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"So youve no time to spend on the site. No time to go on cam. No time to attend events or socials. How are you ever going to have time to meet anyone?" Agree with this, also you say your straight. Your verification is from a TV/TS, that says it was on cam. But the writing says ye meetup. There mixed signals to a woman or couple. I'm not trying to make you leave or anything, that's up to you OP. If your staying try to interact in the forum & try to go to a social of somekind. Look up the forum, there's a thread about them on it. Try to pick 1 & go from there OP. Not EVERYBODY on here is getting flooded with pussy or whatever they're in too. It can take time for some people to going on here OP. | |||
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"I've got time to chat with people, that's the whole purpose of the messaging function, and it's how I've had meetups and friendships on here in the past. I'd love to make it to some parties, but they are exceedingly expensive for guys to get into, and some I've signed up for have just straight up said they don't find me attractive enough to be in their circles, which I guess isn't my loss if they're gonna be that rude." Unless someone can (wreck) me, parties & socials are to different things. There's plenty of socials to go to OP. Be that day time coffee meetup or night time once. They're not that dear to go to, when there a length of time away. Anybody that says them thing's to you, your better off away from them. I'm FAR from ripped or anything like that. If people don't like me, they can move on, life's to short to be interacting with them. I've gone to a few socials, so far this year & hoping to go to a few more. Everybody I've meet have been sound to be around. We mightn't play with eachother, that's fine with me. Each to they're own OP. | |||
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"I've been on here for years so I know it can take time and I'm a patient man. Trust me, I'm not expecting to be swimming in it. It'd just be nice to chat to people, but nobody seems to want to chat anymore, at all. Also, my account says I'm bi? Not sure how I'm doing mixed messaging there? " O right, I must have read it wrong, sorry about that OP. The verification says it was on cam, with the writing says ye meetup, that part is a mix message OP. (little tip, there's a reply to quote in the bottom right side. Use it as people will know who your talking to OP) | |||
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" So if two men are in front of her, one is tall, fit, well hung, and the other, well, isn't. Which one will she choose for nsa sex and a bit of fun. " Dude this is a hilariously two dimensional view of how women choose partners. | |||
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"I've been on here for years so I know it can take time and I'm a patient man. Trust me, I'm not expecting to be swimming in it. It'd just be nice to chat to people, but nobody seems to want to chat anymore, at all. Also, my account says I'm bi? Not sure how I'm doing mixed messaging there? " It does now it didn't earlier. If you have been on here before and had meets than you should know how fab works. Using the age old excuse that women will only meet guys with gym bodies or big cocks is a cop out as well and shows a complete lack of understanding of the majority of women on here. If you had such success before why not do what you did then ? | |||
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"Gym fit?, large cock?, (having both will lead to multiple verifications) This isn't an attack or a dig but it is a blunt question. When the dice are stacked in women's favour here, (which we all know they are, the sheer men to women ratio is mind boggling) then isn't it common sense that your gonna need to stand out of the crowd. Now, being fit and in good shape isn't everyone's must have for nsa fun. Just like having a large cock isn't everyone's must have for nsa. However,exceptions dont negate the general rule. Women here literally have their pick of the litter. So if two men are in front of her, one is tall, fit, well hung, and the other, well, isn't. Which one will she choose for nsa sex and a bit of fun. Not liking the answer doesn't change the answer. And I know people will of course chime in and say oh I don't care about cock size, and oh I prefer a bit of meat on a man's bones blah blah. The chippendales ain't dad bods for a reason. " You're making an incorrect assumption that these things (6pack massive cock) are what girls are looking for. That's just not true in my experience. The Chippendale's are an outdated parody of men. Id suggest to you that a safe sound considerate verified dadbod will be chosen over a wanker with a 6 pack and a massive knob more often than not. It's just nowhere near as straightforward as you're suggesting | |||
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"I've been on here for years so I know it can take time and I'm a patient man. Trust me, I'm not expecting to be swimming in it. It'd just be nice to chat to people, but nobody seems to want to chat anymore, at all. Also, my account says I'm bi? Not sure how I'm doing mixed messaging there? It does now it didn't earlier. If you have been on here before and had meets than you should know how fab works. Using the age old excuse that women will only meet guys with gym bodies or big cocks is a cop out as well and shows a complete lack of understanding of the majority of women on here. If you had such success before why not do what you did then ? " I wasn't wrong so then, with it saying he was straight earlier. Exactly, been here before or for a long time. Should know the score better. | |||
