"I’m new to this been on and off the site about two-three weeks, I’m finding it impossible to get a reply back even while sending a face pic. One or two people have said go to socials but I just think it’s a bit weird for someone as young as me to go alone ? Any help be appreciated "
Hello OP
Some people won't want to meet with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet.
Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner like 'coming to Dublin anytime soon', it WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about.
We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, but one look at your profile would instantly put us off. In a word it's.... boring. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say?
Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; don't nake it harder on yourself. The first impression is the first hurdle after all.
Put on some pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice.
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves.
As others have said, try an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It is not weird for a young guy to turn up for a soial alone, in fact people will give you kudos for doing it and that in itself will help break the ice.
Good luck  |
