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Couples on Seperate dates

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By *SGalwayCouple OP   Couple
30 weeks ago

Galway

I know I lot of the guys here would happily meet the female half of the couple for a coffee or fun meet. But do people work the other way round too... havent seen many ladies go with the fellows even when they meet solo

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
30 weeks ago

Portstewart

We would consider it after having met a couple together as we all know that childcare can be difficult to arrange

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By *izmoandbooCouple
30 weeks ago

Dublin

It works that way for us. I've met up with the M half of an MF couple a few times after we've had a meet as a couple.

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By *unwexcplCouple
30 weeks ago

Gorey

Yep we are game for it

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
30 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

We have both been known to meet seperately (both ways)

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By *anillabelliniCouple
30 weeks ago

Cork limerick and in-between

We don’t meet separately but have met both M & F half of a couple flying solo for threesomes, sometimes it’s easier than trying to find the elusive four way click

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
30 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

Yep we do this quite often due to childcare etc

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By *SGalwayCouple OP   Couple
30 weeks ago

Galway

Good to know we arent the only ones who worry about the childcare side. We do want to attend parties but it is much easier for one of us to have a little fun with a couple

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By *asycouple777Couple
3 weeks ago

bristol

Me and wife have meet on seperate dates

Looking for couples who do this

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Good to know we arent the only ones who worry about the childcare side. We do want to attend parties but it is much easier for one of us to have a little fun with a couple "

We have awful trouble attending stuff together because of childcare also

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By *ewcouplesdCouple
3 weeks ago

Dublin

Yes we meet solo either singles or one half of a couple

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
3 weeks ago

borderarea

For us either of us can meet solo for coffee/play etc. No issues but our preferences are different.

CC is more comfortable meeting new people than I am (nothing to do with the relationship, previous bad experiences). I prefer to initially meet up with new potentials in his presence - safety.

We are also engaging with singles and couples for group fun - mostly fully bi fun.

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By *ot really famousMan
3 weeks ago

monaghan

I can just picture the scene...im off to an orgy luv...you stay home and mind the kids...the late late show is on later...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Couples with kids are well used to sharing kiddie duty to get all kinds of things done, be it work or play. It's no biggie.

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By *ot really famousMan
3 weeks ago

monaghan


"Couples with kids are well used to sharing kiddie duty to get all kinds of things done, be it work or play. It's no biggie. "
....its hardly a run to the shops or a school event...,

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By *ogladyWoman
3 weeks ago

The bog

I have met the male half of couples solo with the permission of the other half of course so I don't see the big problem with it..

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
3 weeks ago

East / North, Cork


"Couples with kids are well used to sharing kiddie duty to get all kinds of things done, be it work or play. It's no biggie. ....its hardly a run to the shops or a school event...,"

For many people including us, swinging really is no big deal, and isnt something secret or to be ashamed of. It's similar to a night out in a pub or a meal with friends.

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By *aughty MilfCouple
3 weeks ago

Fermanagh/Monaghan Ireland , Northern Ireland


"We would consider it after having met a couple together as we all know that childcare can be difficult to arrange "
likewise

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

There and Here

When here as a couple we occasionally met separately. Sometimes because of my chronic lack of availability at "regular" times, sometimes because one of us had a particular itch we wanted to scratch. And whilst it was largely our preference to meet together, our dynamic wasn't so rigid as to not allow for the odd solo dalliance.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
3 weeks ago

kinkytown


"I know I lot of the guys here would happily meet the female half of the couple for a coffee or fun meet. But do people work the other way round too... havent seen many ladies go with the fellows even when they meet solo "

I think it's harder for the fella considering they're a male and not the most in demand in regards to fab. They're are exceptions to this in our experience but they seem to be from more "established" (for want of a better word) couples.

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By *ot really famousMan
3 weeks ago

monaghan


"When here as a couple we occasionally met separately. Sometimes because of my chronic lack of availability at "regular" times, sometimes because one of us had a particular itch we wanted to scratch. And whilst it was largely our preference to meet together, our dynamic wasn't so rigid as to not allow for the odd solo dalliance. "
...can I assume you weren't a couple in the regular sense of the word?

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

There and Here


"When here as a couple we occasionally met separately. Sometimes because of my chronic lack of availability at "regular" times, sometimes because one of us had a particular itch we wanted to scratch. And whilst it was largely our preference to meet together, our dynamic wasn't so rigid as to not allow for the odd solo dalliance. ...can I assume you weren't a couple in the regular sense of the word?"

Whilst we didn't live together, we were very much a couple in the regular sense of the word and in a relationship for 5 years.

