FabSwingers.com forum: Asked to Travel

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Quite a lot of guys when asking me if I will meet them ask when will I be in Dublin or where ever it is they live. I know I can't accomodate but I don't think it's unreasonable of me to think that they should be prepared to travel halfway if I am. Is it just me or does this happen to other females too?

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Quite a lot of guys when asking me if I will meet them ask when will I be in Dublin or where ever it is they live. I know I can't accomodate but I don't think it's unreasonable of me to think that they should be prepared to travel halfway if I am. Is it just me or does this happen to other females too?"

ive no problem meeting you half way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I get asked to travel to various places around the country.

I used to until I was let down travelling "half way" to a guy.. And now I don't.

I don't have a lot of time to meet either so like to spend it playing and not driving.. (I've daytime commitments)

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

dont worry iam not into you anyway..lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

dont worry iam not into you anyway..lol"

How did you come to the conclusion I was talking to you.... Not

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

dont worry iam not into you anyway..lol

How did you come to the conclusion I was talking to you.... Not

it was a joke.... But obvously u didnt get it. Lmfao

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

a lot of guys seem to expect us to travel to them, we get the so do you fancy coming dow to*****! yes i kknow we do travel a lot, but it seems to becoming a demand.

having said that we dont travel as much at the minute anyway, and only want guys that can accom now! as we do !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind travelling at all.

Doesn't really matter how far or where it is.

I normally check the local areas for accom once arrangements have been made, whether someone can accom or not, I wouldn't want to outstay my welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

dont worry iam not into you anyway..lol

How did you come to the conclusion I was talking to you.... Not

it was a joke.... But obvously u didnt get it. Lmfao"

I did, that's why I sent a smile face. So what the crack with you..... Will you travel for this sexy woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel the WHOLE way for her!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

"I don't mind travelling at all.

Doesn't really matter how far or where it is.

I normally check the local areas for accom once arrangements have been made, whether someone can accom or not, I wouldn't want to outstay my welcome.

thoughtful

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I'd travel the WHOLE way for her!

It's easy for you though Fooey, what with supersonic flight and all. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think i just expect to do the travelling now, even though I can accom, nobody's interested! Lol

Ahh well, The door is always open!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd travel the WHOLE way for her!

It's easy for you though Fooey, what with supersonic flight and all. ."

Supersonic??

I'm that old now, I've got diesel fumes coming out of my ass!!

There goes my carbon footprint!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The ould emissions test can be a killer!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The ould emissions test can be a killer!"

Fuckers grounded me last year!

Had to bus it to any emergencies!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice to be a gent and travel that bit farther ---all because the lady loves Milk Tray

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By *randub69Man
over a year ago

city

"Better get my say in before this form fills up

I would love to meet half way but the only problem is I can't send you mail because your age limit won't let me

dont worry iam not into you anyway..lol

How did you come to the conclusion I was talking to you.... Not

it was a joke.... But obvously u didnt get it. Lmfao

I did, that's why I sent a smile face. So what the crack with you..... Will you travel for this sexy woman "

i have no problem travelling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Awww thanks guys

...but ye seem to be the exception rather than the rule...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only travel about 20 miles. As I don't.drive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind traveling or picking up

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have car will travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have not travelled anywhere but would be willing I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awww thanks guys

...but ye seem to be the exception rather than the rule..."
neutral venue can work too

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Why do you have to travel halfway??

If a guy want you and you can't accommodate, he travel closer to you and get a room booked in a very nice hotel. Simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems meeting half way or even at your place really.

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

Would always travel if requested!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we r lazy swingers no further than 20-30 miles

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm not sure what the big deal is about it. You can't have a hard and fast rule about it as far as I'm concerned. Sometimes she'll travel to me. Sometimes I won't travel to her. Simples.

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

ya we would have guys living in dublin who wont travel any where outside dublin to meet you. either you come to dublin and they are not interested either they are too spoilt or all talk, we take it there not worth the risk of travelling prob wont show up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on another site n done a tour of Ireland Kerry cork limerick Galway mayo Donegal for a wknd Monaghan Longford Dublin Westmeath Meath Tipperary Kilkenny Carlow Wicklow so I guess ya can travel lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i traveled once to meet a cpl ages ago,and it was a big dissapointment!so i wudnt travel outside dublin again!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I'm looking forward to my free buss pass!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure what the big deal is about it. You can't have a hard and fast rule about it as far as I'm concerned. Sometimes she'll travel to me. Sometimes I won't travel to her. Simples."

