FabSwingers.com forum: Treat with respect

By *oody Bond OP Man
27 weeks ago

Sligo

I have read a good few verifications where it says something along the line of:

"If you get a chance to meet her treat her with respect"

Right so, aren't we supposed to treat everyone with respect? I mean, it's bad if someone needs to be told to respect others.

I wonder if those who write this type of things only do it to say: Hey ladies, look at me, im mr nice guy, not a prick here so it's safe to meet me.

I don't know, sometimes i read this as: "i thought she'd be a 10 but she was a 2 but treat the poor girl with respect because she is not what you expect"

Bottom line, I feel like if you write this on a veri then you're most likely a bit of a prick.

Maybe im reading too much into it :D

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By *mmortalValkyrieWoman
27 weeks ago

From a galaxy far far away

Maybe you are.... because for me, when someone I have met, writes that on mine, it means they actually give a shit about me and will have your guts for garters if you make me cry...

For the ones who have written that about me, they have met me, which only comes after we have built up some sort of relationship, they are fond of me, and are still friends with me now....

I know!! Shocking isnt it!!! Imagine Fab being more than just a sex site...imagine Swingers actually caring about each other and developing friendships after a few years... shocking behaviour Lol

So for me, its a lovely thing, and a plea to future paramores, not to be a Dick to me, as they know how much that hurts me at times.

So I maybe a 2....but even on here... there is more to some people than just judging people by looks...and some people actually do care about respect and acting honestly and honorably, so my ones mean it in a protective way.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
27 weeks ago

Cork

Jesus christ, this actually started off as a compelling thread, I do think most people deserve respect on here.

The way you look at the men who write those veris and the women who receive them, it might explain why you probably won't receive much respect on here yourself.

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By *icsJourneyWoman
27 weeks ago

Northern Ireland

"Maybe you are.... because for me, when someone I have met, writes that on mine, it means they actually give a shit about me and will have your guts for garters if you make me cry...

For the ones who have written that about me, they have met me, which only comes after we have built up some sort of relationship, they are fond of me, and are still friends with me now....

I know!! Shocking isnt it!!! Imagine Fab being more than just a sex site...imagine Swingers actually caring about each other and developing friendships after a few years... shocking behaviour Lol

So for me, its a lovely thing, and a plea to future paramores, not to be a Dick to me, as they know how much that hurts me at times.

You are not a 2 lovely. You are an 11 at least

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By *oody Bond OP Man
27 weeks ago

Sligo

"Maybe you are.... because for me, when someone I have met, writes that on mine, it means they actually give a shit about me and will have your guts for garters if you make me cry...

For the ones who have written that about me, they have met me, which only comes after we have built up some sort of relationship, they are fond of me, and are still friends with me now....

I know!! Shocking isnt it!!! Imagine Fab being more than just a sex site...imagine Swingers actually caring about each other and developing friendships after a few years... shocking behaviour Lol

So for me, its a lovely thing, and a plea to future paramores, not to be a Dick to me, as they know how much that hurts me at times.

Ok, thanks for taking time to explain it.

I have made friends on here and for me this is definitely not all about sex.

I also do not judge anyone by their looks and those who know me know that personality is what matters to me. I mentioned the 2 and 10 as it feels like some who write about respect actually think like this. It could be just the ones i read that come across like this.

My point is, no one should need to be told to treat others with respect as it goes without saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

I get your point. You don't see any verification with "total bint, wipe your dick on her hair on the way out"

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By *en474Man
27 weeks ago

antrim

Most guys do give females respect on here, but as you see in the txt, a few do give women abuse and belittle them, so your not being told what to do, but just treat women properly

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

"Most guys do give females respect on here, but as you see in the txt, a few do give women abuse and belittle them, so your not being told what to do, but just treat women properly "

I'm guessing men who don't give respect, don't get to meet women on here

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By *affa31Woman
27 weeks ago

Galway

“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

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By *ipstick KissesWoman
27 weeks ago

South Down

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me. "

This.

It's one of those phrases that just washes over me

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By *aseylee324Couple
27 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me. "

Exactly, it displays a total lack of imagination. Are they suggesting there are others you should not treat with respect? Or they're coming round to your gaff to sort you out if you put a foot wrong? Moronic comment really

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By *ofusplusCouple
27 weeks ago

Limerick

It's a lazy cliché, write something original ffs

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me. "

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

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By *oody Bond OP Man
27 weeks ago

Sligo

Are they suggesting there are others you should not treat with respect? "

Yes, my point exactly. It sounds like it is what they are suggesting.

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By *affa31Woman
27 weeks ago

Galway

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……"

I’m in as long as there’s Heath Ledger in a Knights Tale lookalikes!

