FabSwingers.com forum: Hey guys, what can I do better on my profile to get more meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

I'm open to any criticism anybody may have! Thanks so much in advance.

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By *ileen_cdTV/TS
22 weeks ago

Dublin

"I'm open to any criticism anybody may have! Thanks so much in advance. "

Your profile is OK. I think, for a man, the profile is not that important as long as it not off-putting.

If you want to get meets, get verified at a social and publish your verifications. Be confident and courteous and if someone is engaging with you, propose a meet at a convenient time and place as soon as possible. Unless you want to get sucked into endless chats.

Be active on the forum and the groups and do not express a controversial opinion. It is not the place to discuss politics, immigration or lgbtq+ issues.

Good luck!

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By *oshSardineMan
22 weeks ago

Castleknock

"I'm open to any criticism anybody may have! Thanks so much in advance. "

In fairness, these things are posted every week and are mostly rhetorical. Before I answer, does your profile look as if it’s a hit?

Lose the pic of your cock hanging out, it looks awful. Make the second picture you profile picture. A black silhouette is what comes up if you’re online and will not get a view. Write a paragraph about you. Write your second paragraph about what you’re looking for here. Everyone’s looking for the ride but are you looking to encounter men, women, couples? What it is? Third paragraph write about what’s going to make those people want to choose you over the 8.4 million men on here who are also looking for the ride but dress it up a bit.

Lots of women say I’ve a great profile that’s fantastically written. It doesn’t have me inundated with chats, offers or whatever but it’s about why I’m here, what I want and what I’ve to offer but it gives women an insight.

It’s like trying to win the lotto. Sometimes you might have two numbers, sometimes three but nearly impossible to get the winning six. Anyway, spruce it up a bit and sell your soul to the devil and see if they accept it.

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By *ddieWouldGoMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

Aye I'd echo some of the sentiments here. Go to a social. Get verified. And add detail to yer profile. Be yourself and own it in terms of what yer after. You will never please all the people all the time so don't even try.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
22 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Your profile doesn't really say what you're looking for or what you have to offer. Maybe concentrate a little on that

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By *chochamberWoman
22 weeks ago

Munster

You could take a better body pic, the head shot is interesting and arty. The dick pic (to me) is too obvious.

More pics in general would be good.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
22 weeks ago

City Centre

There's no right or wrong when it comes to profiles. What works for one person may not work for another.

So first off, what is it that you want? Sex, fwb, possibly more?

Who are you primarily seeking to meet?

Are you looking for repeating the experiences shared or seeking a one night stand?

What do you like to offer in regards of your time, a coffee, a drink, a walk to see if there's attraction or do you prefer to turn up when needed for sex? (Yes It happens).

Are you interested in one on one scenarios or happy to be included by a couple or group?

Would you like to be part of the social or party scene?

Consider your profile as a place where you want to entice the reader to want to get to know more about you. It's the first thing the majority look at before even opening a message.

Be fun, be yourself, and by giving a little bit more about yourself, you may bring a little more appeal.

Good luck

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By *arkmandurantMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

More cock pics. Works a treat

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By *ddieWouldGoMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

"More cock pics. Works a treat

Depends what your packin

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
22 weeks ago

City Centre

"More cock pics. Works a treat

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By *oshSardineMan
22 weeks ago

Castleknock

"More cock pics. Works a treat

Depends what your packin

A small uzi by the looks of it

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By *ddieWouldGoMan
22 weeks ago

Belfast

Durant with the colossal cock, good lord

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West

Avoid using ChatGPT to write your bio. There's more and more on fab now and they are easy to spot.

I think you've gotten all the good advice already.

You could have a look at the profiles of the guys who have verified the people you want to meet.

Then have a look a David Attenborough documentary on bird's of paradise

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West

Oh yes and if you are going to post photos of your massive cock make sure the Photoshopping isn't really obvious and that the photos you steal aren't already posted all over the internet

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
22 weeks ago

Lucan

Get your bank details tattooed on your forehead but make sure to blank out half of it on your profile pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
22 weeks ago

I didn't Photoshop xD I'm real

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
22 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"Get your bank details tattooed on your forehead but make sure to blank out half of it on your profile pic.

Aaaaand the image is now private

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By *itlbeeCouple
22 weeks ago

You haven't got a lot to go on there, I think the silhouette picture is fine, can be a good way to keep your privacy, while still giving someone an impression of your looks.

A basic body picture would go well, Something that hints at your physique, even if fully clothed.

You definitely need to write more about yourself. Telling people to message you to ask is worse than useless.

There are just too many men on here, you're only going to get attention if you seem like you have potential from your profile.

Inject some personality, describe your ideal set up and the limits of what your looking for.

I know most people are looking for casual sex, but that still requires people to actually like you enough to spend time with you. Sell yourself more.

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By *electableicecreamMan
22 weeks ago

The West

"I didn't Photoshop xD I'm real"

Oh I didn't mean you. It was a joke in reference to another poster in the thread.

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