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"Don’t mind generic providing grammar and punctuation are correct. But some personal info included. Verifications really important. Exceptions are an excellent introductory message. " What personal information would you want??  | |||
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"I don't really rate one above the other. What I'm looking for is: 1. Are they who they say they are? Yes I am real. 2. Have they a record of turning up when they say they will? Yes I will turn up if I say I will. 3. Who have they met previously? " . See my verifications | |||
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"I read them in hope it goes like the following. This girl is nuts, “she is capable of climbing up onto the bag and stippling off and firing her underwear into the crowd”. Unfortunately having seen any like that yet. " You just haven't met the right woman yet  | |||
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"I read them in hope it goes like the following. This girl is nuts, “she is capable of climbing up onto the bag and stippling off and firing her underwear into the crowd”. Unfortunately having seen any like that yet. You just haven't met the right woman yet "Are you talking from EXPERIENCE Bog?     | |||
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"I read them in hope it goes like the following. This girl is nuts, “she is capable of climbing up onto the bag and stippling off and firing her underwear into the crowd”. Unfortunately having seen any like that yet. You just haven't met the right woman yet "I know she has to be out there somewhere for me | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications?" Because they don't want other people knowing their business? Because they don't want hassle from people who think they should have met them instead? Because they don't want veri stalkers? | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications? Because they don't want other people knowing their business? Because they don't want hassle from people who think they should have met them instead? Because they don't want veri stalkers?" Yep, all of this I toggle mine on and off from time to time.
On the other hand I'm a nosy bollix when someone displays a new one | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications? Because they don't want other people knowing their business? Because they don't want hassle from people who think they should have met them instead? Because they don't want veri stalkers?" Have to say I felt so proud you displayed my verification on your profile kaz. | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications?" A lot of mine have left the site so the veries aren't there to be shown. Some I don't want people to know that I was associated with at any stage. Some were so imaginative that I didn't recognise the scenario they were describing so I won't display them. They were written as a play veri when we had literally only walked passed each other in an hotel hallway. | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications? A lot of mine have left the site so the veries aren't there to be shown. Some I don't want people to know that I was associated with at any stage. Some were so imaginative that I didn't recognise the scenario they were describing so I won't display them. They were written as a play veri when we had literally only walked passed each other in an hotel hallway. " You are right, it's logical and more truthful to hide incorrect or outdated verifications rather than show them. I am mostly surprised by people who have one or two verifications in total, but show none at all. | |||
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"I always read them when I feel like having a few hearty laughs" Strange you have none | |||
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"I read verifications. Some of them are really funny. Why do some people hide their verifications? Because they don't want other people knowing their business? Because they don't want hassle from people who think they should have met them instead? Because they don't want veri stalkers? Have to say I felt so proud you displayed my verification on your profile kaz. " I display the most recent for a week or so then hide them. I'm around long enough for most people to know I'm real | |||
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" I am mostly surprised by people who have one or two verifications in total, but show none at all." If I show a new veri, I'm guaranteed quite a number of messages from guys outside my preferences so it cuts down on admin. I'm currently not showing any after a number of messages from different profiles demanding I meet them because I apparently met "mutual friends". | |||
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"Don’t mind generic providing grammar and punctuation are correct. But some personal info included. Verifications really important. Exceptions are an excellent introductory message. What personal information would you want?? "Smells nice, tastes nice, good shift
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"I always read them when I feel like having a few hearty laughs Strange you have none "The green tick means we do, we have chosen to hide them  | |||
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"When you have none they are impossible to get! " That's 100% true, especially if your trying to get them through a 1 to 1 meet. Socials are the best way to start & get around that for most people.  | |||
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"When you have none they are impossible to get! " Not true. It's never been easier to get meet verified | |||
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"It's shocking to me how many people judge eachother on who they've met. For a supposedly unjudgmental bunch we do seem to love to find reasons to judge eachother. I meet a lot of people at social events and I like to take them at face value. There are obviously people that I don't like on fab but I'm not going to judge someone else for spending time with them. " I don't judge everyone by verifications but I do judge some. If someone I've met and chatted to for quite a while tells me about how horrible and hideous other fabbers are and then they post glowing verifications for those same people I'll judge them on their agenda. At the same time I wonder if those fabbers would still think they were hot and sexy and lovely inside and out if they were aware of what was being said about them in private? I judge people who enable fabbers like that and choose not to meet them for those reasons. | |||
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" Not true. It's never been easier to get meet verified "Really easy with a profile as hot and full of sexy photos as yours 
You are absolutely right, of course. There are many socials happening across the country, anyone can get meet verified quite easily. | |||
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"In your opinion only! Try starting over and see how you get on. " It's true though. There's so many events now it's just a matter of turning up. | |||
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"It's shocking to me how many people judge eachother on who they've met. For a supposedly unjudgmental bunch we do seem to love to find reasons to judge eachother. I meet a lot of people at social events and I like to take them at face value. There are obviously people that I don't like on fab but I'm not going to judge someone else for spending time with them. " In my humble opinion, Fab is very judgemental! People don't even have to meet to be judged!! Goodness me, people are judged on who they have met, who their 'group' is, are they even a member of any of the 'in groups' and if not you are almost invisable. People stab others in the back or whose friend has stabbed them in the back etc. It can go on and on. It makes the forums very off putting to new people as there seem to be posts about it every few weeks. My motto is if I am judged by people who do not know me, I am thankfully, never going to meet them so who care! | |||
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" Not true. It's never been easier to get meet verified
Really easy with a profile as hot and full of sexy photos as yours
You are absolutely right, of course. There are many socials happening across the country, anyone can get meet verified quite easily."Aw thank you
That's what I was referring to, the unverified socials | |||
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