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

There and Here


"I know I lot of the guys here would happily meet the female half of the couple for a coffee or fun meet. But do people work the other way round too... havent seen many ladies go with the fellows even when they meet solo

I think it's harder for the fella considering they're a male and not the most in demand in regards to fab. They're are exceptions to this in our experience but they seem to be from more "established" (for want of a better word) couples. ...yes...but my point is, a large part of the fun is doing it together..otherwise you're just a man or woman having sex with other people.

"

For some people, yes. And some enjoy knowing their significant other is having sex with someone else. Swinging is a broad church

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

There and Here


"When here as a couple we occasionally met separately. Sometimes because of my chronic lack of availability at "regular" times, sometimes because one of us had a particular itch we wanted to scratch. And whilst it was largely our preference to meet together, our dynamic wasn't so rigid as to not allow for the odd solo dalliance. ...can I assume you weren't a couple in the regular sense of the word?

Whilst we didn't live together, we were very much a couple in the regular sense of the word and in a relationship for 5 years. ..ok...my last swinging partner and I had a similar arrangement. But we never even considered going on solo meets...did you not find it strained your relationship?

Honestly not judging anyone,but I just can't get my head around that "

No, not at all. It was an occasional thing as mostly it was shared experiences that floated our boat.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
3 weeks ago

borderarea

Definitely not an act of betrayal once there's permission given.

I would see it as a betrayal of the relationship if communication was given that everyone was ok but then revoked after the event. Especially if someone then expressed their jealousy in a non productive way - like resentment or through agitation.

In every relationship there are two individuals and then the relationship as a separate entity almost that needs nurturing. So important that all three are cared for in a mature and responsible way.

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By *amanthaJones_LetsPlayWoman
3 weeks ago

borderarea


"I don't think it's possible to betray someone if you're doing something mutually agreed upon in advance."

Agreed

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By *aystar1101Man
3 weeks ago

clare


"Good to know we arent the only ones who worry about the childcare side. We do want to attend parties but it is much easier for one of us to have a little fun with a couple

We have awful trouble attending stuff together because of childcare also"
Hello and how are ye as I'm genuine discreet guy who is verified and would like to chat to lady and see what happens xxx xxx John

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By *anandJCouple
3 weeks ago

Citywest

We mostly play separately.

It’s easier because:

1) childcare - one is out the other stay home.

2) matching- it’s almost impossible to find 4 people where all absolutely click together. So it’s easier if each find their own fun.

3) different goals. While one of us like just nsa the other like FWB things and needs more emotional stimulation so different partners again.

Theremin not one framing jealousy between us. And if there was webworms pause the lifestyle until we eliminate jealousy. Fun is just fun at the very end.

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By *anandJCouple
3 weeks ago

Citywest

Sorry just checked what auto correct did there 🤣


"…"

We mostly play separately.

It’s easier because:

1) childcare - one is out the other stay home.

2) matching- it’s almost impossible to find 4 people where all absolutely click together. So it’s easier if each find their own fun.

3) different goals. While one of us like just nsa the other like FWB things and needs more emotional stimulation so different partners again.

There is not one gram of jealousy between us. And if there was we would pause the lifestyle until we eliminate jealousy. Fun is just fun at the very end.

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By *ucabraserMan
3 weeks ago

Navan

My profile says otherwise but Im part of a couple who enjoy mmf from time to time. It wouldnt work for me her meeting a guy on her own. I love watching her get ravaged but for some reason, her getting shagged by a another guy somewhere else just feels wrong. By the way, how do I change my profile from single to couple.

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By *istletoe KissesWoman
3 weeks ago

There and Here


"My profile says otherwise but Im part of a couple who enjoy mmf from time to time. It wouldnt work for me her meeting a guy on her own. I love watching her get ravaged but for some reason, her getting shagged by a another guy somewhere else just feels wrong. By the way, how do I change my profile from single to couple. "

You need to contact admin

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By *m158Couple
3 weeks ago

Cork

We have had separate meets, we like to meet a couple socially and happy to then meet separately. Have occasionally met singles....but the overload on single males puts FM off meeting alone

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By *londyPrincessCouple
3 weeks ago

Knockatallan

I have been looking at a male side of the couple to join me and Princess

But so far most couples just have dick pic up for the man

So it's hard to know what u in for.

We not into long chats online

So lot of people are put off

And of course we are in the middle of nowhere so that doesn't help.

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By *eestar10Man
3 weeks ago

cavan


"I have been looking at a male side of the couple to join me and Princess

But so far most couples just have dick pic up for the man

So it's hard to know what u in for.

We not into long chats online

So lot of people are put off

And of course we are in the middle of nowhere so that doesn't help.

"

Ha yea scotstown is kind of in middle of nowhere alright 😂

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