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By *aseylee324Couple
27 weeks ago

Valley of Squinting Windows

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……"

Is this an opportunity to wear that "slutty medieval" outfit that's been gathering dust?

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By *og-ManMan
27 weeks ago

somewhere

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

Is this an opportunity to wear that "slutty medieval" outfit that's been gathering dust?"

Please tell me its the Serving Wench one

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By *iscuits8Man
27 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Not sure why everyone is knocking it, I find it very useful...

I approach every social/meetup with the attitude that I'm going to treat the person with the utmost disrespect, I mean absolute shit on my shoe. Then just beforehand, those 4 words just magically appear in my head - "treat her with respect".

So I put on my act and then afterwards on the way home I gradually revert back to the big old misogynist bastard I am

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By *iscuits8Man
27 weeks ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

(I would hope my sarcasm comes across on these forums by now)

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By *ubadubdubWoman
27 weeks ago

Hereabouts

Would probably have no strong opinion on this except that one of my first meets wrote it on his veri, despite the fact he'd spent the night trying to wear down my boundaries on safe sex. So to me it's just meaningless tokenism.

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By *ubadubdubWoman
27 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……"

And the hanky that the lady gives her favourite knight will come in useful for mop-ups later

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
27 weeks ago

City Centre

The way forward is to use a review generator. Using AI will rid us of all the fab clichés and we'll be a much better place for it. Gone the mediocrity of the word "stunning", replaced by the more unsubtle "she was a staggering, beguiling enchantress"

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
27 weeks ago

Lucan

"The way forward is to use a review generator. Using AI will rid us of all the fab clichés and we'll be a much better place for it. Gone the mediocrity of the word "stunning", replaced by the more unsubtle "she was a staggering, beguiling enchantress"

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough.

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
27 weeks ago

City Centre

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough. "

Same.

You would breathe one's last gazing upon this glistening phallus just doesn't have the same ring to it.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
27 weeks ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
27 weeks ago

Lucan

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough.

Same.

You would breathe one's last gazing upon this glistening phallus just doesn't have the same ring to it."

That's just a little bit ra-pey alright

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By *TinyDelight-Woman
27 weeks ago

City Centre

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough.

Same.

You would breathe one's last gazing upon this glistening phallus just doesn't have the same ring to it.

That's just a little bit ra-pey alright

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
27 weeks ago

Lucan

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough.

Same.

You would breathe one's last gazing upon this glistening phallus just doesn't have the same ring to it.

That's just a little bit ra-pey alright

It's up there with "she would impel a spherical object through a length of flexible cylindrical tubing having a diameter substantially less than the spherical object".

"She'd suck a golf ball through a garden hose" is far superior.

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By *electableicecreamMan
27 weeks ago

The West

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough.

Same.

You would breathe one's last gazing upon this glistening phallus just doesn't have the same ring to it."

I'll take it.

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By *uckitfuckitCouple
27 weeks ago

everywhere

Treat with respect usually screams to me you were bored outa your mind and want to offload on anyone

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By *chochamberWoman
27 weeks ago

Munster

Captain save the days, virtue signalling!

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By *ittleBoPeepingWoman
27 weeks ago

Galway, Clare

It's happening already on fab, you just need to read between the lines.

As long as we don't lose "has a cock to die for" I'm happy enough. "

Or "ladies, don't let this gent pass you by". Yawn!!

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By *electableicecreamMan
27 weeks ago

The West

*insert comment about her looks and skills here*... and Mr is a gent...

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By *s LollyWoman
27 weeks ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Treat with respect

She's a gem

Mr is a gent

course he is he's letting ye bang his Mrs

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By *panishRebelMan
27 weeks ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland

Jaded cynicism on fab...

Nothing is taken at face value...

How reassuring....

Let's all judge a book by an ill judged cover...

Or here's a thought.... maybe just maybe we could take things at face value without the presumption of dickhead or bitch.....

You may say I'm a dreamer

But I'm not the only one

I hope someday you'll join us

.....

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By *amsevenMan
27 weeks ago

cork

Treat her with uddermint would be worse I guess

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By *illbillMan
27 weeks ago

dublin

Don't read too much into it. If someone states that in a verification its cause they feel that that person is a genuine and real person and worthy of respect. Your not obliged to write a verification but if you do that very act is a expression of respect. When I write a verification its an expression of of both respect for that person and an endorsement of their person . You sadly don't get one in return but if you feel that person deserves respect and recognition, express it regardless. If they don't want to publish it or return one still doesn't detract from the fact the expression of respect for all should be universal

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By *exyScientistsCouple
27 weeks ago

Castlebar

Maybe you are.... because for me, when someone I have met, writes that on mine, it means they actually give a shit about me and will have your guts for garters if you make me cry...

