FabSwingers.com forum: Every body type

By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

I see on a lot of guys profiles that they like every body type.

Women's profiles seem more likely to be more specific and will say what they like whether it's dad bod, toned, tall etc

Why the disparity?

I know I have a type. It's not set in stone for sure and personality is a huge factor in that but there's definitely a theme for me when it comes to initial physical attraction.

So why don't guys say what they like?

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By *affa31Woman
37 weeks ago

Galway

Because some don’t care and some just don’t want to reduce their chances even more.

I have seen plenty of guys profiles that state the kind of body type they are attracted to though.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

Keeping all options open. They prob have a preference, but don't want to alienate the women that are in the categories, lower down their preferences order. They say they are equal opportunists, in order to have as many options as possible.

Similar to men swiping right on every woman on tinder, and the deciding after their match options, if they are actually interested or not.

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By *oc09Man
37 weeks ago

near u

I love a curvy body and sexy big ass

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

Cause some guys just want a ride

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By *oc09Man
37 weeks ago

near u

Body type don't really bother me though it more looks have to fancy them

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
37 weeks ago

Newtownabbey

I like people not body types

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By *irkaBigMan
37 weeks ago

Craigavon

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

There is an exception to this as evidenced by the regular BBW lovers threads.

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By *exyScientistsCouple
37 weeks ago

Castlebar

We definitely don't have a type. Apart from hubby liking big boobs but even then it's not a deal breaker....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
37 weeks ago

Lucan

I genuinely don't have a type, or I might have one today and a different one tomorrow. I like people that I like and they're my type at that given moment.

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By *ofusplusCouple
37 weeks ago

Limerick

We would both have a desired body type, but a good connection will override this for both of us.

Amazing what you learn about yourself during your swing journey

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By *arrot_in_a_boxCouple
37 weeks ago

kinda dublin

Beggars can't be choosers

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
37 weeks ago

The West

"We would both have a desired body type, but a good connection will override this for both of us.

Amazing what you learn about yourself during your swing journey

This would be very much the case for us. We're attracted to what we're attracted to, at a particular time!

We would have slight preferences, but they wouldn't be strict and a connection will always be the decision maker!

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged? "

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
37 weeks ago

Lucan

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab."

...and more's the pity!

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By *aseylee324Couple
37 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

Women can afford to be picky here

Supply and demand

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab."

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring.

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring. "

True enough about the differences

The biggest one I see is the advice to men about going to socials ( I'm guilty of giving this advice myself )

Don't drink too much ...no one likes a d*unk bloke

The only people I've ever seen out of their heads at socials is women....funny enough they never get called out for it that I know of

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

Of course I'm not talking about all men or all women. Just a disparity that I have noticed myself.

And I could be wrong but I am struggling to recall a male profile that is quite specific the way I see some women's profiles

And I am in no way shitting on men here.

I am simply curious about attraction and how the different sexes experience/approach it.

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By *astelloWoman
37 weeks ago

Far far away

It's an interesting observation. But l think maybe men aren't as overt in their descriptions because dont want to a) come across as being picky..when the odds are against them statistically b) Would probably get called out on it. But most definitely are in socials, true preferences come out, to a somewhat abrasive way.

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By *ofusplusCouple
37 weeks ago

Limerick

"Beggars can't be choosers

Hardly Gary. Shur I've been wooing you for years now with no joy

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By *s LollyWoman
37 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive seen a good few male profiles looking for gym fit or petite/slim women, no bbw or overweight as it wasn't for them, some were only looking for good looking women aswell.....

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

It's also possible that there is bias in my observations as I almost certainly don't look at as many men's profiles as I do women's

I did get an interesting response via PM on the subject suggesting that our basic genetic imperatives are also a factor here. Women may naturally be attracted to and more focused on choosing a single type of suiter whereas men may be following a drive to spread the seed as much as possible, so to speak.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
37 weeks ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Because to some men any willing vagina will do .

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
37 weeks ago

The West

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring.

True enough about the differences

The biggest one I see is the advice to men about going to socials ( I'm guilty of giving this advice myself )

Don't drink too much ...no one likes a d*unk bloke

The only people I've ever seen out of their heads at socials is women....funny enough they never get called out for it that I know of "

Telling single blokes to attend socials is a bad thing, really?

Agree on the women drinking though, and the other assumptions about men!

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring. "

It's entirely possible there isn't a disparity but it's evident from the answers already posted that there is at the very least a perceived one.

Men don't want to get called out for having a preference and being exclusionary

Any hole is a goal

Beggar's can't be choosers

Etc

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By *astelloWoman
37 weeks ago

Far far away

Can l add here as well..socials can also be a good litmus test. I've been blatantly ignored cos l don't meet their type or attraction when it may just be a quick hello..not l want to rideeee ya all night long... does anyone think that in conventional socials , a person wouldn't be as rude. But in fab world, being obnoxious is acceptable

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By *og-ManMan
37 weeks ago

somewhere

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring.

True enough about the differences

The biggest one I see is the advice to men about going to socials ( I'm guilty of giving this advice myself )

Don't drink too much ...no one likes a d*unk bloke

The only people I've ever seen out of their heads at socials is women....funny enough they never get called out for it that I know of

Telling single blokes to attend socials is a bad thing, really?

