FabSwingers.com forum: Regular meets

By *aven an Stacey OP Couple
23 weeks ago

Carlow

Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

Strange that nobody commented in 8 hrs???

Hopefully since I bumped it up, you will.

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By *rystalsswingCouple
23 weeks ago

Galway

I think alot of couples are looking for this!

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By *lackdmou5Man
23 weeks ago

Dublin/Kildare

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single "

Looking for regular couple too... That's the dream. Hopefully out interests align...

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

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By *otinmyeyeCouple
23 weeks ago

Los lobos

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?"

Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..

But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!

Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.

A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,

I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing.

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..

But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!

Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.

A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,

I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing."

So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked?

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Personally looking for a couple for regular fun

if any couple is looking for a M!

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By *lackdmou5Man
23 weeks ago

Dublin/Kildare

I'm guessing every couple has their own boxes they'll like ticked. Would like to chat to any couples interested see how many we can match

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By *otinmyeyeCouple
23 weeks ago

Los lobos

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..

But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!

Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.

A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,

I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing.

So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked?"

Lol well I mean apart from all the sexual stuff, there's other things like logistics privacy discretion trust.

Ok I know talking about these sort of things totally kills the vibe but just saying..

Of course you could always say feck it and just go out and have a good time..

But finding a regular? I don't know, maybe other couples have better ways to find what there looking for

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By *insBadMan
23 weeks ago

& around

"Strange that nobody commented in 8 hrs???

Hopefully since I bumped it up, you will."

Bank holiday weekend, last night was more like a Saturday night, it should get more traffic today

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By *heBlowinsCouple
23 weeks ago

West Cork

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?"

Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W

And we don't even consider ourselves very picky

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W

And we don't even consider ourselves very picky

I suppose it whatever preferences people have too.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
23 weeks ago

kinkytown

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W

And we don't even consider ourselves very picky

Finding regular guys who tick all the boxes is hard enough. Trust us on that.

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By *lackdmou5Man
23 weeks ago

Dublin/Kildare

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Honestly know what you mean, of course it would be easy enough to find a guy, and can understand your thinking behind that because in essence that would be true..

But finding a regular, which I agree a lot of couples would prefer!!

Isn't as straightforward as it sounds.

A regular would probably have to tick a lot of boxes,

I probably mean a lot more boxes than just a shag kinda thing.

So for all the guys here, what are the boxes that needs to be ticked?

Lol well I mean apart from all the sexual stuff, there's other things like logistics privacy discretion trust.

Ok I know talking about these sort of things totally kills the vibe but just saying..

Of course you could always say feck it and just go out and have a good time..

But finding a regular? I don't know, maybe other couples have better ways to find what there looking for "

I don't think these things kill tje vibe, they need to be discussed specially in the begging see where everyone's at..

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By *adger BrocMan
23 weeks ago

Co. Cork

I think there are lots of guys, and girls, on here who like to lick boxes.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Easier said than done, but well worth the effort when you eventually meet a compatible couple! Unfortunately takes time and effort to find though...

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

"Surely it's easier for a couple or lady to find a regular guy ?

Agree with Lobos- it can be mega difficult. It's hard enough finding one-off guys who tick the boxes. W

And we don't even consider ourselves very picky

Finding regular guys who tick all the boxes is hard enough. Trust us on that. "

Just probably need to chat and see what happens then

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By *hicotime123Man
23 weeks ago

dublin

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single "
id be interested in meeting you guys if you want

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By *uper duperMan
23 weeks ago

around

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single id be interested in meeting you guys if you want "

There's a queue outside their house at the minute

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By *xcited99Couple
23 weeks ago

omagh

Yes it woukd be nice to have a regular couple on the sane wave lenght. Friends with extra special benefits!

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By *aughty MilfCouple
23 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

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By *aughty MilfCouple
23 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland

"Yes it would be nice to have a regular couple on the same wave lenght. Friends with extra special benefits!"
definitely agree

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
23 weeks ago

Dublin

"I think alot of couples are looking for this!

Ok you have us convinced

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By *ornywife20Couple
23 weeks ago

North Cork

It's hard to find a couple you both click with thankfully we have found a few .when it works it's brilliant.

It does take time effort and a lot of money to find those couples but it's worth it when it works .