Definately this. Anyone who has written this about me has been a really genuine nice guy that I'm in regular contact with. Plenty don't give a shit.

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By *dfabMan
27 weeks ago

Dunboyne

She was a wonder, only rightful place being on the top of the mountain with all gazing up at her in wonderment.

That I got time to spend with her, as she granted me sensuality and cosmic experiences never before imagined in my realm, was the brief delight that I can only wish others receive.

My hope is that others will have the charm to allow them experience even a soupcon of these in a fashion similar to those I will never forget with this angel from the heavens, forsooth Thors hammer beating them to a pulp.

It's a bit longer than "treat her with respect" but the ladies prefer this version

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
27 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

It's a little cringe, but I do quite like the kindness aspect of sentiment behind this. It does have a bang of white knighting about it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
27 weeks ago

Could I pose the question, that in some cases they are just copying and pasting from a verification they seen on someone else’s profile. It’s not a genuine sentiment, just they think it sounds good.

Just a thought!

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By *ubadubdubWoman
27 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"She was a wonder, only rightful place being on the top of the mountain with all gazing up at her in wonderment.

That I got time to spend with her, as she granted me sensuality and cosmic experiences never before imagined in my realm, was the brief delight that I can only wish others receive.

It's a bit longer than "treat her with respect" but the ladies prefer this version

I was in a swoon at soupçon

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By *ubadubdubWoman
27 weeks ago

Hereabouts

"It's a little cringe, but I do quite like the kindness aspect of sentiment behind this. It does have a bang of white knighting about it though."

I like how the thread reveals the cynics and the trustful. (You're kinda seesawing there!)

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By *onderingpurposeMan
27 weeks ago

Belfast

What Fab is all about

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"She was a wonder, only rightful place being on the top of the mountain with all gazing up at her in wonderment.

That I got time to spend with her, as she granted me sensuality and cosmic experiences never before imagined in my realm, was the brief delight that I can only wish others receive.

It's a bit longer than "treat her with respect" but the ladies prefer this version

Might have make some rules about using Thors hammer for the jousting competition, seems like an unfair advantage.

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

I’m in as long as there’s Heath Ledger in a Knights Tale lookalikes!"

That’s a given

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

Is this an opportunity to wear that "slutty medieval" outfit that's been gathering dust?"

It’ll be a requirement for entry

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By *inde_fucking_rellaWoman
27 weeks ago

Dublin

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

And the hanky that the lady gives her favourite knight will come in useful for mop-ups later

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
27 weeks ago

East / North, Cork

"It's a little cringe, but I do quite like the kindness aspect of sentiment behind this. It does have a bang of white knighting about it though.

I like how the thread reveals the cynics and the trustful. (You're kinda seesawing there!)

Haha I am a bit aren't I. You know what I mean though. I'm sure it can feel nice to the person who is being made to feel nice, but the casual reader might be tempted to roll the eyes a little

Don't tell me you don't know what I'm talking about

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By *eralt80Man
27 weeks ago

cork

"“Treat her with respect” is one of the fab veri cliches along with “she’s a gem” and several others. You can amuse yourself by playing bingo with them while looking through veris

Like a lot of content in veris, they mean fuck all. I see it as filler, not a declaration that the guy will go to war for me if someone slights me.

But wait! Does this not create the possibility to hold an annual fab jousting contest; knights defending the honour of the fair maidens who have not been treated with contracted respect of a veri.

An alternative to socials, which creates the wonderful opportunity for verifications to be left after to the tune of; we crossed swords but his was no match for mine……

And the hanky that the lady gives her favourite knight will come in useful for mop-ups later

Better than wiping one’s cock on the curtains anyway

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By *dfabMan
27 weeks ago

Dunboyne

"She was a wonder, only rightful place being on the top of the mountain with all gazing up at her in wonderment.

That I got time to spend with her, as she granted me sensuality and cosmic experiences never before imagined in my realm, was the brief delight that I can only wish others receive.

It's a bit longer than "treat her with respect" but the ladies prefer this version

I was in a swoon at soupçon

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By *radfab2024Man
27 weeks ago

North Dublin

Treat her with respect if youre lucky to meet her = (most of the time, on the 50 or 60 that I've seen) what everyone else said, 1/10 can't hold a conversation or eye contact.

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By *itlbeeCouple
27 weeks ago

I'm pretty forgiving about the veri's.

There's only so much you can say.

Honestly. I don't mind it.

I think for a lot of women, were kind of worried some guys come here thinking we're all basically just free sex workers, with little regard for our own preferences and desires.

It's a little.nod to put humanity as a person, not just a body.

Yes everyone deserves that. I don't think saying it means others don't.

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