely go up or down a kilo ever

Goddamn genetics

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By *runchMan
12 weeks ago

Dublin

If speaking my mind and and how I feel rubs people up the wrong way then so be it. Wet wipes beware.

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
12 weeks ago

villiage

That if someone doesn’t like us it’s a there problem

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By *runchMan
12 weeks ago

Dublin

"Skinny/scrawny look...

Ate to bulk up countless times, barely go up or down a kilo ever

Goddamn genetics

I started with Starting Strength in my late teens and exploded thereafter. If you are not lactose intolerant, milk is your best friend along with heavy* lifting. I don't follow this anymore but a great way to get started.

*this varies depending on the individual and lifting experience

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