FabSwingers.com forum: BAREBACK/SAFE

By *tarboy300 OP Man
over a year ago

kikdare/Dublin

Taken from the lounge.

How many people like bareback meets? how many people are strictly safe sex?

What is your preference?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Nearly everyone *likes* bare sex. It's just not a very clever idea

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Nearly everyone *likes* bare sex. It's just not a very clever idea"

This

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Bare is great

Bare with random fab hook ups not so great

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West

The question isn't really bareback or not. It's safe or not.

Sex isn't Russian roulette.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
over a year ago

Castlebar

"Taken from the lounge.

How many people like bareback meets? how many people are strictly safe sex?

What is your preference?

Always safe. You only live once

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By *aider190Man
over a year ago

swords

An absolute hard no to this one ...why would you take such a risk....safety almost the way for me always

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

Better safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback meets? You craaaazy? Safe sex only

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Can't remember the last time I was bareback but as youngest is nearly 13 that means it's about 14yrs an probably 2yrs since I had any sex too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safe sex for us both

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By *addyseeds.ieMan
over a year ago

Gorey, Enniscorthy

Strictly safe , can’t even remember last time I had bb sex

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By *enitMan
over a year ago

Galway

Always safe, not worth the eisk

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Bare feels better

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Always safe with anyone other than hubby. Possibly maybe someday way in the future when we have a special connection with someone it could happen but that's only a thought at the moment and would be testing involved before considering it

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By *om TangoMan
over a year ago

aughnacloy monaghan area

No glove, no love

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
over a year ago

kinda dublin

I love nothing more than blowing my beans up the girlfriend's clunge.

But that's as far as it goes.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

"I love nothing more than blowing my beans up the girlfriend's clunge.

But that's as far as it goes."

Love the word clunge

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"Bareback meets? You craaaazy? Safe sex only

^^This !!

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

Here abouts

Safety is always the way.

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

I don't know of anyone who thinks that the actual condom feels better then bareback!

It's often said that there's always one...I bet there isn't this time.

Condoms are used for safety and or out of respect. It's basic.

Exclusive relationships can make there own choice on this with our the worry/concern of health or even unwanted pregnancy.

This type of opp question is a regular.

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By *xcited99Couple
over a year ago

omagh

"Always safe with anyone other than hubby. Possibly maybe someday way in the future when we have a special connection with someone it could happen but that's only a thought at the moment and would be testing involved before considering it "
Totallyvagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't be for me now, gamble to take with essentially a stranger you know nothing about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My honest opinion on this is that it's easy and well and good chatting in this forum about safe sex, but in the heat of the moment you honestly don't know where you can go... When you know something is forbidden it's always in the corner of your mind that it's something that turns you on. Obviously we all know the dangers of bareback sex, but how many other things do we do that we know deep down are wrong. That forbidden fruit lol

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By *aseylee324Couple
over a year ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

The only truly safe sex is masturbation. Condoms only offer a certain amount of protection. I would never trust anyone other than himself for intercourse without a condom, but there's an element of risk to all sexual contact. Penis in orifice isn't the only way to catch something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's gas, you can catch stds from oral but nobody bothers about that but sex is different...

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By *othicDreamMan
over a year ago

london

Love bareback sex but don’t love it enough to take the risk of an incurable std

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By *acob12369Man
over a year ago

URPANTS

"The only truly safe sex is masturbation. Condoms only offer a certain amount of protection. I would never trust anyone other than himself for intercourse without a condom, but there's an element of risk to all sexual contact. Penis in orifice isn't the only way to catch something. "

99% according to Ross

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By *addy0Man
over a year ago

carlow town

Bare back is deffo better, but can come with big consquences

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By *carlett!Woman
over a year ago

Does the OP actually think this would be a open discussion? Would be fab suicide to come on this thread & say yes I prefer/do bareback :O I don't do bareback, just to clarify. Safe sex all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An important part of safe sex is regular sexual health checks. I don’t think we discuss this part of safe sex enough

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By *tagandVixen30sCouple
over a year ago

Carrick

prefer bareback as way better feeling, condoms ruin feeling but would never do bb with a stranger.

would only bb with husband or regular fb we trust. If we found a guy we could trust would only do bb after many meets so we could build up trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the OP actually think this would be a open discussion? Would be fab suicide to come on this thread & say yes I prefer/do bareback :O I don't do bareback, just to clarify. Safe sex all the way.

Totally agree with this,

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Love bareback sex but don’t love it enough to take the risk of an incurable std"

100%

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By *ofusplusCouple
52 weeks ago

Limerick

"My honest opinion on this is that it's easy and well and good chatting in this forum about safe sex, but in the heat of the moment you honestly don't know where you can go."

I disagree completely. If there's a danger of you losing control in the heat of the moment then it's something you should be concerned about ... for all sorts of reasons.

