FabSwingers.com forum: When are you single ?

By *j2000 OP Man
36 weeks ago

mayo

This is 1 for the ladies

I am separated few years now with 2 children shared custody. Both of have gone our separate ways for good while.

The question is "Am I single?"

To some women looking for single men I am attached. (I'm guessing the kids)

To some women seeking attached I am single.

Some say attached but will consider if my ex says she is okay with it.(interesting conversation

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Ladies just wondering your thoughts

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By *ustBoWoman
36 weeks ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If you have both gone your separate ways and don't live together then I would say you are single. But that is just how I would look at it.

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By *affa31Woman
36 weeks ago

Galway

If you’re separated, you’re single. Why you would have to ask your ex’s permission is beyond me

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
36 weeks ago

in the waves

You're single.

Unless you still live together in the same house with your ex, that would make a lot of women question if you're actually single.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
36 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

Separated = single.

(As long as your ex is aware you are separated

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By *aid backMan
36 weeks ago

by a lake with my rod out

You are single if you're "ex" says you're single but if someone still believes you're in a relationship with them then you're not

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
36 weeks ago

Lucan

"You are single if you're "ex" says you're single but if someone still believes you're in a relationship with them then you're not"

Martha, is that you?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
36 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

The reason some take hard lines on this is that so many people here try and blur the lines and/or exaggerate their own separatedness

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By *ofusplusCouple
36 weeks ago

Limerick

Single means that you are not romantically committed to someone else. That matters to a lot of people on here.

Your parental status should be irrelevant on a swingers site.

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By *electableicecreamMan
36 weeks ago

The West

"The reason some take hard lines on this is that so many people here try and blur the lines and/or exaggerate their own separatedness

We were on a break!

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By *elloMarylouWoman
36 weeks ago

mayo

Have had messages from guys claiming to be single but still living with ex, one guy told me he hasn't any sex life with the wife funny thing is she's now pregnant and than there's the widower who's wife is actually alive and quite well.

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By *rim22Man
36 weeks ago

navan/trim

I know exactly that unfortunately

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By *rim22Man
36 weeks ago

navan/trim

She f...k does

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By *mmmm300Woman
36 weeks ago

cork

"This is 1 for the ladies

I am separated few years now with 2 children shared custody. Both of have gone our separate ways for good while.

The question is "Am I single?"

To some women looking for single men I am attached. (I'm guessing the kids)

To some women seeking attached I am single.

Some say attached but will consider if my ex says she is okay with it.(interesting conversation

)

Ladies just wondering your thoughts

You sound single to me Op

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By *dfabMan
36 weeks ago

Dunboyne

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By *dfabMan
36 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"You're single.

Unless you still live together in the same house with your ex, that would make a lot of women question if you're actually single."

I live with wife but separate bedrooms, on separate floors even.

No sex in over a year.

Am I single without realising it?

Feels like it

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By *merald CharmWoman
36 weeks ago

scotland

If you live in different houses you're single.

Same house or sexless marriage you're attached.

Some guys on here say they stay together for the kids. That's married or attached to me.

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By *eductivepiercingsWoman
36 weeks ago

louth

When you hold your piece of paper from the court in your hand saying Divorced! And your last child together is 18! Until then your connected.

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By *electableicecreamMan
36 weeks ago

The West

Being connected as parents doesn't end when your children turn 18.

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By *icsJourneyWoman
36 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

To me if you are separated or divorced and living apart you are single. If you are living together, can't host, use the word "discrete' anywhere on your bio them Im sorry I will probably err on the side of caution of married but cheating.

I have seen one scenario which is married but secretly bi. They can't be 'out' as gay or bi for any amount of reasons...work...kids.

I have softened a bit towards those guys but recently have had to be cautious there too.

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By *phrodite72Woman
36 weeks ago

dublin/galway

"Being connected as parents doesn't end when your children turn 18.

This xx

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By *icsJourneyWoman
36 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"Being connected as parents doesn't end when your children turn 18.

This xx"

Yep. My kids are nearly 30!

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