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"I’m fairly sure that none of my veris are very gym fit or have an exceptionally big cock." Can you please stop dropping hints, I've told you several times I will meet you some day | |||
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"I’m fairly sure that none of my veris are very gym fit or have an exceptionally big cock. Can you please stop dropping hints, I've told you several times I will meet you some day " I just can’t wait any longer…I fear I’ll be past my prime by the time you get the finger out | |||
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"I’m fairly sure that none of my veris are very gym fit or have an exceptionally big cock. Can you please stop dropping hints, I've told you several times I will meet you some day I just can’t wait any longer…I fear I’ll be past my prime by the time you get the finger out " Or in | |||
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"I’m fairly sure that none of my veris are very gym fit or have an exceptionally big cock. Can you please stop dropping hints, I've told you several times I will meet you some day I just can’t wait any longer…I fear I’ll be past my prime by the time you get the finger out Or in" In and out? | |||
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"I'll put it in and I'll put it out and if the going's good I may even shake it all about, baby!" *swoon* | |||
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"I'll put it in and I'll put it out and if the going's good I may even shake it all about, baby!" Good lord Get a room | |||
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"I'll put it in and I'll put it out and if the going's good I may even shake it all about, baby! Good lord Get a room " C'mere to me Rubs sure I've still got one hand free (sorry I'll stop now ) | |||
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" So if two men are in front of her, one is tall, fit, well hung, and the other, well, isn't. Which one will she choose for nsa sex and a bit of fun. Dude this is a hilariously two dimensional view of how women choose partners." Not at all, I never mentioned partner. I specifically mentioned nsa fun, so nothing two dimensional about it. We're not discussing life partners, someone to have a family with and grow old with. Its nsa sex (most of the time) and if you line up 2 men and one is fit and in decent shape and the other isn't, then 9 times out of ten the fit guy will get a reply or at least have a Mail read. Remember noones talking about chatting to someone in a bar and being charismatic here. It's an inbox with 1000 messages in it. The whole point is that the ratio of men to women is comical here. And being in good shape or even being hung is enough to stand you out from the sea of men messaging. It isn't a guarantee of fun, but it does give you a leg up. To say it doesn't is just naive. | |||
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" So if two men are in front of her, one is tall, fit, well hung, and the other, well, isn't. Which one will she choose for nsa sex and a bit of fun. Dude this is a hilariously two dimensional view of how women choose partners. Not at all, I never mentioned partner. I specifically mentioned nsa fun, so nothing two dimensional about it. We're not discussing life partners, someone to have a family with and grow old with. Its nsa sex (most of the time) and if you line up 2 men and one is fit and in decent shape and the other isn't, then 9 times out of ten the fit guy will get a reply or at least have a Mail read. Remember noones talking about chatting to someone in a bar and being charismatic here. It's an inbox with 1000 messages in it. The whole point is that the ratio of men to women is comical here. And being in good shape or even being hung is enough to stand you out from the sea of men messaging. It isn't a guarantee of fun, but it does give you a leg up. To say it doesn't is just naive." When the other poster refers to 'partner' I'm pretty sure he's referring to an nsa sex partner. Also you're talking about messaging like it's the only way to get meets. Messaging is probably the most inefficient way to get meets. Women like to meet guys in person, often through large socials and then chat online, knowing that they fancy them. And as another poster put it ... I'd pick the dadbod guy who is good craic and who I connect with, much faster than the fit, athletic, good-looking guy with zero personality. Please give us a bit of credit in our selection process because frankly you're making women out to be shallow. Not all of us are | |||
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"So my journey on fab has led me to now know I am straight....I am open to meeting t girls to be edged....I have no Interest in being physical with guys after my journey... but I have no prob being naked with a guy watching a bit of porn, being edged to me is like a massage etc....but does this even make me bi ....I would have no interest in anal with a man or woman.....I just love women think they are deadly.... " The problem with these labels is that not everyone fits neatly into a particular box. I would suggest if you're not looking to meet men right now, that you hide your male verificatios, and maybe change up your photos, because otherwise you're just going to keep getting a majority of guys messaging you (just because of the weight of numbers). Good luck! | |||
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