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By *he KakapoMan
52 weeks ago

A nice rock

A big problem on fab is the absolute stigma and pillering someone who says they do meet without using condoms, or are actively looking for those meets.

All that attitude does is push people towards saying one thing while thinking/doing another.

On fab always assume the other person is having unprotected adx elsewhere

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By *exbombABCMan
52 weeks ago

BLANCHARDSTOWN

Bare back is great but i wouldn’t do it with a random person or hookup you need to trust the person that’s my opinion. Safe sex with random people or hookups you don’t want to be a walking std

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
52 weeks ago

ballina

I've had a couple of instances lately where the men would prefer I suck them off so they could blow their load than fuck with condoms.. I hope it festers on the fuckers...

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By *rgasmdonorMan
52 weeks ago

millstreet

I have met a few women and rightly demand condoms and then give you oral where is the safety in that ,, you can still get an sti through oral peeps

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

Only bareback with my partner. But we have chatted to a frightening amount of men and couples here who will only BB. Milly x

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By *ofusplusCouple
52 weeks ago

Limerick

"Only bareback with my partner. But we have chatted to a frightening amount of men and couples here who will only BB. Milly x

Strange ... we've been here nearly 5 years and have never been asked for BB.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"Only bareback with my partner. But we have chatted to a frightening amount of men and couples here who will only BB. Milly x

Strange ... we've been here nearly 5 years and have never been asked for BB."

I have seen it mentioned on a couple of profiles lately but that’s it. I never been asked to or offered either. It’s bat shit crazy if you ask me

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By *exyScientistsCouple
52 weeks ago

Castlebar

Have had it mentioned to me, and have heard its happening a good bit, I get the impression that people won't admit to it.

Also people not being honest to fbs about who they are meeting, or how many. So bb always a risk however much you trust fwb or regular partners.

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By *tagandVixen30sCouple
49 weeks ago

Carrick

You would have to be very sure with whomever you meet before you go ahead with bareback. Sex without condoms is definitely better but the risks could be very high.

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

Love bareback and I do take risks sometimes, I know I shouldn't, but fuck it, that's life.

Condoms are most sensible of course.

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By *amsevenMan
49 weeks ago

cork

I'd hardly risk a bareback wank I'm so paranoid

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
49 weeks ago

kinkytown

Only bareback with jay or certed creators. Safe always with fab.

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By *tagandVixen30sCouple
49 weeks ago

Carrick

"Love bareback and I do take risks sometimes, I know I shouldn't, but fuck it, that's life.

Condoms are most sensible of course. "

Condoms ruin feeling feels best without.

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By *on Juan the MADridMan
49 weeks ago

Lisbon/ North England/ Wales/ Madrid/

"Love bareback and I do take risks sometimes, I know I shouldn't, but fuck it, that's life.

Condoms are most sensible of course. "

Definitely

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By *ccasionalcpl1985Couple
49 weeks ago

Two Rivers

No one is going to say they play bare on here. Yes we all love cum and in an ideal world this would be brilliant to be able to achieve.

After 17 years online we have seen it all from going to gangbangs were no one at them used a condom

we didn’t do much at them parties used our hands a lot

Men turning up without condoms, similar with couples and women.

Years ago we used to say we won’t meet anyone who plays without protection but at this stage, we are older and wiser and realise fab is not the only avenue people meet others off. And frankly each to their own it’s none of our business how others get their kicks and if playing bare is it so be it!

To be safe we have to look after ourselves, never assume others are always playing safe as not many do from what we have observed.

Others have said it to be totally safe abstinence is the key….. But that would be rather boring! Condoms for fucking and oral and dental dams are the recommendations for safe sex! Most don’t use condoms for oral!

Just get tested regularly this includes swabbing throat not just genitals.

If you are playing bare go on PrEP as HIV has increased in Ireland among straight people. Get Hap A and B and HPV vaccines. Some of the other viruses are nasty but treatable with antibiotics if caught on time x

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
49 weeks ago

"No one is going to say they play bare on here. Yes we all love cum and in an ideal world this would be brilliant to be able to achieve.

After 17 years online we have seen it all from going to gangbangs were no one at them used a condom

we didn’t do much at them parties used our hands a lot

Men turning up without condoms, similar with couples and women.

To be safe we have to look after ourselves, never assume others are always playing safe as not many do from what we have observed.

Just get tested regularly this includes swabbing throat not just genitals.

Xxx

From experience through the years here on a previous profile you have hit the nail on the head when it comes to fab.

If we chose a male for said bareback he must have a most recent clear health check.

Yes safe sex is always a must if you're looking to fuck most of the site, but if you a looking for a select regular that you can trust why not live a little?

I don't like eating sweets with the wrapper on...

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By *elboy1978Man
49 weeks ago

Jarrow

I like both

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