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
23 weeks ago

Portstewart

Think most of us would like the same, if it's meant to be we will find them or they will find us but I doubt we will give up the search

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By *iraeireMan
23 weeks ago

Dublin

I get the feeling that folks here are more about showing off than having real meet-ups; I’ve actually had more genuine meetings outside this site. Honestly, I'd prefer to find a regular couple for everything.

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By *ealcoupleCouple
23 weeks ago

"I think alot of couples are looking for this!

Yes to this

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

My ideal meeting would develop into a regular thing. So much more opertunity for pleasure the more you get to know people.

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By *addyseeds.ieMan
23 weeks ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

"I think alot of couples are looking for this!

I don’t think only couples are looking for this.

I would love to find the right girl to be a regular and hopefully then meet together other couples.

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By *xplicitMan
23 weeks ago

donegal

A regular meet is definitely the way to go, the idea of constantly mailing and starting from scratch, well it’s awful, have more or less given up and back to relying on old fashioned wit and beer goggles

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By *oghunter33Woman
23 weeks ago

on the hill NordWest of

While there's many ways of checking out social compatibility there's only one way to to find out if you're sexually compatible: you have to have sex. So the latter is most basic part of finding a regular.

Other than that: the more hurdles and box ticking you pack in the trickier it gets. Not saying you should drop all your preferences but rather than trying to find prince and princess perfect try to see the human and give him/her/them a chance.

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By *og-ManMan
23 weeks ago

somewhere

"While there's many ways of checking out social compatibility there's only one way to to find out if you're sexually compatible: you have to have sex. So the latter is most basic part of finding a regular.

You have to kiss some frogs before you find your prince alright

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By *s LollyWoman
23 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

You have to kiss some frogs before you find your prince alright

Ive kiseed my fair share im definitely due a break

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By *ornywife20Couple
23 weeks ago

North Cork

"I get the feeling that folks here are more about showing off than having real meet-ups; I’ve actually had more genuine meetings outside this site. Honestly, I'd prefer to find a regular couple for everything."

No one is forcing you to stay on the site.

We have meet plenty of lovely people thanks to Fab it is a great site for meeting like mined couples

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By *rish_GuyMan
23 weeks ago

Foxford

I'd say it doesn't matter weather your a couple or single. Most people would like to have a regular meet/s, depending on your circumstances. I know, I wouldn't say no to having a regular meet(I can dream).

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By *enitMan
23 weeks ago

Galway

Well, sounds good. How regular?

I often travel for work but to various areas

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By *uriouscpl321Couple
23 weeks ago

dublin

We so far have only met males but recently have been chatting about meeting a couple socially then see ... hard thou to find one we can click with

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By *ornywife20Couple
23 weeks ago

North Cork

"We so far have only met males but recently have been chatting about meeting a couple socially then see ... hard thou to find one we can click with "

The great thing about Fab is there is someone foe everyone on here. Our taste might not be yours and vise a versa. Keep looking you will find a,couple that suit you.

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By *ACOLCouple
23 weeks ago

limerick

Finding a set couple is extremely hard, as there are two to please, and everyone needs to be comfortable with each other, also finding the time for everyone to meet as couple normally have kids and aren't available so easily.

Lina.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

A long way off that, doubt anyone or extremely limit have this

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By *our naughty neighboursCouple
23 weeks ago

Banbridge area

Glad we’re not the only ones that find it hard to find a regular guy and as mentioned before who ticks the boxes that need ticked. We’ve less boxes now that need to be ticked without losing standards so to speak.

Most guys say they would like regular but found they’re usually saying anything to get a score or don’t understand what regular is. Some think you’re an easy hit without the invested time to keep it fun. It’s not that we don’t realise couples can be bit demanding but step to the plate at least

To find really genuine people isn’t easy but glad to say there is plenty on fab if you stick it out. Couples for us has definitely been harder as there’s 4 people that has to click and to be equally invested as ourselves. The search goes on and still having fun

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By *ublinjonnMan
23 weeks ago

dublin

Glad to help out if required!! X x

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By *ornywife20Couple
23 weeks ago

North Cork

We have a few nice couples we meet regularly enough it is tough to find time to meet with work and family but when we meet everyone is more relaxed and the fun is better because we all know what each other likes. Yes it is the dream and we are lucky to have found it. All we need now is that elusive unicorn lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

Good luck on that one

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By *xcited99Couple
23 weeks ago

omagh

The search will continue.

