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By *rishGuy2322 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Near you

Taken from another thread and thought it would be interesting.

For couples in Ireland have you ever considered the dynamic?

Are you a cuck couple looking for something long term? Have you found it and how has it worked?

Interested to hear people's thoughts.

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By *om TangoMan
38 weeks ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

I think everyone should be allowed to explore with someone else. My kinks might not be her kink kinda thing. Once there is trust and lots of communication between both I can’t see why this can’t happen. Really do we honestly think we can get everything we desire from 1 person. When I was with the ex we both exploded our desire’s and it was lovely. Now before someone jumps on the bandwagon that is very far from the reasons why the marriage broke down

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By (user no longer on site)
38 weeks ago

I think you ld need to open up the relationship all around, and once each party has a long term significant other, then their attention is starting to spread pretty thin. Boyfriends/girlfriends need to be cared for emotionally, you need to have the capacity for that care and time.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

In my first marriage both my ex wife and I had a bf/gf on the side with full support and encouragement of each other. It didn't end well. It's very tricky to stop a relationship once it's started and there is clear compatibility. Its not something I would do again in a hurry.

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By *kinandbonesCouple
38 weeks ago

dublin

Yes we're open to the idea of a long-term "boyfriend" and my wife has her own profile too but she'd really have to have similar interests as the guy outside of the bedroom as well.

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By *rishGuy2322 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Near you

She's gorgeous and I'm sure not short of offers.

I think the dynamic would be fantastic. It shows great security and comfort in the couples relationship to be able to share.

Also has a nice side of appreciation for the wife. It would be great to find a that dynamic with a couple.

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By *rishGuy2322 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Near you


"In my first marriage both my ex wife and I had a bf/gf on the side with full support and encouragement of each other. It didn't end well. It's very tricky to stop a relationship once it's started and there is clear compatibility. Its not something I would do again in a hurry."

Sorry to hear it didn't work out. I agree it is probably difficult to navigate and maintain clear communication.

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By *aseylee324Couple
38 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

God no, a second relationship would be exhausting

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
38 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"God no, a second relationship would be exhausting "

That too

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By *rishGuy2322 OP   Man
38 weeks ago

Near you


"God no, a second relationship would be exhausting "

Hadn't thought of that

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By *aseylee324Couple
38 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows


"God no, a second relationship would be exhausting

Hadn't thought of that "

These things sound great in theory

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By *ingpot!Man
38 weeks ago

West Cork


"God no, a second relationship would be exhausting "

This ^

Would love for my wife to have a somewhat regular FB though.. just not interested at all in a throuple. We barely have enough energy for ourselves!

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