FabSwingers.com forum: Verify help

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesss...the catch 22 of verifications. Can't get verified without talking to verified user....but verified users don't want to possibly take chance.

Recently started using this page this last week after few years off. Should start new page or??? Help, ladies? Not into couples.....at least for now.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Do a search for Help a Fabber threads...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea....seeing that thread now. Looks way crowded. Oh I dunno...I feel like I'm an actor auditioning to be accepted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yea....seeing that thread now. Looks way crowded. Oh I dunno...I feel like I'm an actor auditioning to be accepted.

You don’t have to audition at all, however, if you want anyone to see how your film goes, it would be a suggestion to seek out those help a fabber threads. See it as you gaining an Oscar for your performance.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

There are Help a Fabber threads, organised in-person unverified socials, getting involved in the forums and getting to know people through them, etc etc... get stuck in whichever way. Shy baby gets no sweets...

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By *carlett!Woman
over a year ago

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By *carlett!Woman
over a year ago

"There are Help a Fabber threads, organised in-person unverified socials, getting involved in the forums and getting to know people through them, etc etc... get stuck in whichever way. Shy baby gets no sweets..."

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks Sardine mate, good one hahaha. Yeah....bunch of unverified horny dudes getting together for a social. I'm ok. If it was a bunch of VERIFIED horny dudes for a social...actually yea, could work. I need into the secret circle!!

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Well it's not just fellas at them but my honest opinion is you're coming across needlessly sarcy, and jumping into the old 'golden circle/clique' thing probably won't endear you to many people. You do you anyways, I've offered my small bit of advice

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

There used to be a day not long ago where unverified people couldn't attend ANY events, and "help a fabber" didn't exist.

You have easy ways for you to get verified, you just don't seem to want to do them for some reason.

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By *ACOLCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Just put the locations where you can meet for coffee, and let whoever can verify you do so.

If you are looking for a single lady to verify you, then you are picky plus suspicious.

Lina.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op I think you seriously need to rethink what a verification meet is! A man, woman or couple will do! Right now if you have read between the lines the others have said they wouldn't meet you!

And since you have not been to a social how do you know it's full of single male sweaty blokes!

You are going to have to put in time, effort, show up! Be on your best behaviour, you have nothing that is not available 100 times over! Only the special single guys will actually get all the fun, the majority get nothing! So learn from them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyday a School day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks Sardine mate, good one hahaha. Yeah....bunch of unverified horny dudes getting together for a social. I'm ok. If it was a bunch of VERIFIED horny dudes for a social...actually yea, could work. I need into the secret circle!!"

You do realise OP, that you've as good as shot yourself in the foot. With this post on here, you haven't been to a social of any kind. But yet you think it's full of just horny dudes, with no women or couples at them.

Who do think organises the socials?

It's usually women or Couples that does them. If your just looking for a woman to verify you, you could be here for a long time. Along with you being in the golden circle of 1(yourself). You need have a good long think about thing's on here OP.

Anyway's OP good luck with your scorch to get verified by a single lady or in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drops Mike! Exit stage left you forgot to add

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drops Mike! Exit stage left you forgot to add"

Ya,exactly.

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By *exy Social SpiritsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Mayo

This op was invited to a social.. we wld have introduced him around and he wld have got verified but declines the offer..

There is nothing more a person can do to help him..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"This op was invited to a social.. we wld have introduced him around and he wld have got verified but declines the offer..

There is nothing more a person can do to help him.."

Well this is awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This op was invited to a social.. we wld have introduced him around and he wld have got verified but declines the offer..

There is nothing more a person can do to help him..

Well this is awkward

Exactly

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

We all started as unverified here. Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This op was invited to a social.. we wld have introduced him around and he wld have got verified but declines the offer..

There is nothing more a person can do to help him..

Well this is awkward

I know you spat out your tea! You cannot help those who will not help themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all started as unverified here. Just saying."

So when your offered a hand out you take it! I know being new myself how impossibly hard it is to get verified and the horror stories I have about that. 100% easiest option is a large social! And wish I'd just gone that route from the outset. You live and learn and move on.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

London

"We all started as unverified here. Just saying.

That’s what I was trying to say to OP. We all were unverified once. My first verification came from organised social, otherwise I wouldn’t have any for a long time so socials are the way to go.

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

"We all started as unverified here. Just saying.

That’s what I was trying to say to OP. We all were unverified once. My first verification came from organised social, otherwise I wouldn’t have any for a long time so socials are the way to go. "

Exactly we all started out some where with a kind person giving us a helping hand..

I have introduced some many people to socials and have gone out of my way to make sure they were comfortable in a social

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south

"We all started as unverified here. Just saying.

That’s what I was trying to say to OP. We all were unverified once. My first verification came from organised social, otherwise I wouldn’t have any for a long time so socials are the way to go.

Exactly we all started out some where with a kind person giving us a helping hand..

I have introduced some many people to socials and have gone out of my way to make sure they were comfortable in a social

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yes not all men get offered social meets and alternative meets are social for 50 people and am not really into them , So am out lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even more confused! There is lots of advertised socials now! If you want to make it happen, get up get out and go do it. Nobody will knock on your door and hold your hand! Harsh but it's true! I'm sure event planners deal with a mountain of waffel and BS, it's date, time, location... pay up and go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to say OP, Fab is not full of desperate horny women. And there's a lot of other disappointed men here hoping fab will make a FWB fall into their lap.

Fab works almost exactly the same as the dating apps. You need to be selling yourself and your best qualities. Your bio specifically says you don't want to do that, and comes across as wishy-washy, and unenthusiastic.

You need to meet people and go to events to get the lay of the land.

If you're friendly and cute, things can really take off for a guy. But snarky and unapproachable is not going to work here.

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