I don't have a hard n fast rule about it...I have travelled to meet a guy and I've also met halfway but the point I was making or trying to make is that a lot of guys seem to expect me to be willing to do all the travelling!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"... neutral venue can work too"

Neutral is always good for me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Sorry, I hope you didn't think I was poking fun at you, or belittling your point. I wasn't at all. I certainly think you've been unfortunate that a lot of men aren't willing to travel. Maybe they were just chancing their arm, hoping that you'd offer to travel? I don't know, I'm not even sure there's an answer?

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

Cheekyness

they seem to think we are desperate for a ride!! and will travel the lenght of the country to get it!!

it would be worth it if they were great but thats an other topic

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

it would be worth it if they were great but thats an other topic"

I just love a sweeping generalisation at this time of the night!

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

why not it is probally true 90% of the time

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

michael sure your ok!!! you live in the capital of the world, every thing rotates around dublin sure why would ye want to travel out to the sticks

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I hope you're not trying to tell me that it's only men, and only men in Dublin at that, who ask women to travel?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"why not it is probally true 90% of the time"

I can tell from that statement that you've done some serious research into it before you made your sweeping generalisation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have also been asked to travel to meet and when i suggest they come to me and book a hotel room they lose interest .Now my standard line is sorry your too far away and of no interest to me

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

I think with the price of fuel people have to think twice about traveling at times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me I can't travel so has to be Dublin for me..

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

the cost of fuel hotel parking etc in any city is high and then there is the problem of a no show!!

thats a bummer then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"for me I can't travel so has to be Dublin for me.."

I would say it would be worth the travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hmmmmm

I think who ever organised the meet should do most of the travelling.

But should be fair all round, as most time hotels have to be paid for as well.

But for me its about polite ness and respect but I would travel the length of the country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have to travel halfway??

If a guy want you and you can't accommodate, he travel closer to you and get a room booked in a very nice hotel. Simple"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have to travel halfway??

If a guy want you and you can't accommodate, he travel closer to you and get a room booked in a very nice hotel. Simple"

what am easy thing to say when the person doesn't even live in the same country, oh my ladies if has actually travelled to meet a lot of ye here hasn't he ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have to travel halfway??

If a guy want you and you can't accommodate, he travel closer to you and get a room booked in a very nice hotel. Simple

what am easy thing to say when the person doesn't even live in the same country, oh my ladies if has actually travelled to meet a lot of ye here hasn't he ?"
I get messages from uk and America would love to meet ya

Like that going to happen.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I've just had an email from Nigeria and it seems today is my lucky day. With the moneyI've won, I'll be able to travel all over the place, even to Waterford to see Cheekyness!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you have to travel halfway??

If a guy want you and you can't accommodate, he travel closer to you and get a room booked in a very nice hotel. Simple

what am easy thing to say when the person doesn't even live in the same country, oh my ladies if has actually travelled to meet a lot of ye here hasn't he ?"

Yep, it is an easy thing to say, because he's right!

That's the way I look at it too!

Way too many lazy peeps here, want it all on a plate.

As my profile states, I can accom no probs, unfortunately hasn't happened much,

But if I want to meet someone then why not travel?

I can understand how it can be easy for some than others, (single,attached,married,kids,transport) I could go on and on.

But either way, you stay put and let everyone flock to you in droves (as I'm sure they are), I'll put in that little extra effort and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've just had an email from Nigeria and it seems today is my lucky day. With the moneyI've won, I'll be able to travel all over the place, even to Waterford to see Cheekyness!"

If you ever want to invest all that lovely money.... I seem to have a cousin in Nigeria who would be only too greatful to help you 'move it around!'

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Can she accommodate though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can she accommodate though? "

Are you willing to travel?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Can she accommodate though?

Are you willing to travel?

And there, my super powered friend, is the nub of the whole issue! If she's an accommodating kinda gal and she'll let me move it about a bit, ah sure, a little drive wouldn't hurt!

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