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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Worry that the person or couple your meeting with wont like you or find you attractive? I get so nervous before meets that a guy won't like me or a couple won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no..cause whats the point..life is stressful enough. i'm a take me or leave me kind of person. i accept me for me and that's all that matters. i know who and what i am. i refuse to feel like a puppy waiting to be taken to a home lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

There are things that to me are far more important than whether she looks like yer wan in the magazine that all women are supposed to emulate. For that reason, I tend to be attracted to people who have a similar outlook. I think that people who connect properly aren't that concerned about what you look like so it isn't something I'd worry about. I haven't eaten anything yet today so I'm not sure if that makes any sense. I'll check later.

I'd draw the line at Subo though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to but now i just accept that you can't win them all but manners and a nice smile go along way. I still enjoy the pre meet buzz but if it does not work out no harm .

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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago

Destination Unknown Munster

Face pic in start is good idea before met for me , and very clear want you want from each other

Honesty goes long way. NO one perfect!!!!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Actually. . Having just eaten a sandwich, I realise that I need to correct my earlier post.

Subo is a fox!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think.. "

I think men have an undeserved reputation for being obsessed with looks. I don't think we are. Are we? I'm not, but if you tell a woman that she thinks your suggesting that she's ugly. You can't win!

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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago

Destination Unknown Munster


"yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think.. "

Be your self, That on the package take or leave it, Lots fish here for female and cpls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think.. "
I agree with you in that one women are more self conscious than men; I woukd be very nervous I have to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think.. "

I get the butterflies with every single meet regardless. Even having met that person several times prior I get that thrill of anticipation the build up of tension as u think about all those naughty things you have in ur head for the meet. In fact I think that buzz gets better the more u meet someone and the more u experience with them. Because ur barriers and reservations slowly start to come down and u become more willing to bare ur 'forbidden' side to them.

When that thrill and buzz goes well I guess it's time to stop meeting then.

Hmmmmm I'm feeling that buzz as we speak cannot wait!!!!!

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere


"yes i worry about that too.

even for coffee meets i am like.. omg what if he finds me unattractive or whatever.

and even after that i'm nervous on a meet even when i've met them for coffee or a drink and they want to play..

its a girl thing i think.. "

not just a girl thing i think,id say men get nervous too only its not manley to show it,i think being nervous is natural after all in real life how many ppl do you meet that you might be haveing sex with in the next hour or less even

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouhhh I defo get nervous, makes us human after all, those butterflies in ur stomach add to the experience , even on a coffee meet, nothing worse than when that coffe meet goes so well that u don't have a room Pre booked for u can both just hop on each other.

And if u had one booked U must have some ego lol,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worry that the person or couple your meeting with wont like you or find you attractive? I get so nervous before meets that a guy won't like me or a couple won't "

I think its natural to feel nervous before a meet all the what ifs going through your head .. It's what makes a new meet all the more fun .. The buzz you get ... Altho from experience I've noticed guys get extremely nervous to the point of shaking .. Have to say I find it kinda funny it's only me lol. .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have to say if I don't get nervous I wounder should I be meeting at all its not weather the other(s)will click but its natural reaction plus it does get worse on repeats as U possible have set up some serino and U expections and theirs are higher

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fuck it I might sort a meet tonight and try not to stress over it!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Fuck it I might sort a meet tonight and try not to stress over it!"

Do just that get ready pamper ur self then perve and pick a suitable victim and last min him/her bet its brillant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ouhhh last minute meets can be brill, unexpected pleasure , u can't beat it

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

We're not talking about just being nervous though, but nervous about what our meet will think about our looks. Isn't that the original issue? I'm sure everyone is nervous about some aspect of a new meeting. Maybe not?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Couldnt give a shite wat they think about my looks as if we have agreed to meet chances they have seen me on cam ors in pics for me if we will click or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Worry that the person or couple your meeting with wont like you or find you attractive? I get so nervous before meets that a guy won't like me or a couple won't "

im the opposite,i get worried in case i dont like the guy im meeting lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all good "

id like to make it much better than good darling girl

if you let me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all good

id like to make it much better than good darling girl

if you let me "

Cringe,who left the cheese out

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

[Removed by poster at 29/03/13 20:21:49]

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Well I'm circumcised so there's no cheese here

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