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By *rishmanabroadMan
23 weeks ago

Dublin/Belfast

Can see the attraction of regular meets. From the perspective of a being single here, I’ve found there’s a danger of one side becoming more involved/invested than is merited. Great if it works for everyone but boundaries and ongoing communication are so important (and difficult).

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By *DLGirlCouple
23 weeks ago

littleville

Getting a meet is hard enough never mind getting a regular set of playmates, good luck tho!

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By *otownkid1967Man
23 weeks ago

Portlaoise

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single "

Will I send my CV??

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By *r.AnonymousMan
23 weeks ago

Limerick

As a single guy here I’m looking for regular meets, it’s hard to have all the involved members to be on the same wavelength, but it’s not impossible

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By *rystalsswingCouple
23 weeks ago

Galway

Unless you have the time to dedicate to meeting people for socials it's very, very difficult!!! Starting to realise we were fairly lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

I'm a guy, looking for a regular meet. Its tricky to get all the stars to align, but have had some really great experiences. Time and location is the hardest. (Anywhere around Cork or south Tipp suits me xx)

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By *hocko87Man
23 weeks ago

dublin

Ide luv to be a regular meet for a couple . But whether I meet their requirements is another thing . I'm a very respectfull open minded guy .

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By *ornywife20Couple
23 weeks ago

North Cork

"Unless you have the time to dedicate to meeting people for socials it's very, very difficult!!! Starting to realise we were fairly lucky!

Really have to agree.

We too have been lucky but it does take time and effort.

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By *oung_machine1040Man
23 weeks ago

anywhere

I have my own place in Shannon but would love to find a couple or female for regular meets. Everyone can have stressful days so it would be nice to release that stress and tension every once in a while with a person or couple who need the same thing.

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By *yesgreenMan
23 weeks ago

north and south

"I have my own place in Shannon but would love to find a couple or female for regular meets. Everyone can have stressful days so it would be nice to release that stress and tension every once in a while with a person or couple who need the same thing. "
Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both

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By *andytownMan
23 weeks ago

Gods Own Country

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single "

Could be a Carlow thing

where the fcek is it #ducks

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By *electableicecreamMan
23 weeks ago

The West

"Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both "

They do. Pretty much all of the people I've had repeat meets with have gotten in touch with me first.

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By *yesgreenMan
23 weeks ago

north and south

"Why don’t couples approach the men they fancy or women or both ? Looks distance personally that suits you both

They do. Pretty much all of the people I've had repeat meets with have gotten in touch with me first."
Best way as couples and ladies inboxes my be stuffed , I need to update my profile and pictures and get a facelift too lol

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By *adforsexMan
23 weeks ago

Santry

I'm in

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By *adforsexMan
23 weeks ago

Santry

"I think alot of couples are looking for this!

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damn your fine

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By *k69Man
23 weeks ago

Any town

Sound good, I'm in, bi couple is a bonus

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By *k69Man
23 weeks ago

Any town

Sound good, I'm in, bi couple is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
23 weeks ago

We've been looking for a regular meet for ages no such look

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By *exydoctorsCouple
23 weeks ago

Galway/Clare

It's not at all easy. We have met one couple together and separately for many years and it's still amazing.

We would be happy to do other separate things but there's just so much stuff to wade through that we typically don't really even try. For her, just finding someone who can make her laugh, is normal enough and is only looking to have a fwb/ small number of partners seems difficult. For me, women who want a guy typically seem to look for singles rather than the male of a couple, or maybe it's just I see the amount of messages they get and I can't be bothered to put effort into something that is likely to remain unread!

Relying on socials from now on!!

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By *adforsexMan
23 weeks ago

Santry

"We've been looking for a regular meet for ages no such look

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unlucky I'm below your age range tho

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By *otownkid1967Man
23 weeks ago

Portlaoise

Most couples and single ladies in boxes are full a lot of the time. So as someone else has said above....maybe the couples should make the first approach.

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By *r.AnonymousMan
19 weeks ago

Limerick

"Couple looking for regular meets with couples or single "

Interested in the same but ye are a bit far away

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By *ewcorkcpl23Couple
19 weeks ago

Cork

Alot of people come on fab looking for regular playmates, it's how you treat people and fab is proof of how successful you are. We have been on a few group chats of late find them away better than fab as you know your speaking to real people and can relax alot more be yourself more, we have built some great connections from these groups which we hope can form some regular meets in the future. Do what ye feel comfortable doing is our advice most important than anything be yourselves not what you think people will want you to be.

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