Agree on the women drinking though, and the other assumptions about men!"

Sorry...I did mean the advice given to men going to socials....don't drink to much....didnt mean to imply not to go to socials....

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
37 weeks ago

City Centre

Maybe because of double standards.

Single fems or couples seeking someone based on their height, build, looks etc is seen as a norm. However men seeking what they want in a sexual partner is seen as having notions or being conceited, and for some reason, anyone who doesn't fit into that desired criteria, tend to get very offended reading about it.

Genuinely, maybe some men don't have one body type they're interested in. Maybe the rest that do are just trying to get on without offending or getting unwanted negativity.

I'm not a man so I dunno if men even think that much about these things when writing their profiles

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By *otvanilla876Man
37 weeks ago

Inchicore

Personally, my "type" isn't about physical features. Enthusiasm, a filthy and open mind, confidence and a lack of inhibition are all qualities that attract me to many different body types, I would personally never rule anyone out based on what they look like but everyone has their likes and dislikes

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

The website is a mast fest, so even ugly chicks have options. Fair play to them, they have the power. If you don't fit the requirements, don't message them I say.

I have my turn ons and turn offs, but they're not necessarily physical.

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By *UIETELLE2052Couple
37 weeks ago

Dundrum/Rathfarnham

In our case Sue picks on looks from a face pic not body type and tends towards 30s guys whereas looks not a big issue at all for me nor age once over 25 or so and more opposite to Sue in if anything tend towards older. Body type not an issue at all for either of us.

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By *ogladyWoman
37 weeks ago

The bog

"I don't have a type so I won't make something up just to have it on my profile.

It's funny though that the immediate reaction is that men aren't fussy.

What about all the women who don't have a type listed? Are they not fussy either or are they allowed to not make an issue of it without being challenged?

The question was asked about men by the op

Don't think there's lots of women sending fanny pics to every new blank male profile that joins fab.

That doesn't answer the question though. The op asked about disparity.

I've seen lots of women's profiles that say they aren't bothered by body type, just don't be a dick.

The only disparity I see is the assumptions that are made dependent on whether a man or woman says it.

Man can't accommodate he's cheating.

Woman can't accommodate, she's thinking of her privacy.

Man says he doesn't have a type, he would fuck anything.

Woman says she doesn't have a type, she's open to exploring.

True enough about the differences

The biggest one I see is the advice to men about going to socials ( I'm guilty of giving this advice myself )

Don't drink too much ...no one likes a d*unk bloke

The only people I've ever seen out of their heads at socials is women....funny enough they never get called out for it that I know of "

I think everyone knows I'm the social d*unk by now I don't need to be called out

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

"The website is a mast fest, so even ugly chicks have options. Fair play to them, they have the power. If you don't fit the requirements, don't message them I say.

I have my turn ons and turn offs, but they're not necessarily physical. "

Ugly chick is very a harsh way to describe anyone. And honestly 'fair play to them' sounds a little condescending.

The trope that women have all the power on fab can only be true if men have no agency.

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By (user no longer on site)
37 weeks ago

"The website is a mast fest, so even ugly chicks have options. Fair play to them, they have the power. If you don't fit the requirements, don't message them I say.

I have my turn ons and turn offs, but they're not necessarily physical.

Ugly chick is very a harsh way to describe anyone. And honestly 'fair play to them' sounds a little condescending.

The trope that women have all the power on fab can only be true if men have no agency.

I'm honestly explaining my thoughts, if you're offended, I'm sorry you don't have the ability to hear that sort of thing. I never used it to describe anyone specific, I also know I'm no oil painting myself. That's how honesty works.

White knighting is kinda gross

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By *ealitybitesMan
37 weeks ago

Belfast

"The website is a mast fest, so even ugly chicks have options. Fair play to them, they have the power. If you don't fit the requirements, don't message them I say.

I have my turn ons and turn offs, but they're not necessarily physical.

Ugly chick is very a harsh way to describe anyone. And honestly 'fair play to them' sounds a little condescending.

The trope that women have all the power on fab can only be true if men have no agency.

White knighting is kinda gross

Hearing something is one thing.

Agreeing with it is totally different so just because a man has a different opinion doesn't mean they are white knighting.

I think it's a horrible statement too.

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

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By *electableicecream OP Man
37 weeks ago

The West

If anyone needs me I'll be the gross white night in the ugly corner

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By *elloMarylouWoman
37 weeks ago

mayo

I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

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By *eordie.Woman
37 weeks ago

The Sticks

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Only 30%?

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37 weeks ago

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Better to be honest straight out of the gate, I say.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
37 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Only 30%?

More like 90 in my experience

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By *elloMarylouWoman
37 weeks ago

mayo

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Only 30%?

More like 90 in my experience

Was been overly generous. Definitely more like 80%

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By *elloMarylouWoman
37 weeks ago

mayo

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Better to be honest straight out of the gate, I say. "

Honesty on here lol

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
37 weeks ago

Naughty Lane

"I'm on off this site a few years and my thinking is 30% of this site will fuck anything that moves.

When u get a message telling you, your gorgeous etc that they love curvy women and you reply that your not interested it's funny how quick the compliments change.

Only 30%?

More like 90 in my experience

Was been overly generous. Definitely more like 80% "

I thought so...

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