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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints?" Have a wank | |||
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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints?" There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky. | |||
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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints? There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky." Sounds familiar! Might I make a suggestion ! Maybe he should be “strategic” with his choices !  | |||
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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints? There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky. Sounds familiar! Might I make a suggestion ! Maybe he should be “strategic” with his choices ! "I think you are referencing the other thread and suggesting that this guy is about to go against his sexual preference and have sex with a man instead is that it? | |||
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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints? There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky. Sounds familiar! Might I make a suggestion ! Maybe he should be “strategic” with his choices !
I think you are referencing the other thread and suggesting that this guy is about to go against his sexual preference and have sex with a man instead is that it?"Not suggesting that he is. Suggesting that he “could”. He is not having any success with his first preference, so, a strategic choice would be to compromise. The OP might not. Some others would. ! | |||
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"It seems that a single guy who is not "single" won't get a lot of interest,maybe more so when older. So,anyone have any hints? There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky. Sounds familiar! Might I make a suggestion ! Maybe he should be “strategic” with his choices !
I think you are referencing the other thread and suggesting that this guy is about to go against his sexual preference and have sex with a man instead is that it?"I noticed you didn’t make any comments on the post above, suggesting the OP “have a wank”. Is “have a wank” a reasonable reply/solution ? More so, than “broaden your horizons” ? | |||
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"I think having a wank is a far more likely and helpful suggestion than going against his sexuality and fucking a man lol " And “having a wank” is not something he might have thought of, all by himself ! And still he is here, asking, “what’s an oil lad to do……” | |||
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"I think having a wank is a far more likely and helpful suggestion than going against his sexuality and fucking a man lol And “having a wank” is not something he might have thought of, all by himself ! And still he is here, asking, “what’s an oil lad to do……”" Fuck a man I guess, according to you  | |||
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"I think having a wank is a far more likely and helpful suggestion than going against his sexuality and fucking a man lol And “having a wank” is not something he might have thought of, all by himself ! And still he is here, asking, “what’s an oil lad to do……” Fuck a man I guess, according to you "It’s a legitimate option. What was your suggestion to his “dilemma” Oh ya, this “There are some girls here who are looking for what you're looking for, but very few, and those that are will be very picky” So, translation, There is a needle here, in this haystack, and if you find it, there is a strong possibility it will burst your expectations bubble ! In other words, tough shit. Suck it up ! Very helpful  | |||
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"Let's ask the original poster shall we? Tenit - perhaps you should have sex with a man instead. What do you think?" Reasonable
Better than telling him “go fish” ! | |||
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"No. For a straight man it's not a legitimate option. " Remember this, “Loads of lads on here with “Straight” in profile but Looking for MM/MFM/Bi etc” | |||
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"No. For a straight man it's not a legitimate option. Remember this, “Loads of lads on here with “Straight” in profile but Looking for MM/MFM/Bi etc” " There sure are, but I will take profiles at face value until they say otherwise themselves. | |||
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"Let's ask the original poster shall we? Tenit - perhaps you should have sex with a man instead. What do you think?" Not really something that appeals tome. And as for having a wank, well it's not exactly comparable is it? And I reckon I'm not unlike most guys and I often have a wank. Kinda like telling someone to use a bicycle when they are looking for a taxi | |||
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"Unsurprising that you won't have sex with a man instead. Unfortunately for you there are many single single men here who don't have the baggage of a married man playing away, so your options here will be limited." Also unsurprising that “have a wank” is not the solution. Not left with many (or any) options so then. Join the ranks of the INCELS, seems to be the future for the OP 
Brings up another interesting topic though!
There are many on here with MFM in profile.
Including the OP
Some are not looking for couples- just MFM.
How far are they away from MM (in some format)
Obviously comfortable with other M in the room
In a “dark” room would they know/care about straying hands !
Would the know/care who was on the other side of a GH wall ?
Is this better than the INCEL existence ?
Is anything worse? | |||
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"What on earth has incel got to do with anything in this thread? OP asked a question and got some reasonable answers. He's also clearly stated that sex with men is not for him and you are not respecting that. Your persistence in this idea that heterosexual men do or should have sex with men in the absence of a woman is really pretty be bizarre and and speaks more to your personal agenda than anything else. OP didn't ask about men. So maybe don't hijack his thread. " Jeez Joan, have a snickers ! | |||
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"It's is not the sites job to service the needs of married men looking for an affair, or indeed any other demographic here. It just creates a forum where people with matching requirements can find each other. If there aren't any matches then there aren't any matches. Where this leaves this man (and the many other profiles who haven't met from here) is in exactly the same place as when they started. No harm no foul." TBF, the OP just asked for some advice. He got some, some of it wasn’t very helpful but there were some points raised. That’s just how the dice fell. His response to (@_ilthynights) was also very reasonable and not negative in any way. All in all, he raised a topic and got some interactions and some replies. Isn’t that what the Forums are for ! All good really | |||
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"Unsurprising that you won't have sex with a man instead. Unfortunately for you there are many single single men here who don't have the baggage of a married man playing away, so your options here will be limited. Also unsurprising that “have a wank” is not the solution. Not left with many (or any) options so then. Join the ranks of the INCELS, seems to be the future for the OP
Brings up another interesting topic though!
There are many on here with MFM in profile.
Including the OP
Some are not looking for couples- just MFM.
How far are they away from MM (in some format)
Obviously comfortable with other M in the room
In a “dark” room would they know/care about straying hands !
Would the know/care who was on the other side of a GH wall ?
Is this better than the INCEL existence ?
Is anything worse?"You have a very busy mind. Maybe read the works of the Greek philosophers and glean your answers on the human condition from them. | |||
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"Well, that was all very interesting. I know it's a minority situation,and I do enjoy the chat. I'm not desperate, I'm just keeping an option open. It may or may not happen but such is life. I don't expect anyone to alter their preferences to suit me, I will just carry on and maybe at some point a person will come along with matching requirements. Thanks to everyone for their contributions." Fair play and good luck! | |||
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"Unsurprising that you won't have sex with a man instead. Unfortunately for you there are many single single men here who don't have the baggage of a married man playing away, so your options here will be limited. Also unsurprising that “have a wank” is not the solution. Not left with many (or any) options so then. Join the ranks of the INCELS, seems to be the future for the OP
Brings up another interesting topic though!
There are many on here with MFM in profile.
Including the OP
Some are not looking for couples- just MFM.
How far are they away from MM (in some format)
Obviously comfortable with other M in the room
In a “dark” room would they know/care about straying hands !
Would the know/care who was on the other side of a GH wall ?
Is this better than the INCEL existence ?
Is anything worse?
You have a very busy mind. Maybe read the works of the Greek philosophers and glean your answers on the human condition from them. "Prefer to “glean my answers” from actual people rather than looking to The Greek philosophers Although TBF, they were distinguished from "non-philosophers" insofar as they rejected mythological explanations in favor of reasoned discourse. | |||
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Does anyone actually use it? Does it have much activity in Ireland?"I hear there are loads! (Of bots) | |||
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"Join Ashley Madison
Does anyone actually use it? Does it have much activity in Ireland?"You do know this site has had major security breaches | |||
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